Why? He talks to her like this all the time on their other videos. All the black women ate it up like yes king. I wish we were slower to desperation to be married.
I honestly didn't see him being disrespectful, I think we are confusing being Transparent and honest with disrespect . And it's what the person feels on the receiving end of it. She asked for him to speak on how he felt about the situation, so you have to allow a person to speak on the reality ... He was confused and upset about the depth of his Wife's depression on the death of her Ex husband to which she had a bad and toxic relationship with .... Not to mention Trina had to move from her home of over a decade when her and Gabe divorced. She went through a lot.
Just watching this, he seems like he's her parent and she is his child, Von needs to speak when it's his turn & listen when it's Trina time to speak instead of cutting her off.
Trina is not herself ! She seem tense around this man, I hope she finds herself again. She often has to stop in the middle of her sentence to think about what to say for fear of hurting his ego. Gabe allowed her to be herself.
Von is a walking red flag and I hate the way he speaks to Trina, like she not intelligent, informed. She really holds back and let him talk over her, shut her down and correct her, and pokes at things that a husband shouldn’t do. I could barely sit through this. Trina, we love YOU, and we pray folks would understand how difficult it is for YOU to be so vulnerable with her entire life, and lend more compassion and not think about themselves. To pick apart the way someone grieves and to compare it is so sick. Von was jealous of Gabe and too insecure in himself to even care to rationalize that Trina was his friends without romantic feelings.
The way he picks her apart so nastily means he doesn’t like her. Very clear he doesn’t like her & I hope she realizes it one day & finds a man who does!
Vonn your delivery towards Trina is mean. You kinda fast talk and over talk her. Then when she put her head down and you kinda started coming at her like a child.
Look, grief is not something we can control and someone else’s insecurities can’t dictate how another person’s grief manifests. How dare someone who loves you add to your burden as you grieve. Unimaginable.
Exaclty. I'm like they was married for years. So dispute everything good or bad that her and Gabe went through. That was her husband for years. He's the father to her kids. You think she not going to grieve.
@@Dawn_2a well said! He is completely out of line! He claims not to be upset, it the same time, he upset with her, and tells her she was wrong! Trina, my sister, you are and was not wrong! Saying, he can’t tell her how to grieve, but telling her, she shouldn’t be grieving like she was over Gabe, is sick in itself! He got the problem. The fact that he feel’s people can’t be friends after a divorce after going through alot, just show you the type of person he truly is, snd how he holds things against people. If you have a good heart , you can be friends with someone after they have hurt you in the pass. And to have to explain that to someone like him, is a waste of time. They will never get it, or understand it! I know Trina has to walk on eggshells around this man, cause I got the same type! That’s why she saying nothing! She know that there is nothing she can say that will be right to him. Nothing she say will even reach him. He won’t get it, nor hear it! Everything, and anything she says he is going to feel is she is the problem and blame her for it all. Blame her for his feelings. Cause she is not allow to have her own feelings. Her feelings are always wrong. He is mentally abusive. I completely understand Trina, and I see it! I see what she is dealing with off these cameras, and behind closed doors! Nothing she does is right, snd everything is her fault, even if it’s his. You can see in this video, he is upset with her, and he keep telling her not to do this or that, he don’t like this and that. He cold to her, and she just trying to be nice, so she don’t upset him on camera, but it don’t matter, he still upset! And she will have to tip toe around him with what she has to say, cause she can’t speak her mind of speak her true feelings, cause he get pissed! I get it Trina! I know the feeling, I see💯👀And like you said How dare you!! Tell someone how to feel, what to feel, or even how to be with your own heart!
@@Allisonlongisland Right talking about the viewers are 50/50 agree with him and her. Are we reading the same comments? Please tell me why she couldn’t have had the laptop while he used his phone🤨 then talking about he an open book.. but in another tone going to say that a specific subject couldn’t be discussed on camera.. Controlling, mean, disrespectful and down right RUDE!!
