As an educated girl myself, and perhaps a covert feminist that believes equality between men and women in the workplace and opportunities, I have come to realise this shouldn’t be the case. This lecture was good putting my thoughts of women being breadwinners and ‘successful’ with whatever that means, and working while kids could be looked after by family and she chases after her dreams. The reality is that there are very big differences between men and women that will never be resolved because of our very nature. It is scary to think that society would otherwise look after my children if I didn’t. That the likes of lgbtq or lack of Islamic values or brainwashing on various matters could get hold of my children would mean I’d failed miserably as a mum, the most important job a woman will ever have is she chooses to become one. I’m single and don’t have children, but slowly my mindset is shifting in this sense from someone is a careerist to now realising the realities of life. You know many male consultant doctors would tell me to stick to a 9-5 job because that’s what their wives did, and while I don’t want old men to decide my future and limit my capabilities, I understand there will come a time and place where that may be the only option or in fact none at all in order to put 100% time and effort into them. I was expecting less from this lecture but honestly I really liked his view points and certainly want to hear more.
Actually having children most definitely means that women have to make sacrifices. If you are still chasing your dreams it often comes at a cost with the children.
@Richard Wagner , the feminist movement was women fighting to exercise the RIGHTS that were given to them by Allah, SWT. Think about it. What were they fighting for? The RIGHT to education, the right to vote, the right to own property, the right to have their own money, the right to choose whom they marry, the right to have rape and domestic violence to be taken seriously. Allah, gave women these rights. You do, realize, don't you, that in Islam, women keep their last names when they marry, right? This is nothing new. You DO realize, that Khadijah (RA) was a business woman running her own businesses and making her own money, right? If you bother to read Surah Al Anisa, In shaa Allah, you will see that Allah, Subhana wa T'ala GAVE women rights that men refused to let them practice. Men were the oppressors, going against what Allah had given. Allah does NOT like oppression nor the people who oppress. There would have been no need for a feminist movement if there were no CHAUVENISM. FEAR ALLAH!
same I want be housewife and take care of my future children inch'Allah if الله give me the chance and health, I really don't want them being brainwash by the government that try to make our kids atheist and bring them part of their agenda.
that's exactly how it is unfortunately. so many women are just completely confused. I'm no different. we have to be careful what we let into our lives. what we consume. it all has such a strong impact on us and our subconscious. may Allah swt preserve us. Allahumma Amin 🤲🏻
JazakAllahu khair ustadh, I am a Muslima and It was nice to be reminded of the blessings bestow on the woman by Allah swt. It made me feel incredibly special and loved.
May Allah be pleased with you. I will treasure this lecture and save it for the right time to present it to my non-Muslim parents who ALWAYS bring up women's rights and issues of inheritance ... may Allah guide us and guide them and open their hearts to al-Islam, ameen!
I am searching for this type of knowledge in my life.... Please sheikh make more videos... I am loving it... And will share to others and make me on that level inshallah.... Jazak Allah u khairan
We need more knowledge on feminism as our young sisters do not know anything about their rights in Islam and so are brainwashed into believing that only the west and a western lifestyle can give them their rights. Also, brothers would benefit greatly in knowing the rights of women as in today's age, the Muslim man very commonly treats the women in his house more like slaves! I really pray that a knowledgeable alim can enlighten the ummah, Aameen
True...men also need to be educated regarding women's rights. Sometimes we become defensive because we realise our rights are being trampled. My question is, if am a stay at home mother who has no access to personal finance, the husband provides food only n he is well off, how am I suppose to live? If I go out to work, who is at fault!?
@@azraq350 you are at fault. you cant work or even leave the house without your husbands permission. he is obligated to provide what is necessary. you clearly still have feminism in your head. don't pretend like you have changed.
Ma shaa Allah It is really an eyes opening, so we can respond and explain to those negative narratives against Islam. Islam is the only true religion in the eyes of our Creator.
