The Papa & Daddy Q&A I Tom Daley  

I hope Robbie Ray has a British accent but becomes a Country music star.

Lance trying not to smile while talking about Robbie... My heart is melting.

I know no one cares but I came out to my mom today

Tom and Lance, I watched the video on gay fathers and thought it was great. As an older gay couple back in the 70's and 80's we were a young couple and we talked about having a family and thought of adopting a child since there were so many that needed a loving home yet after going through the meetings and paper work the answer was NO your gay. We are now in our 70's and know that our time has passed us by. So we have turned that love that we could give to a child towards each of us and new that some day it would change. Thank you and the others that took the chance to share their love with a child that needed them.... Love , Joe and Wayne

Now I have a question, why don’t men’s toilets have baby changing tables? Why don’t they have places to be able to change nappies? Great video 👍🏻

Lance is so funny, I'm dying 😂😂 "he's a great sleeper, you are a great sleeper, and I need help" 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Lance: I feel like half the internet’s been calling me daddy for quite a long time Tom: 🙄

OK - Pampers deserves some real credit and respect for this. I am thankful to them for ensuring that diversity of families is important in their marketing and branding. The world is changing for the better. Love you Tom and Lance. Way to go Pampers!!!

1:44 “he’s a great sleeper, your a great sleeper, I need help people” honestly saame 😂😂😂

Question: How is little Robbie doing? Lance: He's got the life, people! Are you kidding me? Tom: Yeah, he gets fed. 😂😂😂

They will be the best dads, I think the world should judge less and give more love, if the world revolves around love, everything would be better. I'm glad that there are brands that include diapers that sponsor them, it's necessary. We have to break the stereotypes, nobody knows what it's like to be a dad, that's what your life is teaching you. I love it, PAPA T and DADDY D.

Your relationship should be relationship goals for every couple. You’re so cute together😍

Thank you Tom and Lance. As a gay 18 year old, you two inspire me and give me hope in finding love and happiness in my future!

#DadGoals Why are you two the cutest dads?! Robbie Ray is so lucky to have you both! xoxo

No changing tables in men's bathrooms is also incredibly sexist, what, kids with straight parents will always be out with mum? But anyway you guys are a well of positivity, love seeing how happy your little family is ^_^

Y’all I don’t even care that this entire video was an add for a product I have no current use for. I have never seen lance act so cute and it warms my whole heart.

Fast forward some 15 years and Robbie is dying slowly of embarrassment re the pooh stories. Robbie, it's just what Parents do 😀

00:01 in and I am already like 😍😍😍

"If you name someone with a "Ray" middle name, they might be a country music star. We're setting him up for success in the United States -- with a guitar, a banjo, and some cowboy boots..." LOOOOOOOOOL! Lance is too much!!!!!

Please don't ever get a divorce! I hope your marriage is full of love and happiness till the end of life!

I mean... Lance isn't wrong #Daddy.... but also, kudos to Pampers for sponsoring this... and y'all are doing GREAT. It's both a hard and rewarding journey. :)

They're wonderful parents, you can already see the love in their movements. That little Robbie is definitely in good hands. Hands on knees, that little kiss, and those looks they give one another ❤️

It’s nice to see a loving couple who respects each other.

Loved how Tom kept touching Lance's knee, ah.

When my husband and I adopted our two boys (brothers) through LA county foster care system (21 years ago) they sort of decided on "Dad Jeff" and "Dad Scott." It worked wonderfully well. You might consider that.

The kiss at the beginning, so cute.

Now I know your whole family is cute :-) You two are a gorgeous couple

“I don’t sleep through the night why should he?” -Lance

My kids dad was useless in every way. I was a single mum of two children before my eldest was 2 yrs. I wish they'd had a dad one tiny bit as good as you two. Beautiful family! Being a good parent comes from deep inside and you guys have it. Love you both x

Lance was his joking self until 3:16 when they started to talk about the best parts. The loving "#Daddy" could no longer hold back and the smiles started to happen.

It is so cute that Robbie is obviously in the corner and they keep looking at him

Tom, I think Lance hints at wanting you to bath him.

This video makes me feel like that the world is not completely doomed... I'ts actually kinda nice. ❤️

GUYS LOOK AT LANCE AT 3:15 IM SCREAMING THAT DAD SMILE IS LITERALLY FULL OF LOVE, HUGS, PRIDE, AND MORE LOVE AAAAHHH BEST PARENTS EVER!!!!!!

Lance has the bluest eyes!! I love getting to see them in this video.

First time Robbie says Papa or Daddy your hearts will melt and those words will become the sweetest sounds you will hear.

The kiss at the start ❤❤

Your chemistry is amazing. I’m sure you’re wonderful parents and Robbie will get so much love and happiness in his life. P.s. When I heard you named him Robbie Ray my Hannah Montana part was very happy

I love Dustin's personality. Literally love it.

