The Ladies Confront Sarah About Interrupting the Group Date - The Bachelor 

Victoria,omg.awful

It’s sad but this is definitely her character.

It’s sad but this is definitely her character. Why else would she react that way, even for reality TV that’s harsh.

I think she’s an actress. Her job is “queen.”

but you couldn't lie that, sometimes she speak the truth and people just couldn't accept she's actually right

I know so much cruelty for no reason whatsoever

It was funny not gonna lie😂😂

It was cruel and unacceptable. They should be ashamed of themselves!

She's a spoiled brat . She thinks the world revolves around her but it does not.

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THE BAGS UNDER HER EYES

I'm crying laughing this is great

I think it’s a stye lol 😂

Lmao

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I agree man I felt so bad

It was so fucked up. Like she was about to cry and they were still going!!! The lack of empathy is astounding

They got her to leave. Sad. Sarah for next bachelorette

@@PanamaCityBeachFlorida The girls ganged up on her in a calculated attack to get rid of her because Sarah was their strongest competition. It was wrong of Sarah to interrupt the group date, but the women were seriously overreacting. It's not like she blew up a daycare or something.

Love your comment!!!

❤ this! A ugly heart/attitude will shine through and change how people perceive you.

victoria is not even pretty sorry

Yeah I really hope he looms back and see's this footage, because Victoria, Kit, the Asian girl, and the girl that looks like a knock off Hannah Brown were being really mean. The girl that is deaf and the black girl were expressing there feelings but they weren't being mean about it. I feel really bad for Sarah after watching that. And now that the show is done filming I hope the other girls realize how ugly they looked in this situation. And apologize to Sarah

ExtraordinaryTy I agree! There is indeed a difference between not being a pushover by conveying how you feel vs being downright mean. I can’t stand some of their behaviours, literally gives me high school mean girl flashbacks

@@extraordinaryty9578 knock off hannah brown. 🤣🤣🤣

I mean he picked a racist so his judgment is off

When he will also see that sara lied..she didn't want to go home

I was so confused when they said that because when Sarah came to talk to them, they were just bashing her

Exactly, I knew from early on that no matter what Sarah would do, they were going to hate her regardless. Especially with these closed-minded chicks. Then when Sarah asks what she can do they don't give her an answer like oml

@@themissileminer5494 but sarah knows exactly what she's in for... she shouldn't do it, and she defo not ready for this whole fiasco

Ikr smh there are real bullies in the house and that’s what’s sad

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Well she is only 21 the youngest contestant they’ve ever had so ya

Claims that no man has been “emotionally mature enough” for her. Then proceeds to literally BULLY Sarah into leaving because she is having a hard time being away from her terminally ill father. Absolute disgusting. No wonder she’s still single. Any actually intelligent and emotionally mature man would be instantly turned off by her

She basically is a kid, she’s still in college. Way too young for this. They should only be casting people 25 and up in my opinion, most of these women are too immature

@@nylal493 I say 30 and older because when most of the 25-30 year olds I’ve seen are still too immature for this and are in their prime clubbing years

@@elenajoseph6630 that’s true!

When Victoria took a sip of her drink I was like ya keep drinking bitch that’s the only way you have the gall to be so rude

They didn't really say anything mean. They just told her how it was from their perspective.

​@@thehousespouse and that what all the Nazis said ._. When it was so easy to victimise the Jews._.coz It's not their human perspective it's a mob perspective

Without trying to understand what happened to Sarah, it was absolutely horrible.

@@thehousespouse what do you mean? They expressed their point of view. And then proceeded to call her manipulate and toxic. And say they won't accept the apoligie even if she apologized 20 times.

That would be hilarious if they did end up interrupting at some point.

@@speedude0164 oh it's going to happen they all do it.

This is exactly what I said! What was the difference if she wasn’t on the group date... people interrupt conversations left and right.

It’s literally a common occurrence and I think out of all the people who have ever done it Sarah was the most respectful about doing it and she faced the most backlash

Because they are all gullible. Victoria instigated it from start and kept getting them riled up. I'm convinced she's a hired actress and her sole purpose is to create drama on the show.

this happened in Peters season with Alayah!

@@ghiwanassereddine3406 Well, Alayah was talking about benefitting from the show regardless of Peter. So I can see how that can be seen as ingenuine. And unlike here a lot of girls were pressured into talking about their opinion on Alayah. Even sane girls thought she was a tad phony on camera/with Peter. That situation was a lot more he said, she said.

I don’t think what she did was THAT terrible. People do it on the bachelor ALL THE TIME. In fact out of everyone who has interrupted a group date, she has probably handled it with the most respect. She chose the wrong time to do it yes, but she tried to be respectful and apologize for it at least and not once was disrespectful to anyone no matter how malicious they were.