Sheikh: i will make this 20 minutes. Me looking at the duration of the video: 👀 just a joke, may allah grant you ease and may allah grant you and your family jannat ul firdaus
Assalamu alaykum, JazakAllah khayr for shedding light on the issue and making things clearer when there are so many points of view around. Please consider coming to Liverpool to continue on this topic, hopefully it would be really beneficial for everyone here , inshaAllah.
Please give a lecture against red pill movement, the hot and happening issue, Andrew tate has been cancelled but many muslim men are completely in awe of him
Red pill is all about the reality of society against ignorance. For example what is wrong by saying that the court system awards women when they break their marriages even on false allegations? What is wrong when the red pill mentions hypergamy? What is wrong when men tell other men to self improve by making money, going to the gym etc
Red pill made us kind men aware that western women are just enjoying our money and validation. Even a lot religious Muslim girls enjoy that and post themselves in the internet so the world can compliment them.
red pills is not a ideology. Feminism is a ideology many Muslim woman with their emotions deny Quranic verse and Hadith which is the extreme, and can lead to disbelieve. We can take the good from red pill and leave the bad. Understanding gender dynamics, and society being harder for men in some areas, the double standards, and the sexism. Red pill is also using studies and statistics to support their opinions.
I love u akhi for the sake of Allah SWT, attended your lecture in muhammadi masjid in Bradford and later hopwood lane masjid in Halifax, very humble brother who gives a lot of time to people may Allah SWT reward u
Masha Allah Sheekh . May Allah protect to you any your family. Your lectures are very powerful. Allah blessed you with so much knowledge. It will be nice 20 minutes lectures for the youths who has no patience to listen longer lectures Jazakaallahu khairan
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh my dearest brothers and sisters. May Allah bless you all. May Allah protect you and your family from all kinds of evils. May Allah accept all your good deeds. May Allah grant you Janattul Firdowes. JazakumAllahu Khayran
As Salaam Alaikom wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakaatu Ustadh. So my son, 15, who is currently in West Africa with me for the past 4years now, keeps making reference to him returning to UK. As a revert, all my family in uk are non-musli ms, and I have specifically informed him he cannot go and stay with them. We have gone back and forth with his debate. I finally said, you can go to UK on one condition, he was eager... I said you go stay with Abu Taymiyyah. Silence... He asked me where does he live... Leicester... Silence... In Shaa Allah shall get.back to you with the next round .... Al Hamdu Lillahi
Ustaadh we need die-hard refute on Feminism and Dayooth. Make lectures about how to be a man, since the man need knowledge and learn from kuffar now (due to no knowledge available). Jazak Allahu Khairan!❤️
May Allah reward the young ustath with all good but I wish he would consider his habit which is something that i noticed people doing over the past few years which is to ask " does that make sense?". Matters in Deen dont have to make sense as we understand it. I pray Allah reward him and us.
السلام عليكم ورحمه الله وبركاته نشهد أنه لا اله الا الله وأن محمدا عبده ورسوله اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على سيدنا محمد عبده ورسوله و على أهله و صحبه اجمعين اللهم بارك فيكم و في أهلكم و اموالكم
The Tanakah does say women have the right to inherit their fathers land and possessions. The problem is getting men to accept that truth. While I do support women's rights according to Iman. I do struggle with supporting modern women in what I see as a warped sense of equality.