Going through a divorce after 27 years, he wanted the divorce. It’s the best thing that’s happened to me because being out I can see all the toxicity, gaslighting, narcissistic behavior and actions that I was living in. Trina, please continue therapy. Something about him has always been off and seems very off. Love to you sis.
I hate seeing this too. Cause I have had to do what Trina is having to do! Just let him be right, just to keep peace and not argue, cause anything you say he get upset and it’s your fault, nothing she can say will be right, and he don’t think he will feel like you Trina! He thinking he won’t! So, he just told her she was wrong again!!everything she says is wrong. It’s like just stop talking Trina, cause nothing you are saying is right, so just stop. He mad, so let him be mad! That’s what we are seeing right now. What she is having to deal with behind closed doors.
TRINA I tune in to these for YOUR commentary! YOU are the star this is not "the Von show" and the way he was speaking to you was absolutely deplorable. You could barely get a word in and whever you did he was unattentive...talkin bout a damn hang nail! And who is he to tell you how long you need to be on live?! Very controlling, Very rude, Very disrespectful, Very NOT demure
@@SonyasSilverPuffer I do think the alcohol made it worse… I watch some of the cooking shows he does over talk but not as much. I dunno I like Von I’ll need to see more proof of what people are syaing
Being told you're grieving in the wrong way is the last thing anyone needs. And being cut off. Everyone wants to be heard. Von your mother told you not to judge her grief for your father, the same goes for Trina. Love to you both ❤❤❤
RUN!! MY LADY RUN!!!😢😢😢😢😢You deserve way better than that. I watched you when you went LIVE but i lasted for a couple of minutes. I couldn't take it🥴🥴 I love you so much, sending love from South Africa ❤❤❤🇿🇦 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
No he wasn't hiding it, he said, he got jealous because of the way she was mourning him. And that's fine because who wouldn't have a moment, but it's the way he handles it that's not olay
Love how he's controlling the comments and not allowing Trina to see what's being said on HER own page. Talking about he doesn't care what people say about him but then proceeds to read comments supposedly in support of him, and LIE about it being 50/50, he's clearly insecure. Trina isn't wrong, you don't get to have an opinion on someone elses grief. Telling her that her grief for Gabe was "a bit much" is in fact telling her how she should be grieving and the gaslighting is absurd. How in the hell is her grief "a bit much" No one knows what their greif will look like until it happens. Grief is grief, there's no levels to it, there's definitely phases but it's never levels. You can't "grieve a little bit" and you certainly can't grieve a little bit over the passing of someone who mattered to you. You cannot control it and that was such a disgusting comment for you to say to Trina. Whether you agree with her friendship to Gabe or not, she knew him almost 20 years, married him twice and after all that they remained friends and his sudden passing greatly affected her. Point blank period. There is no agree to disagree when it comes to her mourning someone who was important to her and Trina is just trying to pacify him and walk on eggshells. What was displayed in this 41 minute video is textbook emotional and verbal abuse. Whether you like it or not Gabe was/is important to her and you completely disregarding her, her grief and her feelings is unnecessary, unsupportive and nasty! She lost three people in her family very close together and you're making it about the fact that you've never seen someone become bestfriends with their ex. You don't need to see it, that was her choice, way before you came along. "That was some new shit to me" Wow, so I guess she couldn't forgive Gabe and move on while remaining his friend? Some people do it, some people don't and that's fine but you blantantly judge her for her decision but then in the same breath you say it doesn't mean the friendship doesn't have a right to exist. Which one is it? He's unbelievable, it's almost laughable. We can all clearly see that you haven't experienced that and we can see why. You don't know what forgiveness is and you don't have an empathetic bone in your body. The fact that he even opened his mouth to say she grieved him too strong is very telling. He can't understand it because he is very cold hearted. Your issue isn't with Gabe, then who's the issue with? With Trina for mourning her friend? So he's a good dude but you couldn't fathom Trina having a friendship with Gabe because they had a bad divorce? I mean he is a walking contradiction. He's getting caught up in his own lies because he never liked Gabe and he hated that Trina remained friends with him. Just call a spade a spade. I mean he won't even say Gabe's name "that guy" "the dude" You are almost 60 years old. Grow up! Just like a narcissist, goes out of their way to take every opportunity to justify why they're right. I knew what type of guy he was when I saw that he was a trump supporter. Just listen to him talk about the dynamic he had with his Mother and Father, he hates women. I'd love to hear what his ex WIVES went through with him. 18:46-19:21 Absolutely insane how he treated and spoke to her here, he hates Trina. He talks to her like she's beneath him, the way he roles his eyes at her... Very abusive behavior. You don't treat anyone you claim to "love" like this. She's not a "TV Show Host" she should be able to respond and take as much time as she needs to respond in HER VIDEO for HER CHANNEL, about HER SHOW. It's not that serious, I'm sure she just wanted to sit down and just talk. That's it. Things don't have to be perfect but he wants to control her and everything she does and says while he's cutting his nails instead of stepping off camera to do so. 11:55 Like are you serious? Why're you trailing on about your beard? Interrupts her to thank someone for complimenting his beard? This is not the von show! All the attention has to be on von, von has to be right! 