@@Blueeyesinthesky Yeah I felt bad for her to. What she did was wrong but they bullied her out of the mansion she was wrong for interrupting the group date but at the same time she's not a bad person either.

You can't dictate what people do and say when they're upset. These women are under alot of pressure and what Sarah did added to their anxiety.

@@malisiaevelynstl yea that’s also why I said they had a right to be upset cause they did but the pettiness was brutal to watch.

@@malisiaevelynstl well then you can argue that what the women did to sarah added to her anxiety as well

Its cause they know what shes up to because they do it too. Whenever girls see another take the victim card out, they bring their fangs out because they know its a show. Its just female nature.

Also Sarahs..the victom play card

unfortunately a lot of these girls are closer to high school age than 30, the cast is way too young

It’s fear of the mob. I’m sure some of the girls wanted to but were too afraid to get stomped on by the mob. Katie does step up in the later episode, which made me love her so much. And people commented that she did that as a calculated move.

I agree with you on everything but the "grown women" part

Sarah brought a lot of it on herself. No it shouldn’t have dragged on like it did, but she was shady

@@iknowwhoyouare1732 even if she was shady, no one deserves to be treated that way. i dont rlly think what she did was that big of a deal. this was an overeaction.

Go patriots

Yes she wants matt all for her self.. its nothing about home..she is a real sneak and a big lier.

Yeah. It's hard to understand why someone would act that way until you've dealt with people like this or have studied them. I've had abusive relationships in the past and I have learned that people that are manipulative and lack empathy tend to think or be paranoid that other people are being manipulative as well. Since they do it, they assume other people are doing it as well. Since they themselves lack empathy, they tend to not understand that others have empathy and care about strangers. Abusers also tend to TELL you why you did something or what you are thinking instead of ASKING WHY you did something. They make assumptions and go off of their assumptions rather than reality. They don't trust other people so they don't give people a chance to explain themselves or if they do... they don't believe them and they think they are lying to manipulate to get what they want. Also, Victoria seems to be suffering from paranoia as well... maybe paranoid schizophrenia and she shows a lot of signs of not being able to tell the difference between reality and assumptions. I've known some people with paranoia and she definitely has some red flags for the mental health disorder. Victoria seems to maybe never developed the ability to put herself in someone else's shoes. This usually comes around the first grade - fourth grade for most children depending on how fast they develop. Victoria seems to never mentally developed those skills at all and maybe potentially has a mental deficiency and maybe she was very neglected as a child or she is just possible has an under-functioning brain in that area. It's been a year or two since I have studied neurology and child development so I have forgotten some of the terms... sorry. She also seems to have attachment disorders so that is maybe why she doesn't seem to be able to have a healthy connection with people and why she feels the need to control situations in order to feel safe. Who knows... maybe Sarah is being manipulative... but I don't think there is enough information for Victoria to say that about her. She could have been egged on by producers to interrupt the date. Who knows?

If anything Victoria is the one who is taking roses away and time away from the other girls. She’s clearly not going to marry Matt and is only there for entertainment purposes.

like that episode pissed me the f up..and Marylynn isn't good with confrontation so she didn't even know how to defend herself...i think Victoria is just there for shock value. Matt clearly doesn't like her, but the show will tell him to keep her for drama

Victorias no prize.

You have to put some responsibility on Matt also though, automatically assumed Victoria was telling the truth before hearing Marylynn's side of things

i wish they included jessenia because she was super mean in the preview

Also Anna I think her name is. The other blonde. She is constantly fueling the fire and adding her negative/rude comments at every possible second

And Serena C.

@@Mar-mc5tl thank you. no one talks about her. in the latest episode you can see her trying to separate herself from the drama, and to me it seems like that's because she knows she's involved and she's getting desperate. I feel like here she was projecting on sarah so much, calling her behaviour calculated, manipulative, and toxic, when she has no idea what sarah was thinking or what her intentions were. It was conjecture at its finest, and then she says sarah burned all bridges. I mean wtf take a chill pill. I don't even think sarah handled things in the best way, I just think no one deserves to get ganged up on like that.

The funny part is Kit dodged the mean girl witch-hunt that got Victoria and Anna kicked out.

I know, no one is talking about how downright merciless MJ was

She said to let her cool down instead of speaking to Sarah while she was upset.. I'm not sure how that makes her heartless?

@@Kloves818 Wouldn’t you stop for 2 sec, look your friend in the eye and let her know that you need 5 min and then let’s meet upstairs? The way she ran away head down - it did feel heartless, or they aren’t as close as Sarah thought. But honestly, was Sarah’s behaviour of the day really justifying being that upset and hostile even after the apologised? The girls look like foolish high schoolers to not have settled this in the circle.

