When a friend keeps going back to an abusive boyfriend; I stop listening to her stories about their drama ...I don't wanna end up hating men , witnessing abuse too much is bad
Well just because you are tired of man din't mean you should date women not all men hits women there are men are were well raised by their mother and know hoe to appreciate a women
I really enjoyed this episode, it was so honest! it spoke to what alot of women are going through, if she feels safe with him, who are we ngemphela?🤷♀️
I feel as if he addressed the situation with so much respect and grace. I feel like he took accountability and is going on the right path in making amends. I wish them all the best and honestly ppl are gonna always have an opinion so eh lol make decisions you think are best for you which she did do. Love from Nyc
So true Simz relationships are not the same.I do the same when a friend says she's leaving I support her when she says she's going back am still behind her.
Mina ngiwu"Know your worth" and I've been single for 5 years now😂. It's not nice at all🤣loyalty, trust, communication and respect is all for me so nje if you break any of those i will leave.
I learned a long time ago about self worth onliners... That offline siyabekezela sonke. A lesson that confirms itself to be true for centuries and centuries.
You speaking truth Simz. I love the truth you speak. You are wise Queen. I respect you . Women love the idea of self worth , not the practice of it , cause healing not easy .
"Know your worth" house is not for the light hearted🤞...you will end up forever single because the very same "deal breaker " comes in different packages.
Word right there Simz. Because of social media influence or mentality so many of us are valuing ourselves over commitment. Yes you should not stand chronic toxicities but there is power in effort and communication. Before baring it to the world work things out with your partner and if it fails well you tried. Noone is perfect. Relationships are not rosy...I mean you're joining 2 different worlds of personalities together. Definitely there will be hiccups. But we must forgo this thing of thinking that social media society is your friend. NEYVAAAA my sister. Life is about being practical and working things through the best that you can and letting it go if it makes you unhappy. Because truly the divorce rates are just so scarring both to society and children and this is a bad image on what to expect of the next generation's relationships. It will take a while definitely to go back to the way things were....but if it's worth a try I say don't give up without a try! Thank you Jesse and Miss Buttons♥️At the end of the day it's up to you as an individual and you as a couple. xo
😂😂 Issue to me is trust, I believe cheating shows a person's "character" so if they do it once, they have shown you who they are, subject though to "some" conditions. I left one with a six pack, after he messed up once, he couldn't believe it, because every girl wants him.. we were still in the get to know each other zone though, i had fallen hard for him, but I was like aah aah.. ndabaleka🏃♀️🏃♀️ lol
Cheating is an identity-based habit. For someone to stop it they have to change their mindset about relationships and their identity in relationships. It's a whole process. It can't change if deep down they still believe they are cheaters or they are incapable of loyalty. It's a habit like any other. If you want to change the habit you start from the identity. So yes it's character.
Cheating means no passion for ur partner nje...honestly I want no nonsense but a safe place with someone imagine being with a cheater how's that good for ur spirit...yerr my peace is expensive and self love is important
I know we want to be vulnerable and relatable to the masses but it’s not necessary to open up about your story to the world especially at your expense because they’re just waiting to use your truth as a weapon towards you
Whomst are we to tell ugyal to break up with her ndoda over things we don't even know for sure let's stick with our own sheets sheeeem, also mina I love you Simz you're so authentic ❤️love to see it
I like this shirt on you. It makes me wonder about your signature when it comes to expressing yourself through clothing. Today you look like you have that in you. The nails pull it together, the hair length...it has got me wondering Simz. I would like to see you at your highest vibration, oozing inner peace and shit 🥳. You seem like inner peace is your lane, just like clothes, just imagining you in that frequency feels exciting because of the amount of creativity I see you expressing in that space 🤔
I believe in INDODA personal 😭. They never spoke about cheating mara also we must be honest, cheating is not a deal breaker for everyone. Mind the business in your own house tbh lol. Great video Simz
Hlomu makes me so mad. She swore she would nevergive him the time of day. Then she up and married him and wanted her folks to be happy, when she cried about being beaten up by him. Haibo 🤷🏽♀️
lol.. I stopped saying, "nna when a man cheat i leave, the day i realised that every 1000 of them cheated".. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.. until i found my crooked person and made him straight...
