The Ideal Husband 

Exactly!! I totally agree with you

True

As this good role model has been done by our prophets that's why people accepted their religion. There is no God but Allah and prophets are the prophets of God Allah

Star Cherry Masha Allah

Actions always speak louder than words

If you want her to be like an angel, create a paradise for her first

May Allah grant your du'a Ameen

Ya Allah accept this brothers dua, AMIN!

Ameen

Ameen

This is so true coming from a guy who have seing this from both the women and men side. Its so heartbroken that some men and women don't want to marry anymore because they don't believe there is someone outhere for them.

Very true. It feels really hopeless.

Ainahu Abdul Hamid Ameen 🙌🏾

Aameen

ameen ya allah

yes I will! I will be your prince 💪😉

@@ezwalduzumaki3161 lmao 😆

Inshallah

Ameen

@@ezwalduzumaki3161 May Allah have mercy on you

We should learn they’re are some people tho

But why prophet Muhammad marry eleven wives if islam permits only four marriages?

Husband appreciates what all I do like house things, cooking behind my back only with his 2 close friend.. Never never said or even a little 1 sweet word to me neither to any of his family member.. Am married for 4yrs now alhamdullilah, having 1 son living in joint family. Totally 10 members. For all 10 members I cook, clean all cooking pots and vessels, sweeping moping, making food all 3 times and taking care of kids.. It's so hectic I get so tired and get severe leg pain or knee pain. But my husband no matter what he would not tell his own sister (married and divorced) to help me or atleast cut vegetables or atleast wash few plates.. Even after doing so many things he blames only me but doesn't utter single word from his mouth towards his own divorced sister or his elder brother wife.. My husband elder brother wife, she too doesn't do anything and since now she is pregnant I don't complain about her.. Since last 2 days my husband not talking to me just bcoz I made simple rice for dinner 2 days before. Since its lockdown, and I had severe leg pain I made simple but nobody had. They said saying they don't eat rice or wheat items at night but its complete wrong they have biryani, fried rice, tomato rice n all.. I got upset even though I had leg pain atleast I made simple rice but they all ordered from online. My husband also got angry on me on this. I got so upset. Since last 2 days he not taking to me and yesterday he had a huge fight with me. I don't know what to do. If it was my mistake then I would surely agree but no its not mine.. My husband always fights with me for his sister, I should not say 1 single word wrong about her though she doesn't work or do anything in home and infact he even knows his sister is not so good character. She is married and divorced her husband within a year. She is 27yr old my husband is 33 and me 28yr old. Father in law too supports her own daughter.. Mother in law expired. Though he doesn't allow her to speak bad about me or disrespect me.. If in any case she says anything wrong he gets angry on his sister. Its like he acts being diplomatic. I shouldn't saying wrong about her and she shouldn't say anything wrong about me and he doesn't take any stand too.. Earlier also my husband had huge fight with me and he had hit me so many many times. I cry and cry alot. Please help me what do I do

@@onaction9677 Sister you are codependent and probably have unhealed childhood trauma. Please heal so your human dignity is restored so you know your own worth. May Allah heal you and heal your marriage. Aameen

@@M.Sid9.3 @M. Karim Assalamualaikum. Allah Swt showed mercy on me brother.. Allah Swt accepted my duas.. My husband is now transferred to UK London. As of now Iam in my mother's house after few months my husband will take me to UK and alhamdullilah I will live happy life with my husband and my son there.. Other family members who all took advantage of me are now struggling Esp. Cooking,cleaning.. They have to cook now.. No other options for my sister in laws.. Allah Swt helped me.. It's all about our intentions brother.. Thank you for replying. Iam happy in my mother's home now taking rest as I had severe leg pain standing so long long hours in the kitchen.. Now Iam free and after few months I will go and live with my husband.. Remember me in your duas.. I pray Allah Swt gives you load loads of happiness and success. Ameen. Jazakallah

Ameen

@@mohamedriyas4527 no bro

@@mohamedriyas4527 lol

TheUrduQuran 😅

So many good brothers around, lower your standards.

@@htmoh8115 You don't know her standards. Why blame something you don't know about? AND WHY SHOULD SHE LOWER HER STANDARDS?? WHY NOT THE OTHER WAY? WHY NOT WE MEN SHOULD INCREASE OUR GOOD POINTS SO THAT HER STANDARD GETS COVERED?

Sister are you still looking?

@@htmoh8115 I can give you a lesson in abusing, be thankful this is the comment of a woman and i would avoid doing so here. As for why it matters to me, that's none of your fucking business.

@Suuzuto Uzumaki rude? How? Have you been drinking?

