i think where y’all messed up at was fucking around with each other knowing y’all weren’t in a relationship. Cierra prob caught feelings again and that’s the real issue. Just keep it strictly co-parenting unless yall plan to really get back together one day.
It’s alright not to speak on certain situations Jordan. Take your time out and find a peaceful path to go on. It’s ok nobody is perfect. Prayer and patience is key.
If you really love your child like you say you do you’ll do ANYTHING for her even if it means taking it to court. Set boundaries for yourself and for your child doesn’t matter what you feel for her, feel for YOUR CHILD !
Court is not always the case Ppl can communicate & respect each other's parenting values Plus men never win With all that money cj lost to royalty It's something in court that judges will not take a daughter out of the home from the mom to be with dad ...idk what they call it but I did research & this is facts most he will get is visitation & that might be spreaded out or week to week which is overwhelming to the parents when that child goes to school because both parents will have to live in distance. .....they need to talk & respect each other's parenting values that's it
@@ayanayoung37 That’s not wtf she’s doing at all if you viewed her RECENT post on instagram this boy legit called her out her name saying making up lies about her saying she was “sleeping w/ the opps” and also told her “lol ima show you”. & only reason ik this is because she posted it 20 mins ago and I slid up but it said error so I had to take a quick screenshot before I shortly realize she took it off her story … clearly this boy is unhinged somewhere and we’re seeing a completely different side. I’ll forever be on Cierra’s side Jordan dont got sht going for himself but a yt channel and he sound slow asab at that✌🏾😂
The only advice I have is to go to court to establish your parental rights. Red flag to remove a child from an active father is childish. You have to protect yourself at all costs. Go to court, get a mediator, and get sh!t documented so stuff like this doesn't happen again.
This is the comment!!! Go to court so neither of you can pull these types of stunts. Also, her actions are that of a bitter woman. Because when your done with a man you really dgaf what he does as long as your child is safe. I'm older and married....she's definitely bitter
yeah cus that shyt didn’t sit right with me. don’t hide your child from a father who is more than active in her life. that’s not right and it honestly makes her look like the monster in all this. i’ve seen videos and how much she loves his daughter and the fact that she’s keeping her from him kinda makes me lose respect. he needa take her to court that’s HIS child too.
The real question is why go weeks without reaching out to check on your child? She just showed receipts that he could in fact get in touch with her. She also showed where she reiterated that he could see his child. At some point just watch both and make your own conclusion or assumptions from it.
“i knew it was about to be up..” so why not just tell the girl “hey my bm on the way…can you just step out …?” to avoid a situation. but instead you’re playing victim lol
And it don’t matter if he is playing victim that still no damn reason for him to not be able to see his child your missing the big picture that’s a grow man and anybody that have a child won’t do anything to hurt they child cause like he said he love her the most so she in the wrong cause she came up in his personal space doing all that and they not tg
That’s exactly what I said just tell the girl to leave but instead he close the door take the baby out the room than go and talk to Jazz them and tell them I know it’s about to be some stuff like he was making it seem like it was something going on with him and the girl right there making it look all guilty and weird doing all that it like if u knew it was about to be some stuff and u know how she is to avoid drama and situations from happening just simply ask the girl to just step out that would’ve been more simple and easier than him doing all that closing the door making it look like something if it wasn’t knowing she not over him anyways since they both still be messing around smh 🤦🏾♀️ that’s why u just Co-parent and she do her thang and he do his ain’t no need for them to all be together under each other that’s what happens them feelings will still be there because if it was the other way around and she had a nigga in her room and he wanted to come in in see his daughter like that he would been the same way like she was everybody know how Jordan be getting about his bm too so he need to think about it from her point of view and should’ve just ask the girl to step out but he still should be able to see his daughter they both need to just communicate that together and just Co-parent the right way
I pray yall both come to a common ground & things get better for ya’ll. I see the hurt on both sides. I’m glad you both set boundaries for your child to make co-parenting could run smooth. Y’all need to sit down and have an adult conversation because it’s a child involved. Both parties should be in her life & watch her grow gracefully!! Praying 🙏 for you both!!
