I actually thought a couple of months back that I’d pay for an album of Mary just reading stories. Her singing voice is stupendous but I also just love to hear her talk😊❤
I have no idea which was the first video. I do remember it was an easy subscribe. Your story telling in your video content and in your music is top notch. Love the new song. I may be the only person who thought this: if George Micheal and Sara Bareilles wrote a song…
Me too! Sultans of Swing with Leo was very entertaining. But then I learnt about all your original songs and your very eloquent intelligent views on the 21st Century music industry. I've been a subscriber and regular viewer of your YT videos ever since. BTW, I did buy a CD copy of Super Sexy Heartbreak. What a super, sexy, well-crafted album!
Hi Mary, the first video I saw of you was 5 years ago, titled “ What happens when I walk into a guitar store?” and have been watching you ever since, inspiring videos and you guitar playing is amazing to watch, keep up the good work👍
Rick Beato brought me here 2 - 3 years ago due to his appreciation of you, your creativity and knowledge. I'm classically trained, from a musical family, play trombone, a little piano and self-taught, badly executed Ukulele (which delights me to no end - I can play chords in 4 fingers!). I love your creativity, your intelligence, strength as a musician and human. I haven't seen you in awhile, and your name came into my head today, and here I am. I love who you are, your fun "Flowers" video, your explanation of how much work it is for you to create a video (those of us who don't do this for a living have no real idea what it takes for you to build these lovely pieces for us). I loved your John Mayer song ending (that was SO much fun!!) I love your humanity, personal strength and introspective nature. Thank you for your authenticity and such things as this lovely video. Thank you. Thank you for showing up as you. Your contribution and personal considerations such as this, are important and so human. I love your work, who you are, and your contribution to the world. Blessings to you, Mary. All love, wishing you the best and the highest to you. 💖
Hello Mary. I am a 68 year old guitarist that has played in cover bands since I was 12. I first came across you through Frog Leap with Leo. Been here ever since. Your talent, honesty, integrity, intelligence, and beauty as a person keep me here. Wish you all the best in life!
As a grumpy old 62 year old Boomer-guitarist with a a 30-year old daughter I'd like to give you a virtual hug. You are GOOD Mary. Good luck with the tour!
Found you through Rick Beato. Subscribed because of the awesome content (music, Martin history, music production in the current era which is MUCH different than the era I grew up in). Started as a professional musician in the 1970s (guitar teacher, played in cover, dance bands and toured nationally for 14 months). Ended up in the software industry for 40+ years. Moving into retirement in a few short weeks, I am starting to play more music again and starting to get into home recording.
My experience of your (Mary's) content is pretty much the same as Bill's here. My interest in music started early, but never got to even performing for friends. As a voraciously curious person, I follow you because you sort of give the same vibe, and your mix of music, knowledge, opinion, and emotional vulnerability resonates with my interests and character. Thanks for sharing that with us; I know it's enriched me in a few ways.
Hi Mary, I saw you with Rick Beato (get well soon) and stayed because of your interaction together. Plus, you're talented, smart and beautiful. You have the human touch, a unique quality of being an old friend. All the best to you Mary.
Hi! Watching you from México. You appeared on my you tube suggested videos like 2 years ago. I followed you because I felt you are an honest person, an authentic artist. You really have a beautiful voice, your songs are meaningful, a breath of fresh air. I’m an industrial engineer, and a music hobbyst, I had a rock band back in the day and I still play my own songs. I hope you continue giving us the joy of listening you. Thank you for your music!
This old man has been following you since your busking days before the Tube. Something about the way you presented yourself that made you genuine and real. Even today your research and information skills are impeccable. My favorite video was you and Danish Pete do Joleen - that was the one that captured the sheer essence of your voice. I can say that of all the guitar channels I follow I always wait for yours. Yes, I am a guitar player, musician, songwriter and worship leader for many, many years. Three years ago I was finally able to buy my dream L-00 Gibson but of all the guitars I’ve had over the years they all have been my favorites. And now I’m my years I’ve become a guitar teacher to one of my great-nephews. That makes me happy. Your channel makes me happy. Continued success in your future endeavors Ms. Spender and thank you for making this old man’s retirement a more enjoyable time to remember.
The first video that got my attention was "The Sultans of Swing" with Leo at Leap Frog. I subscribed and stayed because of you. Your integrity, honesty, and talent have always been spot on. Thanks for streaming and just being you.
