Disagree with ‘learn to dance to charm the girl ’ ! 😂 being your authentic self is far greater than pretending to do things to impress others when it doesn’t resonate with your personality ! Being yourself is priceless. Love to walk in nature, it’s most enriching, if you wish to join , you are welcome or alternatively find the guy to dance , I am happy walking the journey by myself ❤😀.
Female like dance because they can se how well you can play a game and feel how other feel. To dance feel you need to feel you partner and have a game with her or him. This also shows that you can do everything in life better with other people.
I would describe charisma as "something that oozes or reaches out from a person and pulls other people in". A few things that I think always have to be there for a person to be charismatic are 1- being comfortable in oneself, 2- being positive, 3- being balanced ( I think there is a level of effort that goes into charisma, which is learned for the greater part, but the effort should appear 'effortless', lest the whole effect is lost. Trying too hard within one's natural set of skills and inclinations isn't charismatic; it's obnoxious), 4- being authentic and probably having at least one thing that is unique to one and makes one stand out. Some things that I think are charismatic are, in no particular order: - Body language : inhabiting your body and space fully and comfortably - Eye game : communicative eyes can, I think, do so much to build rapport - A gorgeous smile : is someone's heart and soul saying 'hello'... - Dress just right: underdressed reads as slobbish and apathic; overdressed, as self-important and deceiving. "Thoughtful but relaxed", reflecting your authentic self and appropriate for the setting, without going overboard. - Smelling nice, but not for anyone more than 2-3 yards away... ;) - Pleasant voice at appropriate decibel level : always whispering reads as weakness and unsureness, but shouting unnecessarily is inconsiderate and aggravating - Asymmetrical body positioning : the figure 4, resting one arm over the couch back, leaning to one side as one talks to someone, all convey a relaxed, comfortable state - Stubble and slightly unkempt hair : you shave... but didn't this morning; you did your hair... this morning and didn't fret checking it since... ;) - Facial quirks : the cheeks dimples that appear when you smile, eyes that close to slits when you laugh, that almost comically deep frown that makes you look like a grumpy baby rhino (...you'd be surprised how many men check that one... ;) )... - Friendly touches : convey friendliness and feeling at ease - Something unique about your look : long hair, glasses, tattoos... - A unique skill - artistic : playing an instrument, dancing, singing... - A unique skill - physical: a healthy, performant body - Elegance : carrying oneself well, being considerate of others and their feelings... - Drive and enthusiasm... Or cool calm and collected. ;) ... And probably as many more as I have listed. ;)
“I can joyfully live with or without you. I choose the pleasure of your company though “. Girls danced for me and never had to turn myself into a peacock to impress them !
Show compassion. I once knew a guy who was coerced into joining his girlfriend's "period of mourning" when her goldfish died. She even held a funeral ceremony for it. I kid you not. Needless to say, he later ran for the hills.😂
@@outlawsix1322 I'm playing the smallest fiddle for you. Obviously you're doing something wrong and you're expecting something just because you're taking them out for dinner.
@@Joyanima soo sorry loveley anna joyanima. cuzzy rory is back in the comments section now as idk just got back home now etc too watching your vids today. for saturday 21st off janaury 2023