Praying for you both 🙏🏾 Please let this be the one and only video made Damn I hate this I’m proud of you for saying you and Cierra gone get this right 🙌🏾
Jordan , Hold your head up 🙏🏽 Continue to pray. Everything will be alright. We have seen you with your daughter and have seen the love that you have for her. Pray and try not to let this stress you out ... At the end of the day you still have work to do , Don't allow this to break you ... Never should a person hold a child away from the father especially when the father is trying to be a good dad. 💯 You have truly grown Jordan 👍🏽You will see your baby soon🙏🏽
At the end of the day it’s clear she was really mad because another girl was around, that’s not a valid reason to keep his child away from him smh it’s definitely giving bitter, how can you intentionally keep a kid from the father but have the nerve to say he’s a dead beat but before this incident he was the best father,,,this man single and can do wtf he please long as his daughter not in a harmful environment it shouldn’t matter who he has her around, eventually he’s going to get in an relationship and she’s going to be around that person, his bm needs to grow up
I agree with you 💯% bc Ciera in her feelings about him having a female around . She don’t want to be with him for whatever reason but she don’t want nobody else with him either (thats a control thing ) that’s really what’s happening here. They need to figure out how to co-parent without mixing relationship type stuff. Keep it strictly about their daughter.
Finally someone in the comments with some sense. Women never wanna call women out when they are wrong and as a woman that’s the problem. At some point people have to stop siding with women when they are dead ass wrong . Jordan said in the argument she threw up in his face he finally got money and a room that’s jealousy instead of being happy he’s in a better position to help them ,she should be happy but the real thing is Cierra loves Jordan and still wants to be with him and it’s nothing wrong with that but doing all this don’t make it better at all .
Fax she was quick to say all that when all she had to do was talk with him off camera. She ain't gotta do all at just cause they do social media. I understand she is tired, but attention grabbing and being bitter about it is not the most adult way to do it fr. Jordan wouldn't have to do this if she was just direct about the issues she feel.
@@nahladoll6782 That’s not wtf she’s doing at all if you viewed her RECENT post on instagram this boy legit called her out her name saying making up lies about her saying she was “sleeping w/ the opps” and also told her “lol ima show you”. & only reason ik this is because she posted it 20 mins ago and I slid up but it said error so I had to take a quick screenshot before I shortly realize she took it off her story … clearly this boy is unhinged somewhere and we’re seeing a completely different side. I’ll forever be on Cierra’s side Jordan dont got sht going for himself but a yt channel and he sound slow asab at that✌🏾😂
I really hope that it gets better for you, I have watched for you a few years now and you are a very genuine person! Just keep praying about it! GOD GOT YOU
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽I’m sorry you’re going thru this Jordan and I pray that y’all can make amends for the sake of y’all precious baby girl. I know you’re a good dad and love and miss your daughter,don’t give up Jordan. ❤ love you bro🙏🏽
Ngl half yall weird n these comments takin his side he brought a random around his daughter a girl Thts not permanent n his life without communication with his bm like I understand y shordy mad
Jordan only you within your heart know the truth. You are a man and you know exactly how to make this situation right. Just do what’s right by your daughter and see how much smoother your life will go. Stay blessed and bring more blessings by doing what you know you should do.
I understand you are co parenting but the fact of the matter is you’re a SINGLE young man. And you still deserve to have a life. You pay rent just like everybody else but Cierra cannot come to your house and dictate who you’ll (FOE)have at the house. Especially if you and her are not together. She is wrong. Because she wouldn’t like it if you did the same to her. I know she sees other 🥷 and you can’t tell me the baby is never with her when she meet new guys or out and about. Let’s be real! Ladies stop holding the babies hostage from their FATHERS and then hollering their a dead beat dad, it’s hurting the child in the end.💯
That’s not wtf she’s doing at all if you viewed her RECENT post on instagram this boy legit called her out her name saying making up lies about her saying she was “sleeping w/ the opps” and also told her “lol ima show you”. & only reason ik this is because she posted it 20 mins ago and I slid up but it said error so I had to take a quick screenshot before I shortly realize she took it off her story … clearly this boy is unhinged somewhere and we’re seeing a completely different side. I’ll forever be on Cierra’s side Jordan dont got sht going for himself but a yt channel and he sound slow asab at that✌🏾😂
@@user-oo6ef7jg6m exactly I was just saying the same thing people act like they’re not understanding the point of what she saying she clearly is saying he’s a half ass when they’re doing good he’s consistent in the moment that he want to do his own shit he’s not consistent because there’s no way even if you and her are beefing. You should still be doing for your child.