My introduction to your channel was via your collaborations with Elle Cordova (aka Reina Del Cid). I’ve stayed a loyal follower, yes, because of the music, but more particularly because of the thought-provoking, insightful comment pieces you make, for example, those on deafness in musicians, narcissistic performers, and the history of Martin guitars.
Me too! Great fan of Elle's also for many years since she and Toni were still at the University of Minnesota. Nice to know that I'm not the only one who put these two together.
When I was growing up, it was in the era of albums. The joy of going to the record store, buying an album, bringing it home and listening to song by song by song while looking over the album cover (its details) and the liner notes. I would hear the songs played on the radio with the introductions by the DJ's. I would sit in front of the stereo and record songs off of the radio with the reel to reel and then the cassette recorders to make my form of "mixed tapes". I remember my 1st CD in 1980. I was so excited for the new, great sound and dynamic range. I have been fascinated through your observations of how the industry has changed and what a struggle it is to get your music out there for the fans to hear. I have a huge appreciation for musicians and their skills. I grew up in the time of those musicians doing amazing craft with their instruments. So many. But one for sure I still admire to this day is Mark Knopfler. His skills are amazing. And because of that, I have enjoyed your educational videos of how method of playing. You certainly make it all look so easy. I cannot remember when I 1st subscribed or which was the 1st video I watched. I do know I was a fan from the get go when I found your stuff. Thank you so much. Much Aloha. I am totally enjoying your CD I received in the mail.
I don't remember how I found you but I'm pretty sure I just liked how chill and honest you are. Also, this video is great. When RU-vid was just starting I remember my favorite part was to just listen to singer songwriters sing their songs as if I was right there next to them. It feels intimate and real
I'm a guitar and piano player, I have been playing in cover bands since the late 70's. You popped up on my feed during the COVID lock down. I thought to myself, now here is an intelligent, well spoken, creative person putting it all out there for the world to see. So I subscribed.
I can’t remember what made me find you but I came for the personal content. Love that you’re truly you, you play your own style and you make content that is uniquely you and generally about music and guitar.
Hello Mary Spender. You showed up in my feed today for the first time. Like you, I’m a songwriter, singer and musician, as well as a sound practitioner and painter. I’m 74 years old and am sure I confuse the algorithm here and don’t really care. One day, I’ll post old full demo’s of my songs from the 80’s, the next day, I’ll post a new song that I record with guitar or piano and the next I’ll do a paint with me video. I like your sound, voice and style of writing. Keep it up!
I honestly can't recall what video of yours I first watched, or which one made me subscribe. I'm fairly certain you were among the first dozen or video creators I subscribed to when I first realised this platform was actually good for original material (and not just watching a medley of 90s Tango ads, though that's also great fun)
First saw you on Rick Beato’s channel discussing one of my favorite songs, “Operator” by Jim Croce. Your appearance with Rick served as an imprimatur of your talent. And your conversation with him clearly demonstrated to me your talent, expertise, and thoughtful intelligence about your art. So I viewed some videos on your own channel and I was hooked. I enjoy your songs and your collaborations - especially with Josh Turner. Me? I’m a 75-year old journeyman guitarist who hasn’t played for anything but my own pleasure in decades. But I love old rock n roll, blues, folk, and singer-songwriter music. I’m a fan who is rooting for you and I hope to see you performing live in the US soon (Philadelphia, New York would be great). Thank you for sharing you life with us.
The first time I saw you was when you visited Rick Beato in his studio. Then I saw you colab with Adam Neely and colab with Paul Davis and by that time I signed up to your channel.
I can’t remember the One video that caught my eye. Your honesty, guitar playing and yes that voice, you are a true original. That’s what bringing me back time and time again. I’m aging guitar player and I love finger style. You’re funky , soulful and somewhat folkie. That checks all the boxes for me.
You do have a real job. You are a singer/songwriter/musician. You are also a music teacher to all of us who watch you on RU-vid and other formats. Many among us are not just viewers but also your students studying your wisdom under your learning tree.
