The message was really if you are alone, it's not the end of the world or one's life. It should be seen as motivation and inspiration for those in similar situations or phase in life.
Since everyone is sharing, why not do the same. Firstly, we have to understand that people say and do things based on where they are in life, their perspective, experiences etc. That person obviously is going through or been through something similar, therefore let’s give grace. Kim as been through a lot and this is her current situation, next year she might be singing about family, kids, who to tell….. but for now, she’s rocking it alone and this is based on 27 minutes of footage over 2 days. I give grace both to the person who left the comment, I feel for you, because this says a lot about you and also for Kim, your situation is just a stepping stone to better things. Keep on enjoying every stage of your life, big up crew is behind you 100%
NO EXPLANATION NESSEARY KIM , I HAVE NEVER FELT AS IF YOU WERE ENCOURAGING ANYONE TO BE ALONE , WE KNOW WHERE YOU'RE COME FROM, AS YOU ALWAYS SAY REVIEW PREVIOUS VIDEO, SO THEY CAN GET BETTER AQUIANTED WITH YOU . 👀🙄💞💕🇯🇲🇯🇲🙏🏿
Ain’t nothing wrong with being alone. Being alone and being lonely two different things. You have to enjoy and appreciate your own company before you can be in company with others. Keep doing what’s you are doing, the community will come and from the community you will make genuine friends💃🏽🤗🦋
No need to explain regarding being alone. There is nothing wrong with being alone. We all need alone time or me time to redo our batteries rest and reflect, revitalise. You don't need to live with somebody or be with somebody twenty four seven. You are in a new country you are starting over and just recovering from a divorce you need chill time
It's ok to be in your season of self focus and love. Seasons change. The leaves fall off the trees then comes winter, spring brings back the growth on the same trees that lost their leaves. Summer brings warmth and sunshine. Embrace whatever season you're in. Nothing is constant!❤💕🇯🇲🇨🇦
I am glad for you girl! I was in your shoes many many years ago and didn’t have the energy nor the courage to do anything. Wasted years of my life just lying down and crying. Now you are here for the rest of us all. Do what you do best. You are teaching us how to live after the storm! Bless you!
I go on self dates regularly. I go out and do things alone. Yesterday, I took myself to a nice restaurant, sat and had my meal all alone. I wasn’t lonely, still isn’t lonely. Alone time is very important!
There is a big difference between being alone and being lonely. You could be in a room full of people and be lonely. On the otherhand you could be yourself and be whole.
Sometime in life we have to go through our problems by yourself not even friends or family you want to depend on. you have to learn to be strong and dependent on your strength so you could face any obstacles that comes your way so don't feel guilty about people saying that you're suppose to have friends.
Nothing is wrong with being alone. I spend my time alone. I am just scared of going out alone and I wish I could do that like you. As least you are giving me the courage to try it. Visiting different parishes and countries.
Alicia nice to see you again it’s always a pleasure I kept looking for this video. Just remember that you can’t please all the people all the time just continue to do what makes you happy ❤
Kim it's 1:54am here in Jamaica 🇯🇲 and I'm up watching you. Been at work all day finally getting a chance to sit and enjoy the video, cheering you on Kim 😊❤😊
Is the person who sent you dm a new subscriber? You are certainly not advocating being alone. This is your life right now and you are managing the best you can. Friends are important and with time you will make more friends and you may or many not include them in the vlog. You good.
Now Kim - I never comment, but I have to today. Why did you dignify that DM with a response? 😂It is obvious the person is not tuning in at all. For you to move to a new state and mention at least on 3-4 occasions that you are meeting up with friends or family shows you are transitioning and seeking balance in your life. Being alone for a season is biblical in itself and some (maybe not all) of us will have a wilderness season and that is tough and good in many instances. life comes at us all in stages. It’s how you handle those stages that prepares you for your next level and you are doing a great job. Stay blessed and embrace the season YOU are in so you can be ready for the next. 😊
I’ve never understood that statement…..what do you bring to the table? Do you need to? Why can’t you just be? A relationship shouldn’t be a business. I bring myself to the table, take it or leave it! .
