THE heaviest music video - "Signed, Another Man" - Clayton Shay 

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Clayton, you’ve got a fan for life, just from this one song! I’m currently watching my 32 yr marriage crumble around me. Subtle signs of cheating for about 6-8 months and right around our 32 anniversary in March, she said she was tired of our marriage and wanted a divorce. After raising 3 young men, 2 were twins, and going through the ups and downs that come with raising children, while keeping a roof over your head and the lights on, this hit me like Tyson! But I’m not begging anyone to love me. If the embers are cold in her mind, I don’t want to be around someone who doesn’t truly give it their all. This song is so beautiful and so rare for one to still care that much for the other, that they want them to be truly happy even after the heartbreak. In my situation, I don’t feel this way, simply because what I had to endure from a psychotic covert narcissist with BPD for 32 years because I didn’t want my sons to grow up hating me for leaving and I felt it was my responsibility to guide them through their young lives. Sadly I exchanged my internal happiness for the sake of my children and now that my life is in the sundown years, I feel as though I’ve been cheated out of 32 yrs. Thanks to anyone who took the time to read the story of my life ..

I love how this song is about a man who genuinely loved her and wants the best for her, even if it isn't him.

Just because she fell out of love with you, that doesn’t mean you don’t hope she’s still loved right

You ain’t a man until you’ve had your heart broken.

I’m a girl but I feel like I can relate to this just the other way around, I want him to be happy even if it’s not with me! 🥺

To let someone you love exit your life, no matter how bad it hurts, with such grace is the truest display of love.

Never heard of you and don't even know how I came across this video, but I am glad I did. Good stuff

Can't believe I just found this! God's timing can't be wrong, especially since my marriage of 25 years has been hit by the big D. I WILL ALWAYS HAVE MY JESUS, HE WILL NEVER HURT OR LEAVE ME❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[Verse 1] Hey Bartender, can I borrow that pen? I've got a list of things I need to get down on this napkin And she's been goin' out with somebody new And he's sittin' there drinkin' a beer across from me and you And if you could pass this along with his next drink But don't tell him it's from me [Chorus] She likes movies in black and white The summer rain and red wine And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile She talks to her momma on the phone About babies and country homes And how someday she'll want one of her own So love her the best way that you can Signed another man [Verse 2] Hey bartender thanks for helpin' me out It wasn't easy for me to get these words down He's sittin' there reading what I wrote And I know that she'll be better off 'cause now he knows [Chorus] She likes movies in black and white The summer rain and red wine And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile She talks to her momma on the phone About babies and country homes And how someday she'll want one of her own So love her the best way that you can Signed another man [Bridge] I couldn't fit everything on this note It's just a few things I think you should know [Chorus] She likes movies in black and white The summer rain and red wine And she needs someone who knows how to make her smile She talks to her momma on the phone About babies and country homes And how someday she'll want one of her own So love her the best way that you can And be everything I cant Signed another man Signed another man

That is what I consider Unconditional love. No requirements and willing to step aside for the other person well being over your own. ❤️

The most prolific, thought provoking song in the longest. Definitely gives meaning to absolute unselfish love, without limitation. You know you love someone when you can want for nothing but their every happiness, even if its not with you.

That's a beautiful picture and I love the thought of happily ever after ❤

My wife is calling it quits on our marriage and I miss her more and more everyday. This is one of the songs that is helping me through all of this

Country songs just hit different. This is bomb. The message is just *chef’s kisses*. Who’s cutting onions? 😭❤️

I actually love this song n that's from someone who always gets there heart broken

I'm speechless..... Every word is who I am, how I feel.... It's like you have been there every step of my life, thank you for what you do, it feels good to finally know that someone can relate to every little set back, feeling, emotion.

Its still hard to let her go but this helped me understand that she'll be happier with someone else. Thank you.

Came from tiktok added you to my Spotify this hit home

Song about a man setting himself free and wishing happiness 💪🏼💪🏼

It's awesome showing respect for the others relationship and just wanting them to be happy. Great message :)

I just want to say a huge thank you to my best friend for taking the time to show me this❤️

Gorgeous song needs to heard more often. True love, when u want them to be happy even if that means them not being with u. He’s been blessed with an amazing voice.

That song hit home. Literally walked down this road this week. I needed to hear this. Thank you

Absolutely beautiful, this song actually made me cry.

Right to the heart here man, sometimes we just want someone to love em right, when we didn't. Absolutely perfect.