Hi Mary. I’m a 60-year old Norwegian engineer with no musical skills at all. I stumbled across one of your videos where I think you asked if one could hear the difference between a £200 and a £2000 guitar. Since then I’ve stayed and learned a lot from you, about things I basically knew nothing about. Plus, I love your soothing voice and your perfectly pronounced English accent😊And, I think you make great music. I’ll stay if it’s ok
Don't ever change who you are! I started watching your channel three years ago. I subscribed because you are so genuine and engaging. I love your stories and how you tie your music to your life. It is totally worth my time, so hopefully, that helps you see that it's worth your time.
Can’t remember how I found this channel. Suspect linked from Rick Beato. But stumbling across something genuine, whatever the genre is rare in RU-vid and stands out. Hope to see you live in Bristol. Keep Buggering On!
your resilience... it costs you... but you are an example. Whatever you'll decide to do, you'll be an example of resilience, passion.. I could go on with adjectives... don't stop sharing your music and don't stop listening to people, anyone. Thanks Mary.
5 years ago on a Chewsday Tawks episode, The RU-vid Algorithm happened to FINALLY get it right and left your video in my "mailbox" of you showcasing your Vocal Transformation from 1997 thru 2018! I remembering thinking to myself how much of a need for new stuff to hear and see and your video Delivered The Goods and it was FREE!🤣 Being a Bass player myself from pretending in my room to actually doing shows and gigs with three different bands in front of Live Audiences made me appreciate your generosity in sharing your history with Fans and Family AND strangers! That alone made me ALL IN on this channel! It's been a swell ride! Thank you Mary for my seat! Cheers From Across The Pond In Ohio 👋
Old-timer metal/rock guitarist here. Saw you first with Sultans of Swing with Leo and checked out the channel. Stayed for the sultry, British accent...and good tunes.
1st video was Sultans of Swing with Leo. 2nd was Fast Car with Leo and that is the one that sold me on your voice. I sing but play no instruments. Your guitar playing and songwriting are interesting but your voice is what I come back for.
I happened upon your channel sometime around 2018? What drew me to subscribe was your attitude and the way you spoke calmly and candidly about your musical journey. Just something very sincere, humble and heartfelt. You aren't afraid to be vulnerable: this is a sign of courage and of humane qualities, imho. I wear a sweatshirt that says "Chewsday Tawks" and I wear it proudly, and when people inquire, I direct them to your channel.
I found you through Rick Beato's channel, and was drawn to your passion and determination to continue on your musical journey. I'm also a father of two daughters in their 20s embarking on their own creative journeys, and the transparent and fact-filled discussions of the realities of running your own small business in a creative field, trying to find the audience who will connect with your work has relevance to what they want to do. The self-employed economy is challenging but rewarding, whether in music like you, or fashion design and video production like them. I've passed on many of your insights to them. I also really enjoy your guitar history videos, as well as your commentary on the modern music industry. (Your video on disappearing live venues was sad and eye-opening.) And of course, your music. I often find myself bobbing my head to your songs, and thinking about your lyrics. Stay strong. Keep following your heart. It's a pleasure to follow your journey!
My first video was the carbon fiber guitar. I’ve been a regular watcher of your channel. I enjoy all the varied content because I’m a student of everything. We can’t learn new things if we already “know it all “. I watch as a fan of yours because good people like yourself deserve great success. I thank you for all you’ve taught me and wish you all the success you desire! Please continue to chase your dreams!
Sorry to hear of your recent health challenges. I send you sincere support. I really enjoy your channel, and in particular the eclectic range from journalism to music. You have a distinctive voice & take on things which I (and many I'm sure) appreciate. The first video I saw was your cover with Josh Turner of "Sultans of Swing." I watched it several times and the algorithm started suggesting you more.
I originally found your channel when I was looking for fingerstyle guitarists who play unaccompanied electric. You had a few funky little instrumental jams that I really connected with, as I find myself wanting to play more solo gigs in recent years. From there, seeing you really do some deep dives on songwriting, video production, and just hearing someone who's really just grinding it out and giving an honest view of the whole process of being a modern musician - it's made me a long-time subscriber. Thanks for doing what you do, it truly is inspiring!
Thank you Mary. I get discouraged as an unknown artist in a small province in Canada. You are very encouraging. Now that I am working and writing songs in a jail as a chaplain, my music is shifting again. I will keep writing. I will keep playing. I will almost certainly be unknown and my music will die with me. It doesn’t matter. I will be who I am and write what I write. Thank you for the encouragement to just keep making my mistakes and sharing them.
