The last hours with our daughter - From a Children’s Hospice 「こどもホスピス～娘と生きる最期の時間～（英語字幕版）」 

I don’t need her to say anything for me to feel happy for my life

Same here😭

Frrr , that's when my tears started to wet my face..luv you Aoi..you're a wonderful kid 🤧❤️

Same

Gurl i can't stop crying 💔💔💔

Bless your lives RIP bubba. 😇🙏😇

Parece que se ríen de ella, pobre niña la madre no veo que respete su dignidad . Un saludo desde china, conozco bien la cultura y la mamá tan contenta con sus varones.

RIP Little Angel

Rest In Peace Aoi

In prayers

Agreed

Bingo

That's right

Nothing wrong if they did. Sheesh

So they are the best parents because they hide their feelings?? 🤦🏻‍♀️

Yh

What a beautiful, sweet and caring family. And brave also. They endured a terribile pain but they stayed strong and loving. May they have the best future. May Aoi rest in peace

I am crying too, its so heart aching

Yelling to the ear.... not "asking"...😢

As an excited child would ​@@TheSmardu

كم هو محزن الفقد الآن هي في الجنه مكان أفضل من الدنيا فالترقد روحها بالسلام

Also, while taking the picture outside, he was broken, his look says it all.

@@lau.e.3316 he knew

Rest In Peace Aoi. Sending love and strength to her family and dear ones. ❤️

I was okay until that moment.

😪😪😪😪😪😪

Her tears just before then, I think she knew. What a beautiful sweet girl.

She went to paradise, the poor little girl looks so tired of life, God rest her soul

She knew. They always know.

She made it to where she wanted to go too. She saw the aquarium. 😭💜

I know right

Yeah it’s so sad that she there was no cure and that she couldn’t live for that long

😭😭😭😭😭

I'm litterally crying from the first minute😭 why it is recommended for meee😭

I also just bumped into this recommendation and can't stop crying after 😭

mum youre cute and dad, i have nothing to say to u🤣

Yes Aoi so cute she left this world and stayed another world that called god feet heaven you stay with peace there baby

I am crying so hard if it was my kid, she is so innocent she had to live to experience the life, damn why children die it's just unfair.

💔💔💔

So hard.

I am so glad she went downhill very quickly and died very quickly... basically she fell asleep in the aquarium and never woke up.. thats the best i could hope for for all children who are sick with no cure..

Yes. But I am confused, did she pass the night of the aquarium trip or sometime later?

@@Emmie_24 Probably, her brother told her to wake up and she had her eyes closed so she maxbe passed away in the aquarium

Oh God, this got me crying so hard 😭😭😭😭

This is like omg I'm crying

Her brother was trying to tell her to look at the penguins. So sad 😭

I felt pretty sad but didnt cry

So sad

I know i knew it would happen but not that sudden with just an empty bed that once was hers

Reminds me of grave of the fireflies

That was so adorable.

Yes I was looking at her. She is so cute

Not like one, as one. 😓

All of the time. Don't kid yourself. The universe is not soft and cuddly. It's sharp, freezing, rough, abrasive, toxic and burning. Life is nothing but struggle, pain and disappointment. Like death, it's inevitable. We're supposed to enjoy the positive things that life on Earth offers: beauty, love, joy, flowers, the northern lights, the smell of a cactus blossom, soft puppies and cherish every positive moment we can for a reason. They are not the norm. If they were, we would cherish fire and pain instead.

@@YouDontKnowAsMuchAsYouThinkUDo I believe you're looking at things a bit too negatively. We absolutely should cherish every positive moment we have, but we don't need to let the negative consume us. You told the OP "don't kid yourself", but why do you think they were doing that and then felt the need to emphasize the unfair? There's nothing wrong or delusional about focusing on the positive. We need more of that actually.

It’s funny to me

@@7entri206 ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha funni

What about the poor child I feel more for the little girl she did not ask to be here now is dying bringing kids in to exsistence is harm suffering growing old fulling apart death if you really loved or cared for your child you would not bring them here in the first place antinatalism is growing alot more better to not have been

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Thats sad if you don't have this in your country. Most should.

