Every real trans person I’ve been friends with or known in the last 20 years wants nothing more then to just blend in and not stick out unlike the crazies that get attention and today.
All these years even with butch cross dressing, bathroom problems were not a public rampage. I've known lots of people expressing autogynephilia that never transitioned or took hormones. They didn't threaten women.
Old school trans people I've never had an issue with even in the bathrooms because they were respectful and usually just blended in. These hot mess trans activists are woman hating, bitter, mentally ill, gutter rats who want to erase or take over everything female. You can't even enjoy Mothers Day without trans women who have never given birth obnoxiously inserting themselves into it. I don't want them in any of my spaces, sports, and so on! I'm sorry for the old school trans people who will be caught up in the new laws, but these others have taken things too far!
I know an older trans woman named Tracy. She was a man for the vast majority of her life. She waited until her kids were grown and she had the money to transition. She doesn't pass very well, but she has legitimately tried. She still accepts her kids calling her 'Dad' because she IS their dad. I don't understand why anyone would want to take that from their kids.
People can ask for respect when they are offering it in return... Tracy wants to be respected for her transition efforts but she is also respecting that to the kids she's their dad, that doesn't magically change when she adopts a new identity.
maybe cause she is a straight man with a female fetish? theres millions now, theres real trans people who are like 1% and theres trans straight men who are like the 90% these days, all married, with kids, etc
That always hurts me inside to hear I would have given up my desire and all this work and money I had to spend to become a woman and find love and friends I never find it tho as a male and then to hear some one walking away from their wife and kids after so much time is just heartbreaking 💔
I'm a woman. At 17 I had to go through a surgery due to a birth defect, unrelated to trans issues, after which I had to dilate. I'm in 40's now and I still shudder when I think of that excruciating pain. It was torture! And extremely embarrassing. To have my mom put it on TV would devastate me, but they have conditioned poor Jazz to believe that it's ok to expose her intimate details for everyone to see. Also, maybe because Jazz never went through puberty and was not allowed to mature she does not sound nor act her age at all. That poor child was robbed of so much!!
People like you who never watch the show need to shut up about it the technical details about the surgery were covered for years before and after so no, the mother didn’t just “throw it out there”.
The surgery should be outlawed. It's disturbing how many complications there are how many people deal with the same complications, and they keep doing it!!!
Blaire, what you said about your nieces and nephews calling you “uncle” and you being okay with that and you respecting THEM and understanding THEM and their feelings - wow. Mad props to you for that. 👏
When I was 4, I wanted to be a Ninja, when I was 8 I was a tomboy I wanted to be a professional wrestler, when I was 13 i was a typically basic girl who wanted to work with bands, when I was a 15 was a metalhead who wanted to be a doctor, when I was 17 i was a goth who wanted to be a photographer, when i was 20 I was goth turning back to a basic girl wanted to be an artist........Now, I am 30 years old working in tech. I clearly did not know who or what I wanted to be
When I learned Jazz's mother began the transition when Jazz was like 18 months old I was horrified. Jazz didn't even have the ability to consent or have the opportunity to develop and learn who she was! No wonder that poor thing has suffered such deep depression. Her mother absolutely disgusts me
Not to mention she’s being exploited for fame too. Equally as bad as forcing Jazz to transition when she’s an infant. They should let her go through puberty first, and wait till she’s an adult then let Jazz transition. Jazz never had any control of her life. Which is why she said “I just want to be myself” in one video and her mental health is bad.
(Another source: I volunteered at a daycare that takes 6weeks-12 years old; which NONE have ever came up and spoke full words that made sense until 30+ months) My daughter is 17 months old and just learning how to say words that have the Sh- sound. The fact that the child was 18 months speaks volumes that this is MOMS fault. My daughter played with a 20 month old girl today and SHE wasn’t speaking sentences either. So. How did jazz tell mom she felt like a girl ? Seems like mom is the problem and hopefully Jazz’s brain isn’t too fried to sue her mom for child endangerment and put a restraining on her.
@@SirKaeyaStoleThisAccount HIM. HIM. Why would you think this is actually a girl if what their mother did was wrong? If they are a girl, their mother is right.
The two topics Blaires opinion has been most consistent on: 1. children should not medically transition 2. colored hair used to be cool, can it be cool again please, make colored hair great again
@@ankebosing1968They DO but they shouldn’t. Theyre still going through development and learning themselves. If they genuinely feel the same as they continue to grow, being trans and getting surgery is legal. But someone under 18 and ESPECIALLY under 12 are rarely able to decjde what they should do.
@@enchantedgoldrushFucking stop! We understand that they are biological men; However, out of respect for them just say she and her, at the end of the day we know that they are still men.
Harvard accepted her as a student not once, but twice, after she declined to go the first time. They accepted her largely BECAUSE of her being a spokesperson for children transitioning. This is something we need to discuss further.
She DID NOT “decline to go”. She decided to take a gap year because of a mental health crisis and then Covid happened when she was supposed to go back that year.
@@kopykat6843 when you get accepted to college, you often have the option to "defer" for a year. i think that's what she did but i could be wrong. usually though, you'll have to write an essay or something on why you super duper want to go, and do some kind of meaningful work in the interim. she didn't do any of that, so yes, it is privilege. and it's because of her fame. harvard isn't just some amazing school, it's a designer school. a name brand school.
Orgasm is a part of being a human. Orgasm is important, and without it an unsatisfying sex life will affect the rest of your life. So sad. No it’s not weird to think of that. As a parent I want my children to have long, healthy and love filled relationships.
The pressure she must feel to " tow the line" must be overwhelming. If she ever did have doubts or regrets I doubt she'd feel able to voice them. The complications she's had just make me so sad
The fact Jazz didn’t even go through puberty is wild. So no wonder she’s so sad, her hormones are all out of whack. They’re treating her like a science experiment here
Well, she didn't want to go through the wrong puberty, she probably would have killed herself, unless you want kids to die from not getting the care they need?
Yes this! I remember the only episodes I happened to see were when she was trying to get bottom surgery consults and all the doctors were saying like because she didn’t go through puberty her male genitalia didn’t grow properly so there wasn’t enough biological material to work with. It would’ve been extremely complicated. And I remember how sad she was however now I not sure what happened with that
People somehow forget how vital puberty is to reaching a functional adult life... It isn't just the body-the brain NEEDS puberty (actual puberty, with one's own biological symphony of hormones) to develop. There is no substitute.
I thought I was transphobic until I came across you. All I’ve ever seen was people like Jessica Yaniv and the “It’s mam!” woman at GameStop and Lia Thomas… I really felt like these trans women are trying to erase biological women and our experiences growing up as females but then I came across you and soon enough I came across many more trans people like you! And I realized it’s not every trans person. I wholeheartedly respect you
Because leftist gender ideology is messed up. You are “trans” if you feel like the opposite gender. Tomboys are considered trans. A guy wearing a dress is also trans. And you don’t even need to look like the respective gender you feel like. Which is messed up. It’s a loophole for predators to take advantage; claim they’re trans so that prosecutors can’t throw them in jail because punishing trans people is “hateful”. And it’s a relief we have trans people like Blaire who call out this BS, and remind others that not all trans people are crazy leftists and creeps.
