The "Birthday Girl" Episode ft MS_DSF 

This interview wasn’t about BIG DSF but was about the rare and beautiful side of Dorcas Fapson that no one sees. We love you so muchhhh!!!!!!❤️❤️❤️Keep growing and succeeding beyond our imaginations, Keep doing you!🥺

Listen to me! This could lowkey be THE GREATEST interview by a Nigerian! Listen! As far as this new generation is concerned? This right here is pure gold!

Want to thank Ms Dsf for being vulnerable and sharing her story, I pray she gets the peace, happiness and childlike joy she deserves. Taymesan, thank you because while other blogs/podcasts ask questions to get clickbait, you ask questions that show us the human side of these celebrities beyond scandals and clout. And the best thing about you is that you listen, you don't feel the need to interrupt unnecessarily. Thank you, God bless you and the works of your hands ❤️

Your Dad did it to make your mom suffer. And she suffered until death. But your Dad also forgot that in his quest to make your mom suffer, you were also suffering 😢. Hence all the psychologists and therapist you're seeing. I pray you find healing. I also pray my skin be popping like yours 🥰🥰

Shuga was where I fell in love with this beauty. Since then she just keeps blowing my mind with her amazing gifts and hard work.

Taymesan is a perfect host….he’s a national treasure… and I’m not even Nigerian

DSF’s story is quite touching …..!🙏🏽❣️

I wish I could hug her…. Her dad however, because of your wife you went to the uk and then she got deported and you told your kids their mom hates them and didn’t want them and left… really? Nooooo Matter how messy the break up was . And ms def said the dad did it because he loves them ? Biko I no want that kind love na. I mean people Tell the children the mom or dad traveled and that she is coming back or look for a story but assure them their mom loves them regardless. And to think her mom went through all that to see them again in Nigeria but her dad still kept trying to stop it… menh it just boils my blood. It’s sad that she died without seeing them or them having closure is the saddest part of it sef. Haba na that was pure wickedness 😒 she is brave to forgive him oh God knows it would have been hard for me 😢😢😢😢 this girl needs loveeeeee … a lot of it and I pray she has genuine people around who will ride hard for her.

Please invite Beverly from big brother Nigeria 🇨🇲

Jesus😥😥😥 I've never cried like this before watching a podcast,but this right here made me shed tears uncontrollably. This is what most kids go through today, please even if you're going through a divorce please always tell your children the honest truth. Don't make your partner look like the bad person to them when in reality they're not, this can be traumatic for children in future.

Tay , we are waiting for the episode with SHARON OOJA 🥺🥲

We forget that while we are growing, our parents are also growing -ms dsf 2022

One of the best UK exports to Nollywood. This one can actually act. 🔥

ever since shuga, I got flowers today poem, castle on castle, IG stories, DJaying, dressing to kill shots, I've always seen d best in dsf despite all Nigerians hating on her and her accent and alleging she lying about the uber stuff and other horrible things about renting rides and sharading it as owned and all. You're loved pls

As a radio host myself, I truly admire Tay's flow! You truly connect and DREW her out! Awesome, touching interview. More wins!

Her new movie on Netflix is phenomenal. She killed it 👌

I really pray parents are more intentional about how they raise their children. Children deserve to be raised and cushioned with love.

MsDSF is one strong lady. Forgiving her dad for something that painful, I would have struggled. Just listening to the story and I am so mad. Keep healing DSF.

Please also make a movie about your personal experience you just shared. No behaviour (e.g. anger) comes out of nothing. There is always, always an underlying issue that leads to “bad” behaviour. I bet there are a lot of people, children and adults alike that’ll relate with your story. And stress the importance of getting help. People are generally good, but when they are not, we conclude all sort of assumptions about them and write them off. A lot adults are living with the emotional (let’s not even talk about the physical) abuse they went through as children. Some are being transferred from generation to generation because it has not been resolved. And We wonder why there is so much aggression in Nigeria. Thank you for sharing your story❤

I saw her in Shuga first. Since then I’ve loved her

Was reluctant to click on this episode at first, never mind my reason but I'm glad I didn't listen to that reason, because this was spiritual for me... at 12:52 mins, I paused this, stood up from my seat and took a bathroom break just to cry... I cried a river. This was so touching and relatable, it made realize my parents (mom especially) are only human. This is the beginning of a healing journey for me and I feel so much better already. Thank you so much for this podcast!