So nice to see you two talking about Robbie Ray. And very good point about changing tables in men restroom, haven't noticed they weren't any in there but they definitely must put some in there. Have the greatest time taking care of Robbie. ❤️👨‍👨‍👦

Tom I recently talked to one of my students who came out. He told me that you and I were his source of inspiration.

It's so cute that you actually named him on your first date 😍 You guys are amazing, Robbie Ray is a lucky boy!!

Question: Have you been getting sleep? Lance: What is that? That’s a whole ass mood

We are celebrating our 42nd anniversary, and married fifteen years ago...the year our son was born...and we’re 72 and 67 respectively. (Yes we were 30 and 25 in 1976j . We used cloth nappies, and would’ve loved those Pampers. I was a priest when he was born, and elected bishop when he was one....so he was stationed in the rectory or episcopal office....Anglican...or “silent “ when my husband, a clinical social worker monitored a therapy session..Dual national Canada and USA. We pray for you three every day by name...as for all same sex families with different challenges in every stage of development. We also thank our surrogate, of Vietnamese heritage. He’s an intelligent and handsome young man who wants to be a physician among the poor and needy. He’s straight but never narrow member of the LGBT community.

Robbie is one of my very favorite boys' names. And I agree, there is absolutely NOTHING on this earth better than having a son. My wife and I adopted 3 full brothers. What a feeling! Best of luck to both of you and to Robbie. I admire both of you for your love and dedication to each other and to Robbie.

You both have an awesome journey ahead of you with Robbie! I was a single gay dad raising two girls back in the 90's and I will always treasure the memories of always being there for them! I now get to enjoy the next part of Parenthood & that's being a grandpa!

Tom: "nothing has made US happier " God I love you two so much, your both such a shinning example of love and dedication in a same couple family. Your both simply stunning! Peace.

You two are amazing. Handsome, talented, hardworking, perfectionists. You care for each other, a child, your families, and adoring public. Two guys couldn't possibly give more of themselves. I'm happy for you both and I'm happy to be a part of the public life we're allowed to see.

AWWWWWWWWwwwwwwwWW you guys are the cutest family xxxxx

Nothing and nobody are perfect but you two come pretty close. The love you have for each other and your son shines through the vlog. I can see why Tom fell in love with you Lance, your a really nice guy, inside and out. Jan

“Vague memories of sleep”

THIS IS ALL I'VE WANTED FOR SO LONG

Robbie is so lucky to have you two has parents.

You're such a lovely couple. Your love for each other is so plain to see. It melts my heart.

OMG BEEN WAITING FORR THISSSS ❤️❤️

I don’t sleep through the way so why should he 😂😂

Children are so delicate and even a little action or behavior from their parents might affect them. I watched this video and all I could ever see was two lovely and kind dads who wants nothing but the bests, happiness and safety for their only beloved son. So I never understand why people care about the gender of parents? As long as child is happy and safe, i think it's okay. So go one 💗

They really should have changing tables in men's bathrooms now

Robbie Ray is most blessed indeed to have such caring, devoted and loving dads!! Blessings, health and happiness on you all! 👍

I would love you to be my dads, honestly the things you said brought things to my eyes. I really can’t understand why there still are people who don’t accept same-sex couples to have children, God i don’t even remember the last time my parents said something that sweet to me or about me.

I’ve been waiting for this!! Who kept rewinding to look at all their cute little reactions again? Wish you both the best of luck with Robbie’s sleeping!❤️🧡💛💚💙

Congrats again on your lovely little family, you can see the happiness Robbie has brought to your life. Also good on Pampers for giving them this sponsorship (:

You guys look so happy and overwhelmed! So happy for you 😊 congrats!

Love the love that you guys have for each other.... stay blessed ❤

Wow, you two are so besotted. I was just the same when my daughter was born. I hope you get some sleep soon Lance. xxx

loved this loved the more serious side to lance too you make the cutest family

Thank you for letting us see into your family dynamics!

Wow! this was pure joy listen to you both talk about parenthood. Hope we can see more of you both chatting together!

Ooh! Lance made me cry! Then laugh. Love it! Thank you!

You two are going to be the best Dad's ever!

I adore your family, I see the love and I have no words for the happiness that I feel for you both, all my love always x

love you two. So adorable, loving and humorous.

