Well-made discussion. However, I disagree with the notion that you should not go into a marriage to "complete yourself". Marriage is absolutely about filling the gaps- the differences between man and woman are made by God and with purpose. The purpose of marriage, where we bring our complimentary skills and personalities together to travel life as a team. Just because your spouse completes you, doesn't mean you won't try to improve yourself and you won't be your own person anymore.
