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The danger of instant gratification | Jesse Weinberger | TEDxUrsulineCollege 

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This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. In her very witty and powerful talk, Jesse Weinberger calls us to recognize the dangers of technology in the lives of our children.
Jesse Weinberger is a nationally recognized Internet Safety expert, speaker, and author. Since 2003, Jesse has been presenting to parents, students, teachers, and school districts all over the United States. As a respected expert and leader in this field, she is frequently sought out by media, educators, administrators, and law enforcement for guidance on how to manage and improve the digital lives of children - from pre-school to college. Jesse is the author of The Boogeyman Exists: And He’s In Your Child’s Back Pocket.
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Комментарии : 101   
@soccerboy7112
@soccerboy7112 3 года назад
“Create a human being who gives more to the universe than that which they take”
@ginamessina7547
@ginamessina7547 10 лет назад
This is a talk we all need to hear - especially parents. Seriously rethinking technology and my daughter's future. Also - Jess Weinberger is hilarious and should not be missed!
@Overnightgeekuniversity
@Overnightgeekuniversity 10 лет назад
Thanks Miss Gina! And thanks again for including me in this amazing event!
@K4113B4113
@K4113B4113 3 года назад
Wow, underrated Ted talk. This woman is so damn cool
@JA-zs2dn
@JA-zs2dn 4 года назад
Fantastic! I have 2 boys who are now 13 and 16, I have never been a believer of the "good job" and" everyone is a winner" mentality. I often get some flack about it. It's nice to hear that what I am teaching my boys is how to bounce back and have grit. I know it has served me well throughout my life.
@adamdownes4725
@adamdownes4725 5 лет назад
“At the end of your feelings is nothing, but at the end of every principal is a promise” Eric Thomas
@katherinejackson1203
@katherinejackson1203 10 лет назад
Shocking yet so informative- all parents and educators should hear!!
@m.spiderman
@m.spiderman Год назад
Focus on the effort and process, not the outcome.
@gordonpaulsen1892
@gordonpaulsen1892 6 лет назад
Excellent talk, very informative and motivating especially "deliberate practice".
@Deepak-ku3uc
@Deepak-ku3uc 5 лет назад
You should focus on the effort not the Result! This is what Lord Shree Krishna told in Bhagwad Gita thousands of years back! Proud to read that so many times ...
@ericcrawford4820
@ericcrawford4820 7 лет назад
This woke me up, Marvelous !
@muhamadishak7809
@muhamadishak7809 2 года назад
are you still waking up?
@raularmas317
@raularmas317 3 года назад
I heard someone once say about doing a really hard (dare I say) near impossible thing to an employee-- don't tell me all the reasons it can't be done. Tell me, better yet show me in as many steps as you like, how it can be done. I believe(with all my heart) this is how the impossible becomes possible.
@bredwhiteblue9804
@bredwhiteblue9804 10 лет назад
YES!!!!!! I HATE that blatant "Good Job". It encourages mediocre goals, and not striving for excellence.
@Lightning-gg5iu
@Lightning-gg5iu 4 года назад
B redwhiteblue I know, very old comment, but don’t you think if someone put a lot of time and effort into their job they shouldn’t be rewarded with a “good job”. Shows you appreciate their hard work
@unapologeticallynarcissist8694
@unapologeticallynarcissist8694 3 года назад
@@Lightning-gg5iu nope they actually need to be disrespected so they work harder.... yup Success is nothing for weak people im sorry snowflake 🤣🤣 go back to your tik toks
@lila-yw2gn
@lila-yw2gn 5 лет назад
Things may not always go our way but it doesn't mean that it must be the end.
@ryanmagiera4402
@ryanmagiera4402 7 лет назад
"I love how you painted every blade of grass individually, that must have taken a lot of time and work"
@unapologeticallynarcissist8694
@unapologeticallynarcissist8694 3 года назад
Bro.... im gonna..... coom
@dudedude2938
@dudedude2938 8 лет назад
ironic how im searching this up
@jellysubmarine
@jellysubmarine 8 лет назад
Teach your kids to withhold gratification so they are more intelligent...but only to make them greater capitalist to have greater "success" and be able to have "more of the pie" thank you ted talks, always so "informative" and "community building"
@jimdandy6205
@jimdandy6205 6 лет назад
I'lll take your slice if you don't want it.
@holyshades6462
@holyshades6462 5 лет назад
@@jimdandy6205I know I'm a year late but man I'm laughing so hard right now.
@hakeemsd70m
@hakeemsd70m Год назад
Capitalism is the birth of instant gratification. Capitalism is destroying our society and our planet.
