Hence proved by the podcast, Men are second class citizen in India irrespective of caste, creed or religion. Thank you Indian Judiciary, Indian Parliament and Indian Politicians.
Maybe they know. Maybe they choose to ignore it because it way easier for the system to avoid the hassle of taking care of a woman and her lifestyles. Besides, any movement related to children and women get more public support.
Divas..... Bring Deepika Narayan Bhardwaj..... In another podcast.....of the same topic....She is handling many false cases accusing men...... Hope it will help ur audience....
Please stop searching for a woman who is good at home making skills.... Please be self dependent, khud se sb kuch krna seekho........ Don't depend on your future wife ki vo ayegi ghr sambhalegi Or achi mother bnke bachcho ko palegi....
Exactly women should also stop milking mens for money and try to earn themselves to avoid any money profits at time of divorce ...... equality is a round game @@Shalini7448
Thanku so much sir for bringing such topic which is the bigger problem in current time.... Sadly i am also goin through the same ....and very correctly relate....there is lot of pain and no solution... I just pray that very frequent podcast from different public figures... these issues are reignited ...and a pressure is created for fair justice and early change in laws🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Quotes are not extortion fraud approving centres in the name of maintenance and alimony. The litigants and also the judges themselves should keep this thing in their minds while dealing in matrimonial cases. Quotes are there for justice and not to give maintenance to all litigants in General. Quotes must not promote narcissistic tendencies and paracytic attitude of women in that way. Today’s society is different from earlier times. Today there are more employment opportunities for women than men and men. Women are considered equal. So quotes must change their habit of giving maintenance in general to women just because they are women.. neither the language nor the spirit of the law says that maintenance should be based on the lifestyle of the spouse. But it has been made so by the pseudo feminists so-called legal experts crept in the law ministry and quotes. Because if lifestyle is made base of maintenance, then the marriage institution will be started to be seen as source of wealth mine only by the greedy people. How can the legal system of a benevolent enlightened democracy can promote the fraudulent tendency of the greedy people? So only and only the reasonable basic need should be granted to the spouse for maintenance of life or leave the relation with adjustment or start earning on her own. Equal status, equal status, equal status is nothing but illegitimate fraudulent greed of the greedy people. In today’s society, the self centricity or narcissistic tendency or love to live independently in full comfort zone has increased enormously. In this situation, female tendency to leave the partner and leave independently in her own comfort zone without any adjustment upon exploited income from husband is also increasing. Quotes and lawmakers/legal system must not promote these tendencies among women. Quotes must get read of the jurisprudence. Which says wife is the responsibility of husband. For young ladies, there is no dearth of job in modern time. If at all any maintenance is to be given to unemployed spouse, it should be based on the primary reasonable need of the spouse and not greed of the spouse.
Women often talk about men having all the power, money, and control, oppressing women. However, it is important to note that this perception confuses a small percentage of wealthy men with the majority of men who struggle. Most men have no money, no power, no sex from their wife, and face difficulties in court battles, even losing their homes and the chance to see their children. Their lives are challenging. The truth is - ~When a man earns he takes the responsibilities of family. When an women earns she becomes independent. ~When a man earns he may pick a no-earning women and makes her life-partner. When a woman earns she reject a men. ~A strong man can pick broken women and make her life strong. Strong women don’t look after broken men. While men share money, properties on divorce....but women share nothing...this is our well educated law makers we believe in. if a men denies then it's man fault and he is torturing women. But If a women Denied then it's her right and any kind of force will be considered as rape of women.
Hitesh Gupta one of most ruthless lawyer in Vadodara Gujarat The civil Judges are hands-in- glove with him He has a BROTHER who is a civil judge He has never gone to school
Very informative video . False allegations should be punished more strictly . ❤. Don't see gender . Just see the truth and cases should be decided on merits.🎉
Women deserve alimony because her fertility is for limited amount of time. If you are completely ignoring this crucial point while discussing about alimony right, then you are not discussing maturely. Also in Indian society, concepts like virginity, heir , divorcé women etc. exist. Therefore,women find it very difficult to freshly start their lives after getting divorced.
1.9% Muslims have more than 1 wife, 1.3% Hindus have more than 1 wife. So now speak whethe there's any difference between having multiple wives of Hindus or Muslims. Get out of Whatsapp and get some wisdom brother. Managing a single wife is so difficult, takes so musch efforts, you have to work night and day, how can most men afford having multiple wives. Islam just limits this: you can't have more than 4 wives. But this is not the norm. Only 1.9% Muslims have two or more wives and 1.3% Hindus.