@@christinaburke that's literally just a lie, yall are so weird trying to act like libs are these blue haired trolls lmao. there's plenty of left leaning trans women who pass and are beautiful girls
As a biological woman I stand with you. You actually care about us. You talk about the things upsetting us which such empathy or understanding. You under stand being a woman isn’t a costume or an act. Your voice is so important Blair not just to your community but for the whole next generation of young women that all this shit is affecting.
@@noonesishome I found the only way to argue with them without them twisting my words is to be specific but yes I am just a woman and shouldn’t have to state I was born a woman
@@noonesishome she is a biological woman, so yes a woman. she could also say she is a cis woman to better describe the fact that she is not trans. But let's pleaseee stop fixating on terms because they constantly change and the socially acceptable ones today will no longer be tomorrow.
@@terribleterri2738 they’re not saying that they’re explaining how to describe women we shouldn’t need to put any word infront of it. The only time we need something infront is when someone is trans.
Exactly and even if they are victims her mom literally talked about raping her and inserting something in her vagina if her daughter dont do it herself. Is this not sexual abuse? why should i care if shes a victim?
What we are seeing in jazz’s mother is panic. It’s the realization that if jazz is not mature enough to do the after care required of this major surgery, then she was never mature enough to consent and comprehend what it entailed in the first place. It’s the realization that the surgery did more harm than good. It’s the realization that after all is said and done her daughter is still not happy and was this actually worth it? She came through transition with depression, obesity, anxiety, and ongoing dysphoria. There are clips of her post surgery, crying and telling her mother I just want to feel like myself. She doesn’t even know who she is anymore.
Extremely well said!👏Very true on all of that. It's a very sad reality!😢Which is WHY kids SHOULD NOT be allowed cross sex hormones and puberty blockers and affirmative care! It is so wrong! Jazz is ABSOLUTELY the poster child for why kids CAN'T CONSENT! And how UNFAIR it is to that child to advocate for it and allow it! And I'm talking about from the parents to all the doctors, from teachers to the 'community'! They should take a step back and think about the reality and ADMIT that it's wrong instead of going so hardcore that logic goes out the window and they let their pride and advocacy outwiegh their common sense, which I KNOW they all have!
What blows my mind nowadays is that we are literally witnessing child abuse from narcissistic, mentally ill parents that manipulate their kids since they are toddlers to transition and “share” this life via social media and we are literally unable to stop this. Like literally unable, there is nothing we can do to stop this type of horrific child abuse!
Narcissists and psychopaths enjoy being able to show everybody what they are doing to their victim, without anyone being able to stop them. They enjoy showing what they are cabable of.
Why can't parents just let their kids just figure themselves out without parental influence? Is it really that hard to let the kids think for themselves?
I first became aware of Jazz during college when my psychology professor brought up the show. Her takeaway was the same as mine: The show was not about Jazz. It was entirely about a 40yo, unattractive house wife who had a trans child and is milking it to the extreme to capture the fame she could never have. Jazz, meanwhile, is a pretty normal 12yo girl. It was sickening.
Been thinking this since I first heard about Jazz. I wouldn’t be afraid to call it munchausens by proxy because it’s basically a textbook case. Narcissistic, attention-seeking mother who’s living through her child and fiends for the control and attention they receive through them. She’s been abusing Jazz since the day he was born. I hate to say it, but there’s no hope left at this point. Jazz’s mother ruined his life completely for her own selfish reasons, and sadly I bet she loves that. Jazz’s death would only give her more attention
Well according to the libs a unborn baby isn’t a individual human it’s just a parasite that’s part of the mother. Jazz mom never let that theory go. She decided jazz was going to be trans and now the whole world is watching the nightmare of that choice
Also "emotional incest" a mother's obsessive control of their son-husband. Usually absentee father but I guess they can still make their child emotionally responsible for their well-being. In. A way she's the reason why Jazz doesn't date. The son husband guilt of replacing mom
The orgasm thing is wrong, I'm a cis woman who can't orgasm during sex Edit: Leave me alone. I'm Autistic, stop trying to bully an Autistic person who has actually been diagnosed with Autism. You all should be ashamed of yourselves, you sad lonely people
@@AutisticKittyStar It is not the same thing. Of course some "cis" women can't experience orgasm, but in most cases, yes. While for Jazz it is the fact that people has undergone barbaric operations to a perfect health and young person, And because of that, no more orgasm.
Jazz will never be able to regret being transitioned because she has no idea of what it would have been like to have been a normal male. She has nothing to compare her trauma to. What her parents did to her is horrific.
Its crazy that the "aftercare" for the surgery is literally Cope Seethe and Dilate. Cope because it isnt what they promised. Seethe because you paid thousands for a medical horror. And Dilate because its already too late to stop.
i am so grateful that my mother never enabled my trans identity at 13 because i wasn't genuinely trans, i was reacting emotionally to childhood abuse. i didn't feel safe in my body as a female, and subconsciously, watching my peers identify as trans, it felt safer to be male. had i been allowed to transition as a teenager i would have been robbed of so many experiences and quite possibly wouldn't be here today. transitioning is an adult decision. our kids need to be kids. i think we also need to talk about the mental illnesses that impact the social contagion. i wasn't diagnosed with BPD until my early 20s, and given the rise in trauma it also makes sense that there would be a rise in BPD. those of us w/ BPD are more likely to hop from identity to identity since not knowing our own identity is one of the criteria for the diagnosis.
i have a bunch of labels (got them to rest my mind, and to get help because i live in a country where we can get help) and i was recently diagnosed as bipolar type 1 or 2. i also thought i was trans, but it was from childhood trauma and me being a tomboy when i was younger. i'm almost 20. to add, i thought i was trans because i was a tomboy.
yup, that part. once i underwent years of proper therapy and got on the right medications, my gender dysphoria went away. and studies find that therapy alone resolves up to 98% of cases of gender dysphoria in children. which is exactly why we should not be permanently disfiguring and sterilizing these children. if i had been born just a little later, it would have been me. that's why i fight so hard for these kids. they need someone to help them, not a yes man.
And I had no problems at all, just simply wanted to be a girl since my early days. I played with girls, looked pretty, duh, I have school pictures year after year of me being seated with girls, because photographers thought I am a girl, I was a girl in my thoughts and dreams, I WAS a girl through and through. It all stopped fast when I hit puberty and discovered sex. I still carry many feminine traits and interests, but I am happy as a straight man lol. I wouldn't be myself now, if my parents enabled my delusion.
I believe the reason that Tim was calling for the arrest of her parents is that her Mom was on record stating that Jazz told her at TWO years old that she was trans. No child even knows what that is let alone can articulate that to a parent. So this seems like her mother's choice not Jazz's choice.