@renegadeace1735
@renegadeace1735 3 года назад
I think instant gratification is what separates resilient people from un-resilient people.
@JuanDias100
@JuanDias100 Год назад
Amazing value!
@masterchief5437
@masterchief5437 5 лет назад
Find your weakness first, then Consistently and More Often work on that, Volume instead of Instant Intensity = Delayed Gratification
@loslucky
@loslucky 7 лет назад
no chill, zero fucks and pure awesome. She speaks the truth.
@sknbbx
@sknbbx 3 года назад
this should get more views
@moopy6314
@moopy6314 4 года назад
my mom sent me this...im in tears
@rahuldas24oct
@rahuldas24oct 10 лет назад
Just one thing 'Good yaawb'
@samiabdul-wahid6737
@samiabdul-wahid6737 9 лет назад
5:44 Good point there.
@andymath89
@andymath89 5 лет назад
great talk! It should have more views.
@raularmas317
@raularmas317 3 года назад
Deliberate practice: ? The conscious effort to execute the steps or have the self-discipline to play the musical passage slowly, repeatedly and with enough self control that the student stops performing the error and can then integrate the now refined/correctly played passage into the song as a whole?
@jeeezes
@jeeezes 7 лет назад
Brilliant!
@dennykamau
@dennykamau 5 лет назад
i loved this.
@dennisea1221
@dennisea1221 6 лет назад
EXCELLENT!
@khalask
@khalask 6 лет назад
You're right
@ntandokazibaxana7367
@ntandokazibaxana7367 4 года назад
i love this
@Sahfarry
@Sahfarry 5 лет назад
Good job on the ted talk
@Zutang777
@Zutang777 6 лет назад
i'm bored or stressed. let me drink some Alcohol and beer and instantly gratify those. instead of learning how to COPE with your own mind.
@anirudhsinghshekhawat5581
@anirudhsinghshekhawat5581 5 лет назад
Awesome
@heidi6544
@heidi6544 2 года назад
There are wise parents in this world that do not give their children or teens devices that connect to the internet….It’s up to the parents to be parents;)
@alokesh985
@alokesh985 5 лет назад
Check the other ted talk on instant gratification with lesser views. It's better.
@mayurkamble1991
@mayurkamble1991 6 лет назад
What were the names of the books she mentioned?
@formento47
@formento47 10 лет назад
Can someone give me the list of books and authors she mentioned? Thanks.
@jamesram4869
@jamesram4869 7 лет назад
hero
@JasonfromMinnesota
@JasonfromMinnesota 9 лет назад
dot eat the marshmallow yet jaqunie depostata - delayed gratification
@xdquickeststeak705
@xdquickeststeak705 Год назад
who is the nick she is talking about
@finfan7
@finfan7 9 лет назад
She is clearly passionate. Too bad she didn't put any thought into what she was talking about. Most of what she is saying is stuff that has already been said and in the same words. This could have been so much better if she understood the concepts rather than just repeating what she read. Watch the vid if you like but here's what she says condensed (some of which is not very well thought out): Don't let kids do things unsupervised. Don't let kids on the internet. Process is important, not just results. Give your kid(s) a growth mindset. Don't give generic praise for whatever your child does, give specific feedback. Talent doesn't exist. Find some way to teach your kid to strive for something beyond the first hurdle. Raise a kid to become normal by American standards. And here's the ultra-condensed version of all parenting wisdom ever written or unwritten: Pay attention to your damned kids. At all times. You're tired? You're stressed? You want some time to do something for yourself? Too bad. Pay attention to your damned kids. You made them, now you have to train them.
@sihaocong9623
@sihaocong9623 7 лет назад
finfan7 you just want instant gratification of her topic XD
@l0wbtry
@l0wbtry 7 лет назад
Lol, touché :D
@raularmas317
@raularmas317 3 года назад
The sad truth is: No, Parents(despite being uniquely positioned to be the best of all possible teachers) do not have to teach their own progeny. Which is why Simon Sinek has become such a recognized advocate for millennials.
@victoraraoz75
@victoraraoz75 5 лет назад
all the people in all the governments of the world need to be fired and we need to hire more people with this mentality. we're all doing it wrong but we all do nothing about it. we keep going with our insignificant consuming lives
@strongfragilefinance2323
@strongfragilefinance2323 6 лет назад
How do I tell my child no? N. O. why is this even a question??
@DanRichter
@DanRichter 3 года назад
I’m starting to get the idea that they just let anyone who’s willing get up here and address an audience
@suga9470
@suga9470 6 лет назад
Nice...😊
@TackKeyNack
@TackKeyNack 7 лет назад
A lot of subjects are irrelevant for daily lives and career.