DSF you're beautiful and am happy you're in a very happy place. God will continue to guide you. Taymesan.... You're great

Oooh my God. I am not happy about this story. How I wish the mother was alive😥😥💔 I love you DSF and right now I love you more. God bless ur hustle

Don't be so fast to judge people, people go through a lot ❤️

This is fast becoming my favourite podcast. Tay you have a way with connecting with people and it's beautiful to watch. This is definitely one of my favourite episodes and trust me I love most. DSF has reminded me that we must try our utmost best to be gentle with one another because there's a story behind the strong version of the person we're seeing. Amazing episode. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪

I have so much to share I want the world to see me and know me I will love to be on this one day

I got touched and teary. Mehn I respect DSF the more. She is such a strong woman. With all that she has been through, she still put her shit together ❤️

I love big DSF soooooo much,i also dont know how to fake something.

I love how comfortable people are on this show

First time seeing this girl was in Castle and castle .....she's cool😊😊😊

First time tuning in and I fell in love with this podcast! One thing I respect about this generation of African youth, is the desire to take back our power and heal our past traumas all while breaking generational curses 🙌🏾🙏🏾 We grew up thinking mental health was a stigma, it isn’t prioritized enough. But thankfully that’s something that will change soon. I’m a huge fan of the two of you, so to see this vulnerability being shown made me feel like I could relate to you both on a different level. Much love, respect and blessings 🤍✨

Okay I cried . We never know people’s stories. Sometimes our parents put us in so much problems. The absence of a parent is really damaging. Still healing,still growing,still learning It is well

Wow! Never would had thought ma dsf had this past🥺… This episode made me fall in love with her even more❤️❤️ Thank you taymesan for this platform

I really need to heal too... I need to consider therapy ... Thanks for this podcast

Generational Trauma, is a conversation we need to talk more about

Very nice video 😊please bring Tomike Adeoye

It’s so crazy how one incident can affect the trajectory of your life

The rawness and vulnerability in this episode 🙌🏾🙌🏾

Nah!!! It's Big DSF for real mahn!!! My Celebrity bestie in all her glory ❤❤

Omggg I literally screamed when he asked “what number is that man”!!!😂😂😂because I noticed it too😂😂❤️❤️And yes I definitely shouted Amen too!!!!!🥺❤️

This lady just told my story honestly 😭❤️

We are all flawed is exactly what came to mind when I was watching this. She was really tough back in UK because she had to protect herself. You have to choose to be a bully victim or just fight. She's so pretty. I wish her the very best. Lovely interview.

DSf, love you more

Just watching this and this exact same thing happened to me. I never knew my mum. She tried everything to get us but my dad refused till she died 🥲

See i see why she channels big girl/strong lady energy and am here for it. Because peoples past really can make or break you,and in this case am glad it made her. You either conform to pain(can be even growing around it or experiencing it first hand),allow it to ruin you or you make out... Give this girl her accolades,she is smart,outspoken and alot more a great hustler,a good actor and a great DJ. Tay I see you and am here for thee growth Lots of love from 🇪🇸.

No long talk I love u Big DSF❤️

This got me teary😢

This Taymesan guy is a well of knowledge, he's good at everything he does,I still have some of his instagram videos saved up for laughs,I loved him on visa on arrival now he has me hooked on his podcast,bravo young man!!

I’m actually one of those that misunderstood her before now, there’s a lot of lessons to learn from this and this whole episode was a lot of emotions, thank you for for sharing DSF.❤️

Wow I almost cried watching this video🥺❤️ Love you Dorcas📌

She'll go far🙏 and all her dreams will come through ❤️❤️

I just hope we all learn from our parent’s mistakes because no matter what, these kids don’t deserve to be denied love from the both parents. It’s not fair at all , letting them go through life alone, it has an effect, take it or leave. She’s really strong I must say.

I love you Ms DSF so much ❤️

Taymesan! I didn't want this episode to end. I love it!

Taymesan! You’re a star. You pull out their vulnerability. You’ve got something and you’re going places.

For someone who’s really “misunderstood” I felt her on a deeper level❤️

Since I found out about Taymesan and what he does especially with the podcast I see myself coming to look for his new update on Instagram and also on RU-vid, I like his vibe and sense of humor and also how he connects with everyone he brings to the show....The podcast is entertaining, interesting and educative I must say

We Love youuu DSF❤... On a serious note as people we need to do better, we don't need to know about people's past or their traumatic experiences before treating them with dignity. We all have scars and it's our choice to show them to the world or keep them to ourselves so, remember to be kind always! ❤

taymesan is so confident... Gosh! I pray for that grace

Tay no talk abt her friendship dynamic with Badboy T.. Get me lit!!!

I don’t know how to be fake ‼️ loved this

This is the best yet! I resonated with this story a lot because I am your”mother” right now! I pray the lord heals your heart and when it’s time, you will be an exceptional mother and no one will take that away from you!