@@nicolekalasuva9812 lol and yet Jazz's mom claims jazz when three said "when is the gender fairy going to come and change my penis into a vagina" ..... At THREE!!! And people wonder why others call bullshit lol
Jazz does get a pass, she has had her life destroyed by a mother with Munchhausen by proxy syndrome in my opinion. She will do well if she makes it to 30 and my heart goes out to her.
“She will do well, IF she makes it to 30.” Let’s all pray she does. Her mother clearly suffers from Munchhausens. I pray she’s held accountable for her actions, by law and not by losing a child. I pray she also gets help for mental illnesses. The whole family needs a lot of help and healing.
Yeah, is Jazz actually an adult? She might be in age. However she’s not had any childhood, puberty, adolescence, etc. She’s not had any adult experiences…her mother is talking about shoving dilators in her (talk about abuse and trauma!!!! Holy shit!!). I’m not sure her mother will let her grow up and find out who she is, Allow her to have an adulthood… she won’t even allow her to take care of herself. I don’t know if I could do it… I could never be in Jazz’s shoes. But at the same time, Jazz if not a complete monster, has to come to a point in which she realizes how fucked up her childhood was and try to persuade others to try other ways before encouraging them to take puberty blockers/get SRS.
There was the recent video of Jazz crying about how she doesn’t feel like herself in her body and the mom doesn’t even comfort her but basically says “Damn that’s crazy. Sounds like a you problem.”
Dunce Moms know best, when the family dissolves and she loses everything, best believe that woman will take NO RESPONSIBILITY for ANY OF IT! Most likely will blame her child for "exhibiting female behavior" at age 4 Would NOT be surprised if in the next coming years if Jazz survives this that she will be fully discarded by her Family (because dad and golden siblings are SIMP city to her) Then poor jazz who literally never had a chance at a normal or decent life will be left alone , permanently scarred, to take on the world themselves Self indulgent narcissistic cluster b dunce PTA mom. What a horrible slow kill Poor kid
I was a stripper for years. To support an addiction. I wouldn’t have ever done it otherwise. It’s not fun, it’s pimping yourself. It can be scary, it puts you on a collision course with dangerous people, and it doesn’t feed the soul-rather it is draining. I wouldn’t recommend sex work to anyone. It’s the farthest thing from empowering, it takes your power and gives it to others.
You are valuable and beautiful because you are a human being. I hope you are now in a place where you can experience your worth. I hope that you don't place your worth on past decisions and circumstances, but on what you've been able to overcome. I admire you for your ability to speak truth.
@@MegaMilenche She isnt saying that gildedpahen is wrong. Just suggesting that other people might have a different reaction. I have worked escort. And my opinion is in between. I cant see it being empowering. I also dont think its degrading. I think when its work, its just work. I dont think the government has the right to tax it, because then they are the pimp.
Jazz is a 22 year old adult, so talking about the fact that she will never experience an orgasm is no longer weird. THIS is why it's a factor; because kids become adults who will never be able to fully connect with a romantic partner on that level. I feel so sad for her.
OK that makes no sense because the entire point is to discuss the transition of children and the impact on their future which includes sexual well-being. Only weirdos think it’s weird.
Honestly I'm a biological woman and have never had an orgasm from penatration by a man, and I was born a girl, the female orgasm is far more difficult than a males orgasm which is simple and not meant to be complex. I think alot of these trans women get surgery and think they'll have sex and have an orgasm, just because they were able to do it as boys, but it's not gonna happen that way.
There is a clip where Jazz is asked if she wants to transition. She shuts down, and then finally tells her mom that she just wants to make her happy...
I am going to dare speculate. Jazz probably doesn't regret transitioning because being trans is all she's ever known. What I actually think she feels is resentment that she wasn't given to choice before it was too late. Now she is an adult and she is really beginning to understand what was done to her. It is sad.
That’s what I think too, I can’t say Jazz does not regret transitioning at all (this isn’t for sure, although she says she doesn’t, but in one clip, she says that she just want to be herself, but without further context, we don’t exactly know what she meant) but she was introduced to trans ideology at a very young age. So young that she doesn’t understand what it is. She didn’t understand what it is to be trans and she can’t say no (her parents decide for her). Now that she’s grown up, she’s more mature, and I think she better understands what she went through as a child. I think what she meant by I want to be myself is that she wants to have more autonomy in her life instead of her mom making all these consequential medical procedures decisions. She probably wasn’t allowed to say no to her mom too. Just a theory. I don’t really watch that show but I’ve seen some clips of her.
I agree. That is my concern with transitioning kids too young. They will continue to go along with their transition because they don’t know anything different and just be unhappy without knowing why. It’s really sad.
@Emma Yes, that's why i disagree with early transition. They need time to come to their own and make a decision from a point of perspective and experience--something you can't have as a minor.
Hi --I'm one those Trans-women that stands with you! And no, I don't agree on everything you do, but you're pointing-out the craziness from the Activist community and it's really really important work. You're part of reason I started being opening about my dissent on what the community has been doing. It's clear they won't stop without push-back, so I guess we all need to speak up.
Much love Teegan ❤ Crazy activists are just making it so hard for trans people to be accepted as genuine people just trying to live their own genuine lives 😔
I feel that Jazz is in so deep that she can't bring herself to admit regrets even if she has them. She and her Munchausen By Proxy mother have pushed this agenda via TLC and their advocacy groups for so long and have been very instrumental in getting other parents on board and kids transitioned, so to change course would be to shoulder a lot of guilt, I would think. She also has nowhere to go. It's not like she can physically detransition. Her healthy male body no longer exists. Pretty sad.
That's what I think as well. How could she really regret it when she doesn't even know what exactly she can regret? She was a toddler. This is her entire life. She doesn't know anything else.
It is not hopeless. It is just very traumatic and he has a lot of work to do. People are too pessimistic about Jazz. He is very smart and has a strong spirit. He needs support, and I think we should be more careful about how we comment these videos about him, as if he would never read them.
I agree except I don’t even think she has the clarity or proper development to consider “pushing back.” I’ve wondered many times, does she even know WHAT she feels like since she never was treated like the boy she was? I think jazz is past confused. I don’t think she knows one ounce of normal feelings. She was indoctrinated and groomed so early.
I don't know how much you care about what a 44 year old woman, mother of 2 girls, completely and totally straight and married for 21 years has to say, HOWEVER, I think you are lovely and beautiful inside and out and I love how much you actually care about humans. I'm right of middle politically and just freaking think you're great! Thank you for standing up for children publicly! ❤️
18 year old here, thought I was experiencing gender dysphoria at 14. Became anorexic but through that found that I just wanted to be a skinny girl. Now I am fine. I think I am straight too, after 1 experience. Also politically right off of the middle.
No one wants their mother or father involved in their sex life. This is going too far, poor Jazz! Who will rescue her from this hell her mother and father created?
Jazz is an adult. The only person who can save Jazz is Jazz. And I pray she finds a way to escape the emotional and psychological torment inflicted on her since early childhood.