5:36 This man is literally arguing with Trina because she rightfully so wants to apologize to the viewers for what happened to her page. That is a noble and logical thing to do especially from someone who is well known. Trina has a big heart and she cares about her supporters. That is HER brand and that was the right thing to do and for him to tell her not to apologize says alot about him. He just HAD to be right, it's his way, just completely childish. He absolutely does not want her to have any control over herself. He wants to control her thoughts, her actions and her character. She can apologize if she wants to! He wants absolute control. 9:34 She talks about how to make the drink, he rudely interrupts her to talk about his hangnail and then has the nerve to ask if she talked about how to make the drink because he wasn't listening... Just unbelievably disrespectful. The way he glares and snaps at her is insane. The way he immediately stopped smiling and cut his eyes at her when she mentioned an ad being a game, was scary. This whole part was very hard to watch 22:49-23:45 ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING the way he speaks to her here, like what the hell are you so angry about? You're not being forced to participate and her reaction and the look on her face says it all. She can't even defend herself, you can see her physically and emotionally retreat and then he prevents her from speaking when she trys to defend herself. Then when she does try to defend herself about certain topics, he tells her that she "didn't do it quickly enough" or HOW she should have went about addressing something. YOU ARE NOT HER FATHER. Disgusting. Notice he said "If you gon sit there we should just get off here" How dare he speak to her like that! He can clearly leave himself and let her finish her video if he's that irritated because she tried to control her reaction to how he's speaking to her. She's even trying to speak and he constantly keeps interrupting her to reply to comments and lie about it being 50/50 when it wasn't because he doesn't want Trina to feel supported in her truth. He knows what he's doing. If you've ever experienced abuse you can clearly see what's going on, it's the little things like 14:23 22:10 & 30:10 Trina is afraid of him, she's afraid to speak her mind and express herself because he always has to be right and she walks on eggshells and waters down how she feels. He is controlling and abusive. Most men are aggressive? No... they're not. You're not "aggressive" von, you're a condescending narcissist with a complex and insecurities issues. You said with your whole chest that you have a TEMPER... That. Is. Not. Normal. You also say you and your brother were raised with "an edge" So your parent's raised two narcissists? "We carry it" You say this like you're proud... like it's a badge of honor but what it really is, is an affliction. He is the problem, he says he has a tough time talking to someone who is paid to listen to him (A therapist) So do you not trust your primary doctor? Your dentist? The cardiologist? I mean com'on, his logic is absolutely ridiculous. Only problematic people look at therapy in that way and he's just trying to convince people that he's right and that he knows what he's talking about. It's an excuse to not better himself and take accountability for his toxic behavior. That's way beyond having a dominant personality. You're not supposed to be "aggressive" with your wife. You let her be secure in her femininity while protecting her and her feelings. You make her feel SAFE with you so that even when conflict and disagreements arise, she knows you are her safe space and she can express her feelings with you and vice versa but you on the other hand make Trina look meek and below you with the way you speak and interact with her, like she's a child and it's getting worse and worse. Trina says you can't put a timeline on grief and how you get through or get over things and then says "but we did" No... HE made her do that and she wanted to comply. She had to grieve to SUIT HIM! Never stay with anyone out of convenience or the fact that you "don't want to be alone" because you end up being alone anyway by abandoning yourself and allowing someone like von to come into your life and treat you with such disdain. 8:41-8:52 The way he spoke to her here and throughout this entire video is terrible. The hate, arrogance and annoyance in his voice is disgusting. Meanwhile he's taking time out out of the video to interrupt her to talk about his beard and his hangnail.12:22 -12:42 She can't even be herself, she's trying to be playful and he's making her look like she's a bothersome, annoying and asking the audience do they know what she's talking about. He's TRYING to humiliate and embarrass her. Absolutely nothing can justify this shit. I'm praying for your strength Trina. Choose yourself, you don't deserve this!