In couples life when love is replaced by Liar's , That marriage cannot be saved Guys chill karo ,go get married , If u are born & raised in Cosmo cultural Go to tier 1 or villages see how family functions Nobody is perfect neither our values ,what is perfect is our community living We live in community & support eachother
i personally know a women , who and her mother did a planned marriage with a rich dads son , just to clear off her dad's shop loan, and get a lot of jewellery a off court settlement . also a know a women ( didi) who supported her husband , so did her husband throught their life , - i dont wanna conclude anythingh , but i just shared my views , im a 20 yr old guy
Quotes are not extortion fraud approving centres in the name of maintenance and alimony. The litigants and also the judges themselves should keep this thing in their minds while dealing in matrimonial cases. Quotes are there for justice and not to give maintenance to all litigants in General. Quotes must not promote narcissistic tendencies and paracytic attitude of women in that way. Today’s society is different from earlier times. Today there are more employment opportunities for women than men and men. Women are considered equal. So quotes must change their habit of giving maintenance in general to women just because they are women.. neither the language nor the spirit of the law says that maintenance should be based on the lifestyle of the spouse. But it has been made so by the pseudo feminists so-called legal experts crept in the law ministry and quotes. Because if lifestyle is made base of maintenance, then the marriage institution will be started to be seen as source of wealth mine only by the greedy people. How can the legal system of a benevolent enlightened democracy can promote the fraudulent tendency of the greedy people? So only and only the reasonable basic need should be granted to the spouse for maintenance of life or leave the relation with adjustment or start earning on her own. Equal status, equal status, equal status is nothing but illegitimate fraudulent greed of the greedy people. In today’s society, the self centricity or narcissistic tendency or love to live independently in full comfort zone has increased enormously. In this situation, female tendency to leave the partner and leave independently in her own comfort zone without any adjustment upon exploited income from husband is also increasing. Quotes and lawmakers/legal system must not promote these tendencies among women. Quotes must get read of the jurisprudence. Which says wife is the responsibility of husband. For young ladies, there is no dearth of job in modern time. If at all any maintenance is to be given to unemployed spouse, it should be based on the primary reasonable need of the spouse and not greed of the spouse.
It’s just the world we are living in, my friend. There are good people, then there are bad. Since you’re 20, I hope you now know how to deal with such situations.
We Need To Change Our Legal System Cause Of Our Constitution Can't Make & Write Any Law For Mens Only. Unfortunately,Our Whole System Is Fully Currupted 😢 . Thanks @divasgupta1 Brother For Making a Awesome Podcast With AOR.Amish Agrawala Sir 🙏🏻❤️.I Think It Podcast Help Others Like Mine.
Lawmakers, judiciary, women centric NGOs and women commission have to understand that consent is consent. That act cannot and cannot be termed as rape if done with consent. No woman is that full that she doesn’t understand sexual relation. Secondly fulfiling biological/psychological need that too with consent, due to whatsoever reason cannot be so cruelly criminalise as 10 years of imprisonment. is it too much and too much. It seems the state is totally unwarranted Lee and superfluously unnecessarily entering in the personal space of the people. How can this state and judiciary determine and consider it as so cruel punishment bigger than crime of looting the money of someone after breaching the promise and then inflicting the fatal injuries to a person. Even in such heinous crimes, also such big punishment is not given. Is sex, means exchange of pleasant sensation, so big crime then mentioned here?
forget about that bro. most of the men only focusing in that laws. but what about POCSO ? noboby is talking about. suppose if both minors gets physical only the boys is punished upto 20 years. how can a mior boy who is same age as he girl ca be the preditor when its consenual ? its truly disheartning.
Only if done without consent is it a crime. But with 74% fake rape cases filed every year, I think the focus should now be towards a thorough investigation of the case before blaming someone. Don’t you think?
@@divasgupta1 Lol No, read the POCSO law properly. it clearly says, if two minors or adolescents get physical then only the boy is punished under POCSO even tough the boy himself is a child and the law created to protect children. few years ago a 13 year old boy graped by her own 16 year old sister then the minor victim boy jailed. indian laws are worse than talibani laws.
@@divasgupta1 i was molested by a teenage girl when i was 5th standard. if i were registered the complaint i would be arrested instead of her. because under POCSO only girl is considered child. taliban laws seems less cruel to me.