Hi Mary, found your channel by algorithmic chance, and I really appreciate your down-to-earth style and calmness. Artists, esp. musicians will stay relevant. Things will shift, surely. But those who care about and want to connect to real people will seek the originals, not the generates. And those who don't care are already diverted to the mainstream cash cows since the advent of broadcasting. Which contributes to the all encompassing homogenization of mainstream content. It feels exchangeable and mass produced. And thats next door to "liveless" generated content from AI. When I still can see the artist within or behind the art, I can relate to it. That makes it relevant. I'm an older guy who enjoys the luxury to create music as a leisure time thing. As it is Midi based stuff, I even don't qualify as artist (at least I was told 😊). And my type of music making is already completely taken over by AI... so I'm sure I could create better results if I would loop prompt my way to a pleasant song. But is it still my result? Surely not. It's a creativity ghost synthesized from the creations of millions. My contribution is near zero. When I create "my stuff" I decide upon every note, every timing, every patch, every automation. I can fret hours over a synth pad, until it sounds "right". That's all me. AI can surely surpass me, because it can tap on the ability of hundrets and thiusands of great artists. But it cannot replace me - at least not for those who care... And that will be the key for all of us... tend to those who care. Just my 5 cents...
I randomly search for new music. Watched one of your Song videos and found your voice very soothing. Stayed for the excellent writing and Docu-style videos. As and Older Gent I appreciate the integrative styles of younger independent artists that don't stick to the canned Pop music of the day. I listen to your CD at least once a week. I share your music with everyone I know. You are excellent and should be proud of what you have accomplished so far. I look forward to your content. Keep up the good work.
I saw some of your videos a few years ago, offered to me be the algorithm of RU-vid. Since I build, modify and repair guitars for a living, I am alway interested in knowing guitar players/ musicians. It was a time ago that I saw a video of you, untill a few days ago when I discovered the channel of your Noruegan collegue, from Frog Leap Studio. You form a _perfect_ team there!! Thanks for your music and sharing your thoughts, love to listen to both.
My first was either the first Tuesday Talks or your My Favorite Guitar Pedal video 7 years ago! I love hearing you talk about songwriting and the business and everything else. You have a great speaking voice as well as singing voice so I like both!
You were traveling to New York and gave away a guitar. Loved your openness and sensitive adventure. Keep coming back for your honesty and vulnerability as well as the music.
I honestly cannot remember when you started showing up on my feed. It’s been years, though. I feel like a fellow troubadour watching you work out your path, hoping for your successes and commiserating with your struggles. Sharing your challenges makes my own journey feel less lonely. Brava.
Don’t remember the first video of yours I saw. I’m pretty sure I was recommended here from Paul David’s channel several years ago I’m a 50 year old hobby guitarist. American male. I stayed because I appreciate the music and the variety, quality, and thoughtfulness of the videos. And I like your music.
Hi Mary. Thanks for this channel. I'm a 60+ year-old life-long music lover and songwriter. I find your content interesting and entertaining, aided in no small part by your great presentation style. The first video of yours I viewed (a couple of months ago) was 'The Truth Behind Cover Songs On RU-vid'; it popped up on my RU-vid homepage and the title piqued my interest. I viewed a few more over the next week or so and then subscribed in direct response to seeing 'Cassette Tapes. The Future Of Music?'. It's great to hear you are able to earn a living doing this and seeing you explain how you do it was a lightbulb moment for me.
Dear Mary, I found your channel 4 years ago. That's when I started playing the guitar. You inspired me to keep practicing and more impotant, enyoing the journey in to playing the guitar. Have a good one and keep doing what you do.
I don't remember what video that made me subscribe, but it was likely the first or second video. I think the first vid was a collaboration you did with another musician. I was still in Washington, so that was more than two years ago. I enjoy your content. I love your music. I am here and I keep coming back because you a bright and real. You walk your talk and just love that. Keep being a strong woman.
I first came across your channel about 4 years ago during a random search of guitar related content. I had recently retired and was hoping to partially fill the void by unearthing the old guitar in my closet, which I had taught myself to play when I was a 12-year-old kid in NYC fascinated with the first wave of the British invasion but had mostly abandoned to the hungry beast of a corporate career. I found your videos compelling and I’ve continued to frequent your channel over the years because I love what you do and the honestly and commitment with which you do it.
