The Nathan Fielder Dilemma 

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I loved introducing my partner to Nathan and this show at the same time. When people ask me what it’s about I just say, “well imagine everything you’ve been nervous about could be rehearsed to an obsessive point of detail. And then just think of all the emotions that you could go through while doing this. It’s a roller coaster.”

I think the most brilliant line in the whole show comes from the Single mother in the season finale, I'm paraphrasing heavily but her insistence on the fact that she's not worried about her son, because she herself is a factor in his life - It's like a perfect answer to the whole shows thesis - why get lost in multiple iterations of rehearsal and focus on all the different possible factors and variables when you can be confident in yourself being a constant.

you know it’s going to be good when it has the word “dilemma” in the title

I really had a breakdown at the kid's attachment to Nathan. Children can't developmentally distinguish pretend life and real life like that, at least at that age. Which is a criticism of the entire child acting industry, Nathan was just more aware.

Nathan did not pose as an expert. He is an expert. He got really good grades.

Don't let the haters get you down. I'm in my 40s and only find you mildly irritating.

'An underdog with an overbite' is how I'm going to introduce myself at parties from now on

as interesting as it was to watch, i hope nathan moves away from using child actors in his show from now on. i think that would be the ethical thing to do, considering children can't really consent to acting. it's one thing to agree to be on a tv series like this as an adult who is aware of how the editing process can go in ways that are not going to be in their favor, it's another to arrange this strange situation for children through their parents who aren't really considering how this will affect their child

Just wanted to comment. You have such a rapid fire delivery that I enjoy your videos even when I am not super familiar with the topic. And you share a vulnerability that makes me less afraid of being vulnerable as well. Thank you for taking the time to share your gift with us. I hope I can do more to repay creators like you when I am more financially stable. Y’all help me keep my head on straight and I am very grateful to you.

All of Nathan’s work is about breaking fantasy; making both the people on screen and us uncomfortable and performing the exact opposite of what all other television is meant to do. Makes us question if we really should be comfortable with the fantasy that tv and hollywood feed us

im autistic and i have ocd and i relate to not being able to watch teeveeee but sometimes my housemate is watching something and my brain says hello we are watching this one episode now even though its half way through the season

I think its important we get media like The Rehearsal that makes the viewer question what they just saw, how they REALLY feel about what they saw, and how everything they just saw is potentially happening all over other shows they might be watching. Because he is only using resources that tv shows have been using for decades, but he is using them in new ways. There are child actors who might not know what acting is. There are people willing to make it to tv, even if it means stalking some rando to get through an acting class. There are incredibly questionable reality tv shows that find ways to pressure people into signing release forms. Any aspect of the Rehearsal that has been criticized, is an aspect that has been a hidden trait of tv productions in the past, and only now its getting a spotlight when its shown in this absurd light. The Rehearsal is an important show. And i just wish there were more shows like this getting funded.

First episode I was hyped af, last episode I was confused and felt really bad for everyone involved

The Rehearsal's finale literally blew my mind. I absolutely cannot wait to see where Nathan takes it in season 2. Also Ro, beautiful video.

I remember the first time I was introduced to Nathan for you after getting really high and I started freaking the fuck out because I couldn’t tell whether it was real or not

I love when Ro uploads! I get to check my dictionary every 30 seconds

with each passing episode, the sensation that I was clipping through the wall intensified

I dunno, I feel that being so emotionally manipulated as a child that you want the stranger that did the manipulating to be your dad seems like the kind of thing that would stick with you. Especially when you look back on it as you grow, and realise that was all for the entertainment of strangers. There's a line, even for Nathan's brand of cynical, off-the-wall comedy.

As soon as Nathan joined his own show's experiment, I knew it was going to be a comedy diary. Kind of how Joe Pera and How To with John Wilson deliver their content.. except in The Rehearsal, it felt too real.

A while back CJ the X released a video (“Hamilton Bad?”) in which they discuss the ethics of consuming art that has or has the potential to hurt people-I feel like that’s very relevant to The Rehearsal

“Is this okay??” Is exactly what I was asking when I was watching Nathan For You the entire time lol

When I first saw this “drama” I thought “well I know what miss ramdin’s next video will be”

I am still satisfied with my purchase of a doinkit toy as I am not a baby. All of my friends know that I am not a baby. They don't even need to ask, they see my doinkit toy and they know

When I got to about the middle of the rehearsal, I walked out of my bedroom and showed it to my mom. I made her sit and watch with me because I couldn't experience the show by myself anymore. It's so fucking insane and good and about m e

i just hope the child got proper counseling. it was hard to watch that. absolutely brilliant show, however. i wonder if the punisher inheritance guy simply found out who nathan was omg.

