Peace is created. If a man’s life is already chaotic he can’t expect a woman to come along and “be his peace” If you want peace then you need to create an environment that’s conducive to it. Often times the men who blab on about this peace bull crap are out there running around sleeping with hundreds of women (and bragging about it), they have multiple baby momma’s, never been in a real committed monogamous relationship, raised without a dad, don’t have a solid career they just have that get rich quick mentality. How tf a man like that is asking a woman to bring him peace when he’s already a mess. You attract what you are. A solid, successful and disciplined man will know how to surround himself with the right people. He already has his act together no chaotic woman will be able to faze him
@@TravelBug189look like u don’t know or ever experienced peace. Have you see how a woman calm down a crying baby? Not necessarily she is the baby’s mom. This is called bring peace or motherhood.
@@xinxinxu3376so u want a mama as a wife ? Good 😂😂😂cuz if ubwant a wife then u gotta do what the user has stated above , but yeah u boys never wanan work right , u can be broken u can be demanding can be choosy and can brag about how many womens u can have like this men here and be called cool but if women does same ohhh loook gold digger ohh look she dosent have a heart she dosent help me , ohh look she has truma she is cold and unworth of me , yeha yeah we get ir u baby boys wanna young mumma to feed ya 😂😂
I can confirm this, a truly beautiful woman (inside and out) values integrity, and that includes sexual integrity. Before my current relationship, I would attract alot of 'successful' men and automatically screened out the ones who lack sexual integrity (i.e. sleep around). I value my womb, health, reputation too much and plus I was looking for someone to build a legacy with, so integrity was key.
Let's be honest, that's not true. The only ones with standards that stand the test of time are men. Men are unwavering. Unlike women, who will accept the utter bare minimum, even if she has to fight another woman over it. It's sad and pathetic, and this is why women get ran through by good for nothing men
The sad part is why would the cute normal girl want a guy that's been sleeping with all these super hot girls. Know your worth ladies and know the man you're with, don't be the last option.
Haha.....women needs to learn that asap....these guys want to hv fun and still know they wud find a modest girl to settle with....feel sad for these girls
@@koolaid3010 not at all, I mean men of principles, integrity, privacy, respect, they are in their lane, focused on their life, continuously self improving and adding good things to society. He can be a thousand-nare, millionaire etc. There are super wealthy men out there that have non of the above. So, no, I don’t mean “money” 😉
Because outstanding woman beats out superficial looks. Looks don't give peace, understanding, support, love, respect. It's the woman who provides a home for him to come to with peace. The one who feeds him what he needs to send him out in the world to fight his battles.
Hearing this made me nearly tear up. I try so hard to be a great partner and person but no man I’ve been with has ever treated me very great. I’ve been with three people, married once and divorced in the first year due to his adultery and porn addiction. I wish I could find someone that genuinely loves me for me and makes me feel beautiful and special. One day
😢I will pray for you sister, hope you will find peace in our Lord Jesus Christ. Only he can heal and restore your soul and all broken hearts 💔. Love you 😍
Stop believing what society tells you: that you have to get a man who has all his shit together. Get a fixer upper, a humble man. Wait for that man, he’s waiting for you!
It starts with you making better choices. Usually, women who complain that no man treats her well are tvise who don't recognize guys who aren't narcissistic and self absorbed types as men, they are usually seen as Bill paying accessories. The prototypical 2nd husband.
That's my husband. I'm a very average looking woman, never dress up, never wear heels, kind of the "ugly" version of romantic comedy figures before the glow up and I'm used to being overlooked by most men. My husband though is seen as very attractive. When we got together he once looked at me and said "I don't know what exactly you do to me, you're not even my type"😂 Been together for 22 years now and I'm his best friend and safe place. And I wouldn't be if he wasn't the same for me.
My wife is very beautiful. Definitely an 8 or an 8.5 in her prime.... but she thinks that she is average...So I started dating her in college, and we have been together for 30 years now.
You find this comforting? A 1 Thessalonians 4:11 woman should not want men that sleep around and are proud of it. It's ungodly. Are you supposed to be happy that he wants you even when he's whoring around? Get your thinking and Christ given worth out of the gutter. You don't want them. They're not good husband material.
The heart speaks volumes. Can any women answer or relate to not being insecure single, but becoming insecure in a relationship even if my partner does nothing to make me feel such a way ? Social media and the women that are broadcasted makes me worry bc I dont look like them
@@Manasa545 the problem is such men wants to sleep with everyone but wants to marry a girl that only sleeps with them 😂 what bullshit mentality. Stop glorifying such men
I chose to be single thinking how many women sleep with one man if he got good looks 😂 .I have found love in myself ,having a pure soul is better than sleeping with a thousand pretty women
Maturity is when a man prioritizes the quality of the relationship over her physical appearance. Yes, you still have to be sexually attracted to her. Stay Focused!