My “Mary Story” I was an exhausted, stressed 20 year old undergrad when I stumbled on the Frog Leap “Sultans of Swing” cover in 2018. It’s a bit embarrassing now but the truth of it is I was instantly crushing hard😂 I went straight to your channel and fell in love with the content. I also really enjoy your communication style. It’s almost…comforting?
Doesn’t Miss Spender sound like an old fashioned school teacher explaining in the nicest way possible why exactly it is that AI is going to give musicians and songwriters a good and proper THRASHING! 😂 ❤ 😎🎸🎼🎤🥁
Honestly, first time I saw you was when you featured in an Apple video. I’m not remotely musical but really admire what you’ve achieved on RU-vid and it’s your commentary on the business of RU-vid (and music) that keeps me subscribed. Thank you. 👍
I was randomly listening to different versions of Sultans of Swing and first discovered you on Leo's channel. So I subscribed to your channel and really enjoy all of your content.
Deeply thoughtful and articulated. Thank you. Probably first found you when surfing youtube, but I've returned because of your genuineness and openness sharing the joys and agonies of living the creative life. Please, carry on!
The first time ever I saw/heard you was on Norm Harris's RU-vid channel with Angela Petrilli. I was already an ardent fan of Angela's and there was a connectedness between the two of you that was palpable. Both of you were open and there was a feeling of honesty with your music. Thank you for continuing that honesty through your music and chats...it's greatly appreciated. Being past my mid 70's, I find those two things being more important with every passing day. Please continue your videos and your chats...we're listening.
The first one I saw was your Sultans of Swing cover with Josh. I loved your guitar-playing and voice that I subscribed immediately and added all your songs in Spotify and Apple Music. You've inspired me to pick up my guitar again after about 3 years of not playing.
I keep coming back to this video for the song!!! My story is that I spent a LOT of my adult life smothering my creativity and expression, sending me through some really difficult times (including a divorce and being a single mom of five young children). Many years later, and I met my Prince Charming, who is a creative genius and makes my dreams come true every day. He introduced me to your channel. You are stunning and I love your peaceful style. You make it look easy, even though we know it's definitely NOT!
I remember first discovering you when I was searching for my first set of microphones. After watching your performance, "Taking Shape," I was sold on getting the Shure PGA series. Six years later, I now have my own recording studio and continue to watch your videos, admiring your continuous interest in the change going on in the music industry, your strong will to adapt, and the passion you have to staying true to yourself as an artist. I think it's reassuring to know that it's ok to feel worried from time to time as we try to find our places in the music industry, so long as we keep moving forward, and hold on to the drive we have for following our passion. It's always a pleasure watching your videos ^_^
the get back video response was my first, husky vibe, I think it was a mac cover that made me subscribe ( never heard voice like it). a lone wolf cd, a performance of church bell in a nicely lit spanish square and a super sexy heartbreak later, i'm still here Mary.
You popped up on my feed as I watch a lot of guitar and music related content on RU-vid. I wasn’t sure about you at first but the more videos I watch the more I like what you produce and also your music. You’re a very genuine person Mary and that’s what I respond to. As long as you keep doing what’s important to you in your straight forward honest delivery I’ll keep watching and recommending. Like any viewer, I’ll spot the moment you stop being genuine and I’ll tune out. Best of luck with your channel and music.
I first came across you in one of your collaborations with Rick Beato. I liked your take on music and your enthusiasm so tried your channel and was delighted by the varied content. I like your original compositions, your covers of classic material, your explanations of music and instruments.
I landed on your channel by searchiing fingerpicking artist. Your style and your sincere expression of your craft is why I've stayed a subscriber. I'm 66 years old, retired and playing bass guitar (after a 39 year hiatus) and guitar (a 29 year hiatus) again. I'm writing a playing again because of people like you. I don't write songs for money. At my age, I realize that my *ultimate* retirement will come sooner than later. So, I'm writing to leave something for my children and grandchildren, my friends and, I suppose, for folks like you who've been an inspiration. Post-thyroid surgery, I can't sing very well but I try. If you're curious, search for "Circles in The Rain" by The Simian Grip Collective featuring Curtis Dunlap--that's me, I'm the only band member. Thank you for inspiring this old codger to play finger style.
