The Differences Between Men and Women 

That's because risk taking behaviour men love conflicts and thrive in it and women hate conflicts

Keep in mind that even if a men is not into you meaning he likes you he will still pretend not to be scare even if he is because that will keep you calm, by showing confidence that we have things under control you keep does that you care emotionally safe plus is really inconvenient having to deal with whatever dangerous situation and a couple girls or kids or even other men making everything more complicated. If you feel curious about this take a male kid and put him on this situation by role playing haha is the cuties thing ever when a little young boy gets all cocky and confident cause he knows the girls around him are looking up to him. We as men like that feeling we like to be at the front we like to protect you specially if you are important to us

​​​​@@SanthoshGparapurrathuctually is the opposite unless you are talking about a trouble maker which is definitely not the stereotype of a man the stereotype of a man is the one who solves problems and keeps peace meanwhile women are the ones that love conflict but it's an evolutionary trait since their attention to detail is no way near to a men's attention we are simple minded tied up with the basics while women are able to see problems where they are not but since we love our women and we want to keep things in peace we please them the best way we can that's why we have art, architecture, food overall culture is because men attention to basic necessities and woman attention to detail this is the reason why society is the way it is it's do to the relationship between a men and a women otherwise the whole world will nothing but a flat bed with pizza on the corner a T.V and a videogame console, I swear it's the true we don't really care about decoration or organizing till a girl comes visit our place that's when we clean up and decorate otherwise we are find at least the majority of the male population

I wonder how you expect a man to react to a dangerous situation? To show aggression? Fear? How would that help?

I also think about how societal groups need both sets of propensities. We need risk takers and we need risk-averse individuals. And it only makes sense that the risk-seeking variety of humans have physical traits that improve survivability, such as size, strength, spacial awareness, reaction times, courage, and prowess (i.e., men!) And that the risk-averse group take on other qualities that provide value to the community, such as organization, multi-tasking, empathy, communication, relationship building, and home/child care (i.e., women). The value of having both types of humans is that we can make what we hope are the best possible decisions for the group. As well as specializing in tasks that require one over the other. There's a very good REASON that women historically took on lower-risk tasks, while men take on the higher-risk tasks of hunting, battle, conflict engagement, etc. We have expectations for the genders not because of some mythical patriarchy, but because it's literally built into our DNA.

Men's children are also vulnerable.

Been there - as a single parent - felt and acknowledged our vulnerability and vowed to be protective as possible and not have any more children until my situation was more secure! Needless to say l had no more children as l never found that safe space with a prospective boyfriend/ partner. I’m still vulnerable now as a single woman , but not as much , as my sons have grown and they now fill that protective role to a degree ! And lastly it’s so tiring emotionally having to constantly fend off all the attacks on your vulnerability as a single parent- man or woman. Protect yourself no matter your situation!!!

Absolutely. Men don't realize how intimidating they are to women, even when they're nice and all.

@@avapilsen Women are intimidating to men too.

@@mirabilis Yes, but for different reasons.

If only most of the people weren't so attached to their subjective opinions and had critical thinking...

No, sadly, I can’t imagine it.

@@annier6835 it would be dangerous for him, because he wouldn't be left to reign for long (on earth). He wouldn't be of help for the rich, but mostly those who are common decent men & women. So I don't think that'd be a good idea. Nor do I think they'd think it'd be a good idea unless it's their calling like it was MLK. But of course, his reason for d**th had to be because he knew too much. And was trying to help as well.

​@@cochiseseals what do you mean "on earth"

​@@bigbird4481means he would get killed

As a banana, this sounds like word salad to me

​@@Wise__guy 🍌

@@Wise__guy 🏆

Now we have soy boys as protectors and look at the sexual assault rates and trafficking😢

Yeah same here

It is a protective instinct, women are more vulnerable being pregnant. You're not wrong.

During Pregnancy a Woman or Wife should be treated like a Precious Diamond by their Husband or Partner, It could be said this should apply all the time if a Woman needs it.

​@@Biggles2498simp

​@@jimjk7caring a pregnant wife is simp for you brah go and learn about what simp

​@@jimjk7I mean, if there ever was a time to simp it would be when a woman is carrying your child.