I said what the fk I said. If you would read and get an understanding I said what I said based off of his video and him stating that she got upset because he was at home in his house where he pay his own bills and because Kiya had a friend over she got mad and went off and now not letting him see his child. If he wants to see his child and be in his child’s life why would you keep the child from her dad and then turn around and say you’re doing everything on your own, well duhh. You’ll know damn well Jordan not about to let NOBODY hurt or harm their baby so if Cierra don’t want to feel like she doing it alone make his ass stand 10 toes and make him watch and do for Kinsley as he should instead of saying NAWL he can’t see her. What sense does that make? Clearly he’s doing good for himself he got a house a nice car and a new apt. Shiiit he would be stupid if he didn’t take care of his child because if I was Cierra child support would be knocking at his pockets if he didn’t. Tf🙄
@@Aquariusqueen1111 y’all slower by the day I swear because what grown woman or grown men would want random females and dudes around their child and just because he wouldn’t put her harms way don’t matter because you don’t know these people .. y’all let this boy get on the video with no receipts tell y’all what he wanted y’all to hear and y’all ran with it she clearly showed that he’s the one she literally posted it on her story concerned about what the fuck she’s doing then what the child is doing y’all so delusional its sick .. I could never ride this hard for an influencer that wouldn’t spit on me if I was on fire, just because Jordan wouldn’t do anything to his baby don’t mean that people you barely know wouldn’t .. and they agreed on something it needs to be as followed .. but then again Y’all don’t be understanding until the dude does it to y’all
@@ShesJustSoPretty bihh your slow. And obviously you’re too invested and delusional saying you could never ride this hard for an influencer but your on here cat riding for Cierra Tf. I am giving my opinion just like your giving yours. At the end of the day unless your attached to Cierra’s ass and with her 24/7 and or riding Jordan’s dk 24/7 you don’t know the real deal either. Only what they put out in these videos is what we all can go off of. I’m not against Cierra I actually have cousins who grew up with her. I just don’t like when us females act out of emotions and keep the kids away from dads who actually want to be in their kids lives, life is too short for that type of pettiness and if something happens who hurts the most growing up, that child. Not saying Jordan is all innocent either, they both are young and still have a lot of growing up and maturing to do.
Jordan I definitely can see she is making it hard for you when it comes to your child and it seems like she wants to somewhat control whats going on in your household. Praying for you 🙏🏽
i am a subscriber to both your channels,all i can say is i love and feel for both of you!, and i hope you work this out for your daughters sake & both of yourselves sake,so sorry you guys are all going through this.🙏🏻❤
just take accountability. Though you and Cierra are not together, you all have never simply acted as such. Yall still act like yall are still dating, yall obviously still have intercourse, and haven’t set those ‘strictly platonic’ boundaries. And I know it’s because that’s your first real love and yall had a child together, but of course she’s going to feel some type of way when you haven’t communicated such with Cierra off camera and yall haven’t set BOUNDARIES. Especially if they’re coming around your daughter (regardless of circumstance yall communicated that it would never happen so she is gonna feel some type of way) It’s just wrong. Communication is key.
I'm Not Taking Sides But This Is My Take. You And Cierra Were Still Messing Around Which Is Obvious. You Said The Girl Was There For Kiya To Create Content. If I'm Not Mistaken Kiya Is Only 19 y/o. Why Was The Girl In Your Room And Most Importantly If She Was There For Kiya Why She In Your Bed? You Said You And Cierra Have An Agreement. So You Knew She Was Going To Fly Off The Handle. Why Not Tell The Girl To Get Out Your Room And Go Hang With Kiya Which She Was Supposedly Supposed To Be Doing Anyways. Y'all Can't Co-Parent And Still Be Messing Around And Think It's Not Going To Be Problems🤷🏾♀️. Y'all Need To Come Together For The Princess. And If You Not Helping Financially Not Saying That You Aren't Help Ci With The Baby. Children Are Expensive. But I Hope Y'all Can Figure This Out Off Of RU-vid.
