@stevo6891 I’m sure you can find a goth / dark alternative person into sports and fitness. I think there are 5 things that might help 1) be kind and considerate - care about the other person. Most people just want someone who’s going to be genuinely kind (not fake nice and expecting something in return). ACTUALLY care about the other person and respect them / if they are not I interested why would you want someone not interested in you anyway? 2) be yourself - there’s nothing more attractive than someone who knows who they are and what they are into / want out of life. We all go through times when that changes or we’re not sure, but being focused on yourself and goals is always a good place to start. You need a good foundation for yourself before you can have a good foundation for a relationship 3) Be open to learning about their musical taste and willing to go to events with them if they want you to - you’d be doing it for them if it’s not your jam (literally). 4) don’t make them a fetish. A lot of goths /dark alternative people feel fetishized. It’s okay to be attracted but just don’t fetishize them. Treat them like a regular person (1-3 should help with that). 5) don’t judge someone before you try talking to them. Getting rejected sucks but if you don’t try you’ll never know. I recommend complimenting on style and then asking what type of music they like. Maybe that sounds kinda basic but I hope that helps! 🦇
As a long time member of the Southern California goth community and long time Bats Day attendee, I gotta say how awesome it is that this is happening in Denver!
