Psychology can be dangerous especially with this kind of thing. Once u know how the brain works and how people react to things you can say something and satisfy everybody
Oml, not defending her or anything but people misheard that "apology" 💀 she said "I offended a lot of people I think....I'm sorry" there was a pause before she said she was sorry meaning she never said I think I'm sorry or I'm sorry I think
Can we just respect Anna for using they/them pronouns even whilst dragging them? 😭 Edit: omfg what the actual hell is wrong with the replies?. not the bare minimum because so many people misgender or deadname people who identify as non binary. I was clearly trying to say that I’m “respecting” Anna IN THIS video for respecting Jayus’s pronouns. Ok? Ik it should be normalised but I still think we should make it clear that we need reminders to always respect somebodies pronouns no matter what until we are capable of handling it. If you have something negative to say keep it to yourself. Have a good day and oh go away to all the transphobics xxxx
@Troom Boom Ranter no one is defending them, we're just stating that the joke part alot over reacted, did we mention about the racist part in this comment? No. Did we say that we should keep on supporting them? No.
I’m really sorry but when Anna oop said that she just deleted the video without like apologising that reminded me of when Anna oop LITERALLY DID THE SAME FUCKING THING!! She made a video a few weeks ago about a girl that ate live animals and like showed people how to cook like animals which is a part of her culture btw. Eating live animals is a part of people’s culture, and then the funniest part is that after Anna got called out in the comment section she just deleted the video and acted like nothing fucking happened. Like I’m sorry girl but what u did wasn’t good and the fact that you still haven’t apologised and that everyone has just kinda forgiven and forgotten about what you did is wrong.
Just cause it’s part of someone’s culture doesn’t give them the right to do something so disgusting. That argument could be used to defend all sorts of horrible actions
@@amor7886 I mean fake because they clearly stated in the apology video they would work with black people but they never did. Instead, they just brushed them off and moved on. Another thing was they were very rude multiple times. As Anna said they once laughed it off. They made fun of disabled people. There are so much better ways to get money and they were making fun of them.
@Troom Boom Ranter girl 💀 u've been in addison rae videos saying "addison OUTSOLD UR FAVES ADDISON OUTSOLD MICHAEL JACKSON" sit down, remove the taylor pfp u fake swiftie, ur setting taylor up, stop making swifties look bad
honestly i agree with you as someone with adhd only because even IF it was because of the adhd they are still using it as an excuse which isn't where its at
It makes me upset because onlyjayus was a person I looked up to and respected and it just pisses me off how they could be so ignorant. When I heard their apology, speaking from my ass I believed it. It sounded so genuine and they didn’t just say “sorry lol. Didn’t mean to be racist” they made promises by coming out and explaining how they were going to collaborate with black creators and tell them to share their own experiences with the hurtful words, but yet coming at it blaming a black person saying it was their fault that they had to make the apology and it was their fault that they were getting canceled. It hurts, and I hope onlyjayus knows how much they hurt me, aswell as other content creators and fans. And I’m so sorry to the black community in advance. (Edit was spelling)
i dont look up to them but that was clearly a joke and jayus wouldnt be getting cancelled rn if they just appologized for the insensitive joke like anna hit the nail on the head, some people arent going to think that that was a joke, and may try to follow what they said!
Seeing people like them get away with being awful just because of their platform or following or notoriety makes me angry. Why is it so easy for certain influencers to come right back and still have people supporting them when in the most cases, it's obvious they are not going to change?
@@chynabarbieeeeee he didn’t get away with it 💀 look at how his videos have been flopping hard. literally everyone knows what he did. race has nothing to do with this. you’re reaching.
like yea fr im not defending them or anything but people are freaking out because they said a slur that they reclaimed like dude im non binary and gay but like why are people trying to cancel them for that out of anything i can understand people cancelling them for saying the hard r
@@catt6924 yes, i understand the racism part and absolutely am disappointed of them, however us lgbt can say those slurs, like what’s the fuzz about that
I can't believe someone who I used to admire is truly like this... Still, I wish they change and they do an actual apology so tysm Anna for making this video
5:33 its obvious they are reading that apology off of something. you can see their eyes moving and just the way they look ad speak, along with that, its most likely fake.
“Follow a service dog and you’ll get a free wallet” disabled people are PEOPLE, no-one would steal from an non-disabled person who is not disabled. So what’s the differences girlllll 😃
How curious they are trying to cancel her and get her account banned, meanwhile Tony Lopez still does TikToks like nothing ever happened. Both did WRONG but it's so curious how people forget. And also there's multiple offensive people on Tiktok and people aren't saying anything.
The service dog joke was an overreaction in my opinion.. I still do not like them but that was a clear joke and people got way to offended, really shows how you cant say anything these days because people are sensitive as hell
I know the other things are inexcusable but I think when they were saying homophobic slurs I’m guessing they were closeted at the time. We all know they’re not straight but a good percentage of closeted lgbtq+ people do try and fight it by acting like their not bc of our society. I am pan( I like all genders) and I’ve never said homophobic things but it’s quite understandable if you’re looking from that perspective.