If no one has said it yet I’m proud of you and happy that’s you are trying as a father and getting yourself together ❤continue to push and do for yourself and baby K. Y’all got this 💙💯
You have both demonstrated great co parenting. Jordan you have done a great job by having your daughter mother around in spite of not being together. Maturity is key for the baby. Respect and mutual understanding is great!!! Controlling one another is an ingredient for discord and division. Don’t let the enemy magnify things that are not a real issue ❤
She’s keeping the baby away because she still in her feelings about you clearly. But ya need to know that only person who hurts is the baby. She’s needs both of you. ❤hoped Cierra realize how immature it is to keep a baby away from their dad, that’s a no go. Unless u as a father was not doing what you suppose to do. Jordan both of you have rights , if you on the birth certificate go to the courts and get joint custody, have a whole set schedule.
That’s not wtf she’s doing at all if you viewed her RECENT post on instagram this boy legit called her out her name saying making up lies about her saying she was “sleeping w/ the opps” and also told her “lol ima show you”. & only reason ik this is because she posted it 20 mins ago and I slid up but it said error so I had to take a quick screenshot before I shortly realize she took it off her story … clearly this boy is unhinged somewhere and we’re seeing a completely different side. I’ll forever be on Cierra’s side Jordan dont got sht going for himself but a yt channel and he sound slow asab at that✌🏾😂
@@user-oo6ef7jg6myou must be her friend or family member, you under every comment with this same post lol! Anytime you’re keeping the father away, when he wants to be involved’, provides! Not toxic towards the child! You’re bitter! It don’t matter if 10 girls are there! No one is gonna end up hurt but her daughter!!
@@user-oo6ef7jg6mand saying he don’t have shit going for himself but a RU-vid channel! As if it’s easy to get up everyday, create content and establish a loyal audience, the boy have an apartment and a nice car! RU-vid is a JOB! it’s men out here not doing ishhh, y’all say anything ! I guarantee he make more money than cierra! I’m not on either side! And I’m a mother! But it’s obvious she still want him!, if she didn’t have feelings for him! She wouldn’t care abt another woman being around. The problem is y’all want to control what the next person does! And it’s not your place or business 😊
Jordan honestly as a person that have seen you grown. They always say when you growing and developing is when the devil will try his best to mess with you. The trusted people who rock with you no your intentions and belief. Move forward and do things in the right way. Joint custody is something that could be better for you and daughter relationship ❤️❤️❤️
You got this Jordan regardless of the situation things will work out you guys just need to talk and discuss these feelings it’s a lot of love there still
never let anyone or anything keep reminding you of your past keep moving forward .You cant please everyone around you because those around you suppose to love and respect you not bring you down.
@@SamuelG-jx1hs she takin care of his kid all by herself. So yeah its disrespectful to call someone out they name while they takin care of something they created together and he doin what he wanna do.
@@macnocheese6234 y’all is bitter. You don’t know what that girl is saying or doing to him. She won’t even let bro see her and y’all just expect him to send money to her? Ian sending y’all shit either if I can’t see my kid wtf. Learn how to stop being in yall feelings all the damn time. And also you need to stop just going off what she saying on CAMERA you don’t know wtf she does off camera. Almost majority of yall girls just be looking for sympathy and don’t even tell the full truth.
I Think Where you “messed up” is closing the door especially if your room is always open, that triggered something for sure..Obviously there’s a lot of love still there and that’s why y’all going back n forth with hurtful things. I hope it all works out 🙏🏾 y’all are both great people/parents & in the end it’s all about the baby!
Jordan stay in prayer god got this Cierra will come around like u said Cierra knows u like the back of your hand as well as you know her she knows u are a good father don't you worry u will see your daughter again 🙏 for u keep your head up god bless you 💗
The bottom line is the baby should not be in the FOE HOUSE! Jordan you made an argument with your child’s mother and you broke it! Own that and apologize come back to her with a plan and your new intention. You have an apartment to yourself now, your days with your baby should be over there only moving forward. Pay her a monthly fee every month on the dot. Do everything and anything to always keep the peace ☮️ between yourself and her even when it hurts!! Set a schedule/ priorities and stick to that no matter what! You are better than this setback 🫶🏽Lock-in gang!
“I’m not gonna tell the girl get out of my room just because my baby’s here”. U SAID LITERALLY 3 MINUTES AGO THAT YOU AND CIERRA ALREADY TALKED ABOUT HOW HAVING FEMALES AROUND YOUR CHILD IS NON NEGOTIABLE. NO MATTER WHO IT IS. And you proceed to say before Cierra got there that you knew how she would react, but you still didn’t prevent it? You broke a boundary and you’re playing in her face like she’s wrong. Take accountability. You yourself said at the beginning of the video that this isn’t okay.