Didn't say why her head and face swallowed!?

@@sirunikunushik7735 The swelling was from all the medications Aoi needed to take

@@brickhouse7401 Thank you for your information. I was wondering why her head and face were so swollen too. Thank you.

She have family with her. Lot love

I literary cried while reading this 😭

@@reginaldchristopher9918 maybe, you never know

@@reginaldchristopher9918 did you even get through the first minute. She has cancer and the swollen face is from the side effects of the medication

I hear the song "The best day" playing in my mind...💔

🙏🏼❤😢❤🙏🏼

rip to your husband too

Lost my boyfriend to covid two years ago today at 36. Sending hugs.

Condolences for the loss of your husband.

❤

I saw it..

Yes, saw a year in her eye...how grateful we as parents are for healthy children. May Aoi rest in peace

😔😔

Sadd

How would she know that? Maybe her eye was dry. May she Rest In Peace.

So did she pass at the Aquariam? I thought she passed the next day?

@@SamanthaD89 I believe she was "imminent" during the Aquarium visit, not actually "deceased."

STOP 💔

at 11:06 you can see her chest still somewhat move so I have hopes she was still just sleeping at that moment

@@kayleighdrevis5252 It's called "agonal breaths." It's when the heart is slowly coming to a stop. While the heart is slowing down you will have periodic breathing like one breath every 2 to 3 minutes and it further decreases over the course of several hours til it comes to a complete stop. Heartbreakingly so she was already dead when they took her on the family trip.

I think it's beautiful that she did that for her daughter. In case Aoi was struggling to keep her eyes open or was half asleep, she could at least hear her mom describing everything. Either way, I hope she still enjoyed that trip to the aquarium. May her little soul rest in peace.

😪💔 The death of a Love one hits home and really hurts us all as humans , the death of a complete stranger also makes me deeply sad and hurts me too but the Death of a Innocent child that doesn't deserve Cancer at all shatters me beyond what I can handle ,it is so cruel and painful seeing kids suffer and that is why it is so painful. 😭

Still relatable as humans.

same. Let it out. 🥰

Life is so cruel...love to you and us still here.

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

It wasn't meant to be, you should understand. It wouldn't be right and wouldn't feel right to keep fighting nature forever.

@@zeuna bruh shut uppppppp.

Cancer is so common we have to know if we have real cancer or not and we fear it

what a bummer

“ Aoi passed away.She never woke up again “ that hits hard.

the most heartbreaking comment😢

I volunteered as an hospital clown. it was a kids hospital. the worst part wasn't watching kids be sick (most of them can't grasp the reality) but the suffering parents that have to pretend to their kids everything was ok.

Yes, i noticed the same. It was hard to Watch. You can notice a tiny little tear on her eye. Poor angel,may you rest in peace.

Absolutely. I’ve seen enough videos like this (not that I seek them out, but I get curious when I come across it) where the kids are so fully aware of their condition. They are so mature and calm, but still maintain that sense of childhood innocence. To us, we see what could have been a future for them, but to them, they have no clue. They are able to grasp that they are sick, they are in pain, and they may not see their family again one day. Death isn’t what they fear, it’s not being able to see their parents that does. Ugh, cancer is awful, but childhood cancer is a whole other beast. I wish these kids didn’t have to suffer.

@@loretohidalgo3533 If a person be happy they be more strong. Thank you. You made them feel better too

That’s the Japanese spirit…they’re strong people.

Because they have many children

@@devaprasath7776 bruh..

May her soul rest in peace 💜

Very strong parents ❤️

Right I couldn't do it. I've been crying the whole time watching this. I can't imagine working there. ♥️😭 I feel like people who are in this line of work have some type of disconnect or they have a heart of gold. Like there's no in-between.

The guilt, the sadness... I can't

I love children and would work there in a heartbreak so that I could assist them with care and comfort in their end days.

Me too😔

i worked for a decade before in dialysis patients they are literally terminal in treatment without transplant especially without financial assistance hearing them go down selling all their family's house and possessions just to have dialysis well we all go down that journey just at a different time.