Their homophobic slurs can only be said by mlm so gay men or blb, there are slurs that a lesbian can say and slurs trans people can reclaim but still there is no excuse for the f slur.
1. I think that really was ableist 2. I feel like those insult were extra, but solicited. I don't think they would have said those things if they weren't triggered or hit first 3. I feel like the apology started going wel but going in it started sounding like a documentary and using this for clout (I'm black) 4. Damnnnn...look at me thinking we were getting somewhere💀
@@evanescencearth dont listen to that no life commenter. they troll under every. single. one. of annas videos and they just want attention and it makes them look pathetic so dont even believe anything they say. they just lie and have been caught using slurrs. ignore them sis 🤦🏾♀️
@@ohchip okay. I didn't think I had any reason to doubt Anna. She's been an Ally and she reports on everything. No one is safe from her to come after and I love that
@@Cookie-ks1lq who cares what people would say if they're faking it, the act itself is important like they make fun of a professional person with vast knowledge about psychology and then send their huge followers to harass Dr inna.
Aw man, this hurt. I looked up to onlyjayus, even saw them as one of my idols and I can't believe how I haven't caught onto these issues, I mean I'm part of the LGBTQ+ community. Thank you for informing people of this, I still can't accept this right now. I think I need more information for this.
@@ary.j81 Which is why I am questioning this info and need more information about the topic. I know they are a lesbian, or claims to be, and I thought they were being honest? Idek at this point, who is lying.
@@ary.j81 let me get this straight you know they are lesbian and then call them a she…. So how do you not know she’s non-binary although I’m not gonna hate for making a mistake cuz honeys to god it really doesn’t affect me that much, just watch out next time
5:41 with the whole onlyjayus N word thing the real problem is Half of the people calling her out, aren’t even that offended or couldn’t be because they aren’t black/lesbian , she made a apology video to those who might be offended but literally everyone who went aboard the hate train just wanna cancel her for saying something bad not because they are offended. So the real thing is if the apology video wasn’t made for you or the word can’t really affect you, can you really comment? Sure you can say it was wrong but half of these people act like they were personally offended.
Ready for people to be mad about people who like ice cream or some dumb shit everyone TRIES to be angry. If you guys LITTERALLY think that jayus meant for people to STEAL wallets, you need to get out more. Edit: Holy shit that text was wild
Im pretty sure that was a joke. A dark joke but a joke… the internet has gotten sensitive. Have yall ever watched filthy frank? Go touch grass instead of overreacting to everything.
i like that even though anna was dragging them and talking about the controversial things they’ve done, (basically hating on them) that she still respected their pronouns
@@olive.1575 lmao this is a very basic thing to actually respect everybody's pronouns which everybody has to do... Appreciating anna on this while forgetting what all she has done is funny
I mean, yes I understand what jayus did and that is totally wrong and their apology did sound sincere without actually sounding sincere, but I don't understand why people have to give them so much stress over it. Yes they need to learn a lesson but is it really necessary to potentially ruin their life?
i didn’t think it was this serious, but if anna’s making a video on it, it must be edit: y’all there’s something called ✨ sarcasm ✨, truly an outstanding concept
Agree, like their “facts” are wrong and i’ve gotten seriously hurt trying them. OKAY ITS MY MISTAKE FOR DOING IT I GET IT STOP COMMENTING RUDE THINGS!!!!
imo, their apologies are really good but then as soon as they're done apologising they immediately pin the blame on another person and that's just weird and messed up
exactly, when they realize their sorry apology didn't work they pin it on someone because their too embarrassed to even try and remember why they apologized.
Idk what people expected from someone who "studied" psychology. They are trying to use all what they have learnt to make people feel bad/sad for them. I didn't know what was going on until I saw one of the comments on their video saying that they used the n word with hard r.. that kinda made me uhh.. uncomfortable, never seen them on my fyp since :)
I have a degree in psychology. Idk why you put the word studied in quotes. Do they not have an actual degree or something? I genuinely don’t know so I’m genuinely asking😩 but I promise, not all of us use our psych education for evil like this!! It seems it’s really common for content creators though. Big yikes.
Part of them saying homphobic slurs may be them being a part of the community thats trying to turn slurs into possibly empowering language. There are plenty of people who do that (myself not included, but I am part of the community) (sort of like black people saying the n word, at least in a way) Edit: she -> them
Stop trying to get famous on other people's back.stop this cancel culture THIS is toxic.millions of people against one person who till didnt even get to their 30s IS toxic. Let people go and forgive bruh get a life omg
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Thank you for letting me know this, I wasn't aware of this cause I only go on TikTok every so often. As a woman of color and a member of the LGBT+ plus community I don't feel right supporting her anymore, which makes me sad because I did enjoy her content quite a bit
ummmmm......just cuz you don’t like them doesn’t give you the right to disrespect their pronouns. i’m just stating facts if you don’t like someone that’s fine but at least use their correct pronouns like there are a lot of people in my school who don’t like me and know what my pronouns are yet they still use she/her
please respect their pronouns. i do agree with this video, i think that they should not be supported, but they shouldn’t get canceled for saying homophobic slurs if they identify as a lesbian.