This is painful to watch! The way Von is talking to Trina deeply saddens me - cutting her off and disregarding her feelings. She is a sweet spirit!!❤ Trina, don’t be afraid to root in what is best for YOU in this moment! I cannot imagine my husband behaving this way… praying for you, sis! 🩷🙏🏾📿🙏🏾
I can’t even finish watching the ENTIRE video because of how he is verbally speaking to her. It makes me cry for her because she’s just sitting there taking it and she’s not going to do anything but defend him.
@@cgogetit What do you get out of doing that? I always wonder when people understand what someone is saying, what purpose does it serve to focus on grammar or syntax instead of the what the other person is saying or the topic at hand?
This definitely is a hard watch. I always give a like to the videos but I couldn’t with this. He was too abrasive but I’m sure he doesn’t see it that way.
@@thecommentsection4913 it doesn’t matter if you understand. It’s a teaching moment. Hopefully what they get out of it, is someone who knows better next time. Why do you all get mad at constructive criticism? Your stance is the epitome of ignorance is bliss.
Ladies, travel, get into your hobbies, worship God, get a degree, get another degree, learn a skill, fix your credit, get your bag up, hit that gym and get back fine....IT IS OKAY TO BE SINGLE. If it's meant to be, the right man will find you. Be at peace. Be happy. Enjoy your life. Having a man just to have one aint the move. IT IS OK TO BE SINGLE!❤
Von 😩…You stopped talking at the 18:48 mark. You didn’t even give Trina time to talk, before you said “so you just gonna sit there” at the 18:53 mark. That’s only 5 seconds. She didn’t even have time to gather her thoughts 🥴
He wanted to make her the problem, he’s coming across as a controlling manipulator. I was done with him once she wanted to wrap up the live, he then says you said it was going to be an hour.
TRINA, PLS READ THE COMMENTS! WE DID/DO NOT SIDE WITH HIM AT ALL - He absolutely lied about that "50/50"! Von is dead wrong, and antagonizing you just to get the pleasure of shutting you down before you can form a complete sentence feels sick. Please share this with your therapist. I stopped watching your cooking lives because the digs and the way he spoke to you. It's unbearable. You deserve the very best.
Why is he not letting her hold the laptop? He wants his cell. He wants to answer. Nobody cares about him. Just because you can't read from a laptop doesn't mean she can't. He picking and choose what to read.
Yes, You can see why Trina is not like she use to be. I know as you age , you mature more. Some anyway, but Trina use to smile alot, joke a lot, was more excited about life. These days she don’t smile, laugh, or seem like her old self anymore, and now we see why. People like him can steal your joy, and change you in the worst way. That Fun Trina is gone, and Trina that had the fun music is not there. I’m sure he played a part into why!
She’s a Sagittarius she will leave soon . They are calculated in their exit remember when she said Gabe took care of boys . She knows trust me she need her freedom he about to find out !!!!!!
@@tabposeyshe also had the best hair/wigs out of all her sisters just a natural glamor fun woman just pray for her & if you want pray for the marriage but I would pray for her because death isn’t easy & if you can spew venom when your loved one is seeing loss in there life pray to protect her from that venom.