Jesse gives me the player vibes cz he is good looking.When he mentioned that the first tym he went to her place it was for that thing but they ended talking the whole night...I knew I was right.
But it has always been said that guys mostly when they approach a woman, they just want to smash... But it happens that they end up falling inlove with you.
@@nokwandaxhoba8213 Yeah true... I once read somewhere that "for a man to catch feelings he must have sex. For a woman to have sex she must catch feelings."
Mara guys cheating is not a light matter, I've seen so many people being changed by it like it so sad Any who they(Jesse and Tutu) set themselves up for failure, they shouldn't have been that honest, this is a private matter but anywho
She must try cheating on him and see what he does ... fok 😂 our girls are weak hle I’m not afraid of leaving bra I’ll leave you and love your ass privately in peace heal survive ♥️
@@AzulaZuko100 fana nam, sana. I can't stand being disrespected. Our girls are really weak, someone said in the comments "amadoda anqabile" lol. The weakest link!!
I can tell u I'm one of those types of woman that really doesnt stay after cheating Im that... I'm gona cheat too then hurda him some more then leave lol I'm ashamed but it's true
Ngeke sana, my ex and I were waiting for marriage kanti I didn't know I was waiting alone. When I find out I felt physically sick, usually I believe in indoda shame. But that was when I realized that cheating is a deal breaker. Kwala noma sengithi ngicabanga all the positives, I just couldn't get over it. Till today, I don't regret leaving and ngangimthanda ukufa uGuy naye uyazi even his family knew ukuthi ngangifa ngaye. But nje the thought of another woman touching him, yayingisanganisa. So nje for me aikhona.
Unrelated question. Has there ever been a statistical study on the notion that most guys won't take their girls back if they dished out the same (in relation to cheating)? Because its always, no one is perfect or every relationship has its baggage etc etc.
I loved how he assured her to the point her insecurities were gone. We all take them back "knowing ur value " is for show on line, even men forgive their cheating gf mabahlale phansi🤣 in public we act like Goliath endlini we are David 😂
Simz, Simz, Simz...Where do I begin? I stan the black oversized shirt cos that's so my style; actually building a collection.As for the online Shaka Zulus,they always turn out to be kittens in real life 🤣🤣🤣. Relationship dynamics vary and that's why I always tool when it comes to people's business.Personally,I know and live my worth and never tolerate kaak; masculine energy too strong on that front;moguy better pray I still want him when I wake up 🥱...My scissors are extremely sharp and cutting off is quick and fast. I believe in indoda as long as he gives me attention, communicates well,spends on me,keeps it 💯(I can't stand lies),respects me and doesn't make me look stupid out on these streets.😎😎😎... Closures are for wigs🤣🤣🤣 P/s: I'm currently boo'd up with 2 amazing guys, before you judge me;why choose one when you can have both?😎
True hey, I don't involve myself in people's relationships. Today she finds tampons and female clothes in her man's apartment, tomorrow she post my government 😳😳😳.
I don't condone cheating and I've left each time I got cheated on but I'll never judge anyone for staying with umuntu wakhe after cheating. Righ now I'm very happy in my marriage I can't complain about anything but we do argue about petty things ,angifuni ukungasho kodwa ukuth if he cheats on me now chances are I might forgive him🤷🏽♀️
That time i was busy saying "awww I wish my man was this expressive" kante it's a strategy 😭😭😭😭 this man has her all figured out chile. Twitter ruins everything 😭🤣 I didn't even know he used to cheat till the people on Twitter were talking about it, bathi he was cheating in the beginning of the relationship.
Hay maan Simz wena u are a whole vibe i love you sis...ndihleka from start to finish whenever i watch your videos but uyayithetha inyani mntaka dad..cabanga as for not getting invited to do a whole wedding speech in yo friend's wedding hahahahahah hay i love u wena
So wena uthi we must be Fake friends? Encourage relationships noma ungavumelani nabo? It's kinda tricky Simz! I am not in speaking terms with my friend because of a man😤