I’m sorry that you’re going through this…. There are too many people who don’t have active Fathers in their lives. I really Ciara would think about how it’s not only affecting the Jordan and most importantly it will definitely have an effect on the baby. I pray that you all can resolve the issue therefore, the baby can have two active parents in her life. 🙏🏽
Hey Jordan.. sorry you guys are dealing with this. Seems like you guys need to go to court so you can see your child as well. You have a right to see your child too. I pray you guys work it out. The level up is coming for all the FOE members, because the devil is working right now. Don’t let it get you down. Keep pushing 😊
Jordan u real one fr 💯 I'm happy to see u not feeding her the same hand she trying feed u n I hate when y'all slow as baby mothers hold kids from they father the only one it's hurting is the baby .... Keep doin u n win 💪🏿 my boy 💖🤲🏿🙏🏿💪🏿
She still has feelings for him. Not sure why she is spazzing like that. A simple conversation would work. Never use kids as a tactic. He should be able to see his kid. Pray they work through this
Jordan - Let this be the first and last time you make a video like this. She saw a girl in the room, got jealous and upset. Natural reaction. Her keeping the child, is because she's still mad & jealous. Whatever YOU do just as long as you're safe & stable - Is none of her business. Respectfully. One thing about tables, they always turn. Be mindful who you listen to. Be careful who you vent to. And the moves you make, belong to you. After everyone gets over they're own attitude & selfish needs, you both will be able to be better parents to Kinsley. And that's on periodT! I'll be 40 on June 4th, I have a 14yr old & I co-parent with his Dad. It wasnt kumbaya in the beginning but it came together when arguing was exhausting. And at the end of the day, we had to do what was best so that my son doesn't have Mommy & Daddy issues to best of our ability. Especially mine. To us, that's NOT A BROKEN HOME... We can't regulate how people feel, it's outside of our control. Everything will eventually pan out. It'll smooth out faster & better when somebody grows up, puts Kinsley first & let people live their lives respectively. You both have all the rest of this life to do whatever you want and need to do. Alot happens in 5 years and she's still processing the split up. Mother responsibilities never add up on the lower scale. That's the way God made us & she'll have to adjust to whatever capacities yall have in yourselves. Surround yourselves with people who have some sense, not into jealousy, competition, on broke vibes & crab mentality - You both will be fine. All the best. #beenthere #donethat #survivedthatshit
Hey Jordan , you have such a pure soul . Nothing and nobody will take that from you. I just want to say (I know I have no place ) if C was coming over it’s okay to say to the girl in your room “ yo my BM coming over we bout to have family time real quick ima holla at u “ if you know her then u could’ve avoided it . But I def understand where u coming from to . If u not doing nothing u felt like there was nothin to hide . Ya will work it out . Keep being the good man you are. Good things will follow to good people 🤞🏽🤞🏽
you a real one💯, i’m currently going through a situation with my child’s father he hasn’t came to see our newborn in a month & he has a gf that’s insecure about him being around me. it’s about our baby at the end of the day but niggas can’t see that they only thinking about themselves & what they want. this situation just hit home for me because im actually dealing with a deadbeat.
Y’all so one sided. After hearing both sides Cierra tripping. Honestly, this is his career and how he makes a living and if he’s at a content house (which she knows all about) with other RU-vidrs who also collab. 1+1=2 not 3 stop trying to defend wrong. She came in talking crazy and all
Your allowing her to keep your daughter from you the longer you keep prolonging ish is the longer your daughter goes without you in her life……. Yall biggest mistake is still messing with each other while yall not even in a relationship……. Cee wrong for holding your daughter away from you but at the same time yall messing with each other while not being together is another reason why she feels she can do that…… yall need to set boundaries and co-parent ONLY….. yall can still have the best co-parenting relationship without all the extra…….
I truly believe you love your daughter. You'all both seem to be great parents. I think feelings is still involved you have to learn to separate the two. I hope you both can mend yall coparenting relationship.
