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The Art of Staying Present During Conversations | Eckhart Tolle 

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Eckhart Tolle shares valuable insights on maintaining presence during verbal interactions. He explains how the practice of self-remembrance can help you avoid getting lost in the stream of words and contribute more meaningfully to conversations. Eckhart offers simple yet effective techniques, such as using body awareness or focusing on your breath, to stay anchored in the present moment, even during challenging discussions.
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About Eckhart:
Eckhart Tolle is widely recognized as one of the most inspiring and visionary spiritual teachers in the world today. With his international bestsellers, The Power of Now and A New Earth-translated into more than 50 languages-he has introduced millions to the joy and freedom of living life in the present moment. The New York Times has described him as “the most popular spiritual author in the United States,” and in 2011, Watkins Review (now Watkins Mind Body Spirit) named him “the most spiritually influential person in the world.”
Eckhart’s profound yet simple teachings have helped countless people around the globe experience a state of vibrantly alive inner peace in their daily lives. His teachings focus on the significance and power of Presence, the awakened state of consciousness, which transcends ego and discursive thinking. Eckhart sees this awakening as the essential next step in human evolution.

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@brucekwiatkowski8851
@brucekwiatkowski8851 2 дня назад
Dear Eckhart, I just want you to know how much I appreciate your videos! Thank you so much for all you do in helping people find presence
@Rojayzee
@Rojayzee 2 дня назад
By far one of the most important and challenging skills.
@Brendan-the-Navigator
@Brendan-the-Navigator 2 дня назад
SIR, THE WISDOM YOU EXUDE IS OH SO intellectually STIMULATING & PROFOUNDLY HELPFUL THAT YOU DESERVEDLY HAVE MY DEEP GRATITUDE. THE WAY YOU SERVE HUMANITY IS INSPIRING
@remazeldagirl2673
@remazeldagirl2673 День назад
So profound. Working on stepping up the listening game. Sometimes what is not said can say more than what is said, so listening beyond the words makes so much sense.
@taratara8159
@taratara8159 2 дня назад
Thank you!! That’s was so helpful and something I definitely struggle with!!! lol so easy to be present when you are alone, but when speaking I have found I lose myself a lot. So again Thank you for ❤
@sarahjmount9221
@sarahjmount9221 2 дня назад
Thank you, Eckhart. You simplified a very complicated thing for me in more ways than one. You usually do. Thanks for all you do. Namaste 🙏.
@wilcoats2705
@wilcoats2705 2 дня назад
Presence while alternating between listening (hard) and talking (harder!) is like learning to swim 🏊 and also breathe 🧘‍♂️
@Debbie041092
@Debbie041092 2 дня назад
Great way to put it! I chuckled inside
@zo741
@zo741 2 дня назад
A kako smo to uspevali u maminom stomaku🤔🤣
@SammieKCIAFFFLLTGF0303
@SammieKCIAFFFLLTGF0303 2 дня назад
Very well said. 👌🏽
@lorraineneville2907
@lorraineneville2907 2 дня назад
Thank you Eckhart, for the many years of sharing your wisdom, and calm presence 🙏🏾✨♥️ I agree my post humans are challenging.😊
@MonicaEGolak
@MonicaEGolak 2 дня назад
Challenging those that are not fully awakened. May I add..
@SophiaSantucci
@SophiaSantucci 2 дня назад
Dearest Eckhart, thank you for sharing, very true all you said. Important to bring oneself back to center when conversing with others. Today, i am sharing experience that occured central time at <a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="660">11:00</a> a.m. Triple alignment occured in space and time, it is amazing gift to humanity from highest consciousness of creator. Pure love and light, this cosmic alignment will affect everyone, feeling of something new and different about self and life over time. It is good and beautiful ❤️😊
@danman3163
@danman3163 2 дня назад
TIP: I find it can help greatly if one via wording, points out that ideas are not personal. For example the statement "Its surprising to hear that you agree with one of my ideas", it implies identification with the ideas that this person presented. Ideas are not personal just because you happen to present the idea today, ideas exist in a space of ideas, they belong to no-one. So instead of asking someone to "defend your viewpoint" (Which implies identification with the idea), instead ask someone for example "What evidence have you found to suggest that THIS IDEA might be true?" (For example the idea of "more collective transport and less cars, would be better"). This wording might cause the human to dis-identify from the idea. And thus have more objectivity and less defensiveness about it. Cause they dont subconsciously believe that they are defending a part of themselves.
