Brigadier General Dr. Wallace Williams has an interesting take on how the institution of marriage stopped working #GrinContent / dr_kingori / kingoridr
If you are raised by a responsible father, the one unique thing he gives you is to become independent. He does not expect anything from you. My Dad was a single father and he trained us exactly like this men❤❤❤
Discussing everything before marriage doesnt help if you are getting married to a Narc.They are always on a love bombing mission so they will agree to everything and anything .Just know what you want in marriage and observe the other person's behaviour if it matches with what you are looking for.
Hahahaa those daemons will tell you everything you want to hear and sweep you off your feet! One topic the video failed to mention. My sister was killed by a Narc in the U.K. He had just been promoted, so not like he wasn’t as successful as she was, he was jealous of her beauty and feared the work colleagues will make moves on her. He even wanted to run over their work colleagues and asked someone to spy on her. She was innocent and many men in the U.K. kill not only cos they lost their jobs, they are jealous of their wives successes when these women are self made, and many more reasons. These are weak men who can’t cope in the west, even when wealthy! The police who dealt with my sisters case said it was very common for our African men to kill their wives. 🥴
Please do brother. Some of us men take these decisions in our minds daily but never walk out of toxic marriages to our early graves. And i promise you,there are many of us
For real, all what he said is very true, we not need to rush , into what we don't know, having unplanned kids, before wen we had arranged marriages in Africa the rate of single mums was very low, and the society was so disciplined
Wisdom Wisdom Wisdom... This is the Day today Message our generation Needs to hear.... Listen to people like him, you'll live long and healthy in this world.
With unhealthy relationship with yourself, Your partner becomes a requirement, a condition for you to feel good about yourself, for you to feel complete. And even when you get the person now, there's all the paranoia about losing that person. And then subtlely and most of the time unconsciously, manipulation will kick in to try to keep that person there, or to try to keep that love coming your way. A relationship is not you complete me , fuck that. It's two people that are whole coming together and synergy happens.
Many women do everything for their children,paying fees, buying shoes,e.t.c. More women are in loveless marriages,so as to maintain an image. Personally,a marriage without genuine care or friendships doesn't flourish , it might work but it will have a missing element .
Guidebook written by our loving creator explains it all. Deep respect for husband and love wife as own body and worship God together. Simples. Ephesians 5:33❤🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Traditionally marriage should not or had nothing to to with materials. As we know we have traditional belief, religious belief and atheism which all have a part to play in marriage. The surprising truth is the arranged marriages last longer than the rest, this is because people marry their cousins or other well known and respected family members. The table is turning now this is due to the world businesses, competition and educational standards. People become selective, careful and have thoughtful approach when come to engage in marriage or who to marry. Sadly materialism has widely put great pressure on both males and females in such a way that no one would easily adapt your seduction unless you are either a successful person, famous or very wealthy indeed.
Hapo kwa skills ni ukweli, sahizi am benefitting from the skills i learnt ,those days i thought i was learning something to pass time but skills are paying
An arranged marriage is a transaction…and the children who you marry off are just the currency. It’s a way of maintaining power and status … but at the expense of what? Throughout Africa I see it a lot. People are being pressured by their parents to find someone and have kids … even when they don’t want to. So they find someone, have a kid or two and then they go on with their lives. Many young people aren’t even interested yet in family planning, but they feel forced into it by their parents … so, it doesn’t last because after they have satisfied their parents desire to be grandparents, now they can finally move on with their own lives.
Good advice but for a few ears to hear , the best place for such guidance in relationships is in schools from high school all the way to university and colleges,coz how many hv data or smart phones to get to hear this, very few, coz times now no parents hv advice like this to there teenagers or youth , all think it’s love or nothing
Bringing rules even in love, jameni. It's a boring life to live. Come-on. Anyone who has experienced love in any degree will know this should be taken with a pinch of salt. Obviously, take care of the person you are marrying but being fixated on all these rules. Wueeh wueeh. Wueeh. Life is for the living. 😅 Anyway .
Love alone cannot sustain a marriage, I know of many who were madly in love when the got married but are now divorced or separated. Marriage is a bit complex and there are a lot of factors one needs to consider apart from the "puppy love." These factors are finances, religion, cultural background, sexual/health history, values, future goals and aspirations. Marriage is not a vacation, you gotta be intentional and put in the work for it to be successful.
@@SimbaMpasuaMiamba. I agree with you. All your are saying is true and very key. All I am saying is , bearing all that in mind make sure you are in love and you actually like this person you will navigate all these complexities with. A person you can enjoy life with, laugh, and have a good time. We are here for a season, lets make it count.
Please with all due respect the ratio of women to men the guest mentioned is wrong. I just googled it 😅, it’s rather 50.25 men and women are 49.75😂. Please google it for yourself
Your problem is that you're trying to prove "him" wrong instead of understanding what is being said,and unfortunately you got the concept wrong. Women!
Many people don't know that if in marriage values are not negotiated beyond the "legs" shenanigans, that relationship is doomed. Both parties MUST be intentional in deliberating on what each party brings to the table. Sex benefit or as a marriage convenience factor is a milage. Sex satisfaction you can get it out there to your fill but a serious uniting bond must be identified. Men are often abused by using legs as a bargaining tool for exploitation to oblivion. Marriage must be a win win partnership. Nothing more or less. Men be wise guys.
But if you get satisfied outside home,,very often,the spouse spends less n less time together,the marriage will seem to be working but is lacking in a key element.
If your blueprint is not in the word of God U will ALWAYS LOSE! A man shall leave his father and mother and CLEAVE unto his wife! And they become ONE flesh ! if your mindframe of thinking is TWO , U already out of order!
Global statistics indicate the ratio of men to women is almost 1:1 same for Kenya...1:15 is wild, lets learn to actually get credible data from credible organizations not peddling myths.