Same here. This is so unfair. I feel for this family.

Yeah....❤

I can’t stop the tears 💔

If everything happens for a reason its really tough to understand things like this.

Such a beautiful child is with God now.

Adult's leukaemia is wayyyy different!

@@TheSmardu Dumbest reply I've ever read...Did you even get the point of my comment?

God wanted her pure soul back :)

Well we see this many times with people who are hurt and can't do anything. Like they just think alot.

I felt regret for everything I and humanity has done to cause this. If it wasn't for all we would't be in this path that lead to death. But God has granted us the desicion in this short life to choose life again. Sadly we see the consequence of our sin, our bad doing in this horrible ways, our fault, we are to blame, but God has a plan to restitute it all that the devil has taken away in the sacrifice of His own flesh, His only Son, Jesus, He gave everything so we could be with Him, alive again, we need to hold on to that, we need to remain faithful this time and he will see our hearts that he gave us and be with Him again when His Kingdom come, death has no power over those who have chosen life, over those that repent and have choose Jesus. The tree of life, the only Way. To mourn is good, there is nothing that this world can give. Only God gives hope.

@@drone_photography42 don’t make everything about religion. Horrible comment 👎

@@drone_photography42 really? So God was like…Oh! Lemme make create this child only to make her suffer and die at a young age…😐… pls stop commenting stuff like this that he just wants her back.. so he took her in an early age…not everything is about god or religion you know…

@@lisafoos8976 In my opinion she passed shortly after in the hospital.

xae, Mine too. When they said she slept the whole day before my heart was lifted that she would enjoy one of her favorite places. I didn't see her eyes open at any time. So yeah, when little brother said wake-up I felt shattered as well. Plus dad wiping his tears with a towel because he was so heart broken as well that she couldn't open her eyes. The title of video? I knew what would happen yet still cried. Peace & Love, Missy

but she passed away peacefully💟

@@lisafoos8976 it says she passed the very next day. So nice she was able to spend her last waking days surrounded by her loving family. I’m sure that’s all she could have wanted in her last dying days. Rip beautiful angel 👼🏻

@@lisafoos8976 I'm in awe of parents of children who die from cancer. It's a cruel disease which often kills slowly and painfully. These parents loved their little girl so much. They ensured she received the best treatment to the end, whilst attempting to keep their boys happy.

This is fake

@@deantevaughn7037 excuse me? FAKE?! nah bruh

@@deantevaughn7037 what the hell is your problem?

@@deantevaughn7037 uhm...clearly you don't know what ur talking abt...

@𝙹𝚞𝚜 𝙼𝚊𝚓𝚎𝚜𝚝𝚢 yeah

That moment broke me. I just went limp and started wailing. Happiness be with sweet Aoi 🌻

@@BattleNuggetz same 😭😭😭😭😭

Well, it makes the living feel better to believe in myths such as heaven - so that’s what matters in heartbreaking situations like this. Lovely family. Brave, sweet little girl.

@@windwoman3549 First off, you're generalizing the Earth's entire population, including yourself (since you're amongst the living)when you type things like that. Second, instead of insulting someone's beliefs when it's causing no harm to you is uncalled for. Your last two statements would have been just fine. We are just happy this child is no longer living a life of suffering, same as you. That's common ground.

@@BattleNuggetz Put videos into a public arena like RU-vid, and no reasonable person could possibly expect only one type of comment. There is always the option to “turn comments off” if the uploader isn’t prepared for a range and/or volume of opinions. Frankly, it seems that you chose to ignore the overall meaning of my comment & instead chose to be offended - saying I “insulted” the family. That was not my intent WHATSOEVER - therefore, I will not apologize. I am befuddled by your contention that I “generalized” people. How so? At 58, I’ve been around for a while. I’m fairly well-traveled, intelligent, and a decent observer. People either DO believe in supernatural forces (a “higher power”), they waffle (“I’m not religious, I’m ‘spiritual.’”, agnostics), or they make it clear that they DON’T believe in god(s), ghosts, & magic. What else is there? I’m in the last category. I’ve never been a believer, thus I refer to myself as a “natural atheist.” I didn’t DEconvert because I wasn’t converted in the first place. Insult? * lol * If I had a dime for every time I’ve been out-&-out insulted for being an atheist, I’d have a lot more money than I do now! Lastly - I’m sure my opinion doesn’t matter to the family, why would it? Their faith seems to be very solid to me. As far as I’m aware, one’s belief in a “higher power” isn’t contingent on it’s popularity with humans . . . is it?