Jokes aside, there's no evidence that even 3% are confused about that.

@@olivesama ❄️

@@piercingtheveil7749 Facts don't care about your feelings.

Jordan would not approve of what you said, my fellow human. I want to ask you something…. Do you even have enough compassion for others to IMAGINE the absolute TORTURE some people go through just to be included in society? Put yourself or a loved one in that person’s shoes and absorb how bad they are made to feel, just for BORN?? humans come in all types of energy.

@@olivesama … they aren’t confused about who they are but perhaps YOU are!

He won't listen because, in part, he is right- you have to calm your inner voice that predicts the worst outcome- get a therapist to get this off your chest- dontvruin your marriage by nagging the man into trying to think like a woman- he cant

​@@rainbowstones5431 very helpful advice.👍

No we don't those feelings and awareness are there for a reason. Those thoughts and preparedness are what keep us and our kids alive and save. Better to avoid worst situations then let them happen. Men don't have to think like women but they can understand and respect why we do.

It’s not that clear cut… you can’t just say you have anxiety because of your female genetics there is like a million factors bro

@Rainbow Stones Happily married for 44 years. I know myself and am honest abt my struggles and who I am. Knowledge of how we are made in order to survive is useful and interesting

Water World?

sex never was the social construct, gender was and by that people generally mean the gender roles that are FORCED onto people rather than the roles some people naturally tend to take

​@@froggo5690 how was it forced? Up until the industrial revolution, and even for at least 100 years afterwards. In order to survive and feed yourself, taking care of the home and all the jobs that go along with that required someone to remain at home the majority of the time while the other was either out in the fields or working somewhere in the community or out hunting for food. People had lots of children because A. there was no reliable birth control, B. it increased the chances of having children that survived into adulthood, and C. more family members meant more hands to help the family survive. What makes more sense, the men or the women to stay home? Obviously, when there are young children involved, it makes more sense for the mother to remain home. Both men and women had it just as hard, it was a struggle to survive no matter what gender you were. You don't survive if you're constantly arguing over who does what. So, it makes sense to stick to a tradition of roles. There are no human societies in which the jobs of men and women in the community are 100% the same, it makes no sense for everyone to do the same job. So you play to your strengths. Naturally, mothers in both the human and animal worlds, tend to be more nurturing which is necessary for early childhood development and survival, so it makes sense that they stay with the children more of the time. There are very few animal species, especially among mammals, where the male is the primary caregiver. People love to shout that humans are merely evolved animals and yet always get offended when humans order things in a way that mirrors most animals, such as gender roles. Men are on average stronger and more aggressive, so it makes sense to send them out to hunt and work intense jobs, or go to war. We are privileged to live in a time and society where we have the opportunity to do more than just survive.

@@mrburns91 i ain't read alladat nerd

@@waynebruce24893 Imagine you still don’t know that sex in not the same as gender and nobody thinks sex is a social construct.

I experienced that w/ my first child & it was depression.

Estrogen causes woman´brain to notice "problems" 10 times more, but also inform everybody, or her man , protector......Testosterone makes the man much more calm so he may easily focus on ataks... testosterone is considered as problem solving hormone........ I guess it was probably how our brain and genetic information of body was developing over the thousands of years of social interaction .....Now scientists found out that small new born babies are at risk if they are left alone, because their brain noticed being alone, and they are inshock and afraid to not be fed by someone....its a survival instinct.....But the problem is these "shock experiences" may affect them in adulthood. The adult person is not remembering these experiences but the subconscious mind (original brain) remembers it........ Therefore the person may have some issues of attachment style if he/she was neglected in childhood, especially by mother, or someone stole the baby from mother, or there was some other circumstances like war, violence, kids being separated from mothers, sleeping in another room, in hospital, etc Gabor Mate experienced during war the doctors searated him as the baby, and put him in differet room. It may be a big shock for the baby, because the instinct of the bab yis being fed by mother, to survive Th ebaby can not think consciously, the child starts thinking consciously at age 7........... Small babies can not regulate their own nervous system and Gabor Mate said they need the mother close, to protect the baby. Its probably in the early stage of childhood. Of course as the child gets its own confidence by learning the stuff, it takes time. ...Scientists say if a small baby is separated for some nonsense reason from the mom, it may cause some damage in brain nad also the personality of the child.....after he she becomes and adult, because the brain remembers the early stage of the childhood, and the brain tries to protect the person from another harm...so therefore man ypeople have problem to find good partner, because their brain learned to not truust the unknown circumstances, the brain doesnt know the difference between imagined story or reality...therefore the brain (or subconscious mind) creates some false accusations, thinking ...I have to protect this body from another harm, from nother danger to survive etc, lets not marry, because relationships create danger.....But then the concsious mind is the exact oposite. The conscious mind is loving happy, creative joyful, but conscous mind operates only 5 percent, subconscious mind operates 95 percent. Dr. Bruce Lipton explains how to reprogram the false beliefs to find happy relationships.

