100% agree. Often times I think people confuse “having game” with “playing games” when it comes to talking to women. Regardless of where you are, people are attracted to human decency and are attracted to you if they find you interesting. Little effort and the entitlement you talk about here will be noticed and often result you in losing opportunities with a person of the opposite sex that you are after. Be yourself, have confidence, and be strategic with building relationships!! That is what builds good relationships and that is a universal rule.
THANK YOU! I have debated so many men on this topic; especially African-American men who want to go to Europe because they believe European women will chase them because they are black Americans. When I first went to Europe, I was told the same thing but, reality quickly sobered me up. QUALITY is the keyword. As you said we need more than just being American or, more than just being the rare Black American in Europe to get the high quality women. Another thing I noticed (and I honestly hate to say this) is that many of us African American men mistake beauty for quality. Many of us are just so happy to for once in our life get a beautiful white woman (something that we can not easily do in the states) that we assume that she is a high quality woman. But as you said and, I can attest in Europe, there are so many beautiful women that beauty is beauty and quality is quality; they are Not always synonymous. Yes! I have seen many guys get a lot of women just off the fact that they are black Americans. But, as you said None of those women were high quality because when it comes to quality, the women will require more from you than just that...
From my experience with traveling in South America and Latin America. I may have needed a little game for talking to a 10, but other than that I did not need game. I just approach women and if we vibe we vibe otherwise I move on to the next one.
Agreed with everything you said. I only deal with high quality women for multiple reason. Game/charm is required to get these type of women of value in any country.
I agree with you 💯 Be the best version of yourself, and you get the best; not only women but also what life has to offer. Great points made 👏! If you are lazy, implement the 1% method of success 🙌
Hi Brothers. True statement ! I'm a traveler. Women immediately assess your actions and calculate every word you articulate from the inception. Your words and actions tell women how to behave in your presence. I experienced this in Dominican Republic. I spoke and did things to women there that dominican men would NOT DARE to say or do. Even those "chapiadoras" didn't want no part of me but, I still had fun.
I’m in Colombia right now, and I can tell you there’s nothing but facts in this video!… Another thing, sometimes being from the states can get you into trouble. People going after you just for money. So you really shouldn’t be counting on your American passport as a way to separate yourself and stand out.
I think a better way to say it would be… “you don’t need to flex to attract foreign women”. I’d argue that that’s true for the most part (no, i’m not talking about supermodels like Gisele). Outside of America, Canada, the UK and Australia “flexing” isn’t a part of mainstream dating culture. In fact it’s often considered rude…. Or stupid (if you’re walking around Rio flashing your $50k Rolex). Most foreign women look at how you carry yourself… how you speak… how you dress and how you treat them (and others). And they’re (generally) less obsessed with that baller lifestyle. They want a man who can provide for a family in the end but they’re not going to discount you if you’re not making 8 figures.
Honestly, it all depend on the person . All you need to do is learn the language, show respect and have the ability to stay longer periods overseas and it can take you the long way. It’s too much in depth on this topic but I do get where you coming from
Absolutely right 👍 I agree that you shouldn't be no sucka anywhere for anyone. Learn the language learn the culture and move to the country if you can afford to or at least stay out there a few months
Game is a terrible thing...I think you really mean have a personality and positive attributes. Be yourself and put yourself out there... and people who are like you will gravitate towards you. Game means having a pre planned map of what to say when you meet a girl... and a whole list of stupid rules to follow like dont call after a date for three days... That never works as you are not really being yourself, and that comes across as fake.
You dont need game. Maybe in the usa. All you need is good looks, money and status. The only part of "game" that works is being confident around w-men and knowing how to have interesting conversations and flirt. If you are good looking you are half way there. In places like brazil if you are a good looking tourist the w-man makes the first move or really lets you know she likes you. Basically just be good looking, rich and have status
@@ForeignStrategies yeah i guess so. But as an unnattractive looking guy with i guess a below average income and job, i doubt having an amazing confidence and personality will help me so much
I agree 💯%. Game is not about being flashy and "rough around the edges" and pretending to be someone you are not. People get that mixed up a lot. I think being yourself and having a good personality that is attractive and attracting the right people is key. The problem is no one wants to be genuinely themselves anymore. It has been pushed nowadays you need to be flashy to get women or have all these pick up lines and that may work for the wrong type of woman but in other countries women mostly judge off of character and personality first. So if you have a bad attitude and are stuck up or pretending to false claim as something you are not then you will lose in the end. The only "game" I am presenting is my true self, not being disrespectful, having a personality and good communication skills. Thats all the "game" I need. Not a pickup line from a PUA.