I rewatch your videos so much that this one hasn't even been up for 24 hours and it's being recommended to me again. Thanks for making such fun and smart content!

ro you have such an incredible way with words, both from a comedic standpoint and a storytelling one. i love watching your videos, thank you for sharing them with the world ♡

Ethics aside, the first episode of The Rehearsal is so goddamn perfect. I've watched it three times over while showing it to other people and I laugh harder every time. I'm hoping _that_ becomes the legacy of the show and ends up being what influences of any sort of comedy/projects that it inspires in the future, instead of the more exploitive aspects of the show. Every single beat and moment of that episode is memorable. Shit is legitimately a masterpiece.

I just started watching Russian doll! Ro once again reaches into my consciousness and violently rips out my own thoughts and displays them for me to enjoy.

Idk.. I just feel like the show is entirely too convoluted and the average viewer is going to consume media the way that they always do: without spending any large amounts of time examining the fucking ethics involved in the production. They see the finished product. I’m autistic and have spent so so much time reflecting on and examining boundaries-especially when it comes to comedy. I understand that everyone has a different idea of what is or isn’t ethical. And it’s similar with what people find funny or not funny. Something being unethical or uncomfortable doesn’t automatically render it humorless. I feel like the discussion around Nathan Fielder often gets stuck at “what is comedy” instead of “what is ethical.” Where do we draw the line? Who gets to draw the line? I think if Nathan’s persona was any different than it is, it would be much more apparent how manipulative he can be haha.

Just decided to check in after a few months of not watching and your written jokes add a lot; the genuinely funny jokes really help with consuming such tough topics, love the work, keep it up!

Ro your videos are always a transcendent experience. My youtube queue is full of video essays but your vids always give me tonal whiplash in the best ways. Keep up the amazing work!

i thought the captions were auto generated until i turned the sound on, you really actually said "hello welcome back to the first film ever screened i'm a steam engine barreling directly towards you" that's amazing (i feel like there's context i'm missing?? idk)

this show is a masterpiece

I have OCD too and I am dying at the idea of it being a streamer acronym now. You’re incredibly funny and this is the thorough analysis I’ve been needing about this show! I spent the entire show in that ethically dubious place and I ultimately thought it was one of the most brilliant shows I’ve watched. At what cost though is what I’m still asking myself after seeing the kid’s confusion and heartbreak in the finale.

That music swell towards the end was beautiful

I’ve never subscribed to a channel so quickly… I can tell you spend a lot of time on your scripts. I’ve never felt so bombarded with information so quickly. I’m excited to check out some more of your content.

i feel you Ro, my eyebrows drip sweat at the slightest hint of warmth

Yeahhhhhhhhhh the use of child actors in this show is kind of where I draw the line. I haven’t seen the show but I am assuming that he is using kids of all ages and so assuming very young children and this show doesn’t seem to be some regular acting gig. The fact that a child actor developed an emotional attachment from play acting with Nathan should tell them that it went too far. Childrens minds are so impressionable. I recently read jennette mccurdys book and child acting is something I just can’t really make up my mind on whether it’s ethical or not. But this show just seems like it’s too much of a simulation for a young child to be able to tell what’s going on. I hope if he continues the show he steers away from using child actors like that

ro the song that plays during the list of patrons is such a banger. you are the only creator who i will watch every second of every video they make

I’ve seen other people commenting this too but I wanted to say your videos are so ! good ! You are always so spot on with your analysis, precise vocabulary, humor and delivery, and the way you tie it all into a bigger picture .. keep doing what ur doing

The comedic genius displayed in every single one of your videos is literally unmatched. I cannot wait to see you hit 1,000,000+😍

ive been wanting to watch a video about nathan fielder after seeing some stuff about the rehearsal on twitter and this was a well written, well delivered, funny, interresting and engaging one so thank you!