I wish they were common and could be like that for everybody.

That is exactly like patients of covid 19 who passed away Sadly,most of them died alone in a hospital 😥 (well except with doctors,nurses,and other covid patients)

We need more Hospice's For Children .. This was so good..for all.. It is a heavy time and helps lift some of the pain and share.. So sorry for your loss and pain..she was a beautiful little girl..she went peacefully.. 😪😪🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕

Places like this do exists. It’s generally the family and their inability to accept the impending death of a loved one who refuses to accept the word hospice or palliative and won’t take that step. Leaving their loved ones to die in a hospital instead. I do not believe in god or heaven, but I don’t believe that death is the end either. It’s just different. The sooner we stop fearing the better our end of life could be.

"Cute" isn't the best translation. "Kawaii" can also mean "pretty," so it's more likely she was telling her mom that she was pretty. It's obvious that she really meant it, too. She was such a sweet little girl. I hope she and her family find peace.

​@@laura121684 They translated it as cute on the subtitles so im just repeating. Sorry!

@@MissBossy No, don't be sorry! I didn't mean anything towards you. I only meant that it could also mean pretty. I apologize if I came off that way. I really didn't mean anything by it.

@@laura121684 My understanding is that kawaii usually refers to children. I heard it a lot when we lived in Japan. My children were young and people would tell me " oh, kawaii ne!"

@@normakirkpatrick9486 That may have been your experience, but that's not the case. I took college courses in Japanese, and I can assure you that kawaii can be used to refer to an adult woman as well. It's an adjective, so it can be used to describe just about any person, place, thing, or idea.

heaven. LOLOLOL

@@MaestroStefanoPetrini what?

@@MaestroStefanoPetrini found the edgy atheist.. Don't you have something better to do?

Yes I agree. I can't stop crying after watching this video.

Why mother doesn't answer the same to her?🙏

@@teyataom Please remove this comment. Do you really think that Aoi's parents want to see it ?

@@lisacz6607 I didn’t understand the comment can you explain?

@@teyataom I'm Japanese. Mom said her daughter is cute 13:15“kawaii” But that's not that important.

I suppose that is the beauty of the innocence of a child as sad as this may be

jesus this is sad but i think the reason for that is because they haven't experienced what life has to offer yet. adults, on the other hand, realize and have a lot more to leave behind.

I'd just seen a Johnny Depp clip of him saying something similar, how they are courageous and positive but it's the parents who are dying inside everyday.

It's the innocence of a child, they don't have a real understanding of death. I mean none of us do but they're especially naive.

My mom went to the hospital to bring my aunt with cancer, and saw a kid who had cancer there, having to go through this but they’re still smiling

Oh there's a cure believe it or not. But they won't release it to the public. The people of power and money want people to die.

Not the place for your conspiracy theories ya freak

@@27decimotrio go away.. this isn’t the place.

Yall can keep being close minded and just keep esting what they feed you. It's a very sad situation. No matter how much we plead for that cure, it will only be kept amongst who they see is fit to have it. I'm telling yall they want people to die they don't care if you are a child or not, keep thinking the people of this earth going to give you everything you want.

@@27decimotrio shush u freak

I am so sorry for your loss. Your kid and Aoi are together now, maybe they'll meet each other?

@@bobamsd5559 maybe 😊 Thank you for your kind words

Hope you are well now. May you child rest in peace.

