I'm here bawling my eyes out... I have two sons who are non-verbal autistic. I don't care if they never say it back... but I tell them everyday, all day that I love them.
Same here😊my baby is 26 yrs and I'm still waiting. I've heard him say lots of little things but I say luv youuuuu everyday I can't wait for him to reciprocate!
How did u handle it if u don't mind me asking it is a monumental time for a nonverbal autistic to say it I can only imagine the emotions running thro ur head
It is better not to create child at all, it will save child from any problems. 1. Reproduction - evil. Any positive experience - is a diminishment or relief from a negative. In other words, pleasure - is a diminishment of pain. For example, you will not get a pleasure from drinking water if you’re not thirsty. If you have thirst - you are suffering, feeling a discomfort. Desires - are the sources of pain. 2. The world has huge problems: predation, parasitism, diseases, misery, etc. 3. Suffering - is the only thing that matters, and if it seems to you that there is something other important except suffering , that is because that thing influences the amount of suffering. For example, food seems to people as an important thing, but it is because food helps them to satisfy desire of eating - hunger. And people will not consider a little rock, from billion light years from here, as an important thing, and it is right because that rock does not influence the amount of suffering at all. That is why suffering is equally bad regardless of who exactly suffers. 4. There is no proof of the existence of God, on the contrary, all the facts indicate the opposite: evolution, the history of the planet, archeology, and most importantly - a huge amount of senseless suffering (for there is nothing reasonable in creating a world in which so much suffering occurs).Therefore, all this is a repeated confirmation that life is created by unreasonable, chaotic events in the world. Life is the result of an unfortunate set of circumstances. 5. Humanity have to switch to veganism, to make available euthanasia , to unite, to eliminate wild life, and finally to make whole life extinct completely. EFILism
@@combinero.YT_deletes_comments.I can honestly agree with some of your points, but this was uneccessary. They're praising someones ability to nurture a child with autism and help him develop, it's not the time to go all debate-mode about the ethics of reproduction and say it would be better if he were never born. Read the room. This is the anti-natalist, efilist, equivilant to those people who go around evangelizing in comments saying "Jesus 🙏 loves ❤ you! Turn to Jesus 🙏 and he will relieve you of all your burdens!!! 🙏✝️🥰" on videos of homeless people struggling on the street, or like a cat sleeping in a mosque. It's not reading the room right. I mean ffs one of your points is literally arguing if god exists or not. I'm a vegan and an athiest but even I'm put off by how off the wall this all is. Being a contrarian debate-lord out of the blue isn't going to get you an honest exchanging of ideas, it just does a disservice to you and the idea your promoting. Nobody wants to engage with someone arguing before the conversation even begins.
that is just awesome that he was finally able to say it back to her, just shows that even though he did not repeat it right away he was always listening to her
What this comment is saying is Autism or not, hearing your baby say ”I love you” is the greatest feeling in the world So, its saying that even if your kid dont have autism, it is still the best feeling in the world hearing your kid tell you they love you. Hope this helps
@@sirius767 oh, thanks! I was so confused I thought they were saying that autism or not hearing your kid say I love you are the best things in the world lol
Look I’m really not trying to be an a$$, but if God is all powerful why did he make the boy autistic in the first place? Serious question. I’m a nonbeliever so I would genuinely like to understand the other side. Thanks
Baby boy not only said "I love you," but understood its meaning. While Dad was holding him, he said it back to Mom, and then leaned in for the hug! Beautiful!
@@jdawsome4899 Symptoms are shown POST birth. Commonly toddler age. Truly tragic how you only care and worry for him when he was in the womb and not him in his present-breathing self.
When I was still not born the doctor said I had Syndromedown so they said it would be better if I didn’t born but my mom said no and the doctors would always tell her to do it and my mom would cry but my mom always said no and when I was born I was a healthy baby and did not have syndrome down.