@JasonfromMinnesota
@JasonfromMinnesota 9 лет назад
a Ferrari with out breaks
@masterchief5437
@masterchief5437 5 лет назад
Man... I need to get out of the nest/home....Only 3 years till I'm 32
@ioioioiooioioi
@ioioioiooioioi 5 лет назад
Instant gratification is like sugar. But I dont necessarily think that it's a wretched seed demon from the depths of children hearts. She's far too into this instant gratification that it doesn't give any leg room towards anyone who might be guilty of this which is a good percentage of people
@l0wbtry
@l0wbtry 7 лет назад
So my mother is the reason for my infinite loop of graving instant gratification which I can't get rid of.
@sesnic6436
@sesnic6436 6 лет назад
At this point you're responsible for it.. I think
@andymath89
@andymath89 5 лет назад
you can improve if you want. Quit blaming other people for your failures.
@arborn6115
@arborn6115 2 года назад
fixed mindset right there.
@sarcolo3829
@sarcolo3829 4 года назад
me at 12 years old worrying about yr 12 exams and my atar
@christopherandjillianrosco4473
Ironic im watching it on the internet
@RudyTheInternetGod
@RudyTheInternetGod 4 года назад
I believe in the booty but I'm not sure if it's instant gratification or not
@omunitTV
@omunitTV 8 лет назад
NO CHILL
@Delusian
@Delusian 6 лет назад
I hate knowing they could get their point across in 30 seconds, but drag it out to 15 minutes, telling you stuff that's commons sense.
@y2ksurvivor
@y2ksurvivor 5 лет назад
Ironic!
@SDAPOKWd
@SDAPOKWd 8 месяцев назад
Seriously disapprove with what she is saying, name of capitals are indeed useless to know nowadays, algebra too. But theoretical and applied maths, geopolitics, history, or in general all the knowledge that has a logic, needs to be known. But the sole memorisation of isolated information is completely useless, indeed a simple algorithm can do it better.
@MrSvenovitch
@MrSvenovitch 8 лет назад
Just don't have kids...humanity's problems will be over in 100 years tops.
@hyelicious
@hyelicious 8 лет назад
or you mean no more humans lol
@MrSvenovitch
@MrSvenovitch 8 лет назад
Of course, that's implied. Also, no more TED talks, which is a bonus for the universe too
@hakeemsd70m
@hakeemsd70m Год назад
@@MrSvenovitch Wise words.
@robertwright9650
@robertwright9650 10 лет назад
Scientific proof please, peer reviewed, otherwise absolute bullshit.
@m.spiderman
@m.spiderman Год назад
Spitting hard truths.. Use some humour it might be too hard for some..
@MarrowEternal
@MarrowEternal 10 лет назад
She looks like the Therapist from Step Brothers.
@adamfishermen7877
@adamfishermen7877 6 лет назад
Learning useless stuff like history, philosophy, English, math, speech is a complete waste of time and accounts for 20k in net loss. Approximately enough to pay down an 20k home.
@Kidzclubflix
@Kidzclubflix 4 года назад
This lady is not very charismatic. A good talk though none the less.
@playerone2424
@playerone2424 9 лет назад
This women is such a bad public speaker, get to the point, stay on topic.
@AprilMelodyVlogs
@AprilMelodyVlogs 9 лет назад
You just want the instant gratification of her being on topic XD
@sihaocong9623
@sihaocong9623 7 лет назад
Bobby IsMyName so right
@l0wbtry
@l0wbtry 7 лет назад
Lol, touché :D
@acrsclspdrcls1365
@acrsclspdrcls1365 6 лет назад
Bobbie IsMyName you damn right
@andymath89
@andymath89 5 лет назад
and you seem like an instant gratification seeker. Good job!
@matthewwiegmann531
@matthewwiegmann531 7 лет назад
I like the content, but the speaking is pretty sub- par for a Ted Talk
@FifthCoast
@FifthCoast 3 года назад
"Nobody does not not know"? Doesn't that logically decompose into "nobody knows"? lmao
@weetzybat
@weetzybat 7 лет назад
boy youre just a regular polyanna lol
@syedzameerahmed
@syedzameerahmed 7 лет назад
she is just a waste of time, fooled me to waste my time
@xrayonthemove
@xrayonthemove 6 лет назад
Zameer Syed No she's not!
@andymath89
@andymath89 5 лет назад
nope. Probably you just couldn't get the message or your English is terrible.
@ioioioiooioioi
@ioioioiooioioi 5 лет назад
I dont like her stance
@arsenal0095
@arsenal0095 7 лет назад
bs