The darkest day of my childhood. 

This is so sad. Pls sub to my channel 😪infj.me/sub

The darkest day of my childhood was when there was a solar eclipse.

Good to see that other people are still traumatised by these kinds of things in their childhood 😂

You are an entertaining storyteller. Keep doing these sort of fireside chats of stories from the life of FJ. 🙂

""....my heart beating in my chest..." Well, I should hope so, otherwise it really would have been the darkest day of your childhood

Sounds scechy

"It was perhaps the worst decision of my life... Other than starting this RU-vid channel" lol

The ego was defeated but the spirit was enhanced. You where blessed.

And thats the ever-relatable story of how a childhood complex feeds into ones career choice

3rd grade spelling bee: I got knocked out with the word "anxious."

You are so brave and so real. In the world of falsehood I can still find something real here. thank you.

*listening intensely to see if we have a shared experience*

His laugh at the end!❤️

The year was 1999. I was born. FJ was humiliated. Correlation is not equal to causation lol.

If that was the darkest day of your life, you are very fortunate and privileged!

7:39 Well, sure it's good to know INFJs have "creepy villain" laughs too.

If I have learned anything from life, it is that weak students are highlighted for their achievements and good students are highlighted for their failures.

I feel this dark atmosphere soo well well done man💙

🥺🥺🥺Your storytelling! I can feel I’m in that place too

INFJs in 3 am trying to sleep be like

7:40 _press this timestamp for cuteness overload_

You can't scare me with that thumbnail I WAS WORRIED FOR YOU

I’m glad you’re here.

I know this is supposed to be somewhat humourous, but just imagine what a great world we would live in, if all kids could say that this was the darkest day of their childhood

If that was the darkest day of your childhood, then you must have had a pretty good childhood. Wish I could say the same.

this was actually tragic and i felt it

FJ made up for it by becoming an excellent sketch writer! ❤😂😊

I like it when you make yourself laugh That's some kind of talent

Bless you

I can’t explain it but I feel like if I ever get to hug him everything will make sense?

I feel you man. Same story here. "Upheaval" brought me down. I think I'll carry that word to grave now.

I don't know how you came out with this idea for a video, but I really love it! The way that you told the whole story without laughing (except for the end) was amazing. For some reason I laughed at the first "You, idiot" and then I felt bad for it. 😪 That shows you're a great actor. Congratulations, little FJ! 😎 Sketch, huh? And isn't it ironic, don't you think? 🎶

I jumped when you said what she called you! I felt all of it! Just horrible. So sorry you went through this.

His acting skills are remarkable, the way he talks and his facial expressions 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

FJ I need more videos on this playlistttttt they’re the bomb .commmm

Don't worry Frank.. I truly couldn't even read until I almost made high school.. and to be honest, Mi spilling is sill cropp.

No one comes out of childhood unscathed

I love how you laughed at the end like it was nothing in that moment😂 A sure sign you got over it!

Aww Frank we love you the way you are trauma and all

I love how you maintain a straight face☻

o7 lovely story stay true❤

I love your brain and your humour and your vocabulary and your creativity and your heart. You rock, Frank!! 😍😍 Sorry for your pain in that moment.

I'm learning new vocabulary every second of this video.

My favorite part of this whole video was your laugh at the end hahaha.

Please do more story times! 😂

"little FJ" is the cutest thing I've ever heard!

I like his eyes in this vid

That laugh at the end,l can feel you buddy :(

This event explains why you are this way Frank.

You can see the pain in his eyes. This is so sad :"(

Definitely an underrated thing about infj humor is the dry Ni monotone 😂😂

Oh my goodness. The moment I heard “spelling bee”, I knew exactly where this story was going😫 this exact thing happened to me, only my word was “glimpse” and I was in third grade. I remember and randomly think about it to this day. I feel the same deep shame in the pit of my soul every time I think about it! #INFJUnite

Beautiful and sad story. School can be so traumatizing. It's made to force conformity, not encourage. It's meant to brow beat a child into behaviors that suit...???

[After reading the title] Me: He's going to delve into some deep dark secrets. Some tragedy or trauma that really impacted him, shaped him into the man he is today. FJ: So anyways I flunked a spelling bee.

And you're making sketches now :)👍👍👍

FJ should turn his life into an autobiography named "Stay Cool and Attractive". Also, I relate to this whole experience. I was in a spelling bee and I had studied the complicated words. I got the word 'kneel' and I spelled 'meal' because I heard it wrong. Since then, the whole school made fun of me and always mocked me for that. I got over it, but I always wonder what would've happened if I had gotten the word right. Raise your hand if you really want a time machine to go back in time.