How dare you not mention the best episode of Nathan For You -- Dumb Starbucks It's the best because the business owner opts out and Nathan just decides to go wild without him

omg i was just thinking of rewatching one of your videos this is the best

8:00: "So sorry I died" is the best moment of the series, so yes it was worth it.

i like the part where he says "it's fieldin' time"

I love the show. Its one of the more unique pieces of media I’ve had the privilege of viewing. It’s ultimately on the parents to guild their children through these nuances and situations. Being upset and confused does not equal trauma. I truly don’t think the one kid in particular is going to be traumatized and the viewer speculation is mildly insulting to said parent(s) of the kid(s). I appreciated how the lovely mum and show handled it. kids working is very grey and there are always improvements and considerations that can be made. Great vid as always Ro

I just spilled my lunch in the sink, I needed this video to cheer me up.

i am so happy i stumbled onto your channel a couple months ago, I just love your videos so much you have a very similar vibe as my super smart and funny/sarcastic brother (whom I love very much) and his same comedic delivery you have also inspired me to beef up my vocabulary (i have a list of a bunch of astute words i hear from ur vids that i wanna try to use more)

I’m glad someone is talking about this I am a huge fan of Nathan and loved Nathan for You. I liked the rehearsal too but I had to stop watching it after their “child” “overdoses” that kind of came out of no where. It was super triggering having witnessed that situation in real life myself and I was like damn this show got super dark out of no where. Still a fan of Nathan but I think he does take it too far sometimes. I felt that part was so unnecessary and disturbing and not at all funny.

this was like 15 minutes of you talking about nathan fielder shows and maybe a minute of you being like "nathan fielder is kinda goofy but like in a weird way" so im desperately tryna find the point of this video

Roommates Mo and Ro, now there's a sitcom premise I'd like to see! You could call it RooMmates

Thank you so much for putting a timestamp it helped so much! My partner and I have been watching the show and I'm glad you were able to talk about this without spoilers! Again, thank you!♥

I've said this before, but Mitch McConnell reminds me of that thing in 'Pan's Labyrinth' with hand-eyes that ate all the children despite living in a buffet.

Thank you so much for this! Honestly best analysis I've ever seen of The Rehearsal/Nathan's work

It’s so nice to see the vids fresh off the vine…the older ones still delight me…I have them conveniently saved in a playlist, so RU-vid can’t chuck a random into my RoBinge. (The edit: I made a joke that wasn’t funny, so I swapped in a compliment instead.)

THE WAY I CLICKED AT THE SPEED OF LIGHT

I personally don’t really like Nathan Fielder’s content but listening to you describe it was absolutely intriguing. Thank you Rose 💕

Outro song goes HARDDDDDD

Idk how I got here. This is the first video of yours I have seen and I’m HOOKED. you’re hilarious and your takes are insightful. Love it.

Every time I open a Ro video I’m so happy bc you talk so much like me Just back to back metaphors and bits. Exquisite. Ro is objectively cooler than I am but it’s still nice to feel included

I'm.getting a tooth extracted right now and just got a bunch of painful ass shots and your video has helped me stop crying and panicking thank you

this video was incredibly insightful and as per usual Ro, you crushed it- but PLEASE... WHAT IS THIS SONG AT THE END ITS EVERYTHING TO ME

Nathan is a menace to society, I had to stop watchcing Nathan for You despite finding it HILARIOUS because at some point i unconsciously started questioning things like, are these people ever let in on the joke, do they have the option to opt out of being in the final cut once they realize they were tricked?, are they ever told the advice they were given was purposefully wrong? Then I saw the first episode of The Rehersal and I thought oh this is MUCH better the person knows they are on a show and they actually get help for their issue.... THEN the fake family saga started and ended with the kid traumatized and i was like dumfounded.

RO I ALSO HAVE OCD THAT MAKES IT HARD TO WATCH TV AND I FEEL LIKE IT WILL ROT MY BRAIN. I relate.

Ro twice in a week what a treat. Thank you for continuing

You have absolutely became my favorite RU-vidr! All of your content is equally hilarious and insightful

holy shit new ro ramdin video just dropped!!

I watched both shows so I could watch this video bc I love your take on things, and I wanted to be in the know beforehand. THANK YOU

Seeing all my favorite you tubers talk about Nathan is making me so happy, I’ve been a fan of him for a long time and I’ve always wanted him to have a mainstream following ♥️

Omg I would LOVE to hear you talk about succession

this one goes really hard loving it thanks rose

Havent started the video yet but I hope you talk about the Zionism shown in the last episode. As a Palestinian I was so disgusted to see Nathan allow someone who believes in the genocide of my people to share their propaganda.

You look really pretty this episode

I have the same sunlight alarm clock. Got it like 3 years ago and it's still going like a champ.

my brains so slow that i can watch two or three times before i stop learning new things

I have never seen The Rehearsal nor do I know what it is but after watching this video I can confidently say that I still don't know what it is!