It's not really her sex life lol.. she's just making sure her daughter doesn't mess up her surgery results which she might regret later because young people can be lazy. I feel like my mother would have done the same. When I got my breast augmentation revision at 19 my mother was constantly checking to make sure I was using my band for enough hours per day so I didn't get capsular contracture again (i still ended up getting it again anyway) i can see her doing this if i was somehow in that position, not actually forcing the dilators in me... but threatening it to get me to do it, because she wouldn't want me to have to go through another surgery.
@@barbrothers2 why did she need that surgery in the first place? Who cares if it closes up? It serves no purpose other than to turn her body into a receptacle for some man in the future. She won’t get any pleasure from it, she can’t birth children for it. It’s a wound, if she wants to just let her body heal then her mother can back off.
@@lorrie5881 That reminded me of stage parents who make their kids perform when the kids actually hate it: "Jenny loves tap dancing to ragtime while juggling chainsaws. Don't you, Jenny? Tell the nice people in TV Land how much you love tap dancing to ragtime while juggling chainsaws!" [through clenched teeth] I love tap dancing to ragtime while juggling chainsaws! It's my favorite thing in the whole wide world! [blinks "Get me away from this psycho" in Morse Code]" Saying that you told your trans daughter that you'll stuff her dilator in her yourself if you have to, in that tone of voice, with that wired‐to-the-tits-on‐meth look, is in no way selling the "she really is trans, it wasn't my idea at all" thing. At least, not to me. When she said that, I heard "YOU'RE GONNA HAVE A PUSSY WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT, COS I'M NOT GONNA BE A WAITRESS EVER AGAIN!!!!" Watch that clip again while reminding yourself that that thing got to have a kid.
I’m so happy to hear Blaire talking about having nieces/nephews and still allowing them to call Blaire uncle… that’s what makes Blaire different for me as a conservative who is majorly anti gender ideology in general.
In my mind Blaire is still Blair and I love him no matter what. But I remember him pre-surgery, pre- lip injections etcs...so to me Blaire is Blair. Still loved and appreciated. I think his nephews and nieces see him the same.
@@yaseminozhatay535 yeah, him, he's a guy, just like buck angel is a her. you cannot force anyone to speak how you wish. real t people who have a handle on their mental issues don't break down because someone refuses to play along.
@Dexter Synester (formerly Sorb Reezi) but I'd never call Blair him because my eyeballs see a female. I know the truth hurts some of these trans people but it's like the emperor without any clothing. Im going to call it as I see it, point blank. I'm not going to make it complicated. Im going to say the word your looks match to.
The way adults nowadays are so okay with drugs and surgeries that will hinder children of ever having a meaningful sexual life when they are adults is VERY disturbing. just sickening
Alot of adults are ok with kids having any sort of sex life nowadays under the disguise of "sexual education" so its a slippery slope. Kids should learn about safe sex and exploring especially during puberty but not at 3 years old, what is a 10 year old gonna do with a sex toy? Kids shouldn't even have any sort of sexual urges at that age or awareness of porn and masturbation.
Combine puberty blockers, artificial wombs, womb transplants maybe even crispr gene editing and one day entirely separating biological bodies from reproduction and what will we be left with. Asexual paper dolls to be dressed up as anything they please but maybe incapable of biological reproduction. Necessitating a lab to carry on. That kind of species is doomed to extinction
As a trans person who's still a minor at first I supported puberty blockers because when I researched info on it I never saw any bad side effects of them but now that I know they do have side effects and all that I have a different opinion on it and I myself also believe like kids and teens shouldn't transition at their ages and yes taking therapy before any hormone medication or sex change for a year does sound like a good idea too I myself have in the past wanted hormones and surgeries due to my dysphoria making me depressed but I'm glad neither a therapist or doctor allowed it or pushed it on my parents because currently I have now rational thought about what it could do to me and affect my health and when deciding to do it as an adult would be best for me
Spread this message to other people like you please because there are kids and grown ass adults saying it is a right for children to medically transition which is absolute insanity.
I've actually had a child "delete" themselves. No, they weren't trans, they just felt they didn't fit in. And no matter what we did, we couldn't get the suicidal ideation out of their heads. I honestly don't believe that transing a kid will change their suicidal ideation, if they truly have it in the first place. And we must remember that most teens feel that maybe "deletion" would solve their problems. I did, but it passed and does for most people. But those that have that as a serious ideation, surgery or drugs will not fix it.
There is a chance to get over the ideation for most people, especially when you're young. The older you get the more persistent it gets but if you wait it out, if you have it in you to wait it out, it ebbs. I firmly and 100% believe every person has ideations at some point in their lives, if not persistent. It's the constant depression that pushes people to quit. I think most teens just need time, space and the right influences. For those struggling: remind yourself that you've been through it before, focus on the things that are going right (even if they feel like few and it feels like the bad shit needs more attention) and it will eventually ebb. Most problems do sort themselves with time. People forget, perspective is gained, or you just plain work out a solution. Don't take anything too seriously. Get fascinated with something else and realize how small those thoughts can become. Very few things are so bad that leaving life is the only solution. That dark, sickening cloud will pass if you let it. Always has for me. You don't have to do it alone either. Lots of help out there today but don't believe anybody who makes you feel worse. It's okay to hop therapists. It is a war you win every moment of your life.
I worked Psych Services in a jail for many years. All the women arrested for prostitution claimed they made $1,000 a night, then they would spend 2 weeks to a month in jail because they couldn't post a $500 bond?!?! I think lots of young women that work in the sex industry drastically overstate their income in an attempt to justify their work to others and they are trying to convince themselves that they have the potential to make that much, somehow, someway, someday. In reality, only 1% make 1% money. Another 5 to 10% make a reasonable living and the rest are selling their dignity to scrape by.
Well I imagine it would be very embarrassing to the ego to admit to someone that you're a prostitute and barely make any money. It makes sense that they'd claim to make much more than they do. It's very sad.
A lot of street sex workers have habits and pimps. Not saying some of them weren’t lying, but a grand doesn’t go that far if you’re sniffing a bunch of bags a night and half your money goes to your pimp.
Sex work is not empowering like many women want to say it is. I have a family member who had a lot of issues at home, which spiraled into drug use, homelessness, and sex work. She got roped into this as a teen by people she was around and then kept doing it as a way to survive and buy drugs. It was in no way empowering for her. Thankfully now she is clean, has a normal job, and has left that part of her life behind, and has a loving extended family to support her.
@@tsrocks2029 Agreed. I also think the exaggeration of income is tied into the delusion of empowerment. The top 1 or 2 %, making good money may be empowered. They can pick and choose when and what they do but that's just for the very few. The vast majority, like your family member, they end up being manipulated and doing it to feed a drug habit and to survive from one day to the next. Glad your family member escaped that trap, many never get out.