Being put in the spotlight and the social pressure of it I would have totally blanked out and possibly fainted. I think you have more than made up for it now JF. Where are those other kids today? You got the last and best laugh.

Thx for the excuse to stay awake a little longer 😂❤️

Whew thank goodness for the laugh at the end! Scared me, I knew he didn't miss scetch! Ha!

Dear FJ, I'm sorry. You didn't deserve to be called an idiot for getting the spelling of 'sketch' wrong. you're a good guy and I'm sure you were a great child. your determination, the way you quizzed yourself to be ready, you were such a good child. No good teacher should ever say such to a student. if it means anything, I'm sorry. i wish i could have been there to give you a hug, like my sister gave me when i had my darkest day. FJ you are intelligent, funny, cool, special, interesting, remarkable and exceptional. Don't ever let anyone make you feel less than you are. No matter what never stop being You and don't ever give up on yourself. You're a blessing to your beautiful wife and son, to this personality community and to me. Just stay cool and attractive okay? I'll be praying for you. - SEA🙂

When u're INFJ and feel like "I did this right? Ok moving on, whatever..." "I failed? I think my life is over"

I was afraid to click on this video so much emotion could be envoked.

There I was playing in the yard with my truckies. It was a great day -- Maypo for breakfast, followed by the Three Stooges and cartoons, then coloring and puzzles. Then lunch, then goofing around in the yard with my truckies and burning ants with a magnifying glass (I hadn't figured out matches yet). So, later, my dad comes out and says, "Get inside and take a bath, you're going to school tomorrow!" It was all downhill from there. So anyway, there I was -- four and a half years old humping 10 city blocks back and forth (past a cemetery) to kindergarten by myself. So the last half-hour of kindergarten was freestyle play. I used to go over by the window and get the airplane puzzle and put that together in the light of the windows, away from the other kids. But one day, I felt this rumble in my abdomen. After a minute or so it subsided. Another 10 minutes went by, and this time it was a cramp and it kind of gave me a signal, but I figured school's going to be out soon. Another 10 minutes goes by, and this time it was a severe cramp. I barely settled it down at this point. We were all directed to assemble in our assigned seats and wait for the bell. As I was sitting there, a fourth and final(!) rumble occurred and out it came, quietly. Fortunately, I was wearing my winter corduroy pants but the odor was unmistakable and miasmic. Susie, sat right across from me. I noticed her nasal vibrissae shrank back and burned away. Her face was turning green. She put up her hand. My teacher, Mrs Weiler said, "Yes, Susie?" And just like the old EF Hutton commercial (you could hear a pin drop, because of silence), she says, "Mrs. Weiler, Raymond poo-pooed his pants!" Now every set of eyes was on me, as a bead of sweat formed on my brow (sitting at my table begging for that bell to ring). Mrs. Weiler said, "Raymond ... did you poo-poo your pants?" I looked her straight in the eye (as Susie slowly asphyxiated) and said, "No, Mrs. Weiler." Another minute or two and the bell rang! Of course, I was lucky when I stood up that the ol' underpants contained the whole thing as I was packin'! So off I went on the 10 block walk straight home. But it didn't end there. As embarrassed as I was, I figured I can get rid of the evidence(!). So I went upstairs to the bathroom, took off my clothes, cleaned up and flushed everything down the toilet (underwear too!). So I figured, wow, this is great! But, a half hour later, my mother called me down and I figured what(?), she got a call from the teacher or something? She said, "Raymond, why did I just find a pair of your underwear stuffing up the second floor bathroom toilet?" So I told her the whole story. She was nice and sympathetic but told me next time, come talk to me. And I did. I certify the above story is 100% true.

Oh no, how sad... :) and yet relatable...

This whole video is literally what it’s like for me at 2 AM when I’m thinking about the most embarrassing moments of my past.

I feel it F.J. I feel it.

me when trying to fall asleep and my darkest times and moments come to my mind *all of a sudden*

You are exactly where you're meant to be. If here was not where you were meant to be, then how could you be here?

How am I supposed to sleep now with the weight of your deepest, darkest day rattling around in my head?