I learn a lot from your videos. I don't play an instrument, don’t sing, compose… but I just love music. Simple explanation. And, what I often think about, have you ever thought about recording audio books? Your pronunciation is sublime and the tone, speaking rate and sound are beautiful.
The first video of yours I saw was Showing You How I Write a Song. I was in grade 8 when I started watching your videos, and now I'm in my second year of uni. I remember playing Primrose for one of my school's annual guitar nights. You have been instrumental in my music journey, thank you. What kept me coming back was your mix of filmmaking and music, which are hobbies close to my heart. Though I do miss the Tuesday Talks.
Mary, I truly don’t remember how I stumbled across you but if I recall, Rick Beato was talking about you about a year or two ago and I came over and indulged a bit. I am not a musician but enjoy your takes on music and the world. I find your vids fun and very informative and your honesty is incredibly refreshing! And you’re also simply adorable 😊So keep on sharing your journey. I truly enjoy and I see that I’m not alone. Best to you❤
I have been following you and all your videos since the first one I saw was Sultans of Swing with Frogleap Studios. I still play that track several times a week. I also shared that video on every Discord group I belong to.
My name is Wade and am using my work device to make this comment. As a music lover since I was very young, I lived with the radio and my records, etc, for a very long time. I am currently using RU-vid as my radio station for probably the last 10 years or so. As with several others here I found you through Rick Beato. I think it was the video where he and Rhett were analyzing your song that I think was called The Great Wave. I noticed that about halfway through that Rick was moved emotionally as I was also. I thought to myself this girl really has something authentic and beautiful. I have always enjoyed stretching my understanding of music and between Rick Beato, The Daily Doug, The Charismatic Voice, and you, Mary I have been enriched to an incredible degree. And just as you stated RU-vid is not a frivolous hobby for me either. All of this has helped me cope with the 5 different cancers that wife has been enduring for the last 15 years. From a much appreciative heart I say thank you so much for being who you are and making a valid contribution to my music world!
Frogleap with Leo was the reason I subscribed! Don’t be afraid of failure. I graduated with a print journalism degree and sent my resumê to dozens of newspapers including my local only to be rejected by all of them. Fall of 2001 a former high school English teacher hired me as her administrative assistant only to fire me after 9/11 because 65% of her clients left for fear of profiling. I did manage to work as a PA announcer for four sports at two colleges and spent my first year post-grad working for the athletic department as their first ever assistant sports information director only to be after a year citing budget cuts. Ironically,the guy who took over was the same guy I had been a boss for when I did the post-grad job. He spent 15 years in the position. Hang in there. Failure can breed strength of character if you channel it to your own needs!
5 years ago in a guitar store and then busking in NYC. You’re disarming, honest, but more than anything, you take us with you on the journey. It’s the variety of posts that keep your channel compelling. Please don’t doubt yourself, you’re amazing and inspiring. Thank you for doing this.
What a question. I don't think I could answer that question for most RU-vid channels. But for you, easy-peasy. I first heard you performing Sultans of Swing with Frogleap Studios. Great performance. Then I sought you out on RU-vid. Finally about that video. I don't like Heavy Metal, but I make a point of listening to all sorts of music (and all sorts of opinions) to keep my brain working. So glad I did. Good luck on your tour.
I'm a 73 year old former guitar bum (played all the local bars for decades). Now I play guitar mostly as a hobby. I was surfing RU-vid when I came across one of your videos, I don't remember the subject, that I found interesting and subscribed. It was some time later I viewed one where you played an original in a live setting as you just did. A feeling of respect came over me. Here's someone doing what we all wish we could do. Making a life out of music.
For me, it was Sultans of Swing with the crazy "Frogleap" guy. At first, I thought you were an actress he hired. Then, when I saw you play guitar and sing, I knew you were a very talented musician and vocalist. Then I subscribed to your channel. I agree 100% about what you said about "self expression".
I had a lot of free time in 2020, between retinal reattachment surgery, covid layoff and then colon cancer. I started rerecording and uploading my old songs and then discovered other artists doing the same. I found you via Rob Scallon. The video of the two of you playing his double-sided acoustic, which I found after seeing someone else post about a double-sided uke/mandolin! Four years later, the cancer is gone, I'm still here, and so are you.