Such an amazing group. Sound, substance talent

Listening on repeat… in tears… this hits. I hope you’re doing okay. You’re the epitome of a prince- no a King. I think a lot of people can agree no man is telling someone else things so she would be better off 🥺💔 you’re an amazing human being and such a kind genuine soul… ✨🥺

Clayton Shay, this Sunday will make a year I lost my husband at a very young age. I take this song as him telling whoever man I end up with the words you are writing as the other man. Like he is letting him know from above all the things i like and still keeping watch over me! This song makes be bawl just thinking of him! I love this song always! Keep making more great music Clayton!

Not sure why RU-vid suggested this from my SOJA playlist but I'm glad it was recommended. I haven't enjoyed country music since the 90's so this was a welcome surprise to hear.

This song hits so hard…. Especially when you are living these feelings

I'm not crying, you're crying 🥺🥺. This song is so beautifully written and sung ❤

Words sung as a real man who truly loves. ❤ INSTANT SUBSCRIBER BRO. Fantastic song. I hope she is happy now.

Seriously all a woman needs is a man to love her like this. I've been with my husband 21 1/2 yrs and we are so in love ❤️ it's literally feels like it's been a month or two. We have 4 beautiful daughters and he is my world my everything. Some ppl don't know what they have until it's gone. I see it way to much couples yelling Devorce! Once that's said it sticks to the wall and it will be repeated until it happens. Great song! Forever fan

Damn it hurts more when you’re actually going thru it at the moment 😔

A great song without a doubt. And I like how he takes the time to read and respond to the comments left about his music. You have a new fan here!!👏👏👏

You turned something sad, into a positive. THAT takes a lot of talent! Love this song. Can't wait to hear more.

Great song, so meaningful. That's all I ever asked my ex husband to do, to just let me go and let me be happy. He once in awhile calls me of course for our boys, but also to make sure my husband is treating me right. Guess it really makes em think. My good Lord continue blessing you with your talent ❤🙏

I absolutely love this song. This is something that is rare, you don't see this very often with my generation sadly. I often wish to have been born in an older generation but it's songs like this that give me hope. Even though I'm only 19, for some reason this song speaks to me, and I absolutely adore this song. I'm so glad someone can write a decent 'newer country' song without it sounding toxic, and it's respectful, not about girls in bikinis, or trucks. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!❤️❤️

Hearing this by chance and I've not stopped listening to all your music, amazing lyrics and voice to match 🤗

No woman deserves this level of... love.

This song popped up after another song. I could feel the heartbreak at the beginning, but the selflessness just sent me crying like a baby! Wanting them to be happy, with or without you, is the truest love, imo. My heart breaks for this "other man."

I listen to this song still.. and it’s still makes me cry. This is so beautiful and the utmost level of Respect should be given to you for being such a gentlemen even after she got someone else, and thank you sir for giving us this absolute masterpiece that we’re able to relate to 🥺❤️ much love

I’ve literally watched this 6 times today. Such a great song and story.

💔 this one got me! Guys, you are enough… stop thinking you aren’t! Here’s to the guys we love that think they aren’t enough for us and can’t give us what we need… to the ones telling us we deserve better… we don’t… we so badly wish we could convince you otherwise!

Beautiful song such a gentleman I wish you well I’m your career you have a fan for life ❤. Keep striving

Just wanted to say you're a phenomenal vocalist. So happy I stumbled across this song as it introduced me to a new favorite artist

This just popped up on my recommendation this is truly an amazing song.

I love the selflessness of love in this song, the gift from one man to another in helping him understand the woman that he's lost. The juxtaposition of the one man transitioning to the other throughout different scenes of her life is really touching.

This Is my first time hearing this song, I'm crying like a baby. A woman came into my life 3 months ago, we became close friends, and now she's moving to Florida, after I decided I'm crazy for her.

Im glad men can write break up songs without being worried they'll look to emotional This song is awesome and really tells the story

Wish I had someone who loved me like you love her in this song😢❤

This song just made me bawl my eyes out. Such a great song!

I adore this song with my whole being 💕 I wish more men had a heart like yours, if you truly love something let it go

Wow. I totally get this song. I am 54 yrs old & I have been in love with my ex for 37 years. I think of him everyday & have for 37 years. No matter who I was with, my heart has always been his. When we broke up, it nearly killed me. But I let him go bcuz I wanted him to be happy in life. If I couldn't make him happy, I wanted him to find someone that did. It hurt me so bad, but I really loved him so it was more important. I have never stopped loving him tho.