Fellas, l was trying to say that real game is a combination of things. It's not about playing games or using corny pickup line. I can see how you two young brothers interact with the women on your channel that you both have game. It's about how you present yourself, how you communicate with women, and a few other things.
I 100% agree because I'm also best friend co-worker Julia she just wasn't a friend by hanging out wise but there's always somebody out there I just got to do what I got to do stay confident I don't care when it comes to women I look for foreign women or any women that's very positive I just got to stay positive workout and keep my head up
Yo bro can you make a video on how to improve your looks and why it matters please. Thank you and also if you can talk about the importance of a good social online profile like good photos etc. THANK U BRO
Bro I think you taking the GAME comments too literally. It all depends on what outcome you want from the women you meet. Fact is most who travel cant speak the foreign language so the vets are telling NEW travelers, you don't really need game to get attention because being an American BM is enough to move to you to the top of the list in certain locations. Not saying you'll find a long term relationship this way, but their curiosity will open the door for you as you're exotic to some extent. Nothing wrong with using that until you learn the language. Hard to run GAME when you don't speak directly to these women and using Google translate as a handicap. Also if you're only matching with English speakers, a case can be made that you're connecting with an Americanized foreigner.
@@ForeignStrategies Bro let's not nit pick part of my argument to downplay the rest of my comment. You brothers know good and well that REAL GAME is a man's ability to verbally finesse women in their native tongue. So if someone is relying solely on English to do this, then that so called GAME is limited to a small % of women in none English speaking countries. In Brazil for example, only 5% speak English. So if someone only speaks English and you have to limit your searches to that 5%, your GAME is limited. US travel vets tell new travelers all the time that people need to learn the native language if you really want to connect with foreigners. But we also understand that nobody can learn the language of every country they visit. That verbal communication is the only way to organically connect. Lastly my Americanized comment wasn't even the point of my post. But like I said, one could make a CASE for them being Americanized especially if they have access to Americanized media. Philippines anyone??
Where was this video shot? Looks cool. Each place has its M. O, game. Definitely nothing like the west. So compared to the west its too easy it looks like no game. In Eastern Europe, if you look on point, a girl will come up and chat you up. The game you need are few don't does.
You actually need more fame when traveling not less. Specifically more awareness of the scams. Foreign chicks are way more feminine and slick lot of dudes get out in a trick bag.
Hmm something is missing here... I think it needs to be said that the dating games played in the USA are mostly non existing in most other countries. Having confidence and the ability to be charming are attractive qualities everywhere yes. However in the USA most women dismiss guys who have these qualities on the regular, but in other countries those same guys are so much more appreciated. We cannot discount this fact otherwise men would not be flocking to other countries and returning again and again. FACTS cannot be overlooked, denied, or discounted in observable reality. Let's talk about the TOP girls: what's missing here is that a Colombian 5 is just as attractive as a 7 or 8 in the USA. Sorry Tbob but your assessment is lacking full coverage of the facts. Victoria Secrets top model Adriana Lima is Brazilian but she personally stated on film that she does not consider herself to be sexy. America women here in the states are simply not that honest or modest about themselves. This video doesn't address the fact that men's dating success in other countries is not just about his own actions but it is largely because the women there are just higher quality and more down to earth people in general. They actually treat their own country men better than our women in the USA treat us..... FACTS.
1. If guys from these other places had the financial means they would too. Ive talked to guys from multiple countries that say they deal with same problems and they wish they could travel to other places.. so once again that’s a narrative .. not FACTS.