Estrogen causes woman´brain to notice "problems" 10 times more, but also inform everybody, or her man , protector......Testosterone makes the man much more calm so he may easily focus on ataks... testosterone is considered as problem solving hormone........ I guess it was probably how our brain and genetic information of body was developing over the thousands of years of social interaction .....Now scientists found out that small new born babies are at risk if they are left alone, because their brain noticed being alone, and they are inshock and afraid to not be fed by someone....its a survival instinct.....But the problem is these "shock experiences" may affect them in adulthood. The adult person is not remembering these experiences but the subconscious mind (original brain) remembers it........ Therefore the person may have some issues of attachment style if he/she was neglected in childhood, especially by mother, or someone stole the baby from mother, or there was some other circumstances like war, violence, kids being separated from mothers, sleeping in another room, in hospital, etc Gabor Mate experienced during war the doctors searated him as the baby, and put him in differet room. It may be a big shock for the baby, because the instinct of the bab yis being fed by mother, to survive Th ebaby can not think consciously, the child starts thinking consciously at age 7........... Small babies can not regulate their own nervous system and Gabor Mate said they need the mother close, to protect the baby. Its probably in the early stage of childhood. Of course as the child gets its own confidence by learning the stuff, it takes time. ...Scientists say if a small baby is separated for some nonsense reason from the mom, it may cause some damage in brain nad also the personality of the child.....after he she becomes and adult, because the brain remembers the early stage of the childhood, and the brain tries to protect the person from another harm...so therefore man ypeople have problem to find good partner, because their brain learned to not truust the unknown circumstances, the brain doesnt know the difference between imagined story or reality...therefore the brain (or subconscious mind) creates some false accusations, thinking ...I have to protect this body from another harm, from nother danger to survive etc, lets not marry, because relationships create danger.....But then the concsious mind is the exact oposite. The conscious mind is loving happy, creative joyful, but conscous mind operates only 5 percent, subconscious mind operates 95 percent. Dr. Bruce Lipton explains how to reprogram the false beliefs to find happy relationships.

Need or benefit? Probably in our lifetimes, they will have artificial sperm that would be superior to men.

Mmmm 🤔

I agree with you. I remember when I met my husband, and we laughed, and he made me laugh. He was protective, and I felt safe. Then his mom advised him to be different. She created a monster in her image. Now I feel sad all the time. He will never protect me against anyone.

Men also need women in their lives

🤔 hmmmm, I don't necessarily agree with that

on average... a man can be more female than certain women and the other way around, so be careful judging these people. I'm still not a fan of these transitions, because I think that there is no "being in the wrong body", but just being insecure and unhappy with it. However we should avoid pressing the people I mentioned above into the gender roles and let them be who they want to be.

@@whitewolf3601 😂

Well thus far letting them be as they want too be has brought an existential absurdity too our western world. This has been shown time and again; no their reality is not realistic and is only heeded as a cashcow for doctors,pharmacists,psychologists, universities and schools and media moguls

Play along with the fairy tales furry

​​@@whitewolf3601 "on average a man can be more female than certain women" That isn't even how averages work. What is up with everyone trying so hard to sound smart, what you have just said holds no actual meaning, you just said words that sounded good together.

fr

Not 10 u can get harrassed as a freaking 3 month baby too I've heard that 1 did so

BS. Its just boys in your school having crushes

@Chain NVSTR bro thats fucked, u didnt deserve that. yes ofc it happens w boys too but significantly less statistically, and culturally. women are taught to fear men by their mothers and sisters wheras men arent. that contributes to women being higher in neg emotion imo.