After a long time I watched long podcast.... Very interesting and very rude legal system for men.. I always have the same questions which the host had, I got the answers today and today onwards I am muted 🤐. Very informative podcast. Though I lost track in some conversations, and some information left on us to do research.😂... I am interested in doing a LAW for corporate... hopefully I will do . Thanks Again for this podcast.
Marriage should be based on Trust , Respect, loyalty and Happiness with The Partner.. .. Not At Money, Beauty, Family,child , etc. .. It has to be secondary.. After that marriage is never to a problem
You an boycott anything but it wont change anything the best thing that can be done is a petition to pass law that can make sure that if woman want to take advantage of any law then they should get punished.
Wife maintenance petition dismissed case judgement Delhi High court judgement KN VS RG based on Mamta jaiswal vs Rajesh jaiswal MP High court. Sunil Kumar vs Santosh Delhi High court judgement based on Mamta jaiswal vs Rajesh jaiswal
Let’s face it guys..it’s the lawmakers who have made these gender biased laws in India. And who are the lawmakers? The politicians we vote for. So think carefully the next time you vote. The way things are going, marriage as an institution is going to end, followed by civilisational decline.
People who perpetrate sexual offences or cause emotional harm using relationships, irrespective of gender..should be dealt with a very firm hand.. issue is..our legal system is struggling with cases galore..and justice delayed is justice denied..the process then becomes the punishment.. Affairs gone wrong need to be addressed in economic terms..rapes are getting more and more brutal.. patriarchy is a huge factor.. society needs to change n the change has to start from rhe family..soend more time with the children and less on screens .
I know a neighbor boy who had to leave his native home few years back. He scared returning home to avoid any false case by his relatives since they had property disputes. His old parents still stay in native, while boy now plans to settle in metro and probably never visits even during festivals. Sorry state of Indian men.
If in laws place wife has no right, no need to serve them either, what is the return for ur time or use of leaving parents and being with husband...as parents age lady is not available for them nor getting anything at hub home ,this is also injustice....at least some kind of right she deserves..... I feel women had more rights before these laws came into existence...
What right she doesn't have...u bull shit... Do a fake dowry case....take forceful divorce...and enjoy alimony... Your retirement plan. Or else become randy..😂😂
Women have every right yes even if women abuse men then also there is no law to punish in those false there are plenty of men who are actually victim if domestic voilence.
Maintenance should be granted because Dowry still exists in the society. Jewelleries are still kept with the in-laws, women are still cheated on by their husbands, mentally torchured, not allowed to be financially independent. Please don't give examples of very wealthy 1% Indian community for divorce. Reality is most women in India are earning and handling family and if they don't deserve true love and respect then men do deserve punishment
its really need of this kind of podcast, if couple is divorced and man start giving money and what ever she demand, but what about his 2nd marriage thought and how he manage his life if he will get re-married, its not possible to manage all the expenses, whatever he is earning lower middle or upper class we are all in same expense ratio as life style changes. Asking Lumpsum money is like fashion now days, its hard to sumup money for man, and manage stay buy flat everything just for marriage planning. You can see mostly single boys are living in PG or sharing apartment and save money for future wife through which he can give comfort and took loans of long years tenure. what about all this.???..
I have successfully invested my time in this video. I wish Amish Bhai to become The Judge and give some judgements which will make greedy womens to think thousand times before filling false cases.
Thank you so much to both of you from bottom of my heart i really really learn a lot of things that I'll remember for the rest of my life and cleared many many things that i thought to be true but the thing is that i should not be and now I am mostly not going to blame the Indian Constitution or laws of india for all the things and problems coz it was continuously improving for the weared Or difficult cases happening day to day and is can kind of make a cobweb for a lot of people to overcome and a lot will tangle in it but which maybe a lot can be solved with some or a lot adjustment or improvements but it is due to the cases that are presented in the courts so they can't do much about it too they have to do their work the thing that has to be changed or improved is actually understand and point if view society Also I learn about not to take the burdon of others on yourself by putting yourself in their shoes instead you have to draw a line between both of you and then you will be able to help them better and help yourself too I personally understand that. I thank you guys again please have a nice life to all of you 🙏🙇😊☺❤
Thank you for such insightful podcast. I watched the entire thing and it was such critical and good information. But with this info and relating it to current scenario i would also like to mention that it is the lawmaking system itself that is pushing the current generation to not have long lasting relationships. Becuase the power at one hand is so much that it automatically make them think of ways they can win. I mean its a genral human tendency. I have heard in some podcast that "for making a law the most weaker section of the society should be considered because that's where the problem lies". But in this age of globalization and with internet and tech availible to almost all calsses, shouldn't the laws now be modifed ? Because that weaker section is only maybe 10% and rest 90% are suffering because of that 10% ? It would in many be a political decision as well and the role of politicians here has to be massive. We should be talking about it on bigger stages hland how much of an issue the current system has made for the future genrations and for marriges to sustain in genral. Last but not the least, Prenup should be legal!! It is the deamnd of the hour and why not if we are already discusssion even about money in that prenup. Because then it is clear for both the parties as to what they are getting into and so would they marry.