If you’d spelt it correctly, you wouldn’t be here on RU-vid entertaining us with your hilarious and creative psychoanalytical sceches. That pivotal moment was a blessing in disguise, and things wouldn’t be the same without it. 1999 gave rise to a comic genius, a legend, an incandescent inspiration for introverts everywhere. You rock, FJ. 😎✨👍🏻

Frank, the way your face is dramatically lit is giving me early Beatles vibes! The contrast is fantastic! 😉👍

This hit home for me. My word was "success". Spelled it with 1 c and spelled it with snarky confidence too.

"The year was 1999..." Me: Yes I know my birth was the darkest for everyone

I understand the trauma of being sure of what you know and are capable of and then finding out a little bump in the road tripped you up. That moment helped you become a better person. I had a similar bursting of my personal bubble and it was a crushing moment. Only years later did I have the maturity of facing my lack of perfection. Now that I am over 50 years old, I still remember but I find it a great lesson that made me more real and less fiction as a human. These moments in life are a check on our egos. Just tell yourself to "leggo my own eggo." Now that is funny. One axiom is true, if it does not kill you it will make you stronger. I see a confident and intelligent young man who is going above and beyond what most INFJ's would cringe away from. That is having the courage to put yourself out there and admit your failings. That is a good example of a healthy human being. Most people would never admit to anything and think they are true perfection. Your a good and real person and that comes from an old man who has been watching this circus of humanity and I declare that you are doing just fine. Keep up the show trooper. Keith

And that's what happens when you only give 100% 😔

I know these things seem to be trifle things but the way they affect us , we can never forget in our life. Others may think they are making a big deal out of nowhere but they force us to go through hell

Whoa I’m early. Thanks for the great video Frank! You’re the only thing keeping me sane in quarantine 😂

Wow, u did beat a lot of us! the story was pretty dramatic!

I quit flute class when we were supposed to perform in front of the school

What a tear jerker

You could have been president 😭

This is so sad. Thank you for sharing this! P.S.: Creating this YT channel was definitely not a mistake❤

Imagine the pinch-faced teacher that gave you words to spell on the spelling B is watching this rn

It is good to remember the good and the bad right now, isn't it?...so we can process and evolve, maybe

Yay for FJ story times 👏 Man, this brings me back to when I (and other students) won a spelling bee in 5th grade. Our prize was to choose a hat out of a bag that my teacher was collecting over the years. They were all trucker hats and we all thought we were so cool sporting our old trucker hats around. I can't help but to cringe and laugh about that now 😅. Messing up on the simplest things is my speciality. I feel your pain boi. You should do more of these storytime videos! Maybe make a Sunday storytime coffee chat series? Thanks for sharing a part of your childhood with us.

I relate to this all too well

Your telling of the story says your ready to go beyond it. Notice, it only haunts the ego. We all have a similar story. Seriously all of us. And if we don't we are lying to ourselves. Also notice there's another side of you that knows it's silly and doesn't feel hurt but instead feels compassion. Great video.

I can feel as an INFP, how your emotions are completely surrounded by your damn deep Intuition World. So, it doesn't make sense enough, but I just can feel, how difficult and lovely can be your Ni World...

Now we know from where those fancy words keep popping.

This is the best story ever 😅 so INFJ 😆

I know many others have gone through something like this but I can confidently say that as an INFJ, this triggers a couple memories that I also blow up the proportions of 😂😂

I'm sure I'm not the only one here who loves the fact you made this RU-vid channel... And Yes.. you never know what your life could have been if you'd gotten that correct... The "what if" is one of the most plaguing thoughts a person can have... This coming from someone who had a messed up childhood.. I repeatedly ask myself who I'd be if things hadn't happened... But like you.. I'll never know..the best we can do is accept who we are now..all the pieces of our lives that has made us the people we are today.. You seemed to have turned out a very bright young man 😊 and you're very funny on top of that, you have all these people on here that love watching your creations, and maybe you aren't where you want to be in your life right now, but that doesn't mean you won't reach it. Thank you for sharing this with us, take care of yourself.

I literally gasped when he said "C" instead of "K"

Creepy laugh at the end.... gold. Lol

I love the way he says the word "body"

That was intense

The darkest day of my childhood was in 2nd grade when my dad forgot to pick me up from school 😐 The school janitor lady drove me home, 'cause I had waited for hours (with tears in my eyes). Thank god I knew how to explain where i lived. If I had my brain from now I would've tottaly destroyed my dad when I got home, but at the time I was so happy to be home that I didn't say anything. #traumatic 😑

This would also traumatize all the other INFJ's I know too. What baffles me is why this #$%^ upsets INFJ's so much…

This is like an Ingmar Bergman film. I identify with you, man.

rip.