Ajie I saw your name under another muslim vidéo too salam alaikoum

Sara ali , My sister PLEASE watch my playlists

@@kitkatpleasesubscribe6720 send me the link and I will watch it

Sara ali , sister what link?

then you will never married coz no one like prophet SAW esp in this day and age 😁

Momo Asraf toughen up. There’s 3billion women on this planet. Don’t lose your mind over 1. Move on.

I have since I wrote that, doesn't excuse the fact that I love the girl. I used to think the same as you dude, but I've come to the realisation that not everyone is replaceable... and I just have to live with that. 3 billion other girls, but she was my girl and I'll always care about her even if it's at a distance :) Inshallah our hearts reunite but if we don't I still pray Allah keeps her safe for me so we may meet again in Jannah

@@momoasraf3348 That's nice of you. I understand your pain. But what is meant for us will never miss us and what is not for us we will not get. Trust Allah. No point dwelling on the past. If someone wants to be with you they do whatever it takes. Loyalty is everything in this game.

@@awakenthegreatnesswithin Thank you for taking the time to share good words with a stranger on the internet, it says alot about you as a person. God bless brother :) Assalamualeikum

Momo Asraf glad to help my brother walaikum as-salaam

layek ali money?

The husband, should yes love her but also his religion as that would make him love his wife more. His deen is more important than money. Money is all root of evil because it will never be enough. To find a good righteous man to go to jaanat, he needs to have a good relationship with Allah swt. Think if you was given all the money in the world a) it wouldn't be enough b) what's the point of jaanat. As, muslims our life starts after death. So the more trials and tribulations we get we should have sabr and say alhumdolilah because Allah tests the ones he loves. He chose you because he wants to give you your reward in jaanat which is forever not this life which is temporary.

@@sarahexample2141 she didn't say anything about not following his religion...?

The woman have a handicap that is not able to work by herself and get her own money?

mier exactly I don’t understand why it’s the guys job to provide money for the famiy. I feel like they should be equally doing house chores and working.

Wa alaykum Salam wa RahmatUllahi wa Barakatuhu

W alaykom aslam w Rahmat Allah w barakato

Its there in FreeQuranEducation channel there is a playlist or just search ‘blessed home series’

May Allah make it easy for you.. just lower your gaze,fast and pray to Allah.. In sha Allah it'll be kheir

Ebu Qble No it’s not obligatory for your wife to look after your mother, don’t even ask her to do that because had she wanted and knew Jannah would be beneath her feet, she would look after your mother.. May Allah’s mercy and blessings be upon you ameen.

@@happygame1599 don't assume like that. Many in laws that I've seen go over board. If she's nice they take advantage of it an start treating her like dirt or slave. It's nice if she looks after your mother but it's not wrong if she doesn't. As long as she's not stopping you from taking care if your mother she's doing her job right

No. It’s YOURS. She is not your servant, and if she asks for payment for her to do housework/breastfeed your children/ raise your children, it’s her RIGHT. But if all those she does willingly, it’s a form of VOLUNTARY work as a charity for YOU, to which Allah will reward her immensely, as she is actually taking over your responsibility. Which was why Umar ibn Khattab was silent when his wife was angry at him. BarakAllah brother

Walaikum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatuhu. Welcome to Islam!!! It's not obligatory (fard) to get married. However, marriage to a Muslim is said to be half of your deen.

Salam. Hope you are doing well. it is only fard (obligatory) if you fear committing zina (illegal intercourse). If you have no fear of that and are fine being single, then marriage only becomes highly recommended, but not obligatory.

Assad Khalif I'm thinking more like...that would be a lie and hypocrite if you don't like the food and pretend to your wife it's good

@@sarahjames5673 it's haram to lie in every situation. Except, if you want to strengthen the relationship between you and your husband/wife.

Not sure which gender watched which video

Go to the gym brother No excuses

@@awakenthegreatnesswithin you don't even need a gym, you can jog outside. Its not that difficult

@@thamazightgirl yeah you can jog, but to build muscle we ideally need to lift weights

J D Allah can

@@awakenthegreatnesswithin Yes but The Noble Man of Allah Almighty can assist me Can you please assist me how can I find the Bride??

@@JDFromAnotherPlanet What have you tried?

@@awakenthegreatnesswithin Well I tried from halfourdeen but I hadn't find it

J D try muzmatch

so true the double standards are real

True words right there

Show good and learn and practice deen together. Insha'Allah you will see, what goes around comes around, the Goodness that is.

It’s actually the opposite

Chimmy Q no it’s not. So you’re telling me all women out there are ideal wives?