@lizbrown9553
@lizbrown9553 2 дня назад
This not listening was pointed out to me by family members who were kind enough to point it out ...I wasn't even aware of my inner conversation goings on while they were speaking....WOW ❤ I recommend helping each other out with this because just SAYING: YOU'RE NOT LISTENENING DOESN'T SINK IN ...WE NEED A BIT OF AN EXPLANATION SO WE CAN GRASP THIS PRESCIOUS POSITIVE TRUTH TO HELP US TRULY COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY❤
@JLZR1
@JLZR1 2 дня назад
Thank you Master 🙏🏼
@suej9664
@suej9664 2 дня назад
Extremely helpful ! Thank you! ❤
@minuchacolburn6238
@minuchacolburn6238 2 дня назад
beautifully expressed !!!!
@TheFirstRainbowChildren
@TheFirstRainbowChildren 2 дня назад
Always delivering beautiful messages, thank you Eckhart Tolle!!!
@amin_abdollahi_369
@amin_abdollahi_369 2 дня назад
Thankyou😊🙏💚
@glensiddall51
@glensiddall51 2 дня назад
I call this not listening ,amazingly true,they do not understand this.
@johngreen4683
@johngreen4683 2 дня назад
When two people are present a rational conversation is enjoyed by both parties regardless of whether they agree or disagree with each other. When two egos exchange inflexible conditioned opinions confrontation and bad feeling is inevitable. In the words of of Frankie Goes To Hollywood " when two egos go to war" 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@smitasoman6451
@smitasoman6451 2 дня назад
I have been practicing all the practices suggested by Eckhart, but remaining present during interaction is not yet achieved. This is the most difficult task. But Thank you Eckhart for these immensely powerful techniques. ❤
@mypkdjourney
@mypkdjourney 2 дня назад
I am with you. I still find myself being lost in the words and waking up to awareness mid argument like Eckart described. It is good to know that waking up to presence is part of the process of presence and hopefully with more practice we will be in that state more often.
@Sniffingstar
@Sniffingstar 2 дня назад
Wooohooo
@lolaandriese9194
@lolaandriese9194 2 дня назад
THANK YOU ECKHART JUST WHAT I NEEDED CONFIRMED ❤❤❤❤
@willieknows2708
@willieknows2708 2 дня назад
Gratitude 🤲 With Appreciation.
@annemarine
@annemarine 2 дня назад
Thank you, I hope to see you in Basel next week ❤🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️
@healinghouse2
@healinghouse2 2 дня назад
Thank you for sharing ❤
@playcost
@playcost 2 дня назад
staying present talking to our unconscious parents or spouses will be the biggest challenge 😂😂
@Omnipresence101
@Omnipresence101 2 дня назад
Keep coming back 🙏🏻
@JonaN9035
@JonaN9035 2 дня назад
Hello Family!
@AgentTrust
@AgentTrust День назад
Thank you ❤
@soundscapes4619
@soundscapes4619 2 дня назад
That's a keeper.
@raydaug
@raydaug 2 дня назад
Gurdjieff also called it "self remembering". So many have seen. Sometimes words used are similar but not always. Whatever is useful is good.
@pilargarcia6724
@pilargarcia6724 2 дня назад
Súper útil!!! Muchísimas gracias!!!🙏🤍💛🧡❤️🩷💜💙🩵💚🤎🩶
@NarendraKantharaj
@NarendraKantharaj 2 дня назад
It's easier to practice presence while listening or watching TV or video. It takes more effort to be present while talking. One can start listening to their own voice while talking. It takes time.
@hayderhasan2268
@hayderhasan2268 2 дня назад
Thanks a lot
@tanakaren1822
@tanakaren1822 2 дня назад
This is emmensly helpful Eckhart. Thank you!
@melaniecox-777
@melaniecox-777 2 дня назад
@Wolfie01111
@Wolfie01111 2 дня назад
🙏
@tandafadel1127
@tandafadel1127 2 дня назад
I keep working on that but last time i lost it while facing a false accusation. I had the calm to notice while being angry i was a little haooy to be abe to come back to myself faster than before.