I don't think it's possible for a man to be raped by a woman. It still causes an orgasm and they feel good so the guy would have to be frigid.

I wouldn't say it's entirely biological but also conditional, in presence of a (strange) man, well... because of their reputation.

Totally! Women are usually intimidated by men, even their mere presence worries us. I don't think that's weird at all. We must be alert at all times.

@@SensationalSeafairy fr people forget about nature vs nurture

Just because your response was instinctive, doesn’t mean it was illogical.

Get yourself a gun and learn how to use it properly!

Like other kids.

Not anymore. They are being programmed to throw their kids to the lgbtq

Agree, there is nothing more dangerous than a mom who's child has been threatened.

​@@wandawilson1787 or a man who has nothing/everything to lose

​@@wandawilson1787 those are my biggest fears

I mean, a bunch of extremely agreeable women wouldn't make for very entertaining television

Fake agreeableness.

This implies women can only be bitchy if they are taking care of an infant. Most of them aren't taking care of infants....

​@@duskripper6650 If that's what someone needs for entertainment you might as well stare at the wall.

If you call *THAT* entertainment, I'd rather sit in an empty room and watch paint dry! Wait....Frank, did you use the word "agreeable"??? .....................🤣🤣🤣

About what exactly?

@Treat_your_family_well LOTS of emotional things in life. Children. Other people and issues in friendships, plus Husbands,many things that can affect them and loved ones. I think if women are not focused narcistically on their nails, hair, wardrobe. Materialism. and competition with other women they have time to see Reality of life more clearly in all aspects!@

Exactly:)

Estrogen causes woman´brain to notice "problems" 10 times more, but also inform everybody, or her man , protector......Testosterone makes the man much more calm so he may easily focus on ataks... testosterone is considered as problem solving hormone........ I guess it was probably how our brain and genetic information of body was developing over the thousands of years of social interaction .....Now scientists found out that small new born babies are at risk if they are left alone, because their brain noticed being alone, and they are inshock and afraid to not be fed by someone....its a survival instinct.....But the problem is these "shock experiences" may affect them in adulthood. The adult person is not remembering these experiences but the subconscious mind (original brain) remembers it........ Therefore the person may have some issues of attachment style if he/she was neglected in childhood, especially by mother, or someone stole the baby from mother, or there was some other circumstances like war, violence, kids being separated from mothers, sleeping in another room, in hospital, etc Gabor Mate experienced during war the doctors searated him as the baby, and put him in differet room. It may be a big shock for the baby, because the instinct of the bab yis being fed by mother, to survive Th ebaby can not think consciously, the child starts thinking consciously at age 7........... Small babies can not regulate their own nervous system and Gabor Mate said they need the mother close, to protect the baby. Its probably in the early stage of childhood. Of course as the child gets its own confidence by learning the stuff, it takes time. ...Scientists say if a small baby is separated for some nonsense reason from the mom, it may cause some damage in brain nad also the personality of the child.....after he she becomes and adult, because the brain remembers the early stage of the childhood, and the brain tries to protect the person from another harm...so therefore man ypeople have problem to find good partner, because their brain learned to not truust the unknown circumstances, the brain doesnt know the difference between imagined story or reality...therefore the brain (or subconscious mind) creates some false accusations, thinking ...I have to protect this body from another harm, from nother danger to survive etc, lets not marry, because relationships create danger.....But then the concsious mind is the exact oposite. The conscious mind is loving happy, creative joyful, but conscous mind operates only 5 percent, subconscious mind operates 95 percent. Dr. Bruce Lipton explains how to reprogram the false beliefs to find happy relationships.

He's an idiots intellectual...

lololololololololol..............

I'm struggling with his current works.

He is stating the obvious , Plato he is not!🙄

Long live the Patriarchy !

You are totally right. A well-documented comment.

Being more emotional isn't necessarily a bad thing. It's necessary. Hence why women are more socially and emotionally intelligent. From the studies I've read, women being more emotional is a fact. How people deal with that information is where problems arise.