Surah An-Nisa, Verse 57: وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ سَنُدْخِلُهُمْ جَنَّاتٍ تَجْرِي مِن تَحْتِهَا الْأَنْهَارُ خَالِدِينَ فِيهَا أَبَدًا لَّهُمْ فِيهَا أَزْوَاجٌ مُّطَهَّرَةٌ وَنُدْخِلُهُمْ ظِلًّا ظَلِيلًا And (as for) those who believe and do good deeds, We will make them enter gardens beneath which rivers flow, to abide in them for ever; they shall have therein pure mates, and We shall make them enter a dense shade (in paradise) via iQuran
When we think we can argue the rules Allah set us as a society we will end up more confusion and unhappy. I wish I had a woman role and had a husband who take care of my needs. However, I raised my girls and work with men dominated job, yet I am still a woman and mother who respect the rights men. Feminism is a cult and cancer. We muslim women should not give thoughts what makes us kufur. But I believe some women been oppressed by men who don’t fair of Allah. If men play their role, I don’t think we should have this topic too. May Allah guide us all. 🙏
NO NEED FOR FEMINISM IF THERE WERE NO CHAUVENISM!!! How about addressing THIS! Brothers all know polygamy is allowed but not all know how Muhammad (SAW) TREATED his wives. Khadijah (RA) was a business woman. He also assisted with household duties. He did not beat or mistreat woman.
I think there are women, myself included, that have taken Islam into their hearts and accepted Allah yet still want to understand why men have changed and misinterpreted what Allah has said and used things like “2 women to 1 man” as the reason why women are “less than”. I wish there was a whole lecture or serious on this topic. Perhaps there would have been no need for a movement like feminism if men wouldn’t have put their foot on the necks of women thru out history. Feminism is the reaction. Not the cause.
That's not a right justification, in fact there isn't any justification for it. Relating the movement to the oppression of the muslim men when the reason of this movement has nothing to do with muslim men misinterpreting the hadith is wrong. The origin of feminism must be kept in mind. Feminism as it's currently defined has no justification whatsoever. And that's not even an analysis that you've given. It's just based on personal experience perhaps. A mother is the very first teacher of a newborn. It all comes down to the responsibilities of the parents. If you raise them upon Deen, you won't see such men in the society. If someone doesn't live according to the Deen then they're only going to fill the society with degenerates. The women who want guidance are guided the ones who don't are not guided. Only Allah gives Hidayah. Women are quite ungrateful as well. Narrated Ibn 'Abbas: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "I was shown the Hell-fire and that the majority of its dwellers were women who were ungrateful." It was asked, "Do they disbelieve in Allah?" (or are they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied, "They are ungrateful to their husbands and are ungrateful for the favors and the good (charitable deeds) done to them. If you have always been good (benevolent) to one of them and then she sees something in you (not of her liking), she will say, 'I have never received any good from you." Sahih Bukhari 29
If women and men were equal then there was no reason for needing two women against the testimony of one man. Think, humble yourself and submit to the will of all, stop using your own bias and feelings to justify feminism.
@@mr.lastchance Allah knows whats in the hearts of people. Perhaps Allahs making women have a more emotional nature and risking a higher influence of shaytaan when not praying (mensus) could be the reason for this decree of needing 2 women while only needing 1 man. Allah knows best and we should always accept his decree wholeheartedly
It's not about equality rather equity.. a man is never like a woman and a woman is never like a man. We different roles. We can't replace each other.. let's respect that and be happy in that. At the end of the day.. DEATH is the final destination.. this life is but a test.. whenever shytan whispers all the feminist ideas etc. Remind yourself that Allah is All - Wise..HE created your brain..HE taught you left from right so how do you judge HIM with your human brain? If you are not comfortable with the rules of Al-khaliq..uncreate yourself leave HE'S kingdom. create your self and your kingdom and blow the shots but if you cannot do that ,submit to Allah- Rabil A'alameen
My dear Sister in islam, i really liked when u said u have taken islam into ur heart but also understand that Allah’s every command for us is for our our benefit.. he is the creator and he knows the best how he created men and women and that is why when islam says men and women are not equal then we have to submit to his command and our Allah knows the best how he has created us.. being a women i myself submit to my Allah’s command and plan.. we can always be better than any men or women in taqwa .. in that , Allah has not given priority to any gender.. don’t compare and compete in things that are not meant for us to compare.. as our knowledge has limits and Allah’s knowledge has no limit.. he has already decided what is best for men and women.. let us submit to our lord..❤
Assalamu Alaykum Sheikh, please do a lecture on the proper age of marriage in Islam. There was a law passed here in the Philippines RA 11596 An Act Prohibiting Child Marriage in which they defined that anyone who is 18 below is considered a child but we know thay in Islam a woman or man can get marriage of they reach the age of puberty.. Kindly explain coz it is really contradicting here. In shaa Allah you can have time to do a lecture about this topic. Jazakhallahu khair shiekh.