@shanti9040
@shanti9040 2 дня назад
Gratitude, 🎉Dearest Eckhart 👏💖💕🙏
@AndreChristian-f3v
@AndreChristian-f3v 2 дня назад
@KNIFE_FIRE
@KNIFE_FIRE 2 дня назад
آیا شما می‌دانید کتابهای شما در ایران هم چاپ شده و در ایران هم از آموزه های معنوی شما استفاده میشود
@bulentakkas4937
@bulentakkas4937 2 дня назад
Thank you
@midnightblue2893
@midnightblue2893 2 дня назад
Thanks Eckhart! 💜
@ghamessmona
@ghamessmona 2 дня назад
❤❤
@robertoaromando
@robertoaromando День назад
🙏
@tyremanguitars
@tyremanguitars 2 дня назад
this is a tough one for me, it can be hard to stay present when people test you and push boundaries.
@daveypr
@daveypr 2 дня назад
Thank you.
@Aivlyss
@Aivlyss 2 дня назад
The 3 levels of listening: internal (thinking about what you're going to say next), focused (active listening), and global (beyond listening, understanding the unspoken parts of the conversation). The third level is worth seeking. It's like "becoming one" in the discussion!! ❤
@MonicaEGolak
@MonicaEGolak 2 дня назад
Thank you for sharing dear Eckhart 🙏👍
@beastmode8569
@beastmode8569 День назад
Hoarders are a great example of someone that is identifying their egoic self thru objects. Trying to help someone declutter their hoarding situation is such a strange manifestation of the ego. They seem possessed by their mental position in spite of knowing intuitively it doesn’t make any sense. It’s an identity they created that’s attached to things to validate their mantras. Interesting & peculiar how diluted the ego develops 🤨
@goodzindagi
@goodzindagi 2 дня назад
superb
@mindlovesera
@mindlovesera 2 дня назад
감사합니다 사랑합니다 선생님 🙏 🌎 🩵
@philipmulvihill1455
@philipmulvihill1455 2 дня назад
DEEEEEP 😉
@hata3309
@hata3309 2 дня назад
👍
@bryanotieno7106
@bryanotieno7106 2 дня назад
It's better to keep quiet if one has nothing beautiful to say
@elisabethseeger5837
@elisabethseeger5837 2 дня назад
Yes😊 after 30+ yrs as a priest
@topocum
@topocum 2 дня назад
❤❤❤
@fortissimoX
@fortissimoX 2 дня назад
🙏❤
@Omer-Abdullah
@Omer-Abdullah 2 дня назад
🙏💚💐💐
@waterphoenix8171
@waterphoenix8171 2 дня назад
🤍🤍🤍
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@agnisamansfield4038 День назад
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@CaitlinKarl
@CaitlinKarl День назад
Our God indeed is a covenant keeping God. Has he said a thing and not perform it? I watch how things unfold in my life, from penury to $155,000 every three months and I can only praise him and trust him more. Hallelujah❤️🙌🏾
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@DavidLuisa-bg8hl День назад
That sounds Good, I hope you won't mind telling me how to go about making that much??
@CaitlinKarl
@CaitlinKarl День назад
Thanks to Ms. Elizabeth Ann Larson
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@BrittanyKarla День назад
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@notanotherjamesmurphy5574
@notanotherjamesmurphy5574 2 дня назад
the people who operate Eckhart Tolle’s youtube channel are obnoxious
@coz8989
@coz8989 2 дня назад
🙏
@leoniekhoury565
@leoniekhoury565 2 дня назад
❤❤
@lynnmcquillan2338
@lynnmcquillan2338 19 часов назад
It is helpful indeed dear Eckhardt .. God Bless you .. Thankyou 🙏❤️❤️
@wiktoriaurbanska2979
@wiktoriaurbanska2979 2 дня назад
@h2_kumar
@h2_kumar 21 час назад
Thank you so much for this timely teaching, Eckhart. Peace and love. ☮💌
@JJS-33
@JJS-33 17 часов назад
❤I wish I could have used presence recently, it happened of course after the event . However this practice I will hope will align in the moment 😊😂
@chriswalter6793
@chriswalter6793 День назад
Reminds me of a quote I just heard . Most people listen to respond, when we should listen to understand.
@mokuho
@mokuho 2 дня назад
When you talk are you able to remember your own presence?🙏🏼
@muratyumusakkaya888
@muratyumusakkaya888 13 часов назад
Lütfen türkçe altyazı seçeneği ekleyin. Lütfen...❤❤❤
@muratyumusakkaya888
@muratyumusakkaya888 13 часов назад
Lütfen türkçe altyazı seçeneği ekleyin. Lütfen......