That man isn't a hero, that's a scumbag. And women do get equal pay for equal work.

You are definitely describing women. That's why my friends are all male. I'm done with that drama.

@@theresahenderson3534 if all the women you’ve been friends with are drama. Then they’re not the problem, YOU’RE the drama. Not them

​@@a_hoodie 100%

You really tried using "NO U" as an argument and thought you accomplished something here eh?

​​@@theresahenderson3534 Sorry but that gave pick me energy Edit: actually not sorry

Likely because someone told her so. Women are very hive-minded.

Well because the word misogynist gets thrown around like a hot potato (especially at right-wingers) and Jordan Peterson is typically a conservative right-leaning figure.

the thing is that statistics are facts and prove that ON AVERAGE women and men tend to.. that doesn’t mean all women and men are that way. for example, if 60% of women are more agreeable that does not that mean that every woman you meet will be in that 60% lol. there are still x % of women and men who think completely different. this is why you just take this as a grain of salt because it doesn’t mean every single woman you meet will fit that narrative. because then you have to factor in upbringing and personal experience. for example, i was raised in a home where there was drug addiction and divorce. therefore i might behave completely different than another man.. because i learned behaviors that allowed me to cohabit in that type of environment. it’s much more complex than you think 🤔

@@elmo9293 thank you for that. I didn't need to be told that but I'm assuming you posted this year for other people to understand. Influencers tend to paint narratives that are indicative of their past issues as well.

@@shellyhart4324 I did! These people are ridiculous lol

@@shellyhart4324 i’ll post it for someone else lol

Me neither, most women nowadays don’t want kids and the thing is that people are struggling to see, is that not all women are maternal. I’m fine with kids but I’m not at all maternal it may be how I was raised or I’m not sure, I grew up in a house where my parents said I can do what I want to do and I don’t need to conform to what other people tell me to

Why was thiis making your life difficult?

Agree, I don't feel safe out either.

You should try bottling it up in a tank to protect your supply of it.

Have you met a man before. Most are useless when it comes to the homes or work life.

They are both traits on the Big-5 Personality scale. Neuroticism and Agreeableness are terms of art. Neuroticism is sensitivity to negative emotion. It refers to the inner response of a negative situation. Agreeableness refers to the outward response with those around you. So women tend to internalize negative emotion very easily but are less likely to confront someone about it.

Everything he is saying about women is when qomen are compared to men. So yes women are still more agreeable and self sacrificing than men...he's not comparing women of yesteryear to women of today

That's a very broad brush.

@@melk6049 makes senwe

I think the hormone added to our food and in out environment are to blame for that right now. Men seem more feminine and women more masculine now than before.

Self sacrificing and agreeable doesn't necessarily mean what you may consider to be positive traits. For example, it is promoted for women to chase sexual promiscuity, and that is a very self-sacrificing action, considering that we are the ones vulnerable to both sti's and pregnancy. We are also the ones more likely to modify our bodies to meet according to some social standard we have in our minds, which is very agreeable in a broad sense. Same behaviors, different setting/outcome

Of course you can. Just because the world is experienced differently for men and women does not mean we live in a patriarchy. He also discusses often the fact that men die younger, we do more dangerous jobs, we are more likely to lose our kids in custody battles, we're more likely to be violently attacked, we work longer hours, we go to war... "Harder" along one metric does not mean harder along all metrics.

yes men can care for infants, but infants rely on their mothers for food and care. and taking care of newborn is very sacrificial especially if breastfed, the pain and worry and tiredness that comes with that is hard.

Rare smart woman caught in the wild. Impressive.

It’s natural read a history book on family in any country or culture in the world it’s the same something is spiritually and mentally very wrong with Europeans you are destroying everything decent…wow such evil

These differences persist across cultures. So it's almost entirely nature.

You mean his little twinkly fingers....kind of gay.....not that there's anything wrong with that! Hahahahahahaha......

I'm wondering if it's intentional or not. It reminds me of politician sign language.

@@Fighting_Fatigue_117 i think he does it unconsciously, i too automatically use gestures when explain something to someone