@@divasgupta1boss, 80% of divorces are initiated by women (globally). And laws in India favour women. Put these two together, and if you marry the wrong person, your life is finished.
Hey, divas I am first time listening to you podcast. I have an advise for you please don't comment too much . Just ask questions... we are here to listen to the host not you. At 32:34 I got frustrated. And this not a criticism. Please take it as an advice.
Only if you're not influenced by others opinion and happy with your own company, well, i'm the one who doesn't care about others opinions and enjoy my own company and don't have a desire of marriage because of these pathetic laws 👍
Divas was stupid enough to cut short Amish flow of information while he was telling about a mistake guys make that lands them in trouble.its such a critical information which Amish was sharing for free.Divas has zero literacy of laws and cases against men,else he wouldn't have interrupted Amish at such crucial juncture. That's why a good podcaster should always do thorough study about the subject his guest is about to speak.lot to learn for divas.he definitely isn't the best podcaster. But good thing is that Divas Has expressed good concern about things going against men because of biased laws. The problem is that guest us lawyer so he will never speak up against biased laws as he has to gain female client age as well..90% times these liers only make girls aware of how to file false cases.
Lawmakers, judiciary, women centric NGOs and women commission have to understand that consent is consent. That act cannot and cannot be termed as rape if done with consent. No woman is that full that she doesn’t understand sexual relation. Secondly fulfiling biological/psychological need that too with consent, due to whatsoever reason cannot be so cruelly criminalise as 10 years of imprisonment. is it too much and too much. It seems the state is totally unwarranted Lee and superfluously unnecessarily entering in the personal space of the people. How can this state and judiciary determine and consider it as so cruel punishment bigger than crime of looting the money of someone after breaching the promise and then inflicting the fatal injuries to a person. Even in such heinous crimes, also such big punishment is not given. Is sex, means exchange of pleasant sensation, so big crime then mentioned here?
If a man is treating and loving his wife or partner why would the wife seek divorce! Why would women live with men who mistreats and cheats on her. Women definitely deserves alimony, if she's bein mistreated and cheated on.
Why don't she earn... Always depends on others even after having capabilities.. Even after treating well many women leave their loved ones shamelessly...
Ans to first question -she may be having extra marital affairs. She wants to leave her husband and wants to live with her bf.she is going to leave husband. Why not take alimony along with that?
@@ramkrishna2698even after earning money and taking care of her in laws house many women are treated very badly..they are supposed to do all the household chores by herself and that costs her own health...any solution for that?
Even though answers were spectacular but the questions asked were not up to the mark … I think the one who is asking questions should have more wide knowledge and mind set . The podcast should be about victims and the culprits but not about male or female… you need to do more research into the topic before sitting in front of microphones
Well all the necessary laws made for women where definitely need of the hour, but how easily these are misused is really a serious concern for Indian society. I wish someday, group of women from society should take up this initiative to amend unfair laws against men because Men alone will never stand up and ask for their rights or injustice happened to them. But whole society certainly come together if anything wrong goes against women. No innocent whether men or women undergo the pain/ trauma of false allegations.
Dont you guys think ki agar alimony ya maintenance wala system rokna hai toh girls ko govt aur private job main reservation milna chahiye , aur cheating ko crime declare hona chahiye
A three star police family assaulted me and their family woman hit me and framed rape in police station, if u don't pay 1.50 lakhs we will put rape case, and threatened my father to pay , owing to threats my father paid 50 thousand
You should have let him speak more when he was talking about the mistakes husbands make during trial. That was a mistake by you. The questions asked were very good though ✌️
So the easiest and best way is to stay & build Groups; so that if anyone falsely files a case against you; they know the consequences; Your street where 100+ people live would be enough! The only issue; this can turn chaotic sometimes if unchecked!