This ain’t to sound like a pick me but that sounds like me and it’s not easy for us especially the cute baby face part. Yeah you don’t age but then it brings along guys who think you’re gullible or naive and try to take advantage of your kind heart. I’ve chosen to stay single forever. So peaceful. Better than trying to find a needle in a haystack or play Russian roulette
Height, weight, colour body shape…. Men really can’t see woman passed the physical and can never understand or have the ability to select on our true value…. He spoke like he describing an object.
I think people are missing what bro is saying here.He is saying they always "END UP" Meaning their journey in relationships and what they have decided to settle for is the chilled pretty & private girl compared to what they had before.I think this is true cause guys mainly look @ the outside first then the heart later. They finally meet someone thats a super woman, they no longer think about that hot girl than only had looks to offer and nothing else.
At the end of the day you don’t wanna be with someone with a big ego. Sometimes when the girl is more attractive it gets to her head and there’s too much self importance. Same for guys. Just work on the ego a bit we can all come down a little
@@user-lk1ts3om3x essentially, yes. This only works with men who truly understand women tho. Can’t be just your average guy, cuz average nowadays = simp
Depends on people, but usually only woman who also already sleep with other men doesn't mind But virgin woman, especially religious woman, only accept virgin man too
Like the other commenter replied - virgin women who are religious are sort of romantics in their head and do not want a man who has slept around as they don't want to have to deal with all the past baggage a man has from dealing with other women. Plus, there is also the concern that if he likes to sleep around he's going to want to continue to do it. And if he managed to get an STD in that phase - then forget about it, she definitely does not want him. She can't have kept herself all those years for someone who she has not met yet and not have someone who had the courtesy of doing the same. So don't get it twisted - women without baggage don't want them as well. Do not think otherwise. And not saying that the reverse doesn't happen but if when does - it's either an arranged marriage or she got to know him when he genuinely changed after that phase in his life and caught feelings before knowing about his past history and even then - some women will break it off.
My hubby is a pro surfer. Dated bikini models that were drunks, borderline, medicated, violent. I’m a solid 5 with a warmth and dedication that only allows for peace. As well I submit….22 years in and we are pure synergy and launching awesome, not confused, children in the world. Choose well. And a clean house, nice dinner with soft music goes farther than knowing porn star moves, swear.
@@HawraaHasan-ff4gq did the companions not have concubines for sex but only married some based on who were marriage material? Were they not real men according to you? Looking forward to your BS answer. Some women are not worth anything more than that, it offends you deep down because you know it’s true
Ngl thats facts the girl that had my heart wasnt the prettiest wasnt the smoothest with words. But she was super chill never felt safer and happier saddly didnt work out long distance never really works but we still cool.😪🤷♂️ wish her the best 🫡
Just be yourself. I'm not into Insta and all that but if you are you can still find a good man. I also don't recommend one night - stands and all that. That's madness. Pray to God and He will send someone that is a blessing.
I’m sorry but I disagree. when in love even the hot girl starts turning into a cute private girl! It all depends on the energies both parties are giving off! It’s just way deeper than that!
Is this supposed to make good girl feel good that they got picked by “ successful men “ who have a history of “successfully “ sleeping around with whoever they want !
Basicly this is what it is about A lot of guys want to bed the woman their friends want . But they don’t want to marry and have children with the woman their friends want These women will also marry these men who have sold their bodies cheap and sleep around but while married they will continually be on the lookout for a guy who hasn’t slept around
Unfortunately what a lot of these guys don’t realise is the woman will marry a guy whose slept around but will always be looking out for a guy who hasn’t
I’m that woman, naturally beautiful, good hearted private etc, a lot of substance, a quality woman… yet he left me for the hot manufactured insta girls lol
I feel so lucky to have a woman like that by my side. They don’t even understand how attractive and valuable and rare they are. I pray that my siblings and close friends find good women too because a bad one can mess up your life.
Cos hot people sometimes. Thats the only thing interesting about them.. And also rich people sometimes thats the only thing interesting about them. Theres actually regular looking people with regular income that has more layers that you wont get bored of.
Base requirement: Relatively attractive women Workable skillsets: 1. Stay clean and hygenic, trimmed nails etc. 2. Decent make up skills, not heavy makeup, i repeat not heavy make up. 3. Wear beautiful but not very revealing clothing. I repeat not too revealing. 4. Have a social media profile that has you outside and having a good time, but don't have too much on there. Don't post everyday or anything crazy like that, have maybe 30 or so posts. 5. No plastic surgery or lip filler or any of that. I've seen women with lip filler and they look stupid AF. 6. Learn to Cook, different foods, e.g. different styles of proteins, carbs and salads. Fats are either oils or contained within protein food sources, e.g. fish oils. 7. Learn to keep a clean house. I mean properly clean, I am a man but a bit of a clean freak myself so have learnt to clean a house over time. I learnt partially due to my family not being super clean, so I filled myself with this knowledge. 8. Learn when things are appropriate to say and what is not appropriate. This is pretty major, but I don't know how to learn this, I learnt from observing others and making mistake myself. And never repeating a mistake.
it's not a thing if you're like that you will never have a siencer feeling will not have honesty in your feelings or your feelings will not be honest with anyone ever , me if I'm with a woman I don't see other in a front of her