I encourage you to prioritize legal channels and consult with them about placing yourself on child support and exploring visitation rights. Posting videos may provide temporary relief, but resolving matters through proper channels is crucial for long-term solutions. Sending positive vibes your way. 🌟
A good father shouldn't have to go through that, go to court and get joint custody or visitation rights. You should have never go through that with anyone your child is the most important.
Usually i'm on the woman side but I'm inclined to believe Jordan because Cierra was just saying their coparenting is going good and he's a good dad. She was just around FOE all happy... Now all of a sudden a new girlfriend potentially is in the picture and he's a deadbeat? Yeaaahhh something not right. It's giving bitter. 🤷🏽♀
Both can be true, maybe he WAS being decent at first but has decided to now prioritise his new peice and lost interest in his daughter. That’s what it seems happened.
You don’t know what happens behind closed doors. There’s a possibility he acts a way towards her off camera that feels like they’re back together. So when she sees him posting other women but lacking in other ways behind the camera of course she would be irritated. Just remember yall are viewers. You don’t know what “always” happens because you’re never there and never have been.
@@deevasquez1171 from my observation Cierra is never happy when Jordan around other women. Whether it's a girlfriend or just a girl sitting on his bed she goes crazy. And that can cloud her judgment of his parenting 🤷🏽♀ it's common.
He just said they are not supposed to have other women/ men around their daughter and she comes see a girl in his room alone. He said he was agreed with how she felt at the time. Do y’all have selective hearing.
I'm sorry you're going through this... we can see you're a great dad and you love your babygirl... Ciara is wrong for keeping baby Kinsley away from you. Just do it the right way. Go through the courts and file for child visitation. She is legitimized so it wouldn't be a problem. This makes me sad😢😢😢 she is hurting Kinsley. Keep your head up.....
Jordan, you have to move differently than the other FOE members because you're a father now. That is a full-time commitment that comes with a lot of hard work and sacrifice. The FOE house is not an appropriate place for a 2 year old child, especially an autistic, non verbal 2 year old. There is too much drinking, smoking, video gaming, and random girls going over to that house. Wasn't there a DV incident not too long ago? Didnt Jlong and Jazz have to pull out their firearms because some girls leaked the address at the previous house? Come on now! Your daughter deserves better than that and she needs more from you! You got a whole apartment for yourself and didnt even include a bedroom for her! I know you love Kinsley but sometimes it seems like you're not thinking ahead. You have to grow up Jordan. Cierra is taking care of Kinsley and that is hard work. She needs you to help more. Stop making excuses and please do better.
I disagree with you. Saying “I’m single, I can do what ever I want” was not wrong. It is actually setting CLEAR boundaries. One of the issues seem to be that you both are unclear what you want from each other romantically. Saying things like what you said eliminates confusion and sets clear boundaries. There is a correct way to say it, but saying it is reinforcing reality and eliminating confusion. Again there is a correct way to express it but , I definitely don’t feel like you were wrong for enforcing boundaries.
Why would you call her bitter when you was playing with her heart taking her on trips and vacations only to want to date other women you want the lime life it’s about the money
Sooo WTH do that has to do with him seeing his child?? That’s something they should talk about and work out separately but that’s not a valid reason to not allow him to see his kid just because she’s in her feelings, that’s immature of her and shows how bitter she is
@@Texasrealrealtytv That’s not wtf she’s doing at all if you viewed her RECENT post on instagram this boy legit called her out her name saying making up lies about her saying she was “sleeping w/ the opps” and also told her “lol ima show you”. & only reason ik this is because she posted it 20 mins ago and I slid up but it said error so I had to take a quick screenshot before I shortly realize she took it off her story … clearly this boy is unhinged somewhere and we’re seeing a completely different side. I’ll forever be on Cierra’s side Jordan dont got sht going for himself but a yt channel and he sound slow asab at that✌🏾😂
@@Texasrealrealtytv you are right about that I am only saying Stop playing with your child’s mom like it was going to be something and only keep it about the baby not mixed feelings
@@user-oo6ef7jg6m so he shouldn't be able to see HIS kid because of an argument?? Y'all slow as hell lol she wouldn't be able to go to court and tell them ppl he shouldn't be allowed to see his kid just because he called her out her name lol that's crazy as hell,,,like I said right is right and she dead as$ wrong. If anything she chooses to keep dealing with him although she's seeing certain behavior patterns, she can be mad but you can't use your kid as a pawn to get him to "act right" or do what she wants him to do.