@@KrystolCowart what do you mean? Are you saying his disrespect and disregard is good for her? Where’s the honor for his wife… he appears to be a bully . If he display this behavior for the public to see ; I cringe to think of how he treats her in private. No one deserves that! If you can’t or won’t love her then leave her alone
There's no way I would get on social media, disrespect my wife, and hurt her feelings in front of thousands of people. You can't tell her how to feel about someone that was in her life for 20yrs. And why would you be jealous and coldhearted towards a deceased man. If I was Trina, there's no way I would put up with him. This video pissed me off!!!!
Von is definitely a big red flag! Why would you talk to your wife like that or to any woman.so disrespectful and Trina looks scared and insecure, afraid to say something wrong. Girl you deserve so,so much better.
Trina deserves a soft life. Someone that handles her with white gloves 😢 It’s okay that you grieved Traci and Gabe the same. Your grief process is no one’s but yours! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥺 “For the dude”he’s a narcissist.
"The dude" was so disrespectful. He's claiming he has no problem with Gabe but his comments and the way he speaks about him says otherwise. He's very insecure and controlling. He's emotionally and verbally abusive
Trina is lit hunnie…I know she said she’s drinking more to cope with Traci’s death but it also seems like she’s drinking more to deal with him. Also why is he the only one reading the comments?? 😏😒 Whew chile this was tough to watch…Definitely praying for her 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The fact that Trina said she feels like Von is PUNISHING her for grieving Gabe says a lot 😞 it makes me worry for her and the way he talks to her is just frustrating to me 😔
Von comes off very aggressive, cold and mean. I hate the way he talks to Trina. It seems as if he does not like her. He’s always irritated with her. I can’t finish their lives cause it’s so cringy to see.
HES JEALOUS OF HER- THEY'RE MAKING MONEY BECAUSE OF HER. HE TRIES TO PRETEND LIKE HE KNOWS WHAT HES TALKING ABOUT, HE CANT EVEN SAY MODERATORS CORRECTLY HE SAYS MONITIZORS, QUIT TRYING TO ACT LIKE YOU KNOW IT ALL BRO, YOU LAME.
And you can tell how he has changed her , and taken the fun out of her! He is the fun snatcher. He won’t even let her see the comments. He really showing his true self!!
He's probably gonna delete them so.she doesn't see them...But she needs to rewatch this episode and look at herself and just listen to him. It's time to Heal...I pray she has a prenup
This is hard to watch because the communication is not IT😢 🤦♀️ she can't complete a full sentence without him interrupting. Trina i wish yall the best BUT Von needs to respect you as a woman and his wife. He's to love his wife as Christ loves the church. You look unprotected in front of thousands 😢 it is not given on thissss screen
Von comes off very controlling.. It scares me to see him treat you that way. It’s like he shuts you down all the time.. I hate seeing that because it’s like a narcissistic person.. You are not his dog- you are his wife and you deserve the very best Trina. You are so smart- sooo beautiful.. You’ve been thru so much and I’m not the only one that sees that… Von seems to try to tear you down in a secret way when things don’t go his way.. You don’t deserve to be emotionally & mentally abused.. He needs to go to God so he can change that because he’s going to push you away. I’d never say this if it wasn’t really what I see- but he really comes off so controlling as if you have to bow down when he’s talking and let it be his way.. Noooo.. Your feelings matter too. I almost cried when u got quiet when you said you guys only had 6 more minutes and he said “NO” we’re doing an hour or whatever.. Von you should take a look in the mirror and realize you can be wrong- or you’re never gonna keep any1. Trina doesn’t deserve that.
YOU SAID IT RIGHT!! 💯👏🏼 SHE IS SO BEAUTIFUL AND DOESN'T DESERVE HOW HE TREATS HER AT ALL!!! I FEEL SO SAD FOR HER!!! 😢💔 I DON'T LIKE IT AT ALL!!! 😤😠 IM JUST GLAD OTHERS ARE NOTICING IT TOO!!! 😣💯
It was cringy watching. I wanted her to end the live because he was really out of character. Let’s 🙏🏽 she gets out of this relationship. Gabe may have had his issues but he never talked to her like Von does.