Omgosh yes! I was surprised by Abigail's behaviour too. Maybe she was trying to blend in with the cool aka toxic crowd. Although she wasn't as mean as some of the others, I did lose respect for her after her comments.

I was dissapointed in Abigail too.

Someone who would go to a tv show Bachelor than be with ur terminally ill dad doesn’t make sense to me 🤦🏻‍♀️

that’s unnecessary

I mean they are almost all beautiful. maybe they're angry that it was their group date and she interjected with no concern for their time?

No, Rachael and Sarah are the most beautiful amongst the group and maybe a few others. The rest are ok at best. They definitely did feel threatened, especially with how much time she already had with Matt. Sarah was sweet and the most genuine person there, i was rooting for her to go all the way.

VibranCELE Okay, so be upset with her but they didn’t need to say things like “you’re living situation here is going to be horrible.” There is a difference between respectful expressing frustration and ganging up on someone just to try and hurt them (which is what was clearly happening). I didn’t agreeing with her interrupting but you can tell some of them are just mean girls

@@jaf22_2 I agree some were just mean. She kinda brought it on herself. She should have never been on the bachelor with her father sick at home. But saying she's the most beautiful is just a straight up lie and has nothing to do with the situation...

Stop living in a fantasy land you know girls cant stand eachother.

@@paigelovette8156 Exactly when you put a bunch of girls together there's gonna be drama.

Very well said, I completely agree. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Do I think the girls are coming at Sarah the wrong way... yes I do. They do have the right to be mad though. If that was another girl interrupting her time and group date she would have been the same way. They should have just addressed her a little different.

She did the wrong thing for interrupting the whole group thing, she should've and could've wait for the whole thing to be over

Katie did

Sarah felt jealous and hurt from the group date so felt the need to speak to Matt after past traumas, girls get super mad at her for doing that because they’re jealous of her connection with Matt and how she’s had more time with him and has shown more interest in her then anyone else, so they gang up and bully her off the show in the most cruel and hateful manor. Sounds about right 🤔

Daryn _world True.👌👍

😂😂

The power of make up

Yes I think she wants to hug Sarah low key

Jessenia, Magi, Mari, and Rachael were also silent

@@superdisney5535 Katie looked uncomfortable with how they were treating Sarah.

Yeah, but no one defended her!😢

@@lilianab4756 Katie has defended her maybe not in front of everyone but she’s been Sarah’s friend would always check on her

the girls on peters season look like angels compared to this season

At least one person does this on every season, both bachelor and bachelorette, and no one has ever been bullied like this

I dont think she did; not the same thi g

Ya, after this episode, I don't look at Matt's season the same way. Most of the girls in the house could have confronted her like the way "vibrator girl" (I don't know her name) did instead they were like since she interrupted the group date, once she comes downstairs, we are gonna have her face the music. Sara was not malicious yet she got a thrashing. The blonde girl who said how is this hard for you, didn't know that Sara has a family member who is dying! Anyways, Matt is too good for a good chunk of these girls. It's a good thing Sara pointed that some them are not nice!

@@hippyhappy97 that’s ridiculous

I'm sure he's seeing this now along with the rest of us

Good insight

Grown is in understatement! 🤢

Sara is not jealousy at all🤣

Rachel is stand up too even tho she’s quiet

@@davisfan5660 She's probably afraid of Victoria and her minons.

lol they really are like vultures. and you're right the alayah situation really parallels this one.

I think they put out fliers saying "Were you a high school bully and currently have the mental maturity of a 13 year old? Well then you might be perfect for this show!"

Hell

@@pixiestxNyomouf they're really from hell.

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100% agree. Like I wad shocked looking at this clip. 15 women going against 2 woman is BULLYING !! This not High School for crying out loud !! Their hating a woman for 1 man !!! Like that is pathetic !!!

You are the most sensible person in the comment section 👊🏽

finally someone with rationale

If you had a problem with what she did fine. But being rude and name calling was complete bullying. The black girl and Abigail did not bully her they spoke their feelings like respectable women. But kit Victoria and Serena c. Are actually shit

They were being mean, period. Everyone knows it. Disgusting

I think the girl with the straight blonde hair that looks a little like hannah b is awful too. I've seen alot of bitchy behavior from her too.

@@elizabethrosenielsen2953 yeah i commented this before the video finished but her too! the ones who were saying “don’t talk to me ever again” were so dramatic

@@Shayne_T yes they were mean but they were upset and have the right to let her know that. 3 of them were overly rude but the rest said how they felt and they’re not wrong for doing so

I see in the next episode that blonde woman is shaming someone because they use to be an escort. That's nasty as. I dont think someone should be shamed or bullied because of their job.

this was before Katie talked with Sarah one on one, so she didn't know either until the next morning

I would love for him to speak on it