I have to agree 100%. Jazz is a victim here. His whole identity and lifestyle was forced on him. He knows no other way but he’s waking up slowly but now it’s far too late
@@HabibTheHeeb Not true at all, its was wrong for her to transition as a child, but she is certainly a trans woman, and she doesnt regret at all, she never said that she regrets it, she said shes happy about who she is and its not going to detransition
I mean, Jazz was insisting that she was a girl at four y.o (maybe even younger). So the parents accepted her and tried to help her actually become a girl on the outside. It's not like Jazz was a teenager and suddenly said "I think I'm a girl". So to them it made sense to block the male puberty and replace it with female hormones at an early age. To me, the problem is that the surgeries are not good and sometimes they're left with unfunctioning "organs". It's hard to know what to think and it depends on the situation because everyone is different. I feel sorry for Jazz too and I find her parents very unlikable. Love and peace to you.
@@TopHatNat it was insane the parent did this to their child. Your child tells you he is a girl so what the next day he will tells you he is a dragon. As a parent you must give him guidance, not follow along all his fantasies else you are useless as a parent.
Jazz definitely showed a very different side of her personality yesterday when responding to Buck's mention of her and his concerns. She was visibly angry & irritated in her defensiveness ... and ending her video by telling everyone to SHUT UP!!
@@isabella6206 yeah, thats what griffith is doing. Become a lawyer and push pro trans stuff. The sister seems not buying it since her thesis was about transness being nature vs nurture and she implied her mother did it
As a retired law-enforcement, I can tell you by law if her mother, even with well intentions, inserted something into jazz she could be charged with sexual abuse
@@candacekyle282 yea but it’s made with the skin of Jazz’s genitals and in the area of the genitals so it definitely is sexual. The mom gives me the creeps 😬
Having breast cancer with a surgery date for a double mastectomy at the height of transgender mania hits different. I don’t want to remove my breasts, I’m absolutely devastated and people doing this with perfectly healthy breasts makes me so, perhaps irrationally, angry. Seeing mastectomy scars so often in the media these past few years has made it so much worse for me psychologically because they celebrate them and I will be grieving. It’s a lot.
Truly, my heart breaks for Jazz. She was nothing but a cashcow and a human experiment. I can't even fathom the psychological turmoil she is in, and will be. Thank you for speaking on this.
@@cartergomez5390jazz knew she was a kid when she was a kid? Huh? At least Jazz was aware of something. Now Jazz seems to be eating her feelings away. Geez-The clip with the mother talking about Jazz having to dilate her ‘cosmetic vagina’ is very disturbing. All we can do is support Jazz as an adult but I don’t think she’s a very good role model or spokes person for children but rather is a cautionary tale of what not to do to children. Also, everyone deserves love and safe spaces. Trans people should own being trans women or trans men. That is a very unique experience. I have no idea what that would be like just like a transsexual will never truly know what it’s like to really be the opposite sex. Chicks with dicks and men with vaginas-fine with me but it’s a new category. There are women, men and trans people. Fine. Just leave children out of it.
I'm a trans woman and Blaire, you do so much damage control for the trans community and work to try and keep us respected as a community, even in this time of political hostility. I Hella respect you and ive been a fan of you ever since I started my transition!
I disagree about Jazz’s parents being innocent victims. They raised Jazz as a transgender kid. According to them Jazz came out to them at the age of 2, which is way too early. And this was before we started seeing the big push towards transitioning, Jazz’s family were some of the pioneers in making being trans something children could be. As for whether Jazz regrets transitioning or is happy it is possible to both regret what was sacrificed and be happy with the end result. With Jazz I think she’s started to realize she isn’t capable of genuine sexual attraction or being able to orgasm. I was just watching an Exulansic video where Jazz is saying she wants to be loved and desired, but she can’t tell when other people desire her. I think she’s started to realize life left her behind and she regrets that. But is she unhappy with the transition? I don’t know, she might be or she might just not have processed it. Remember at this point she’s coming to terms with what she lost in the bargain, from there it’s possible she’ll go full sunk cost fallacy and think yes she did give up a lot but it has to have been worth it. Keep in mind that down the path of “this wasn’t worth it” is wrestling with the realization that her parents did this to her, that it’s possible no one really cares about her, and IMO Jazz is not ready for that road.
I believe they were paid to make the golden poster child for demonic confusion of the genders “trans” example. Money talks. No 18month old child says I’m not a boy/girl, I’m a girl/boy. It just doesn’t happen. They don’t have the vocabulary for it much less understand the concept of what either of those things mean. And yes it is demonic. Look up the Baphomet idol, part human, part goat, part male, part female.
Unfortunately, her parents put her right smack in the middle of a culture battle that I don't think she was prepared for. She should have been able to just figure herself out in private without all the pressure and without people on both sides having an opinion on something very personal and very difficult. She wasn't allowed to just be herself and make decisions, once she had all this pressure she was basically forced to go ahead with transition, she wouldn't have been able to voice that things were moving too fast, she basically had pressure on her to be an evangelist for Trans medicine. It's shameful
Jazz is now an adult. She can live her life however she wants. But she’s following her mother’s footsteps by condoning & promoting the idea of medical & surgical interventions on children to mess with their gender . Kids cannot give informed consent on life-changing decisions.
He’s a very sweet, gentle sensitive person. I feel deeply sorry for what his mother has done to him. Maybe he could meet Blair and find a way to be happy
Jazz's is a sad, sad case of child abuse. You can spot a video on another channel where she rebuts those accusations saying "My parents never abused me, I love my parents" with closed eyes... This is a very, very sad case. I adore Blaire for being reasonable. Like I love and admire Buck and Caitlyn... For the same reasons
You mean Caitlyn Jenner? On the darkside, she is why a lot of trans activist insist on children transitioning before they go through puberty, so they will pass for their supposed "affirmed" gender. Caitlyn still have a deep voice and do not pass for a woman.
Jazz, people aren't 'spreading harmful attacks', they CARE about you. People CARE about your wellbeing and want to protect other young people from being controlled in an abusive way by their parents.
Jazz always seemed like such a bright and vibrant kid whose mother was exploiting her child for money and fame. I wish Jazz nothing but happiness, and a life of contentment and love
My relationship with Blaire has been 3 fold. First I loved her at the beginning of my transition. Then I thought she was pandering to the right. But now almost 3 years into my transition Blaire makes the most sense of all of the trans women on RU-vid. Love you Blaire 💜 Also regarding Jazz her parents totally destroyed her life and need to be held accountable under the umbrella of child abuse. It's awful 😟
I binge watched all the seasons of I Am Jazz with my sister in law. I think it started as curiosity and even something to laugh about. As most TLC shows are geared towards that mindset. And it slowly occurred to me, not only the seriousness of what I was witnessing, but the reality. I felt for Jazz even when she was living her best life. And I felt for her friends on the show too. Her one blonde friend broke my heart. When it got to the surgery episodes I was disgusted. Not with Jazz, but the situation. Learning about the micro penis, not ever being able to orgasm, the doctors knowing it was very high risk. And the mom saying, yeah let's do it. When jazz couldn't even look at what they had done to her. And because I watched the show in a short period of time, everything was fresh in my mind. The episode from the prior season where Jazz said she was comfortable with her body snd the mom said, no honey you want the surgery. You will finally feel like yourself. It's all horrific. I think the mom is a classic case of munchausen by proxy. And because of society today, we all sat back and watched it happen. I feel as bad for Jazz as I do for Gypsy Rose. They both had their lives stolen by their mothers and doctors and had fathers who did absolutely nothing to stop it. And I haven't watched the new episodes. But I can guess that the mother being needed for Jazz's eating, depression, and dilating is what she thrives on. It's her entire life. She doesn't have her own.