the Philippines and Islam have no connection. you are correct, once a child reaches the age of puberty and becomes an adult they are then able to get married
Asalamualekum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu, im just a 12 year old girl but i want to become successful because if i go to school whats the point of not using that knowledge to use and getting a job but if i become a housewife which i also want to im scared that nobody would want to because they will have to have a job to support himself and i and maybe kids which i dont think is financially possible in this society from what i know of? so is me going out and getting a job good or bad?
Wa Alaykum Al Salam Wa Rahmutallhi wa barkatu, this is why women shouldn't go to school, men are supposed to work, protect etc. while women do the house chores and take care of the kids.
Waleykum salaam dear. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with getting a job. It’s actually important because financial security is important. You’re very young, though. So don’t worry about it so much right now and keep your mind open, please keep studying, keep your career goals, and of course keep praying that Allah guides you throughout. If you eventually want to be a housewife, that’s fine. But have a back up and I’d advise to have some money saved up. Again, you’re so young, so try not to stress about it so much. Just keep studying both the deen and an education that could get you a halal income.
Somehow I am surprised that you brought up the quote from Rockefeller, as I read this "quote" before and it really seemed to be unauthentic and I could not find that he had really said it. Of course the message is still relevant but as a student of knowledge and in general as Muslims we should have a advanced sense of quotes being authentic or not
I would disagree. A lot of people have a misconception about feminism being hate towards men, when rather they just want to exercise equal rights for women which are often still not given to them in many countries. Misogyny however is often targeted at feminists, because seeing women trying to gain basic rights being seems to be a problem for many men.
Mashala the Shaykh has given his reasons and he is humble. If you like refer to yourself as Shaykh. However, I can no longer automatically without knowing rhe qualifications of an Arab especially from the GCC or Yemen and call him a Shaykh when I know the qualifications of an African, a Pakistani, A Canadian, a Caucasian or an American but not call him a Shaykh. I will grant him thta respect. In our lands based upon our levle of knowledge you are certainly a scholar. So, since Alim mya seem to high for the hearts I'll settle on calling you a Shaykh. This has nothing to do with race but respect. Ilm is Ilm and if the knowledge and the known behavior and morals of the person are correct we respect and honor him with his title.
Asalaamu Alaikum! The feminist movement in the west was nothing more than women FIGHTING for the RIGHT to Practice the RIGHTS GIVEN TO WOMEN BY ALLAH Subhana wa T'ala. If these rights were not denied by MEN, there would have been no need for a feminist movement. Men were the oppressors. Allah, NEVER SAID that the ONLY thing women should do is cook, clean and breed. This is something perpetuated by society. Khadijah (RA) first wife of Muhammad (SAW) was a business woman.
The goal of feminism as it is in the Western world, is to destroy male-female relationships, to make women believe that they are equal to men when it is a lie, men and women are different, those who are behind all this, are soldiers of Dajjal, they also promote homosexuality and want to destroy the family.
@@adamkhan1744 Ofc he doesn't. Most miskeen feminists have no clue, and they just vomit the idea because it sounds appealing and fancy and in line with what they tryna preach
Khadija ra was exactly like that. A caring, loving and obedient wife who took care of the household and raised amazing children like Fatima ra. I‘d have no problem if my wife was to have her sidehustle at home without mixing with men providing that she knows her priorities just like khadija ra before marrying the prophet saw. That’s not the fitra of women, that’s why Allah swt made men the qawwams of women. The providers and maintainers. The ones who provide security and take responsibility.