Loved it Clayton it gave me chills way to go man

For a moment I thought music like this was dead but nope it was brother Joe. Just wow. Hits deep.

Makes me think of one of my exs unfortunately I was the one who fell out of love but we both agreed we were better off friends and we’re both happy with our current lives I don’t ever wish for someone to go through this but when one door closes and beautiful one opens back up ❤️

Love it .CANT WAIT TO HEAR MORE !!!!

Smile and wave boys. It is what it is. Keep pushin onwards.

That look at the end tho, Clayton! Lol. Good job, buddy!! Love the song and video... y’all knocked it out the park!

Being a woman who has watched many men go through this pain.. even after losing me.. Apologies you have experienced it. Writing a song about how to move forward and wish the best for someone you cared so deeply for is incredibly thoughtful. Mayhap even healthy. Best wishes to you finding a woman worthy of your love. ❤

i’ve normally never been one to leave comments, but i had to on this one. seems like you got some real talent. just followed you on spotify, looking forward to seeing what you got next. keep it up brotha

This was in my reccomend, glad I clicked on it plus subbed..ya know it takes a real big man to do something like that!! Need a girls verse with a deut with ya.. going to listen to ur other songs now

It's almost funny how I found this song not long after I lived this scenario out with my ex fiance, it helps knowing others get it, heartbreaking it isn't me but I want her to be happy 😭

This man could squeeze emotions out of a rock with his voice.

This was absolutely beautiful, I felt every word ❤

Now THAT is how you love someone; you meet their needs as best you can, even if that means letting them go to someone else who is better suited to them.

You deserve to make it in the music industry

Hey Clayton, glad RU-vid suggested this for me. Fantastic song! And it seems like you try and reply to all of these comments, amazing! Keep writing songs like this and you will find your break!

Always love watching and listening to this even tho I know it was fake I still loved her

Letting go is the hardest thing you'll have to do. Moving on is next. Saying goodbye to all the things that could have been breaks your heart. Knowing addiction out wins a lifetime of dreams that was waiting to happen will never happen.

Nowadays she's not yours, it's just your turn...

Now that's a true man. Not many would do that to make her happy

32 years of foundation, 32 years of joy 32 years of love, raising them 3 boys.... 32 years gone by, 32 years stole away, 32 years of love gone, sunrise with your new day...3 boys and 2 twins, loved by both then and now and in between, lights on, pilot light going out, 3 boys knowing love, 3 boys finding out....1 man standing up, owning his faults, 1 man hanging in there, 1 man loving just because. Hang in the Sam the Sham!

this is gonna go big trust me and I've been here since the beginning remember the name aidan Nelson I'll be up there with ya soon I write and sing

Song means alot as I'm going through divorce after 14yrs of being together & 4yrs of it being married. Being cheated on sucks bro . Sign a soon to be divorced country man

Perfect. Make this type of songs man.

Imy breakup is still fresh, I'm way to bitter to be happy for him right now..

I love how therapeutic music is. The best therapy.

Are you signed to a label yet? This song is more than worthy

🙋🏻‍♀️ Best cover ever. I can’t get enough of this guy!

I know the pain it hurts just to hear my pain all over again

Cry every single time I listen to this song

You're going far ...I love this it's my new favorite song

Wow! Beautiful voice, and message! Good man! I need me a real southern man. It’s time for a change.

Because of going through something like this it means so lot more!!

Honestly I have been through rough patches when it comes to relationships and in all honesty I never been in a good relationship neither have I been in a great relationship either as I’ve been in bad moments I could say and listening to even the first part of the song made me feel that I was honestly just another man. There is still hope.

How am I just hearing this amazing song and voice?! 👏

Man i know this feeling watching the woman that your still love with in love with someone else.. worst feeling ever but at the end of the day you have to keep moving .

This all I ever wanted for those I loved and lost. I have even swallowed my own pride a time or 2 and congratulated a few.

Great signing always a fan of yours

Beautiful song.. i once let someone go so they could find happiness somewhere else and its the hardest thing to do gracefully... still love him til this day and lucky for me he loves me back and are together again but that pain i felt i wish on no one!

Lead your woman, don't let her lead you...

why am i getting teary eyed over this song!? lol

That's the magic about Country Music... you can relate.

We'll I planned a lot of things for today and crying was definitely not one of them. Man this is the most heartbreaking yet heartwarming song I have heard in a long while. Thank you!

The definition of if you love her let her go🥺☺️

For those who wish happiness and love to the one that gives them the most pain..

This song made me cry. 😢😢😢😢😢I’ve live through this as well.