As a Forced Solo player (Someone who can only play when his mates are offline due to work) I see you as my idol cause all I do is grub and farm shit for my homeboys until the weekend.
I can't really see how despawning in that situation is toxic, I mean you were already taking the loot for yourself and it just seems to be the most advantageous move for you since if you can't bring it home its better to not let them have it back
There is no way that some of these are real, some seem believable but the ones where you go back and rob the same people repeatedly who find you, fight you, lose to you, and somehow still don't actually put doors on the top down approach to their base just seem so scripted. I mean how many times does a guy have to walk into your base through the roof and take everything you own while killing your whole zerg single handedly before you put a fucking door up?
alot of large groups have the were so big no1 can contest us mentallity, and most groups arent concerened about securing a base and more about getting an open core down filled with loot
sadly the server I was playing on has a no insiding rule and I've had a temp ban before for stealing a code, such a dumb rule though if you let someone steal your codes its your fault