I'm not interested in watching either of those shows but you're delivery and the amount of work you put into your videos is always amazing! You're awesome!

im in therapy right now and i cannot watch this atm i am devastated i cannot do this anymore

Still not used to heat waves in Seattle! We’re not prepared for heat or snow 😭😭

there’s also the issue that what the actual context of a moment in his shows is obscured. he narrates a context for these people but i’ve read many accounts for nathan for you that show a lot of the storyline was pushed together to present a certain narrative. i remember specifically the episode where nathan was trying to get that guy a girlfriend that the girl from that episode said that how she got involved in the show was different from how the show presented it. she knew the two guys were different people the whole time and the presence for meeting was different than what nathan narrated. i think when people discuss this show, they don’t keep in mind that what is being presented to us isn’t necessarily real. some people literally talk about these shows as if everything we see is exactly how it happened and that is very perplexing to me and definitely muddies the waters on conversations around the show. how can you speak clearly on the ethics of a show you don’t even realize isn’t completely True Events? it brings me back to how people were talking about bo burnam’s Inside. bo didn’t just turn the camera on and live his life, he was performing. while i’m sure he tried to convey his very real emotions, they were practiced and performed emotions. i think the video on this very topic by philosophy tube has a lot of interesting things to say on that regard. funny because that video came out before Inside and The Rehearsal and yet people seem to have completely disregarded all those points lol poor abby she tries so hard to teach us. honestly my biggest takeaway from The Rehearsal was the mind bending aspect of acting. and nathan definitely tries to extend that hyper reality to everyday people by showing how our minds can delude ourselves. i think it was perfectly set up in the first episode that the man created a nightmare world for himself by worrying so much about his friends’ opinions of him. at the beginning of the episode he implies that his friend is violent and vindictive and at the end of the episode she literally doesn’t care at all. and by doing this rehearsal with nathan, he only reinforces this alternate reality where his lie will far reaching negative impacts by literally acting it out with people who look like the people he knows in a place that is perfectly copied. i realized how messed up this whole premise was when nathan had him practice mourning their friendship in a replica of his apartment. the comedy, for me, came when it was revealed that it was fine. she did not care at all lol and you get to walk away with our protagonist of the episode feeling good about things. but because nathan is a genius, that was only the set up and you get to see how far this unreality can go and how the situations can be totally off base but the emotions and how it all affects you is definitely real. this show is great propaganda against overthinking lolol

What I wouldn't give to listen to the full song in Ro's outro

An underdog with an overbite. I just love you for this

Wait, so what was the “dilemma”?

Neigh then Field her? I hardly know her

to me its ethical if you want it to be. i personally felt like a lot of what nathans trying to do is show us just how unethical this all is in hopes we might realize how gross tv is, mainly when it comes to the children. watching the rehearsal i kept thinking "its impossible this complies with child labor laws" but i also Know nathan and he definitely made sure it does idk we need to change those laws or smth anyway ro your videos are always so good it makes me wanna run around my house and yell im so glad you talked abt this show cuz its definitely one of my favs this year. totally agree that it feels like a magnum opus

I liked and commented specifically for the line, "I'm a steam engine barreling directly towards you. Run."

dude what is this outro music?? i cannot find it anywhere :(

been thinking about these exact points for days and days after finishing the rehearsal - definitely a comic magnum opus

I have no idea what you're talking about in this video but I still enjoyed watching it because I love how you deliver everything with such heart, and I still laughed at your jokes. Also your roommate's super cute!!! :D I like their glasses.

I really enjoyed this video! A wonderful introduction to your channel. ♥️ also I love finding PNW RU-vidrs, much love from Washington!✨

I’ve been recording your best insults to use in arguments against conservatives and they always make me laugh very hard

Needed to say, thank you for speaking so quickly, sharply and wittily. As someone who thinks this quickly themselves & loves using elegant language to convey my thoughts (not ADD, just me), it's truly enthralling. You are the equivalent of Arrested Development or The Great on RU-vid (vying for top spot with Drew Gooden!). I may not always agree with you 100% but you make me question my assumptions and push to be more empathetic to others and honest with myself. Thank you, my dear!

as a non USian it's insane that you like and think this kind of show is okay and normal

Barry is definitely Bill Hader's magnum opus. So brilliant. I'd love to see a video on that!!!

IM AN UNDERDOG WITH AN OVERBITE

Brilliant video as always Ro! Would love a video on Robbin if there's enough content... dude has me friended on facebook lol.

Liked the video after hearing the first 2 sentences thanks for being a comedy genius Ro