It’s not bitterness with Cierra. I have an autistic toddler as well, and I feel she just wanted you to be more aware or who is around y’all’s daughter. With having an autistic child who is considered nonverbal ( my daughter as well) they have a communication barrier and because of that a mother with a nonverbal daughter will automatically assume the worst. Rather be safe then sorry sometimes. I recommend you guys have a PRIVATE sit down about rules and boundaries and make an agreement on who can and can’t be around y’all’s daughter. Though it is tedious this will help both parents be comfortable and content on who is around the child. I recommend having documentation due to trust having the ability to be altered. Wish both of y’all individual prosperity!!
And I feel like it don’t matter HOW you make your money you blasting your personal problems on the internet mixing “business” or whatever they call ts with personal life can get to be a fckn lot after a while but ofc they rarely ever think about that.
He been taking care of his baby he always had his bby females be tryna use them kids as pawns when they get mad tryna make us mad when really they only hurting the child
Even if y'all not together or you can't see her always help financially... Always give somethin monthly or every two weeks. Thats what she mean raising her alone..
@@tt8141Was? even if they not together and she be petty just keep giving always that way he can always say he helped his daughter financially as well even if she dont want it she need it and just send it if she send it back which i know she wont at least you tried, and it will be her fault she not letting him see her
@@tt8141I actually can believe that he doesn’t give me Alpha type he gives me the opposite and nothing with it. It’s just sound believable he’s a sweet guy
But this has nothing to do with him helping financially. It wasn't an issue with his parenting up until she saw another girl around, if he's not helping financially then why wait til you get mad to bring it up?? Why are you just now saying something because you saw another female around? I'm a single woman myself so I understand how frustrating it can be but we as women have to be held accountable for our actions as well, she's being bitter and it's clear
Listening to everything you had to say you know where you went wrong. The both of you have been doing great taking care of baby girl. If you guys had an agreement the both of you should have stuck to it. I’m glad you pointed out your wrongs. It happened y’all just gotta stick to agreements for the sake of a healthy co parenting experience and a happy baby. Do right and apologize. Never let anything come between you, c and the baby. It’s sooo easy.
Y’all talking about Ciera not giving bitter but she is! Once you start keeping the child away from the other parent because you in your feelings. It’s petty. Not because something happened with the baby but because of her feelings.
I’m praying for the best for you Jordan ❤. Even though you don’t want to go the legal way, maybe just think about it so she can’t just keep you away from your daughter. That’ll protect you in the long run.
Jordan is letting this house get to his head. You have to understand bro that you have a kid not only a kid a kid with autism you cannot have your child around anybody special with a kid that has special needs.
And in my opinion Jordan if you know how your babymomma is you should’ve just told the girl to get out 💯that would’ve been better VS. You shutting the door. That was YOUR mistake. Asking someone step out so you can handle your coparenting is NOT wrong. Having that door shut looks wayyyy worse
He don’t have to tell nobody to get out of anywhere, him and his bm not married. That’s what’s wrong with y’all females lol think y’all entitled to everything when your not.
JORDAN DONT DARE RISE TO THIS CONTINUE TO LOVE ON YOUR DAUGHTER AND MAKE EFFORT TO SEE HER.. . it sounds like ciera wants u to fight with her instead of focusing on your child the baby was fine y is she acting crazy. I hope u both can take accountability, learn and continue to grow from this situation. YOU CAN WORK THIS OUT ! Cierra is protective as any mother would be just respect but dont ever retalate cause women will always show emotions. . You do though have to let ppl understand your child being around means u gotta let ppl know it cant be them in and out your room that becomes kingsleys space... ppl get comfortable and u have to pay close attention. Ciera can not dictate what happens wen u take care of your child when shes not around thats not okay.. if u went to court and a judge divided the time she would not have any right to just pull up to you when she pleases that would be your seperate time. So she needs to get her Anger in check reacting that way around the baby is traumatising the child. No excuses she shouldnt be going off. Im disappointed in cierra cz she really should know better and know that you would never do no slick shit around your child. To be honest her reaction made u react worse... but young women have to be careful not to use with holding a child from the farther if he is an active farther cause now that baby is missing her farther and jordan can feel that.. this man shouldnt be in his room smoking thinking about his seed. Come on cierra do better.