All I’m going to say is Trina, I’ve always admired and adored you and your soft heart. You always come across so loving and nurturing and sweet. Protect that, protect your heart and kindness. I don’t know what goes on in your life and behind the scenes but I truly hope and wish you are happy. I wish you peace and happiness and if it means that changes need to be made to keep that peace and kindness, that is ok. If it means things stay the same, that’s ok too. I support you. ❤ Live your life with joy, may God bless you and your family.
Von is an insecure man who needs to control his wife, always be right, and must have the last word. His disposition, language, and actions at the altar revealed Von's true character and his sentiments towards Trina and her family. We are witnessing verbal and emotional assault with an additional charge of gaslighting. No ring. No compassion. No empathy. No touch. No support. I hope you two seek marriage counseling to save your union, and Trina may need AA to address the "why" of her drinking. May God and the Ancestors surround and support you. Ase. ❤
I think that Von doesn’t understand grief. She was married to Gabe all those years. He should understand that she still had love for him despite the troubles that they may have experienced 😢
@@kmurray559 , I think he does understand grief, but it’s quite obvious that his feelings are priority. Von is selfish and stubborn and it’s obvious that she’s been dealing with his behavior for a long time; as women, we must take care of ourselves. Trina, no disrespect but please research narcissism.😳
@@jenonthemic Right!! And just because you've always been a certain way doesn't mean you don't need to change it. Especially if it's hurting someone you say you love.
Not just interrupting. Some people interrupt because they have ADHD or are manic. He deliberately talks down on her when he cuts her short. He wanted to go through comments because he thought they’d be a bunch of Pick Me women but as soon as he realised they were lighting him up, he don’t want the comments no more.
That's your wife not your kid to boss around😏😏😏This Live revealed your true self. Trina Braxton stay away from this man. You cannot ignore those 🚩🚩🚩flags😢😢 We miss that bubbly and funny Trina😂😂You're such a beautiful soul i love you🥰🥰
He is triggering. His narcissistic behavior is concerning. I pray for Trina she is in a no win situation with him. She’s grieving and dealing with an aggressive man that appears to be extremely rude and condescending.
Von is insecure of his self and wants to be heard thats why he takes over on everything. He is a narcissistic person. Gabe was a better person . Trina is to scared to speak out on this issue to him and to all of us. Von is rude, he took over talking and talking over her. She start to talk then he butts in and takes over, than she shuts down and he asks her why is she not talking! GIVE ME A BREAK VON!! She deserves better than him. I wonder if any of her family, Mother, Sisters, and others see all our comments about him and her. If they talk to her about his controlling personality? She needs help! He needs help in a different way! He doesn't care about her feelings nor their viewers feelings and he says it too. Wake up sista and smell the coffee!!
Yessss we all SEE it. She does too but I think she is just trying to make it work. Hate admitting failure again in marriage. Her and Gabes relationship now probably looking way better to her. That’s probably why Gabe’s grief was so strong for her. She loved that man!
He hardly ever let her speak as well,likes attention,but takes attention away from her,this is not going to end well,haven't heard anything as of yet about the episode,we don't know what Trina thinks ever,he makes everything about himself,definitely narcissistic behavior if so she better run for her life.
It’s pretty sad to watch because he didn’t start out this way towards Trina. And, to watch her cater to him, touching and rubbing his leg to calm him back.
He repeatedly beat her down in front of thousands of people and she just took it…and not because he’s jealous of “that guy”, but because he’s never seen or experience exes become platonic friends after a breakup. Gabe is deceased and you’re worried about her love for him. Wow. The justification for tearing her down is alarming. This was so unnecessary and very triggering to watch. I hope you get to see this - Trina you are a light. Always have been. I love watching you on the show. You’re beautiful, funny, and intelligent. You deserve emotional protection and support. You’re in my prayers. 💕
Why is he so defensive, on edge?? Not letting her speak?! Trina, you had a life before Von and he shouldn’t be able to tell you how to grieve and what’s too much. Also, why is he taking over the conversation?? We want to hear from you Trina. Von seems insecure. Trina you don’t have to explain. Your grief is your grief. Why is he reading the comments alone?? Trina should be privy to them as well. Trina you are the star. We love you!! You are strong, important and beautiful.