It’s crazy that people think it’s “OK” to rob children of their ability to one day have meaningful sexual encounters. And yet there are still practices of male and female circumcision that we have been trying so hard to fight against.
Agreed, why fight FGM / MGM in Africa when it is happening right here in our backyard. Then again many do not even know that in 2018 the us law prohibiting FGM was struck down and deemed u unconstitutional. Seems like the wheels of this narrative have been gearing up to churn for a while now.
@@somethingtodowithcat Might not be fully comparable, but both practices should be stopped. If an adult wants to do that to their body then fine, otherwise no snipping parts of genitals in minors.
I’ve had both my fallopian tubes removed for contraception, a Laparoscopic Bilateral Salpingectomy, as I don’t want kids ever, I have too many important things to do with my life than be tied down to that shit. I didn’t have to have therapy prior to my surgery as I am an adult and I understand what it means and consented to it. That’s the difference I am an adult, not a child. What happens to my body is my choice and that should be the norm for all adults.
I feel like husband signing off is ridiculous especially if the woman is of consenting age. It's definitely a conversation to be had between the partners. I plan on having my ovaries and uterus removed in about 2-5 years because of cancer in my family. I wanted to wait because earlier can cause other issues. I am in therapy for other reasons so that I am in the best possible mindset for my 3 kids, 11 (bonus), 5, and 2. I had the bio babies after 35. Hubs is 100% behind me.
My daughter calls me Daddy after 7 years trans and it’s completely fine, I am her Father (a non conforming one I admit) and her Mom is her Mother… common sens!!
Thank you for not trying to take away motherhood from her actual mother... these trans be identifying as women for a year and talk about how they're a mom now and I don't think its healthy for a child.
Jazz’s story makes my motherly heart hurt. Physically hurt. I am so glad Blaire is shedding light on it. I believe Jazz deserves our compassion and care. She never asked for all this pain.
@@enchantedgoldrush Jazz has suffered enough. If calling Jazz “she” will not add to her pain, than I’m down with that. Being a mom to two little boys makes me feel protective to all little boys everywhere.
I never thought I'd disagree with you, Blaire. I truly think Jazz's parents are vile. Jazz is in her early 20s and they werent preaching trans issues that hard. So her parents absolutely knew what they were doing
I mean even males in that young age still have weak brain that can't handle people who's living for a single goal which is asking you why you changed your sex from boy to girl or from girl to transgender mixed i don't think there's anything in this world we living in is more hurtful or harmful than bunch of adults breaching jazz privacy she's young and shy she never say no stop she always says continue adults shouldn't be allowed to ask her about her transition at all because it kills young adults brain cells am sorry but this is the only why she might get emotional damage someday so we looking forward for better future that really understands that children has limits in questions i hope someday adults can be charged for asking about young women or men genders because that's how it goes that's how you make someone lose their brain and starts thinking everything is wrong its similar to bully but in a tricky way it's more like sexual abuse only mature people would understand what i meant
Sweden just came out saying kids may no longer take puberty blockers. Too many kids that took them are having osteopourosous and some of them don't get adult size internal organs. So it will be interesting to see if Jazz comes down with issues linked to taking those blockers.
Yes. They said hormone blockers should only be used for the maximum of 2 years and should immediately follow with SRS. They had some of these kids on them for 8-9 years.
@justnataliek yes and there are other ones that can't be taken for more than 6 months! I am a broken record about this topic, but they use hormone blockers for other medical conditions outside of transitioning and there needs to be a push for safety and research! Same with HRT! HRT is also used outside of transitioning. I'm not sure about the side effects of HRT or if there are any dangers like hormone blockers... but just including it because it's not exclusively used for transitioning.
@@Joya_Day Yes, I am very aware of the uses. I agree with you 100% about the safety aspect. If these parents are going to go forward with this I think they should have to sign a statement that explains all of the potential things that could hurt the child in the long run. The doctors need to stop using these past the time frame of when they are considered “safe”. These are lab mice, these are human beings that have their entire life ahead of them. So the long term effects and damages are very relevant.
I am a trans woman and a supporter of Blaire and I'm so happy seeing more and more trans people coming out in support of Blaire and just saying that they don't agree with queer and woke ideology especially non binary who barely have anything in common with actual transexual people.
If it wasn’t for people like Blair’s and Marcus , I was having a hard time being sympathetic with trans people (even though many are not even trans). I was fearful about what my grandchildren would be taught in school, now I can say what I know is true ( only two sexes, men cannot have babies) without thinking I’m going mad or a horrible person.
@@foreverengland6590 well you can’t call a trans man a woman either because that’s what they are men usually with beards and stuff they are just able to have kids because they were born girls but then again not all girls can have kids as woman either so maybe this is all good because ppl can adopt etc look at how many “normal” ppl have kids and there so much drama there’s a reason why anxiety/stress/depression is the pandemic and it starts at home childhood school bullying etc
@@yt20241 Have you not heard of punctuation? Or grammar? Maybe you should go to school at some point in your life to ha e a better grasp of the English language. Though if it's your second language and you are teaching yourself, I understand. But if not... YIKES! I'm LEGIT afraid for the future of America.
@@wintermoon7003 lol if you can’t read that’s your problem nobody really uses punctuation grammar etc at least not on comments where have you been 🤔 I’m afraid of the future of America to btw also English is my second language but it was and is my stronghold in school I mean I currect other ppl spelling whose only language is English I have my keyboard set to 5 languages so please thibk before you speak 🙄
I am a straight white girl … conservative (for the most part) a proud gun owner and a Christian and I support you Blaire. I know that probably doesn’t mean anything, but I wanted to stand up and say it.
@@stevely my gun has sat on my bedside table for years and never hurt anyone….. even left unattended. It’s not guns that kill people. And gun laws don’t and won’t stop people who want to do evil. All they do is stop law abiding good people from protecting those that they love from those that do evil. And I have had a loved one killed by a mentally unwell person wielding a gun… so that argument is invalid. Who have you lost in a mass shooting done by a mentally unwell person wielding a firearm? I’m sorry for your loss.
I can say as a straight woman that bc off all the things we see (yes I know it's just what the media shows) when I hear (now I can say heard) that someone is trans I instantly would roll my eyes out of cringe bc like you said it is just REDICULOUS the things that is being pushed. No trans woman needs to be buying tampons sorry, NOT sorry. BUT bc of you my thoughts are changing. Most ppl want to cry that they are being miss treated and it's all the unrealistic expectations. I just want to say thank you for helping me see that it's not all of your community that is like this and I hope one day that most of your community will see this way of light too and SUPPORT you, bc that is what a COMMUNITY DOES... THEY SUPPORT! I hope this makes sense and you don't take it offensively in anyway, bc I am genuinely supportive! Keep being you babe!
