I have a 4.5 month old and will be trying this tomorrow night! He sleeps for 2 or sometimes 4 hours when he finally gets to sleep for the night, but then wakes up every hour, sometimes more often, until morning. He also will not go down for the night until 11 pm every single night no matter what I try. I tried keeping him up for several hours late afternoon, waking him up earlier in the day, everything. I will be trying this method tomorrow night. We shall see.
Hi Stephanie, I use to have the same problem with my little girl, she was waking up crying in the night-time but after I put into practice the methods presented in this Parenting Cours tinyurl.com/syfb4jw8 she sleeps all night long and my and my wife can sleep to. I wish you all the best
I'd love to see you tackle Raising Human Beings by Ross Greene and The Self-Driven Child by William Stixrud and Ned Johnson. Both are amazing books that deserve summaries like yours.
To anyone who's read the book. I've just started it and I have one question. In the beginning, E. Pantley presents a sample schedule of her son's sleeping habit at 12 months. He seemed to wake up a lot (8 times, maybe?) and nursed all these times for several minutes. Is it possible that at 12 months old he's just too hungry rather than having generally "bad sleep" if he wakes up and nurses every 1-2 hours?!
@@RealHappyEndings Thanks! That's interesting. I was really baffled by that amount of waking up and thought it must be either because he never learned to regulate sleep properly or because he must be hungry (and that interferes with sleep regulation). Kids are a mystery :)
@@justaname999 hi! In my opinion if baby is hungry in the middle of the night just baby know that, but wake up every hour I think it isn't normal, most of the time babies are not getting enough sleep or they are sleeping much during the day. If you read the book also the author said she started a routine and made others change that help improve the baby sleep :) I think is important too mentioned that 1 or 2 awakes at that age is considered biologically normal.
My baby is 11 month old, she never sleeps without breastfeed, and wake up at night for couple of times just for feed, it takes 5 to 15 mins to make her sleep, should i train her for self sleep or is it fine in her case?
I'm no expert myself, although I do have my fair share of experience. It's up to you and baby really. If you both are happy with the way things are, then theres no need to train if you don't want to. Think about what's best for the both of you, then decide. This book can help if you decide to train baby to sleep on her own without tears.
Yes I tried all that for waking her ... she won't wake up and she won't sleep ... kid could sleep through the bloody apocalypse but won't sleep when the sun goes down
Uhh...1 year old baby sleeps 8-9 h at night..around 30 min nap..don't know what to do anymore, I am already following this steps, but when waking up from jer short nap she just won't go back to sleep..help?
Hello My baby is 4 year's she sleeping in night & after 1 hour waking up by crying then immediately vomiting than being stop . plz tell me what is rosion?
I would guess that it would be the same as the baby who won't go to sleep unless nursed, which the book discusses, and is also laid out at the end of this video.
However, my 4 month old did the same. I changed some things which are: 1. Baby crib is for sleeping only. No playing inside the crib, when the baby wakes up I will get him out as soon as possible. 2. Changing clothes before and after sleep. I always had light sleeping clothes and a sleeping bag for nighttime and for daytime whatever the weather dictated. 3. Make a bedtime routine. For me this was fairly simple, walk into the room with the baby in my arms, dim the lights, open aircon, sing him a song walking through the room, putting him down, removing day clothes, changing diaper, put on sleeping clothes and put on sleeping bag, put baby in crib and make him sleep. 4) Night feed him before he gets hungry and don't fill him up, but keep it at 70%
Video was made well and with love, but some unsafe and sometimes archaically old advice. See a Lactation consultant for safe and up to date advice and info. Please read how to reduce sudden infant death syndrome. Some of these “tips” increase risk
I went through the video and can't seem to find which tips you're talking about. If you're referring to co-sleeping, the author goes over how to do it safely in the book. Probably should have mentioned that at the beginning of the video. She actually goes over sudden infant death syndrome, and describes safe as well as unsafe practices in her book. Perhaps I'll do a video on that in the future! Thanks for keeping us aware! ;)
Real Happy Endings please read this written article from the American Academy of Pediatrics, leading authority on sudden infant death syndrome: www.aap.org/en-us/about-the-aap/aap-press-room/Pages/American-Academy-of-Pediatrics-Announces-New-Safe-Sleep-Recommendations-to-Protect-Against-SIDS.aspx When you are done, please compare their warnings to several conflicting items in this video. It’s not just co-sleeping, but yes that is one of the items. Data from the AAP and JAMA researchers who’ve studied cases of infant deaths shows there is no one safe way to circumvent the increased risk of death associated with cosleeping.
ladyluckaz if you do it correctly (and with damn common sense) it will be fine. Baby has been sleeping with me and husband the whole time (now 8 months)
There are a few factors in how to get your baby to sleep. One resource I found which succeeds in merging these is the Calmer Fixer Blueprint (google it if you're interested) without a doubt the most helpful plan i've seen. look at all the awesome info .
It's a good technique but in such schedule, when to make baby massage and morning bath??? When to play and make them learn new things for brain development?? When to do our household especially cleaning, washing and cooking and our own routine?? What if even after following the schedule, nothing changes???
This is glorious, been searching for "get baby to sleep all night" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - Qeysaiah Baby Bangka - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some awesome things about it and my brother in law got amazing results with it.
It's great that there's so much on the subject readily available for us. I wonder who published first? Although I'm sure what matters more is that they work and help.
I'm not sure who published what first but the methods I've studied in kim wests book is extremely insightful and a great way to approach sleep issues. So I'm sure that if both authors are publishing methods so similar then I would definitely assume they both work just as efficiently.
iyi soru. Does anybody want to translate this video to Turkish? Or any other language for that matter? Just click on settings, add subtitles, pick a language, and translate whatever you can! You can choose to be credited if you want as well! Perhaps more people can benefit, like this viewer! ;)
@@stephaniemoad9569 LOL. We did the Ferber method and she was sleeping through the night in 2 nights. We only let her cry for a max of 15 mins. She now sleeps a minimum of 12 hours a night. I bet your baby is crying WAY more than mine did using the "no cry" method
@@gdub14 I don't let mine cry. I tried the Ferber method with my first and didn't go beyond the first night. I wouldn't let my baby cry for that long. Just not my parenting style. To each their own.
