The Hard Truth About Dating in France  

Great convo!

Cheating should never be tolerated, its absolutely not a latin thing that is completely ridiculous and I come from a latin culture myself but this is just an a societal acceptance for this country not a cultural thing. It is absolutely questional more that people really should really evaluate. I don't think anyone should normalize it.

Hello, Thanks for the video.

Very telling that she talks about internalized misogyny and stereotypes (28:30) as on her channel she has a video about passport bros where she criticises the men but gives zero agency to the woman. Everything wrong with the mixed race relationship was purely the fault of the men (They only find western men attractive due to historical power dynamics and whiteness) and the women were nothing more than pretty wallflowers. I found it quite strange that a feminist would have these feelings towards other women, but her comments on this video show it wasn't a one off. Interesting guest.

Surprisingly i discovered by dating japanese that sadly cheating happens a lot there with mistresses etc and many dont even consider prostitution as cheating I was shocked

Thank you for video ❤listeting to this i am so happy i am married 😂thank god😂

I felt the issue was in India only but after this video it seems as universal problem

The more I learn about dating cultures in various countries, the more I am sure that the only adequate place is Northern Europe (and a few countries like Germany that are culturally and geographically close).

Guys try but they are shot down two girls didn't even tell their one was tryna make eye contact still looking back and back again.one was even in my class but most bad rejection then others who talk don't give their numbers.

you are 25! you are still young lol

Commitments freak me out

A 56:36 French thing

The point about being flakey is well put! I'm one of the people who is flaky too, and I put it down to a lack of clear transition to adulthood. I never understood what responsibility means, so I don't feel responsible for anyone else except myself. I'm not even sure if this is an ok mindset to have. Eventually though a total breakdown of marriage will lead to pockets of absolute isolation and total liberation, some level of extroversion will be required to be functional. I think we need to radically shift the way babies are born and raised in order to correct this issue as well. Here is my ideal life- I don't marry anyone ever, I want to have children but they are raised by a service where I and my partner meet them at my convenience, all obligations of child raising are taken up by specialty nannies at these services which i pay for (because i still want to pass on my genes). But what happens when I'm old? I hit 60, and then the dating scene ends, I have nobody. Gosh i'm confused.

So do talking to French people allways feel like your getting a lecture on the patriarchy at a liberal arts college?:D

You guys just have unrealistic standards make em lil normal

It's funny how she mentions going back to domesticity/becoming a housewife as if it's this really dark and dangerous path of life to take. And being a housewife is only as isolating as u let it be. If u don't have kids u have tons of free time to do ur hobbies and/or meet with friends/relatives. If u have kids u should be happy to be so involved in their lives and what kind of people they become. You build a much stronger bond with them and it is u who gets to decide how they are raised and not some stranger who babysits them or takes care of them in some kind of kindergarden facility (sorry idk what is the name in english). This also makes the kids receive significantly less attention than they need in these early stages of their life which causes them to seek more attention later on. Most father's biggest regret btw is that they never got to spend enough time with their kids because they were too busy working. When it comes to women and their role in society keep in mind that men's role is ONLY seen as a provider because if we are being honest the vast majority of women would not want a stay at home dad. If a man has no job he is of no use for the society. So women at least have one extra option that is socially acceptable (that of a housewife). If u want to be neither a housewife nor a boss bitch u can just get a regular job and have a stranger as ur boss ordering u around which imho sounds like the worst option considering ur neither strong/independent/rich nor do u live a less stressful and more rewarding life as a housewife. Society needs its members to contribute to it otherwise it starts crumbling. Making friends, doing ur hobbies and whatever makes u happy while great is something u do strictly for yourself and it does not contribute to the society. If it did it would be viable for everyone to just do their thing instead of working. No society would function like that.

Dating in France: french girl just care about hairline

This video was only interesting in parts; most of video was about culture differences and not much about dating.

Idk we try on all we can the one who are superior just women don't want to date anyone less superior from them financially or acamedically

1:13:40 she lost me at make friends. yes it is cool to have friends but that is just displacing your happiness to depend on whos around you to pump you up where as you should be pumping up yourself and attract friends. not seek them all desperate.

She is the problem

29:11 Alice claims that men are looking for fragile women because they want to feel superior? Not only false but way wierd bizarre take. So for example while I do see being petite an added bonus because there is something femine about it, I don't see that as something that makes me superior and thus her inferior. I also certainly don't feel Feeling superior to a woman has absolutely no bearing on how attracted I am to her.