VON PLEASE watch this video back and observe how you showed up to this conversation! Then go to Dr. Spirit and have a serious chat about it. Take a break from social media as well.
I’m here for Trina but I can’t stay because of her husband. As a DV survivor his tone and demeanor is very triggering to me. The way that he over talks her and dismisses her is definitely a form of abuse and I pray to God in heaven that she see’s that.
I rewatched this with my daughter who is a DV survivor and it was triggering for her within the first five minutes. Trina the signs are all there. RUN 🏃♀️
This is extremely alarming. Trina pls love yourself more than staying in your very toxic marriage. Free yourself. Your voice even trembles when you respond to his nonsense. Let it go.
Trina you showed me that as a man I do not have the capacity to be a submissive woman in this now life or a past life. I would have been cussed this fool tf OUT!!!! STAND UP! STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!!
Von seems to think that saying things in a calm low voice, doesn't make it disrespectful. Believing that Trina should prioritize his "hurt whittle feelings" in the middle of her grieving is nasty work. The gaslighting and overall blanket of disrespect and rudeness was hard to watch. I am not a fan of this guy!
Right! He is disrespectful!!!! He’s giving nice nasty. I’ve had this before and can spot it from a mile away. You feel like a child. She’s such a beautiful soul and he HAS to learn how to speak to her. He won’t see it though more than likely because he said he doesn’t care about what people think about him.
@Lenora1966 wonder if she asked his 1st wife why they divorced. Her history shows she's a bad picker. It's interesting that he even wants to be forefront on the camera.
TRINA - RED FLAG, RED FLAG!!!! VON is over being in the spotlight, so now he is or has been showing YOU who he really is which is not good. LEAVE HIM NOW AND DON'T LET HIM SMOOTH TALK YOU. THIS NINJA IS TOO CONTROLLING!!!! OMG
Maybe Von needs counseling on his own. I don’t like how he’s talking to her. My husband acted the same way after he came home from deployments and I had to let him know real quick; you are not going to talk to me this way. We are a team. Yes you’re the head of this household but this isn’t a dictatorship. I also want to say; they should both probably have a session of counseling in general as it really does help. I want this to work for them, but he’s gonna have to take a look in the mirror and hold himself accountable! He can’t tell her how to grieve!
Wow!!!! He is something else.....TRINA..........wow!!!!!!!I am not feeling this guy at all and he is very disrespectful and condescending to you Trina......BUT IF THATS WHAT FLOATS YOUR BOAT...GOOD LUCK THO!
8:43 If she doesn't want to address something, she doesn't have to. It doesn't matter that she brought it up. She said it was going to be addressed later and you're scolding her like a child?! And his cold "NO!" after she said "Do it again" was so hateful. She can't even be herself. He is unbearable.
Vons energy and the way he talks to her just don't sit right in my spirit. It's almost like she's dimming her fabulous light around him, walking on eggshells. Makes me sad to not see that bubbly energy that we all fell in love with. Trina has always been my favorite and she deserves nothing but peace and happiness esp after all she's been through.
Trina is by nature a free spirit but she keeps getting into relationships with unhealed men who are just different versions of her father. This man seems so old and restrictive. Her opposite. She should do the commentary by herself.
Hit it right on the head!! He dims her light and she cannot be herself around him, it annoys him. I'm trying to find out what these "solid qualities" he talks about having. Yes I don't know him but he's unbearable and disrespectful
This was VERY HARD to watch, Von!!! You were AWFUL towards your wife! You don’t EVER need to get on the air treating her like this! The CONSTANT interruptions and BELITTLING was BEYOND immature and was ABUSIVE. YOU need therapy! Trina, you are so much better on the air WITHOUT him and are LOSING VIEWERS bc of him. He has some serious issues that shouldn’t be resolved with an audience. Once resolved, it’s good to share and help others. Schedule that therapy appointment ASAP, Von! You’re going to lose a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN if she isn’t allowed to be her AUTHENTIC SELF. You don’t have the right to shut her down. Deal with your issues, Man.