@@ForeignStrategies dudes who travel and choose women that give them the same problems are picking the worse ones. I know a guy who did the same thing, but i also personally took a guy over seas who was quiet and lacked much charisma... now he's married to that young lady who has model class beauty... NOTE: I personally screen the girl for him before he even met her.. she was a cousin of my then Colombian Girl Friend... RIGHT now I'm married to a Filipina whom i met in the Philippines, just had our first son 5 months ago....
@@ForeignStrategies Sure men who don't know how to vet women due to not much experience talking to chicks will ultimately fail at picking marriage material... but that's not because of a lack of marriage material which is far greater outside the USA... FACTS..
@Fast Eddie what do you want man? .. pics? Addresses and phone numbers? ... the truth is most dudes don't study the language and culture before they travel... I personally learned Spanish before I visited South America. I don't know what else to tell unless you really wanna do a zoom chat and I can show you wedding pics of a nerd I took to Colombia and now he is married to a model type Colombian because I personally introduced them... I'm fine with proving what I say.. I'm 50 now bro and I don't really have to convince other men to do better... so what do you say? you wanna see the evidence or not? I'll wait for your response here....
I think this video is very broad. You basically put "game" in a position that describes anything with interesting characteristics. Thus, me as a foreigner living in Colombia or visiting Colombia would be described 'game' by this definition. However it's often assumed to be used as a scale. "This person has more game than this person." Oh he's a square from Delaware versus some Casanova type. As such, there's a certain bar that's required to meet at or above in order to get the dates and dating life that you want. I would describe the USA as a fairly high bar. With places like Colombia being a low bar. With that being said, I think that 85% of people watching this who are men from America meet that bar for enough 'game', in Colombia. However I think that lower than 10 to 15% meet the bar to have a successful dating life in the US. Thus, in the US there needs to be a jump or a "level-up" to make it into the threshold to have the desired dating life within in the US. However, there's no such jump needed in Colombia. When I was there, I saw women lined up at the bank 50 deep like it's Black Friday just waiting in a long-ass line just to get to the bank and it was like about to be dusk. All dressed to the 9s and super fine. Ask yourself, do you think that you need a level up to accommodate and Court these women like you do in the US? Of course not. That is not to say that men would be not be behooved by leveling up or learning the tactics and techniques that can put you in the threshold to have a successful dating life in the US. But no you do not need the amount of game to get dates in the US like you do in Colombia.
Also, it's not rude. I think that the people that live in these third world countries. I think that they're focus is on increasing their standard of living. And if you'd say that you don't need game to go over, do you have any idea how many squares are going to come over there and want to hang out. That's just more tourism money in their pocket, those men don't care.
195 countries in world. Name of channel is Foreign Strategies not Colombia Strategies. Believe what you want bra man. We bringing a global perspective on this channel. Cheers 💯
@@ForeignStrategies Yes, and it is good content, credit should be given. And I think that if this video had more granularity to it, it would match the content I expect from this channel. Possibly address counter-arguments to your points next video? If you do this maybe you wouldn't have to look at the comments and see disagreements. Moreover, the refugee aspect is still there. There are refugees all across this world. People who leave their country who don't want to. Mothers leaving their children behind. Lot of them are single. That's just a situation that comes up.
Bra. You used Colombia as an example to support an global argument. Then want to talk about granularity. 😂 I honestly can’t take that seriously. And nor will I let that ignorance spread on this channel.
I am in agreement with you on the whole American thing but you have men that are delusional and they believe that is the case. You either have game or you don't, I am from America will only get you but so far and your American money or the perception of it will get you a little farther then reality will set in and you will be alone with no money and nothing for it. I will say it for you, you are right.....you need game!!
Game is psychological manipulation do you know neither of that you just have to be yourself know how to carry a conversation be a man be genuine and be honest everything you named it’s just a man being himself and not carrying stuff that’s not game
This video sort of rubs me the wrong way, like what is this supporting? A man trying to hookup up with women!?! I don’t like this, is this supposed to be a compliment for women? That they have some sort of standards for how they are treated, come on the fact that this needs to be said is SAD. Of course women care haha men just say this to Make themselves say this. And you think more women even care about money!? WTH is this video 🤣😂 I can’t believe this has to be said lol