@muratyumusakkaya888
@muratyumusakkaya888 13 часов назад
Lütfen türkçe altyazı seçeneği ekleyin. Lütfen...
@mojoryse7836
@mojoryse7836 2 дня назад
@stephenflood3463
@stephenflood3463 2 дня назад
Being in total presence during a conversation with people is a necessary skill we must learn because if we are not present we can get lost in thought, confused, and even angry with the situation. I used to find it so difficult to talk to people who were not present whilst speaking because what they were talking about did not make any sense after they finished. Therefore it's very hard to aid or respond to them in any constructive way. I also found in unconscious people that when it's my turn to speak they're not really listening to what I'm saying and are just waiting for me to finish so they can carry on speaking about themselves and their lives again. But thanks to Eckhart I have learned to listen to those kinds of people without being annoyed, judgemental, and more importantly, not correcting them whenever they are wrong. Thanks for teaching me this life skill Eckhart.
@terencehennegan1439
@terencehennegan1439 2 дня назад
Yes I too have experienced what you described. It’s somewhat ignorant and can be very annoying but we live and learn.
@stephenflood3463
@stephenflood3463 2 дня назад
​​@@terencehennegan1439We certainly do Terence, and learning this life skill benefits us greatly!
@Con-Queen
@Con-Queen 2 дня назад
Yep
@ewilson9435
@ewilson9435 2 дня назад
One thing not mentioned is when they are annoyed and even aggressive with you despite this.
@MonicaLillis
@MonicaLillis 10 часов назад
The unconscious people you speak of, are prob 90% of people. Be patient.
@valerieaustin155
@valerieaustin155 11 часов назад
This is great prctical advice. Thank you, Eckhart!
@WhittierLesley-c6t
@WhittierLesley-c6t 13 часов назад
Anderson Edward Walker Steven Brown David
@joschoofs7606
@joschoofs7606 4 часа назад
I need to learn this desperately! 😂 Not easy when you´re emotionally invested and it´s a very personal issue. Focus on the breath is a verder good tip... gonna try that. 😊
@nurnaharniha5717
@nurnaharniha5717 День назад
Can anyone tell me something? I have been reading The Power of Now for a few days and also practicing the teachings of this book, and something happened to me. Like, for 15 to 20 minutes, I felt like that I have actually accessed or cracked what Eckhart was saying. I was actually living in the present for 15 to 20 minutes. I felt extremely relaxed, and I could hear the silences under the noises. I've never felt like that. It felt very weird, but also very good. But it lasted for only 15 to 20 minutes, and then it went away. And after that, something happened. I was just resting, just lying on my bed. And I had a feeling like vertigo. So, I'm confused. Is it possible that after you feel something like that, like an awakening experience, can your body feel different?
@brooke3724
@brooke3724 День назад
I've been experiencing lost presence 😂❤toot toot
@BirdsAIView2
@BirdsAIView2 2 дня назад
Glad to see this topic and looking forward to watching this episode! I feel like my ability to stay present in conversations has decreased over time and it’s not due to my intention. I have a feeling that my phone in the fast pace of information in society has a lot to do with it. Always love a dose of wisdom from Tolle to bring me back to the Now!
@dennispena5496
@dennispena5496 День назад
Can I ask the E.T video producers to tone down the 'ding' at the beginning of each video? Or even replace it with something more soothing? It's quite ear piercing.....and whenever I fall asleep listening to Eckhart, that ding wakes me up again. Thank you!
@brooke3724
@brooke3724 День назад
I could have said that but in my voice lol my dad has a cough et
@michael_canton
@michael_canton 6 часов назад
This is brilliant.
@ExhaustedPenguin
@ExhaustedPenguin День назад
How can I sense the presence within the other person when I'm speaking to my sadistic narcissist dad who feels like an empty husk of a human without feelings?
@MonicaLillis
@MonicaLillis 10 часов назад
Hi
@elisa-el8yh
@elisa-el8yh 10 часов назад
@Lukas-nk3fn
@Lukas-nk3fn 2 дня назад
Many thanks!
@parvanehalipouralmajavan8234
@parvanehalipouralmajavan8234 2 дня назад
@shortylove282
@shortylove282 19 часов назад
Great advice 😊
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