I don't like that statement either. When I was growing up, it was unheard of. Now it's a lot of Men asking women what they bring to the table because they want to split things 50/50.
Is how that person get all of that from your vlog? Thats why it is necessary for viewers to go back and get familiar with who you are. You’re basically letting persons know that you are comfortable with this season of your life and you are going to embrace it for as long as it last and that there’s nothing wrong with going out and doing things on your own. Cho!
I love your videos! I recently found you when you started your journey of leaving Florida to New Jersey! I was so happy because I have lived in Jersey for 6 years (originally from Bronx, NY). You motivate me to get out and explore more! That Cafe looked soooo pretty! I'm an introvert as well so it's hard for me lol. I'm glad I found you girl!❤
The cinnamon rolls been around for years, I make it for my kids all the time, but it’s usually pillsbury. Maybe it’s just more popular up this side and not down south. Pillsbury have a lot of different stuff that you can just pop into the oven.
Kim girl I love how u spire us ladies to start take better care of ourselves no matter how busy we are just to stop self love reflect on the better you and your finding peace within our company. Love the positive attitude, vibe and energy. Biggest hug Kim. Stay strong.
Kim love watching your videos. You don't need to explain yourself and you don't promote being alone. You're just in that stage of life right now. We all go through it. We come into the world alone and we will leave it the same way. It's great spending that time to get in touch with yourself. We all need it at some point in our lives.
People tend to confuse being lonely and being alone. Sometimes u have to be in ur own world to relearn who u are so I can become a better version of yourself. Some of unu love friend and company too much
I love that system in Walmart. I love the fact that lock the things away because too many people are tampering with the goods. Also I am glad & appreciative of the cashiers 🎉🎉🎉
Girl MI like how u love shop a the country you come from we love shop n excitement Fi a young girl Fi Tru what u are at this age u deserve every pampering gwaan do the do ❤
BIG UP!! BIG UP KIM & Big up crew lets all continue stand behind Kim before Kim beside Kim with our prayers send up nuff nuff prayers for her She's such an inspiration to us all whether we're young or old .Gwaan do de do Kim❤❤🇯🇲🇯🇲
Big up Kim! The past is a great teacher. Don't stay there but use it as your launching pad for the present and the future. No experience is useless. Further along, we all understand why. Praying God's continued blessings and coverage.
Kim to survive those NJ winter you definitely going to need a puffer coat that blocks the wind. Hat, scarf and gloves too. I wear the hats with the satin liners to avoid the static 😅. You will be just fine. Enjoy.
Why bother explaining? They don’t know your private life….if you are afraid of being alone with yourself how can you enjoy other people? I throughly love and enjoy my own company and enjoy people whenever I choose to be with others.
Can't imagine how that person cd have got that impression. SMH. Well said Alicia. Blessings always. I just recently started watching your videos . I am a senior citizen and I find them so refreshing and inspiring. I really admire your resilience and strength. Keep doing what you are doing God has your back.
Well guess what i am married and have a community but i does still feel lonely. Even in a room full of people. You can not be alone and still feel lonely. There is two side to every thing in life and truth is some people will be in relationships and some will remain single.We need the balance in our society. People get to choose what they want for their life. We cant pr😮ogram everyone into the same choices and decision in life.
Big up uself kim..vlogtober winding down hope a november vlog is in the making because u kinda spoil we and we get used to it 😂😂...when my store stops self check ill order online my walmart lines are cray cray esp on wknds. Until the next one xoxo🎉
Kim.. me no know wat we ago do come next friday : 11/01.. We love n appreciate you and thanks for sharing your daily adventures with us.. But rest up and we know you gonna do videos in November and vlogmas will be blast. ❤❤❤❤❤ Take a trip to NY, park at Penn Station and take train into the city annndddd bring Mommy up for Christmas too, if u can 😊 ❤❤❤
We all have something to offer however, some just have no idea know how or when to be vulnerable enough to offer up their gifts and talents in the relationship. 😮