I listened to this on Spotify but I had to come comment on RU-vid Tay I love this episode and Tay try zoom therapy I began therapy online over the lockdown there is strength in vulnerability being the oldest children we also have so much trauma of carrying so much as the first. I love the exploration of Nigerian culture school life and how it intertwines with like how it is being Nigerians born abroad. This is such a prominent conversation that needs to be had amongst us. DSF if you see this thank you for being beautifully vulnerable being vulnerable allows others to learn and also explore themselves. I felt you with being misunderstood and it’s hard to navigate when feeling misunderstood but we thank God for those that understand us and I pray you continue to grow. Overall there is power in vulnerability [check out the Ted talk on this ]

Dsf story touched me Love her ❤️❤️❤️ May all her wishes come through Amen 🙏🏾

Happy birthday Big DSF

Dis Episode is soooo dope & Real i have always wanted to know her story since the day1 of Shuga in unilag, she stood out & nailed dt role,, this is quite revealing love it

It gets better by each episode...Well-done TAY ❤️

This was the most beautiful episode on this podcast. So vulnerable damnnn 🥺🥺🥺🥺♥️♥️. I have always known DSF is always misunderstood, with the way people always come for her. Yo! You really don’t know what people are going through sha Manifesting being on this podcast soon 🙈😂♥️

This is gold 🤎

Aaaawww bless you Dorcas. Yea. Dorcas was a tough girl back in the UK. Tottenham girl who took no nonsense. So proud of the woman you’ve become. Loved this and will be watching the rest. 🙏🙏

Omo, flesh and blood didn't reveal this podcast to you, Taymesan. God bless you for doing this!!! ❤️

Omo this is deep and emotional but she is strong oo cos i doubt if i can let go of such 😭😭

Tay brings the best guest and knows how to bring out the best conversations

Another name for this podcast is sip tea and spread love, because every single episode has this love that is felt so immensely. Taymesan, this country is nowhere near where we should be in terms of accepting each other but I know you and this community have started something that will bring about the change we want to see in this country and in ourselves. Thank you 😊

I've always loved Ms DSF 🥰 now I admire her strength and respect her courage ❤️❤️❤️

Listening to this episode and OMG! The vulnerability 😟. I was close to tears a lot, not out of pity, but because it’s so easy for us humans to misjudged people without even knowing their stories. And the media have definitely put this woman out in a “not so positive” light. I admire her so much and even more respect for her now.

This is a great podcast! I love the vulnerability!

This episode is just therapeutic. My favourite thus far

This made me love Dorcas S. Fapson even moreeees😩💖😍😘....more success and prosperity and everything great and awesome😘

Dorcas, DSF, Dorkisha 😍😍...I love this girl...nice work Tay 👏👏

It’s always good to see the human side of people What she encountered through her life is really painful, that’s why she’s deserving of all her successful endeavours now Hopefully her mum *and* dad are proud 🕊

Brud this podcast was so touching. Mehn great work man. this genuinely DSF, no shade, no hard guy just her story. You just find that people are a lot more than what they are portrayed as.

My Dsf I love you so much and i particularly love how much you’ve evolved over the years,much love from kaduna.

Yo!!! this guyyyyy this Episode got me man!!! Meeting cancelled

I feel this honestly, I was so misunderstood as a child. Also had that culture shock experience.

TAY you pull stuff out of people wow love your show thanks for showing us this side of DSF

I love the vulnerability of this video..Tay you’re doing a great job ❤️

Deep, love her more now! Taymesan pls reduce the interruptions, small. T for thanks! Great episode, well done

This is my favourite episode so far. DSF is such a strong person.

I can just relate to Taymesan's story. Guess I need a therapist actually! We don't know the trauma we are going through until we do that

Now I know why I totally can relate with her vibessssss. When you become friends with Riri, say Hi to her for me. When you meet Denzel, tell him Abeke is a great fan of his. Keep being you ❤️

Let's take a moment to appreciate how taymesan makes it guest feel at home👏👏 for them to be able to share there stories. You doing so Well for yourself dsf and hope/pray your heart desires be granted 💙👏👏. BTW Tay shirt be giving wat it should 👌

This is so beautiful.One major thing about growing up is understanding our parents' choices and forgiving their "mistakes".Loved seeing this vunerable side of DSF

Dsf: “when I first came back, they took me to Ibadan” Tay: “..for prayers??” 😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂

I've always love MS DSF.... You're so strong, beautiful and down to earth. Keep being amazing 👏. Well done Taymesan for another great episode. Each one gets better and better.

It seems every new Tea with Tay episode becomes my favorite Keep it up Tay

My babyyyy😭😭❤️❤️❤️Seeing you cry makes me love you the more!🥺

I have watch the one with Davido, Toke, and now DSF. Taymesan sabi this thing 💯 It's time for me to subscribe 👍

Big DSF❤️‍🔥 is so Beautiful🤩

I relate with this a lot because I had mummy issues too. May God heal our hearts. Thank you @dsf for being open. Welldone @tay