@@sepdafodils maybe :) hang in there

@@youknowminholeeknow4028 yes as much as I can be 🙏

Same.. R.I.P Aoi, amen

Same

💝👪🙏very sad😢

I watched it I cried a lot

Same here 😢 This was so sad I cried and felt guilty I am complaining of the problems I’m currently facing and felt sorry for myself. I’m so glad at least I’m healthy.

Your problems are its own, and hers is diffrent. Everyone goes through different hardships so dont push yourself over it too much :)

You don´t have to devalue your problems to see other´s problem, We can all recognize each other´s struggle and try to stay strong and fight our own

She had to be strong.

the other children... its a shame they didn’t get to live their life but at least they are in heaven without any worry

@@chompmonster2278 That is right all those babies, who’s Mom did not practice birth control, thought it was alright to murder their babies? Those the ones you mean. If you were not being sarcastic I apologize, if you were. Opinions are like assholes, everyone has one.

@@patriciaspell2569 i wasn’t being sarcastic but the fact that other children are in heaven got me; they aren’t even adults and already passed away

This person did not mean to be nasty about the comment, and I did say I was not sure. Someone else complained that men were let off the birth control wagon. Is it the woman who has the right to say no slap and tickle without a raincoat ? Unless she is an animal in control of hormones that is ? The last time I looked we are humans, not animals, and as humans we have the right to chose given to us by the Most High God.

your daughter is very lucky to know that she is loved

We never really think how hard it can be on fathers too.

Your daughter is lucky to have you

You seem like a good father, your child is lucky to have you

😭 I'm a flight attendant here in the USA, watching this at Denver Airport i have tears in my eyes. I'm a mother of 3. 💔

The Japanese are a people I admire for their willpower. They have greater self-control than any other I know… We could all learn some things from them…

I don’t want to be the one with the negative comment, so please understand that this comes from a pure place, this comment is not meant to hurt you or to make you feel bad in any way. Buddhist believe in reincarnation, this is true, but we also believe that reincarnation is not something we wish on each other, because the whole point of Buddhism is to break the reincarnation circle, so if you want to wish good will on someone after death, you wish for their spirit to reach Nirvana. Reaching Nirvana is the only way to break the hardships of reincarnation and the circle of life.. many people don’t know this, so I just wanted to let you know..

@@KenKobayashiRasmussen, Thank you. Of course,I know. However,how many souls qualify for Nirvana? Life is suffering but there's also a lot of joy to be had. I was just being realistic. If reincarnation does exist 98-99% of souls would be reincarnated. I wished for Aoi's soul to be reincarnated into a healthy body so she could be active/happy and experience joy and NO pain. That is the best my practical mind could conceive. If her soul could reach Nirvana all the better. I wish nothing but the best for her soul. TQ.

@@thescribe7117 and as do I, may she Rest In Peace…

@@thescribe7117 first of, we don’t even know if they believe in Nirvana, they might be Christian because of the Christian Hospice. With regards to how many reaches Nirvana how would you estimate 1-2%, you don’t know how many life’s one soul have lived? And our physical world is not the only one either, there are many worlds, so where do you get the number 1-2%?

@@KenKobayashiRasmussen, Lolz all I know is reaching Nirvana is near impossible. That was just a guess. Let's not argue over details bcs we wish for the best for a departed soul according to our own beliefs. You do not need to know what the parents of the late child believe in. Mr Rasmussen,please do not start a petty argument here. What I wished for the child was done in a straightforward manner without any malice nor impure intention and so far nobody has faulted me so please spare me an academic discussion. I am too tired. This morning I just cremated someone very close to me. I am grieving and broken-hearted but had to put things straight so I stopped by. Could you kindly stop here? TQ.

I think she knew her body wouldn't be able to take it anymore although she wanted to stay very badly and enjoy life.

I have also noticed her tears...hearing is the last function of our body, so Aoi was able to listening her family talked to her at Kaiyu-kan. She had a beautiful family and now watching over her family from heaven.

