The thumbnail says it all. Been through this with my wife. We're no longer together. When you truly love someone, and love is a choice, it's not based on emotions or feelings, only to find out your spouse has been unfaithful is the most devastating humiliating hopeless feeling you'll ever experience. I literally thought about taking my own life. The thing that kept me here was I had 1year old son that I know needed me. Fast forward almost 20 years and all is well. We should always trust God fully and then leave all the consequences to him.
Here’s a hedge: Make it a daily habit of being truly interested in your wife! What she’s doing, thinking, feeling, dreaming of, interested in or wishing for. If you’re that tuned in to her, you won’t notice anyone else & neither will she! Oh and by the way, she’ll be so crazy about you, she’ll feed your hungry ego so no one else will!