My son was mostly non-verbal for the first 5 yr of his life hearing him say "i love you' for the first time was exactly like this. I burst into tears all over again watching this. 😊
I feel this😢💯…my 6 yr old daughter is autistic and seeing this took me back to the day I first heard her say “mama.” It was music to my ears & it still is. Thanks so much to this sweet mom sharing her most precious moment with all of us. It made my day❤️
I continue to watch this beautiful amazing video over and over again I can’t stop.Hey mom you have no quit in you hands down you are one of the best mom around.Your little handsome boy needs you as much as you need him.May GOD continues to bless you both and your wonderful family.
No one can understand the absolute power and weight of one word, my little girl didn’t speak until she was 6. I didn’t even realise I was holding my breath until the moment she said a word to me ❤
As a training psychologist to help autistic children. I literally had tears . God bless this child. Edit: OmG 1.1k likes for this i didn't expect this . Thank you guys ☺️
@Dylan Johnides one day when ur old an become diabled and living on others helps tell this to your self. Looks like definitely ur a kid or teen who sitting an writing all this..
Yes, this is what I did back then when I was still working as a special needs children therapist. Finally, after months and months stimulating them, when a non vernal autistic child finally says a word whether it's in the right context or not, we celebrated it! What an amazing mom and son ❤️
I have a low functioning autistic non verbal teenage boy. He won't say i love you out loud, but the first time he signed it to me I burst into tears! I can't stop watching this and crying.
I also have autism and even though I wasn't non verbal, it's so amazing seeing other people like me accomplishing great things, even saying love you to me is one of the biggest accomplishments I've ever seen.
I have high functioning autism I’m 12 and have made a lot of achievements of course it’s hard hard but it makes my heart happy to see him working and achieving so much good job little one❤❤❤❤❤
I have ASD (autism) on the high functioning end and this video made me happy because yes some things are hard for us (speech, reading, writing, Ect) this kid has a amazing mum who loves him very much.
As a parent of an autistic child that was also nonverbal at one point, there is no words to describe how amazing it is when you feel like the work and love you've put into this kid to raise them has payed off with a simple "I love you"
We had the same issue with our autistic grandson as a toddler. Now he uses full sentences. It’s beautiful watching these lovely angels blossom. May God continue to bless this angel.
Yeah my little cousin was diagnosed with non verbal autism a few years ago and now he speaks quite a lot. I wouldn't say he uses full sentences, oftentimes he uses short sentences or just a couple of words but his communication skills have shocked us since we were all told that he wouldn't be able to talk. If he gets angry though he does seem to lose the ability to talk and just starts screaming or crying.
My son is autistic and I remember crying in the grocery store aisle because I could hear a little girl saying "Mommy". We work with him and he has speech therapy and is now saying "mom" everyday...all day. Lol I love it!!!😊😊😊😊😊
That’s amazing! I’m so glad she caught it on video. I know that in her heart,soul,spirit she knew he loved/loves her but to finally be able to hear him express it in words was/is I’m sure one of the best things she’s ever heard only behind the 1st time she heard his heart beat or his cry as he came into this world and his laugh.❤ simply beautiful
My daughter is not autistic and speaks "normally". Every single time she says i love you too my heart is so happy. I cant even imagine the amount of joy this felt 😢 the look on her face was so amazing. He clearly knows how much his mom loves him!!! 😊
Awesome. I've raised mine from birth (adopted) for 22yrs now. We've told him, "I love you" every day, multiple times a day. He's still nonverbal, but still brings us plenty of joy. His brain just hasn't created the pathway for verbal communication. I'm happy some of yours has. Enjoy 🙂
I have an autistic son that is almost 29. He stopped saying Mama around the age of 2. At around 6 1/2, he surprised me by saying Mama! I was so happy, that I called everyone that I knew to tell them!!
My son finally said "Love You", after 3 years of trying to get him to say it! My heart is so full, I have to tell other parents to keep trying. One day your little miracle might surprise you!