@Audrey Griswold i really don't get the impression that they don't care... i think they are just the type of parents who felt they had to affirm all of their child's wishes and follow her whims to be "good parents", and they definitely believed the doctors. idk her other doctors but Marci Bowers is genuinely a horrible person and a monster. Parents of children who grew up in the 2000's, specifically white parents, seem to give in to their child's every wish and command and don't know how to discipline their children at all. they can't say no to their children, or they are concerned about the wrong things like making sure their kids eat vegan or vegetarian and don't have any junk food whatsoever (while most of us 90s kids had junk food quite often and turned out fine) its just the methods of parenting that were popular then are not as conducive to raising healthy happy children as they believed, because their children grew up to be THE MOST damaged mentally. So I do think they love her, they're just misguided. And a lot of parents who had children around that time are misguided, but most were lucky enough to not have to deal with a child with gender dysphoria. Unfortunately, parents raising their children now also seem really, really bad. But its not because they don't love their kids, they're just indoctrinated into believing the way they were brought up is so bad and has to be changed, when it actually was a better way
No child should go through medical transitioning. I transitioned socially as a child. Today I am a 52 years old ex-transwoman from Malaysia who is living his wonderful life. I respect people’s choices and I appreciate if people would respect mine in return. People like me do exist. I have often been told shut up but I don’t think I can.
it takes a lot of courage to speak up on your experience. a lot of people are trying to silence people like you to fit their agenda. don't let them. sending positive energy.
Hi! Hope all is well :) Greetings from New Jersey, USA! I have a friend who is from Malaysia and her husband is from Vietnam. Her husband told me recently that he has two cousins who transitioned within the last 5 years because it is easier for them to find work that doesn’t involve being a “street vendor (food)”. Not sure if this is true in Malaysia, but it has been a thought that keeps popping up. Is it possible that men believe that being a woman is easier?
I absolutely relate to Blaire saying the trans community stuff is contributing to her depression. I seriously get so depressed and angry the damage these non trans people LARPing as transsexuals have done to people like me. It’s actually extremely depressing.
2 1/2:years ago I was diagnosed with stage 3 inflammatory breast cancer. Once I finished all of my cancer treatment, I was put on hormone blockers to prevent me from getting breast again. The side effects are worse than when I took the pill or even Estrogen after a complete hysterectomy!! I CANNOT IMAGINE children taking these pills!! THE SIDE EFFECTS ARE HORRIBLE!! IN MY OPINION, Jazz JENINGS is the victim of Munchowsen Syndrome by proxy at the hands of his/her Narcissistic MOTHER!! GOD BLESS JAZZ!! I pray that Jazz will be able to find his/her true self and has a better life AWAY from that child's parents!!!😇
I had to be on Lupron for stage 4 endometriosis and andemyosis. I always make sure to tell people HRT and hormone blockers aren't exclusive to transitioning! Doctors use hrt and hormone blockers for different cancers, and medical conditions. It's dangerous across the board for everyone! It needs to be safer, more researched, and DEFINITELY NOT FOR CHILDREN! I hope you are doing well. ❤❤❤
@@scouticuss2121 People have NO idea how being a Woman can be very, very difficult especially those trans WANNABE Women!! DYLAND MULVANEY is the most OFFENCIVE OF THEM ALL!!! PRANCING around calling himself, a girl & then OVEREXAGGERATING what HE thinks a GIRL would do!! Not one bio girl I knew goes prancing around squelling like a pig because true girls, don't!! Playing with feminine products for something so personal & private is offensive to me. On top of that, playing with a tampon like a 12 year old boy and it goes on, & on & on!! Today, he's a lesbian attracted to girls. We have come full circle with MR. OFFENSIVE. My severe, debilitating periods were NO JOKE!!! A COMPLETE HYSTERECTOMY Saved my life & saved my sanity!! So he can go back from where he came with millions of $$$ being praised forever for being so brave to be a girl!! HEY. Y-ALL WOKE PEOPLE!! IF YOU WANT TO TRUELY SAY SORRY FOR INSULTING THE VAST MAJORITY OF WOMEN OUT THERE, LET TRUE WOMEM GET COMERCIALS ABOUT WOMEN! LET TRUE WOMEN RECIVE THE REWARD FOR WOMAN OF THE YEAR!! INSTEAD OF A MAN, OVER EXAGGERATING THE THINGS HER THINKS BIO WOMEN SAY & DO, GO BACK AND STAY IN YOUR OWN LANE !!!😇
@@scouticuss2121 I took it for endometriosis as well, and I too regret it. I didn't gain weight, but I had severe side effects with joint and muscle pain and worsening asthma (and developed CSD). The side effects did not go away after stopping the medication and my quality of life was permanently affected. There are articles on the internet dealing with the long range complications with those who took puberty blockers for precocious puberty. There are twenty year olds with the bone density of senior citizens. So sad...
"How am i supposed to feel guilt over the actions of another human being" No lie. I had a friend who was a transwoman from 6pm to 7am. I never understood why. But, it wasn't my life. I didn't gaf. We would go out at night and just stomp around NYC and I took them to McDonald's on 42. Some boys came in, jumped on our table and started screaming "You're a MAN" to my friend. I fought with them. They left. My friend had the nerve to tell me that it was all MY fault because as a natural born woman, my existence makes it impossible for them to be treated with respect. That was the very last time I ever supported the T movement. There's only certain transpeople i would go to bat for. I just can't anymore. It's damn near impossible to talk to them now.
I love when you speak about your nieces an nephews and how you don't mind them calling you uncle. You hear almost no trans people speak this way because of the practically ubiquitous narcissism that runs through that community. Parents, teachers, all these people that are expected to put children's needs ahead of their own don't think twice to have a meltdown or existential crisis when a three year old misgenders them
I'm with you I saw something last week with a special needs teen trying to defend herself in front of a school board because the teacher would ignore her because she was " mis gender the teacher"
The kids should absolutely be off limits for surgery. I wish they would bring back more gate keeping for adults because of the high complication rate and irreversibility of it all. I see A LOT of people who are getting ready to have, or have already had bottom surgery that are clearly extremely mentally unwell. These doctors are predatory monsters!
The medical establishment had tricked and profited off the public by convincing them that circumcision for newborn boys were necessary. Now it is just one step way further.
Jazz had bottom surgery for a lot of superficial reasons that a teen would worry about. Wearing a bathing suit or tight pants, thinking her dating life would be easier, etc. I think she may have had seconds thoughts as an adult. Of course, the puberty blockers prevented her having a normal size, functioning penis, so I guess either way Jazz was screwed.