I started guitar lessons when I was 10 - 63(!) years ago now - with a guitar rented from the teacher. The action was high and tight, with frets so scratchy and sharp that my fingers would literally be bleeding after an hour of practice. I didn't know any better - I figured all guitars were like that. It was a revelation when I finally saved up enough paper route money for a proper instrument. I stopped the lessons after just a few months, but I kept playing and getting better - not what I considered good, but I could usually hold my own. I dabbled in bands through high school and college, and even acted and played guitar on stage in several amateur theater productions. About 10 years ago, I started developing osteoarthritis in my hands. The disease in my left hand, especially the thumb, has progressed to the point where it can be quite painful, and occasionally impossible, to play. But playing still gives me joy, so I pick up a guitar as often as I can - I've got to keep the instruments, and my fingers, exercised! I learned of you from Rick Beato's channel 18 months or so ago. I don't know why it took me so long to subscribe to your channel, Mary, but I'll be back often. Thank you for your musicianship and calming presence - I truly appreciate both.
Honestly I fell in love with your eyes, then smile, then accent and then your music. I love the way your body moves when you have music running through your veins. It’s irresistible to watch.
Hey Mary, this is a special one! Ok- My name is Ralf Falk, born 1952, I am sort of an artist ( I play guitar mostly Blues and Jazz, slide, lapsteel, bass, plectrum and fingerstyle, I sing, write my own songs, do my own recordings, even build my own studio mics, make my own guitars from scratsch make my own amps and a lot of other things too, my first radio apearence was somewhere in the early seventies, I`m selftaught in most of the things I do but have trained my classical guitar skills by going to music highschools for 6 years) and I`m from Germany, living in the aria around Cologne. I had the great opportunity to be asked to play with quite a few of the old Blues masters that came across Germany during the sixties. I can`t really remember when I first sort of fell over one of your vids, but it feels like this was really some time ago. I do remeber why I stopped and watched: there was someone seriously talking about something I was interested in. From the very moment of the beginning of my listening up to the end I never felt uncomfortable or neglegted. There was somone I believed in talking serious as can be. This was the point! I highly apperciate the way you are argumenting and your choise of words in my ears is stunning. Maybe this depends on my way of talking which for me sounds kinda stumbeling. What I want to say is, I allways seem to can trust you. That is something special to me these days. I like to apollogise me for not having the time to leave you a comment and not having the money to serve as one of your patreons. Now let me please say a few words about the actual song you`d just played: The way you start it, I find it very interesting but hard to master musically, a great compliment at this point. But there is a little grain of salt: Please don`t get me wrong, it`s not up to me to critisize any thing you do with your own songs. Well, I felt sort of got a glimpse that you`r allone most of the time you are working on that song. Maybe you like to check up the tempi you use once again. This could make the feeling a little more content and smooth. What I really would like to hear is some swing as a constant part of the used groove in order to make the funkyness really fit in. This a thing I find in my playing too sometime, when I yust played the song all by myself during the working procsess. Maybe you can call a friend to play with once or twice, this might help. I´m not saying you played wrong or bad, but I feel it could be a little more snappy. These funky stopps and the like should be real funky I guess and I hope you can get the Idea. Please don`t feel too much concerned, it`s a good song anyway and seems to be very personell too. I am not the one to complain about your lyrics, `cause I`m not a native speaker. I think there might be a lot that you could tell me about my kinda speech. I`m just an old guy talking music and listen to some hopefully good songs. Sometime I I`ll play a little ( as you can see on my RU-vid Channel) but that`s no big deal as you can find out. I seem to be not clever enough to make my channel grow, anyway. I do not have any contacts to the big people in the buissiness and everything changed even withe the small ones too. But there is still a few things I feel I could tell others to get them some help. If you would like to know something about a topic you think I can help you with, feel free to let me know. I think I`d like to see you live but cant afford it. So good luck on your tour and have the most fun of it. I know I`ll see you very soon right here. Ralf p.s.: please forgive my unsorted speech and my mistakes if you ´d pleased
If I'm ever in Colone, I'd love to drop by for a chat and a guitar lesson. I enjoyed what you shared with Mary. I believe if she had more time she would comment back. She's probably moving on to creating something new.