This really hurts my heart to see how he treats Trina. He talks to her like she's less than and you can just see that she has adapted to this unacceptable behavior. It's not a job interview, she can go at any pace she wants to on HER channel, about HER show! I feel disgusted, this is absolutely narcissistic behavior. I knew since he appeared on the show it was just something about him that rubbed me the wrong way but of course I do not know him but if he can talk to her like this on social media in front of thousands, WHILE LIVE, I can only imagine how he acts in private and this just solidified everything I felt about him. No matter what he talks about, he just has this malicious tone behind his voice and in his mind, whatever he says is 100% correct. Yes, even though we do not know him personally, there is no justifying this churlish and condescending behavior from him! Trina I am praying for you, you do not deserve this kind of man or even this treatment from ANYONE, especially with everything you're dealing with. You need peace, not to be bullied, mistreated and talked down to like you're just there to take up space on the couch. It's beyond disrespectful, it's just downright nasty energy. Please take care of yourself Trina.
This is disgusting….like wow!!! Trina is going through a lot more than grieving, this husband is not good. She’s literally grieving even filming these recaps and the way he’s so dismissive and not even letting her talk. This is narcissistic behavior and the lack of a relationship they have with their father shows in the men they’re picking. Very hard to watch. 😅
Everytime Trina talks he interrupts her to say something that has nothing to do with what she's talkinh about. Why tf did you interrupt her to talk about your nails? He's so irritating
How in the hell is this narcissistic guy is going to measure your grieving process for the father of your children and your sister? He's got some nerve! Trina, this guy doesn't like or respect you. Seems like you're walking on eggshells. There's no care in his voice toward you. He's controlling your grieving process. And is very rude dismissive, disrespectful, mentally and emotionally abusive. You are worthy of marital friendship, kindness, respect and true love. You deserve better, Trina. Too many red flags.
@@KrystolCowart Take the blinders off girl. Everyone can see she is in an emotional abusive relationship with this man. He shuts her down every time she speaks by interrupting. So easily unnerved by anything she says that he doesn’t agree with and doesn’t take any accountability. Chastise her like a child. Says he always have been aggressive, that’s who I am. 🤔These are narcissistic qualities RUN 🏃♀️ Trina RUN. If he does this on a public platform like this Lord only knows how he treats her behind closed doors. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
God is working on getting you out of this toxic relationship Trina, you most likely know what’s about to happen before it happens. It may take some time on your end because you haven’t found your worth yet. You attracted this selfish man knowing you weren’t healed properly. He’s doing his job to make you feel as uncomfortable as possible you might ignore the signs but not for long. You can’t blame him for his behavior either because this is what you have allowed you believe this is what love is supposed to look like and it’s not love at all this man hates you.
I'm praying Von looks at these comments & do some self evaluation. The majority of the viewers are saying the same thing about him. Stop cutting her off. Stop talking down to her. Be respectful of the space she's in emotionally & mentally even if you've never seen it experienced it before. Just bcuz you were raised aggressive don't mean you have to remain that way. We all grow into better human beings. Don't be aggressive with your wife. Von was not tuned into the live until he had to talk about Trina's grieving process. Indirectly, he did judge how she grieved bcuz he compared it to her sister's passing. There is so much Trina wanted to say & it was evident on this live. Von DO BETTER! Seek individual therapy bcuz this live spoke volumes about who you are, your thoughts & your character.
Verrrrrry uncomfortable and awkward. Von, you don't have to say EVERYthing that comes to your mind. It's almost like treating Trina like she's a child correcting every other thing she says. There's "a time to be silent and a time to speak" (Eccl. 3:7b).
That man doesn’t love you, it’s clear to me , why? He is disrespectful and isn’t protecting Trina. He made it his mission to act passive aggressive. Trina you deserve better ❤