I started watching it tonight to see what it was all about and how bad her mom was and in the very first episode she wanted to talk to the doctor about big boobs and an hourglass figure, even some biological women don’t have an hourglass figure. It’s very very sad to see
And profound narcissistic abuse. They are incapable of basic self care because of the crap they've suffered. Give them a few more years and some distance from their mother and we'll be seeing a tell all
Im a mother, i have 1 child. When he was 4yrs old he was having problems using the bathroom ( pooping). I discussed this with his doctor and we came up with a few changes to make. His diet, his fluid intake, sleeping habits and many more. For 3 months we documented everything. Nothing really hepled him any. We was referred to a specialist and in the very first appointment that "specialist" said my 4yr old son needed surgery. That he has siliac disese and there was already a lot of damage done. We left out and contacted 3 other specialist and all 3 determend it was lacking vitamins in the bowel track. So we kept going with extra fluids and added flintstone vitamins to his daily rutine. Parents needs to listen to their little voice in their head when its telling you that something isnt right. Doctors are human too, some are great and some are monsters!!!
Jaz’ mother is clearly not like the parents who were abused by doctors into having their child transition. She clearly sought it out and forced it on Jaz.
The whole non binary, gender fluid 100% ruined any credibility trans people ever had. That is so so so true I also noticed, i have no probable using she/her to talk about Blair and i realized that's because she embodies her feminine energy so well. She's beautiful, gentle and cares for the children ❤
What you said about being trans is what I feel about being a woman with people who turn it off and on with lipstick and wigs, exert male privilege when it suits, use a male frame and body type in sports or to protect themselves in public, mansplain to women about what it's like to be a girl or woman or about products we use, use physically violent, aggressive or intimidating behaviour to women in the way no woman would etc etc.
Jazz seems like a very mentally unwell person. It really breaks my heart. I have seen the show and it’s clear the transition has not relieved her of her mental anguish.
Right Jazz and her family say she is "so happy" but yet she takes anti-depressants and other psyche meds. The meds are also the cause of her weight issues.
Does anyone else remember the 20/20 special with Barbara Walters from 2007, where we first met Jazz? She was about 6 or 7 at the time. Jazz’s mom said that Jazz was unsnapping her onesies at only 15 months old because she wanted to wear a dress. A 15 month old doesn’t understand the concept- “if I unsnap my onesie, it will look like a dress.” Jazz also allegedly said at two years old, “when is the good fairy going to come and turn my penis into a vagina?”
my granddaughter, at age 3, who had two older brothers, wondered when she would get her penis. Now she is 18 and very definitely thinks of her self as a girl, who is attracted to boys, and no longer wonders where her penis is..... it's on the guy she likes.
I am super blessed to have found your channel ❤ I have been doing a lot of research on transitioning kids & different perspectives….it’s a super important topic for parents to be educated. I am SO grateful for your voice on this topic and so happy to find your channel. You are so full of love ❤ and it shows. TY!
Nuanced opinions are great, we are sadly lacking them from all sides. The lack of seeing both sides of any arguments forces everyone to have to agree with the extremes as the middle ground is shunned. most people sit in the middle with most issues, loosing the nuance is what is fuelling every divide we face.
As someone with diagnosed ADHD, that sh*ts not cute. It’s a huge stressor for me, and I always feel like I’m failing or not keeping up because it’s harder for me to stay motivated and accomplish tasks that come so easily to other people. Don’t get me wrong, I take full accountability for my actions, but there’s SO MANY people who share ✨quirky adhd✨content, and absolutely do not have adhd nor do they understand it. I will never understand why people CHOOSE to become medical patients. If I could function normally and never see a doctor, I’d jump on board tomorrow, but unfortunately that’s not an option.
THANK YOU. also no one seems to talk about the impulsive behavior and irritability. People seem to think it’s only when ur bored in class and can’t focus 😑
@@priscillaspets yes! Impulsive behavior is a constant struggle for me, especially spending vs saving. Just because you don’t pay attention in a boring class doesn’t mean you have adhd and it’s kinda annoying when people try to boil it down to something so simple when it’s SO MUCH MORE and so much HARDER than that.
Blaire, You really were and still are a pioneer. You were the first to really sound the alarm and you laid the foundation for all of us (GLBs and real Ts) to take back the community from these crazy people. Thank you.
Thanks Blaire! A correct take about Jazz and childhood transition. She will continue to suffer her whole life from sexual dysfunction and the complications of unconventional SRS due to micropenis and the unknown long term effects of blocking normal development. The negative side effects of medical treatment remain regardless of her identity. Invasive experimental medical treatment harms trans people whether or not they detransition. Keep fighting for true informed consent and evidence based medical care.
Can you make a video on the differences on trans women with gender disphorja and the trans woman who transition for sexual reasons. I know there’s clear differences but I would love to hear your perspective on it more and how it makes you feel, being a trans woman
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when you were talking about how you should have at least a year of therapy before medically transitioning, i couldn’t agree more. i’m a detransitioner and if i had a minimum of a year of actually therapy to start working through my shit, i don’t think i would have transitioned. sadly 5.5 years of T and a double mastectomy aren’t reversible. thank you for being such an important voice in this conversation.
I would love to see you touch on the damaging effects of only fans and porn on society… ie. Objectification of women, transactionalizes sex, damaging effects on people who consume it (especially children who are exposed to it at a young age), buys into trafficking of women and children, etc.
I stared watching you because of Shape shifter on soft white underbelly. I have started to listen to your Podcast and RU-vid videos. Thank you for all the education your bring. You have such a bright and beautiful mind. It has helped me understand so much about the trans community. Keep doing what your doing. You definitely were placed in the life for reason.
I’m 39 and when we were coming up in our early 20’s we had to take therapy and have the doctor and therapist sign off before you could take any medication I really miss the old days when we were hidden it’s way to much now I agree with Ms Blair ❤
My mom had to go to therapy before having weight loss surgery how is going to therapy before having a sex change not required everywhere. Honestly every time someone says something about an anti trans bill I look it up and most of the time I’m like do people even read the bills
Yep and activists still claim that it’s still a requirement when every “transition journey” video I’ve seen has never really mentioned extensive therapy.
I’ve always been an "alternative" person, I’ve had my hair pink, blue, red, green, purple, every color, and honestly? I haven’t been dying my hair colorful because I don’t want to be associated with these people, or the message they send, so I stopped. But yeah, we gotta start taking it back, because it’s always been a symbol of rebellion, we might just have to do that.
I have felt this way! It's hard to have people associate hair with that. But, if someone judges you without getting to know you, they were that way before all these radical people. I have been goth since I was a teen, you love what you love, don't let others ruin it.😊
dude i feel this. at one point, i had a lavender mohawk and a septum piercing. now i look basically like blaire lol. but i'm taking tattoos back personally. i'm heavily tattooed and gonna have a full body suit within the year, mark my words. good old american traditional blackwork tattoos. i look at it this way: i'm still rebelling against the system. that's what alternative fashion should represent- rebellion. :)
Blair, I am sorry to hear that you have been depressed. You are a strong and unique human and I think you are a beautiful woman inside and out. That does put me in any of the crazy categories we put people in. You are brutally honest and intelligent and unfortunately, being so honest nowadays puts you in a dark category, because we have forgotten how to communicate in a straight forward way. Sorry you need to explain yourself to all of those ignorant questions. Everyone should hear the song “People are people” by Depeche Mode. And look at our own values as humans. We need more people like you Amazing Blair!