"Cassette tapes, the future if music?" Was the first video I saw due to its intriguing title. I heard about cassette tapes making some type of comeback, specifically with Sony's new and very expensive "walkman", but I never thought it would ever make an actual mainstream comeback. I grew up with cassette tapes, so naturally I'm nostalgic for them and i think they look really cool as a statement piece. I wanted to hear your argument for why they are the future.
I found you through a search I did regarding how to make money as a musician. I’m a vocalist, have been a singer for as long as I can remember but until 3 years ago, I was just a fun singer- karaoke on occasion. Everyone always said I should do something with it but never was able to as I was a wife, mother, foster mother, then a cared for my late husband before he passed. That was my trigger…. Losing my soulmate! He wanted me to do this and I know he’d be proud. I’ve always wanted to make music, now I can. I have time for me. And when I sing, it’s soothing, it’s the only thing that eases my heartache. I now sing in hospitals, special care facilities, hospices and retirement villages, i gig in the weekend as a soloist, in a duo with a good friend, and at times I join a couple of bands to add some female vocals for their predominantly male sound. Love doing what I’m doing but although I can play guitar, I don’t play well or enough… to play a gig. I need to learn to play better and more songs so I can be independent without using tracks. I love your voice… and to you play guitar like I can only dream about! But Im wiling to learn, both guitar and to be patient ha ha… I know it won’t happen overnight no matter how much I want it! I live in New Zealand so cannot attend your tour! But I would love to if I could! Come to NZ some time! I’ll put you up and show you around ha ha (save as much as possible and spend as little as possible 😂) I’m listening to your advice, and doing what I can to just sing!!! as much as I can wherever I can! I might be in my 40s but I’ve got nothing holding me back now. Thank you for your videos, your music and your inspiration!! Wendy Wiparata Christchurch, New Zealand.
Mary. I am an 88 year old male living in the UK. I don’t play music but I love listening to music. I found you via your interviews with Reina del Cid, Toni Lindgren, JoshTurner, etc. I stumbled upon Reina and Toni several years ago and so enjoyed their music/songwriting. Then I found Josh and realized they all played together. Your video of Sultans of Swing with Josh was absolutely great. Good luck.
Your video for Sultan's of Swing showed up in my feed like 6 years ago and I have been watching your videos ever since. I just ordered Super. Sexy. Heartbreak on cassette today. I have been listening to a lot of cassettes lately. I have been playing guitar since I was 14 (1995). I have been in bands and mainly just play for fun now. I love your breakdown of music, mini documentaries and hearing your work. I love this new song, it is killer.
How I re-found you: somebody dropped your name in the comments in a Tora DAA-Video, and then I remembered a video about a special guitar-restauration-company you made. I'm 56 now. I had an enlightning week when I was 16 in school: some kind of a "project week"; a band. Two music-students started with us a percussion-circle each student playing a short easy to learn rythm that build up such a cool groove with 20 students. I will always remember this percussion-circle. They guided us to learn "black magic woman" from santana. This experience shines in my heart until today and always will. Used to play trumpet in my youth and a little bit piano. Bought an electronic drum-kit two years ago having so much fun learning and practising it. I am working as a math-teacher for 17 years now. Yesterday I had a very creative evening with writing a german text to the song "beast of burden" titeled "Über alle Hürden" ("over all hurdles") that encourages students to "take the hand and try" "I believe in you" "believe in youself" I would not call myself a real songwriter but what a great experience to write this text because it went pretty well. There is a different aspect about your videos. I will recommend your video as a suggestion for practising listening to english. Hopefully that the students will find it interesting and enjoy listening to you. You are genuine presenting yourself as a real human beeing, beeing human. Go on doing your thing.
I don’t remember. But I will say this, you are tremendously gifted. Despite your lack of confidence, you are such an interesting woman. Incredibly heartfelt, authentic and charming! You are a gifted communicator that we like to listen and learn from. We like you! Come to the U.S. and tour.
Sultans of Swing with Frogleap was my first video. I then wanted to learn more about your music. You have an amazing voice. I could listen to you talk about anything.
I'm a 70 yr old very amateur guitarist with limited tune to my voice. My son reccomended I watch your posts, during lockdown. A neighbour and I began to use music to break the isolation caused by lockdown and perform 50's, 60's, 70's covers for elderly people. Those with dementure respond in a magnificent way a memories are stirred....thank you Mary for all your dedication on here. I have tickets for Southampton in Oct. See you then..x