People are so incredibly sensitive now. I get it, but if someone really does something like going and steals a wallet from a disabled person, they are far more disturbed as a person and would have put that energy into something else disgusting eventually.
Sad- I remember having so much fun just scrolling g through onlyjayus’s videos, and I’m very saddened to see this is what has become of their past and present actions
I knew about what she did like months ago since I used to follow her. I decided to unfollow her and try to keep up to date with the drama but the problem was tiktok kept showing me her videos and I kept forgetting about her controversy. 🤦🏾♀️
"Can we just respect anna for using they/them pronouns even whilst dragging them" If it wasn't for anna I would have been living under rock my whole life.
i think their apology wasn’t too bad but it felt like they were just saying sorry over and over again by using bigger words and the way they just decided to blame the black creator afterward disgusts me
Yall can hate on me but when i first saw the video with the service dog i seriously just thought it as a joke, it was an overreaction in my opinion, i understand there are people that actually do those things but come on yall need to take a joke. Cancel culture is just toxic af anyways like get a life instead of just trying to "cancel" ppl, there are more intetesting things to do out there than this.
What the fuck? How is joking about robbing a disabled person funny, explain to me because I want to know. Obviously disabled people are going to get upset because it's a ableist joke and they have no right to joke about stuff like that. And no it's not "dark humor" thats not how it works. You can think it's funny because you don't have to deal with that, but to people with service dogs who are trained to get help if they go into a medical emergency, they shouldn't have to fear getting robbed while going through a medical emergency. So no, it's not a 'overreaction' and call me a snowflake or sensitive I don't care, it wasn't funny.
12:03 I disagree. Some mental illnesses are an excuse to treat people like crap. Although its bad and I don't think anyone should, it is an excuse sadly. I'm only speaking from my own past experiences from when my depression was terrible, so I treated everyone around me just as bad.
@@mr.lobalobayt3489 Yes. I can definitely see someone being racist because of some shitty mental illness. And *no* because it’s not an excuse to just say “Sorry i’m racist, I have [insert mental illness]” I don’t think that’s right. And no, i never said you’re allowed to be racist just because you have a mental illness. Look up the definition of excuse, i think that will help understand. I still don’t think it’s right to treat anyone like crap though.
@@Narvella mental illness has nothing to do with being racist, they may be more angry and say racist things but that means that they are racist already and showing it now because they’re angry
The thing is...if the wallet joke had been done on a stand up routine, it'd just be a dark joke. They wouldn't be canceled over it. But I guess because of the platform it's on, it's not okay? The internet confuses me sometimes.
While I think jokes have limited bounds and that it’s bs that you can only punch up. She or they (I’m not sure what Jay goes by) should have said after to not actually do that, and tell how to help. Sensitive jokes can be made funny, and most people can make jokes on most people. Disabled people have made jokes like that before and have even found it funny that others will tell those jokes.
@@amor7886 they do! Sorry I’ve never seen any of jays videos besides the rare TikTok’s that pop up in videos and such. I got rid of my TikTok in like 2020 when I made it in that year.
@@amor7886 all I knew was that they had or have a gf. And that Jay told good tips and tricks. (That’s why I said she or they, because ppl can be put off by calling a she they or a they a she so I just went with an or)
The blind person joke reminds me of the meme where a kid says a joke to their parents and it turns into a serious lecture, bruh just chill, its a joke, dont watch offensive videos if youre easily offended...
Snowflake all over the internet these days. Every joke that is "slightly" offensive. Will be taken offensively and not as a joke. Onlyjayus is hilarious and i will keep supporting them. They are human, and by far not perfect just like me.
0:26 wow I feel attacked cuz I wasn't allowed on TikTok until I turned 15 my Dad said it was too dangerous for little girls nowadays but even now I only watch commentary or tea channels
For me the most hurtful thing about this was addressing ADHD as a "reason" to be rude. I am diagnosed with ADHD and I personally know many people with the same diagnosis. From my own experience I can say that most of the people with ADHD find equality very important.
man, being a content creator is really scary. once you make a mistake, even if it's a mistake you made years ago, and once people found it. there's no turning back, even if you apologized, genuinely or not, majority won't even forgive you. what a sad life.
not going to lie, it throws me off the way you say their name. also, I love onlyjayus and I believe that the apology was pretty responsible and valid. it's really just that people don't like accepting apologies nowadays, but then if you don't apologize, they say, "why didn't you apologize? oh my gosh you could have just apologized but instead all you did was say nothing ✨ canceled!!✨ 🧚🏼♀️"
Not to be rude, but maybe the people affected by her words (e.g. the black community) may find those words extremely disheartening and overall wrong and not everything needs forgiving, accepting an apology is a choice.
if some one has a disability thats not some u should take advantage of thats f***ed up. Btw the apology video wasnt made sence, u say ima colab with the black community but they gotta want to colab wit you, and im pretty sure thats not gonna happen after u accuse some ppl, and lie abt it cause thew have a disability. what she did was wrong
Crazy how someone fooled so many people online and you find out who they really are it all happened so fast and onlyjayus's life is probs ruined forever after that scandal