@@Abu-Talha-Al-Kurdi we had women nurses at the times of jihad during prophet's (pbuh) time. Jihad was not fought by men. May be we can say women can work in different fields but dressed property and maintain dignity. I have an intense passion in business and accounts to the extent that if I stay at home n not working I get depressed.... Allah knows the intension of his creation. May Allah guide us all....
Salam Shiekh great speech as always mashallah. Also great lecture amazing points just a kind word of advice it's stuffed up saying what is wrong with being a breeding machine. Sorry sheikh but no. I understand you are saying equity over equality which I agree with and all your points were valid. However a breeding machine is again saying women are only their organs. You could have worded it better in my opinion as motherhood and nations. Especially as not all women can give birth or wish to which although i disagree with i can still respect. I understand you did not mean it like that and I understand you were coming more from a "there is nothing wrong with being a woman who gives birth" but with the machine part it comes off as so wronf. Just don't want your words being taken for a run by some dodgy media outlet.
Yeah, I think he just said that because he wanted to quickly end the lecture. I think he pretty much meant is what's wrong with giving birth to children? Lol. Majority of mothers will tell you that their kids is the best thing that has happened to them. I personally always appreciate hearing my mother tell me that at least. It puts a smile on my face and encourage me to work harder to make her proud.
AssalamuAlaikum wa Rahmatullahi wabarakatu, Ustadh I kindly request you address the video made by brother NasirAlHanbali about you. I'm writing this comment with great concern. JazakAllahu Khairan. I really love to listen to you and do not want you support those who are deviants. BarakAllahu Feek.
As salam o alaykum wrwbt & JAZAKALLAH Kheyr, only ALLAH swt knows best but the Ummah has confused ISLAMIC EDUCATION for women (which ALLAH swt ordained) with Secular Education, the parents are sending daughters in FREE MIX education, where they Hygienically clean them from any Islam/Deen & this is why/how our Muslim women are becoming feminist as well as they do NOT want to get married and even a marriage takes place, they are NOT lasting, divorces are very common now a days because what they learn from Schools/Collage & Uni is ME, MY SELF AND I. May ALLAH swt give us the ability to hold on to his rope, learn & practice this beautiful DEEN, Ameen ya RUB
Respectfully sheikh you speak about all the non Muslim men oppressing women but what about the Muslim men?? I 100% agree that feminism is a disease. However, have you stopped for a second to consider how Muslim men TODAY think of Muslim women? I promise you some of them think they are less than a man SubhanaAllah and in the eyes of Allah we are equal. I appreciate you giving us history to show us why we don't need feminism but please address the problems at home. JazakAllah khayr
@@MissBeeh its actually very relevant. You think that men think you are less is because they have authority over you. And if they have authority over you, then they are also responsible for your safety.
Yes, feminism is probably more compatible with Hinduism, which is why India has the highest cuckoldry rate in the world and the men tend to be quite feminine and dossile. Add to that, Hindus worship women whereas Islam in inherently patriarchal and this is why the men in Islamic cultures tend to be quite masculine
So how did hatija r.a. then inherit her wealth before Islam? Women were opressed but not even to a similar extent to which you claim .. in that sense all were opressed
*why do european think that wearing short cloths are bravery or confidence?Meanwhile,being an actress, winning Miss universe,Miss world are nothing but selling or representing your body by force,but women have to accept this force just because of fame,money.Also feminism forces women to beat men.That’s why,women has to do 24/7 job,even if she doesn't like it to do.why we don't understand that,physically a man and a woman are not equal. In Islam,there is a beautiful rule that Husband will earn but wife will take care of her children,but feminist hate this rule.Anyway,Hijab is not forced in Islam,Its the girls choice to Follow it to make the creator happy."Get out of your misconceptions about Muslim*