I know the instant joy of hearing your autistic baby say I love you for the first time. For me it was 15 years ago. He’s 18 now and it still makes me happy to hear him say that.🎉❤
She is an amazing mother you know he is very loved and the look on her face wen he said it was so amazing I’m so so happy she can hear her boy tell her he loves her I have 6 children and can’t imagine what it is like to have them not tell you they love you it’s every mother’s nightmare
I always wanted to hear this. My son is 17 years old now and still can't talk at all, BUT he shows me every day with little things like a smile or hug done all on his own. He signs and now types to tell us things, which is freaking awesome ... still doesn't say it even using these, but I've realised it's not necessary anymore. I love him, and he knows that every day ❤❤ send love to the mum and hope she hears that every day as she's a great mum ❤️
thats amazing! im autistic and occasionally am nonspeaking and seeing all these people in the comments and other videos just hoping that they talk is so sad. there are alternative ways to speak that are more comfortable and possible for nonspeaking autistic people. its so uncomfortable and difficult to force myself to talk when im nonspeaking and i can’t imagine having to deal with the constant pressure to say something.
That was me with my oldest autistic kiddo. Took him seven years to finally talk and tell me he loved me. He was just gathering a bunch of knowledge and started talking.. then he became little Einstein. He could probably pass the state boards for nursing. He would look through my books, medical journals and medical encyclopedia. When he started talking I was just in awe at his knowledge. When he said I love you for the first time he branded my heart. ❤
When I wasn’t born my autistic brother didn’t speak at all and would only make noises. My parents were always worried that he will never speak. But when I born and a few years had past, I started talking before him. I would always talk to him even when he couldn’t say anything back. Later on he started to talk too, and my parents always say that I am the reason that he talks now today.
thats beautiful. i am autistic, did speak as a kid, but my biggest issue was always a sort of extreme delayed maturity like i was more like a 12 year old at 18 years ols. i feel terrible for it but my little sister has been my big sister for a long time, though as kids it felt like we got to grow up as twins so close were we. siblings are nothing but a blessing for autistic kids. i would have had nobody in my life if didnt have my sister
Unconditional love of a mother. They even took me by surprise. When you got me emotional for her precious little angel. May God continue to bless this sweet family.❤
My youngest son had a slight autism and speech delay. He would just cry if he wanted something. Along with my wife and my eldest son kept on talking to him and showing him love and affection. He started talking with mumbled words/sounds and fast forward, to today, he's the most talkative kid in our home. Don't give up on your kids even if everybody thinks what you're doing is pointless. 👍
@@LauraBidingCitizen He probably means low on the spectrum. My godson is the same way, he barely spoke when he was little and now at 9 he doesnt stop talking. Lol
@@Moldyyy_ As someone with autism, i think they meant high functioning, which means, yes, its a thing. Though austim is different each case, some cases are objectively more functional than others, nothing wrong with that.
Those two words were priceless to that amazing Mother and of course Dad. But her expression in the car and the realisation that her precious son had said it back made her cry had me in tears 😭 also. I have autism in my family and sometimes these moments no amount of money can buy. Thank you for the reality check as to what is REALLY important in life. It’s “LOVE” because you can’t buy it but if you have it keep it in your heart ♥️ forever. Thank you so much for sharing now I have to find a tissue!!!💕♥️💕
This is to heart warming! I have autism as well, as usual I'm not able to show of "real" facial expressions, it's hard to say any loving words without an explanation. Have an amazing lucky yr to all of you! And god bless the family.
My grandson was non verbal for a good while. But he finally started talking some. I never doubted that he could, I just didn't expect him to get the meaning so quick. I love watching the difference between him (being autistic) and his sister who isn't. They have always understood each other.
This video brought tears to my eyes. My younger sister, who is four years old and has autism, has never said "I love you" back to us, despite us telling her often. As I watched this video, I couldn't help but imagine it was my sister, and it moved me to tears. 😢
this is beautiful.....I have an autistic grandson, he's awesome, he's four and just beginning to talk.....we are thrilled....god bless you Momma for never giving up
This is the epitome of love, faith, and patience of a Mother. May God continue to be with this family & bless the Mom for her love & devotion towards her son/family🙏🏽❤.
Thankfull for such great mothers on this earth!!! This children are blessed! My mother is narcissistic, but I find peace and I am soooooo thankful that some other children are blessed and experience joy in their family ❤
This is literally the best video I've ever seen!!! It brought tears to my eyes. He's the cutest little guy!!! My thoughts and prayers are with him. I pray he becomes completely verbal over time. Great job Mom!!!
