You know, a lot of y'all may be judging Nadine's reasons for wanting to be married, but at least she's honest. I know there are many women struggling with her and it's refreshing to see that she is in that season of struggle and I'm glad Heather brought someone who is still searching for that contentment. At one point, we all were...maybe in regards to different areas, but we all did. Pray for her to find completeness in Christ. Leave her alone. We all aren't perfect and don't always make the best choices or feel the most "spiritual" and "complete." It's a daily battle of faith!
I started tearing up when Jen started crying . I feel the same way too , after a very hard break up that he walk me through I promised I would never put any man ahead of him ever again . before I was lonely and always looking for someone to fill this spot where God was always supposed to be . and now I am content being single and don't feel that lonely feeling , I am not looking for a relationship , if and when God decides to send me my one day husband so be it . ans if not so be it . very unashamed to share with anyone that happiness doesn't end with kids or marriage . with this season I can say I have grown alot and think very differently now. God is good
I know it's hard for Nadine and that takes courage to get up there and be honest. It's easier for people that are married to say certain comments on waiting. Some people think getting married in there late 20's is rough but think about people that are in their late 30's and 40's that may have to wait. Also, like the young lady said marriage comes with the struggles and sometimes that struggles are not talked about. Not saying you have to air your dirty laundry but be open and real. There are a lot of marriages of Christians that seemed great but years later it was revealed that there was abuse, infidelity and other issues. There are people that waited in God and there still was issues so even on waiting on God a married individual still can be subject to infidelity or other issues. It's by prayer and the grace of God some Christians didn't go through that. Be sensitive and encouraging to the single instead of saying what you think they need to hear. All singles stay and encouraged.
So interesting. I met my now husband through black planet. Similar to the first young lady we weren't really looking to date but found out we both went to the same university. Once we actually met face to face it was history. We knew we were supposed to be together. I believe God did use that online medium because I was sooo busy and my husband was so traditional and reserved. It is difficult because a lot of men's motives aren't pure and as a women you to have to have the right motives too. Good show segment. I've experienced the same on and off line. You can't force it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 let God do it.
Powerful. Jennifer and I share a similar testimony. I met my husband on FB and married 8mths later. We will be celebrating our 1st year anniversary on Oct 15th.🙌🏾 Heather, I follow you on FB and your testimonies and ministry helped me through my pruning season.
When I tell people my husband met me online I do get side eyes sometimes but even after we met face to face I was secure in following God's guidance. Both young ladies are very wise. Love it.
This is awesome. I took 2016 off from dating and set up a profile at the end of the year on Christian Mingle. After a fast, I started an online dating profile. After about 6 months I met this most amazing Christian man on Christian Mingle. There are a lot of good men on there looking for a wife material and not just a hook up. We're not married yet but courting and I'm loving every minute of it. We do devotionals and are on the same page with purity. There are alot of regular worldly guys also but that's where discernment comes in.
I think it's best to be lead by the Holy Spirit really building your relationship with him so strange voices don't lead you wrong. And being single is the perfect time to prepare for marriage who you are now is the same person you gonna be after marriage. Work on character and home skills lol 😂 I am drinking he same juice as a single
Love Heather. She's such a blessing to us. Love your guests. I am continually encouraged and as a Christian flight attendant, I would love to reach out to Nadine. 💕
Great video! Yes i believe it must be led by the Holy Spirit and its very important to make sure your equally yoked. I feel that once I let Holy Spirit lead, that's when my boyfriend messaged me 1 year ago on Instagram and we have several mutual friends. My last relationship was not godly and let to a lot of hurt, through that i realise i should never go ahead of God. As soon as I kept my heart on God literally few months down I met my boyfriend. if i didn't go through my last season it would not prepared me for him. We have a relationship build from the foundation of Christ and I never felt more content❤ Let God you🙏🏾
This is quite interesting coz the Christian men who're legit & seek a godly lady via online dating bemoan the fact that it's the serious, godly ladies who're really not available there. God's timing is best. Don't settle.