i just went through the worst breakup of my life. i was cheated on, lied to, manipulated, but i still felt love for that person and didn’t want to move on. this video just helped me realize they’re not my “perfect pair of jeans.” it’s time to move on. thank you.
lots of wisdom here! As a much much much older woman , I am happy i heard these words. my 25 year old self remembers the pain and the lost feeling of having a what I thought was forever ,relationship end.I wish I heard these words back then.Thanks Morgan , well done and a fantastic analogy !
You’re so right, sometimes we think we must fall in love and find “the one” even in our young years and i think that’s bullshit. I’ve been so depressed because my partner left me a whole ass years ago just because i thought he was my true love. But, in retrospect, i think experiencing the young life is important and I’m grateful i get to date my self❤️
Shoe theory: Going out and searching for a pair of shoes you’ve always wanted is like finding a person to spend the rest of your life with. After years of checking store after store you finally find them. It was the last pair in stock and it wasn’t your size but you ask to try them on anyways. They don’t fit perfect but you thought you can make it work. When you wear them you get some cuts and blisters but you continue to wear them in hopes that they will get more comfortable. Sometimes the cuts are too much and you decide to finally ditch the shoes to search for another pair. Sometimes they do get more comfortable and they stay with you forever. It’s not about finding the perfect fit and it may or may not get easier but the most important thing is to keep trying. Sometimes an old pair of shoes might be holding you back from getting a new pair. I know it’s hard to get rid of them when you’ve had so many great memories but you must find a pair that ages with you. Whatever the reason is there is always going to be another pair of shoes for you. Just remember the good memories you’ve had with each pair of shoes and how you can take care and preserve the next pair for life.
There’s this girl, we find each other in multiple stages in life, this is our 4th time around. The timing is never right, there’s always something stopping us from being together. Every time I lose her it feels like my souls been ripped out of my chest. It hurts the same or even worse each time. I hope I don’t find her in another stage. I love her deeply but it never seems to fit 💔