I have two girls (my angels) when listening my friends and other parents talk about how they get their kids to get dressed, clean up, shower and how it often turns into screaming and crying?? I made everything fun! “Do you think you can get d quicker than me? Then t them win and are out that you can’t believe they got dressed so quick, hop about a little while pulling on your jeans, gasp when they get their top on quickly. Aces to the car, counting the steps as you go up and down, ass they get older count in twos and so on. I never really had to shout at them even when they got older knew, that they had to do chain things and if they didn’t the fun stopped, the craft days, baking, sleep overs. As they got older it was no video games, tv friends over and I stuck to what I said. We had a bedtime routine, kids need well defined boundaries and structure. I worked with children for over 20 years and I enjoyed the fun just as much as they did, when your all rolling about n the floor 😂 there is no better soon than children’s laughter and smiles. Hope you and Robbie Ray share lots of laughter and smiles 🤗🤗🤗

How do you ruin a child? By not loving it. I can’t see anything other than love in this video. And I LOVE it! You guys are amazing! I really love the idea that this little amazing child will learn from the begining that love is love and a family is not just a mummy and a daddy. You look like two very happy parents! 😍

I think you guys have done such a wonderful job in how you incorporate Robbie and your parenting journeys into this channel without violating robbie’s personal privacy ! You have wonderful family content and still showcase robbie’s adorable little personality without ever showing his face on camera which I just really respect! Side note now that the Olympics are done have you ever considered knitting tutorials?! 🤗

Love how open and reflective Lance has become on Tom's channel!

Awww, it’s so cute seeing you talk about Robbie! The love and joy you feel and share with him is written all over your faces! 😍 I also love that Pampers are showing the diversity of families and that Dads change nappies/diapers too! Thank you for doing this Q&A, it was lovely ❤️👨‍👨‍👦 And in answer to your question in the description box, yes please do another Q&A soon! And then maybe you could do one once every 3 months? 🙏

Finally!!!💗💗. You both are just amazing... Robbie is one lucky kid💗💗💗😍😍

it is nice to see two guys like yourselves be so blessed in so many ways, and now a son as well, here's hoping you all are blessed throughout your entire lives. Cheers

Y’all are the most awesome and beautiful Fathers I have literally EVER seen !!!!!!!

The more i watch you the more i just love you. You were a beautiful couple, now you're a beautiful family. ❤

I love hearing you guys talk about little Robbie. I've been watching this relationship grow since the beginning and I'm so happy to see you guys come this far. You're going to do a great job with Robbie!

Kudos to you guys! Your love and dedication is a model for ALL young parents.

Congratulations on your baby! I’m so happy for you guys and just know that those sleepless nights will end I promise. It’s amazing once they start interacting with you and communicating. It’s going to be a wild ride but so so so worth it.

Literally screaming when I saw the thumbnail 💕 I don't think someone would mind seeing more Q&A's with you and Lance!

I love you guys. It's so sweet how you talk about Robbie :).

You guys are the sweetest ever I’m in love with your love and your family

What great Dads you are. Robbie Ray is so lucky to have you both. The love and happiness you share will be the best environment for him to grow up in. ♥️

I am with you all the way We had trouble when my husband was out and changing nappies. That was a problem 22 years ago. The other problem that should be addressed is breast feeding and being told to do it in a toilet. I refused and said nobody should be told to eat in the toilet. Well done to you both.

Get someone who looks at you the same why lance looks at Tom , Unbelievably cute , best of luck with the bundle of joy ☺️☺️☺️☺️

I'm so glad thing are changing around! I'm happy you're happy! This little boy is going to have amazing life models

Both of you make me happy to be human! Love you guys.........thank you...........Ray

you guys are such a beautiful family Love you guys also just had to point out gsus...love when gsus decides to talk to amazing parents...8:10

CONGRATS TOM IM SO HAPPY RIGHT NOW! NEXT THING YOU KNOW ROBBIES GONNA BE GOING TO KINDERGARDEN AHHH SO EXCITED!

Love you guys so much, little Robbie had the best parents in the world! 🌸❤️❤️

I'm crying of cuteness. You two are the best dads little Robbie could ever have

I am correction everyone is so grateful for the wonderful, cute, and fantastic parents you guys are and for the great example you guys set for everyone. thank you guys so much to be honest I am jealous by the relationship you two have but most importantly I am happy for the relationship you have. Robbie Ray is so lucky to have you guys as fathers, role models, at times friends, people he can share anything with no matter what the situation(s) are, and most importantly two fathers who love him, is there for him always, has his trust, love, fathership, support, and back. No matter what happens ever by the end of the day he is your son who loves you very much and by the end of the day Tom and Lance you are his fathers who love him very much. Keep that in mind when ever something goes wrong. Love all three of you Tom, Lance, and Little Robbie Ray.

Wonderful Family so filled with Love and support for each other ...Blessings - Pedro Fernando

I've seen this adorable video sooooo many times but I only just noticed that their eyes are constantly drawn down and to their right as they're facing the camera -presumably where little Robbie Ray is? So cute!!!

great to hear your answers and lovely to see you both so happy.Yes, please more Q&A