Me too(((

Me tooooo 😭😭😭😭😭😭

me too. 🥺

ايش في البنت ..وايش حصل لها

im more happy she's not suffering anymore, no one deserves to live like this... so much pain at a very tender age 💔💔💔

😭😭💔💔

can you tell me the timestamp? i watched the whole vid and perhaps i overlooked it

@@honeystarrrr8108 13:03

Langa is a great soul, he cries with others people pain

Wow. Yes. Scrolled right to this. After.

I’m not a nurse but a cna and worked in memory care where a lot of hospice residents live. I’ve held the hands of so many (they don’t have family sometimes) as they transitioned. I love hospice nurses so much!! They do amazing work, and I know it’s sad especially when it’s a child that goes. The people who work in hospice are angels.

My mum used to be a hospice nurse. God bless you and all hospice nurses. Good bless you all!

I assumed she was actively dying/dead when the dad was crying and her brother told her to wake up. She didn't seem to be able to open her eyes either. It was sad, but still felt wholesome and happy because they were all together. Perhaps the last things she heard were her family sounding excited and hearing what the animals are doing. Not a bad way to go.

I work in aged care and sometimes I am the only person holding a dying resident's hand and the first time I heard the term actively dying shook me.We start to recognise when the physical body is slipping away and the silence that follows those moments after death has a profound and sobering effect.On me anyway.

@@dipitickner1927 the death rattle will always get me. You can always tell the end is coming.

I was recommended this today @1am..lol I knew I probably shouldn’t watch this tonight, but guess what😰🤭😬

@@annissa5356 Right! First I'm like why RU-vid? Cause there you are, 1am and you're just laying there sobbing for what that sweet baby and her amazing family had to endure. But then you come away with this renewed appreciation of being alive and how fragile it is so you don't want to take it for granted.

Same it's also 1am here today. This just had me in tears

Same! It's 2.32am here. Recommended to me and now I can't stop crying. I thank you this family being strong for this little angle

I totally agree, it was so sweet to watch 🥺

Lets watch some Ukraine and Johhny depp videoes.

Karma

It's things like this that prove to me that there's on God - at least not one who is able to grant wishes like a genie.

@@shamirapo2105 ok mister "i need attention", truly heartless of you. Such a shame.

because of genetic abnormalities it cant be helped

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Hi pray she will get well soon

I really agree with you. I had my intern at pediatric ward and had a leukemia patient. It really a heartbreak to see them having the protocol, and don't forget how they easily relaps until they cannot have the chemotherapy, but the palliative for now...

@Mrs.Dance&SingSingMaddness ever heard about how to respecting people?

@@catherinesugandi3168 ever heard about how English works? It definitely doesn't go learn "about how to respecting people" 😂

yeah shes so gifted to die at 6yo 💀

@@Joshwa-j3i wow

Japanese are generally stoic

@@caoshehuixian they are so brave in facing every difficult challenges in life.

What does Kawai mean?

@@ariesadanna9808 KAWAII means beautiful/pretty/cute in Japanese

@@ariesadanna9808 beautiful or pretty

@mushroom thanx for correcting me dear. Learnt something new

God bless you ❤ ❤❤

Sending love to you and your family ❤️

I really hope things get better for you as soon as possible and wish you the best for the future

I wish you all the luck in the world and hope you are well now!

God bless you❤️wishing you happy and healthy life❤️

I think the medical establishment does not want to cure some diseases and conditions. More profitable for them to keep people ill. What a sick society we live in, but there are wonderful and kind human beings as well.

Measles, smallpox, and polio are ones you should look up. I would like to respectfully disagree with your statement. The of the bad in the world that is known is enough to deal with. No need to focus on phantoms. That is what THEY would want you to do so you don't fix anything. JBYPDMTANAY 🕊

@@genericamerican7574 - those were 50 years ago. No advancements in five decades.

Where can u mention in this video

On

Nothing wrong with that...real man cry ...I did too

@@cloudysaturnn why did you censor men?

@@cloudysaturnn why is men censor??? It’s not a curse lmao

Dude, you were watching this as a dad and thinking about your kids. The girl's parents went through something no parent should have to experience.

@@cloudysaturnn Why did u censor men? do u think its a bad word lmao