It’s never too late to re-parent yourself and or choose to make new decisions. It’s called therapy. Checking in with your village is crucial to forward movement.
He's operating in his pain and bad experience. Every woman that makes more money than a man, is not dominating & controlling. Some will love you regardless of how much money you make because a more than just the amount of the he makes. He needs to heal before he dates.
We as a human race need to let go of past hurt! The issue is he is still hurt from a past relationship, and even a woman who checks everything off his list, he will still find something to sabotage the relationship! Let's HEAL before dating!!
Why u gotta be all extra w the "BROKE" you're only proving his point..you're the type he's talking about. I can tell you would weaponize that word against men
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 Im so glad the guys gave Chris a different perspective. He has this toxic macho Caribbean man mindset & i don’t want that ruining his relationship. Don’t let your past trauma rob you of a possible fruitful future with someone.
@guyyscotty Caribbean men grew up seeing their dad be the PROVIDER!! We always laugh at black Americans because many of them have their women pay the bills. PATHETIC!! I fully support Chris’ mindset. I moved here as a teen & have NEVERRRR dated a black American guy. Currently married to my hubby who is Irish & Italian. I was open to everyyyy nationality EXCEPT black Americans because we see you all as lazy bums!!😅
He thinks he’s the prize while Kevin would have told him, “Actually you’re not.” Most men always want to pretend that the positive attributes Kevin says are in reference to them. 🤦♀️
Chris needs therapy… his eight year relationship has Traumatized him… seems like the eight year relationship was the first relationship he’s ever been him… he’s not ready for another relationship until he heals
I'd say...i see fear of commitment in Chris wrapped around his statements and believes. He needs let go of 'woman search' for now to heal from trauma and re-orientate himself instead. There's a sweet man under that tough skin he needs to give a chance to experience love.
Men and women who use their financial status to dictate and control their intimate and personal relationships are self-centered. A couple should look at the financial aspects of the relationship as being a joint or shared area (if they're married or living together based on engagement).🤔😶😯
I’m Ghanaian, the man is the provider in African communities but there’re many cases where the women are providers but you just wouldn’t know because they keep it within themselves. Frankly some of these men don’t mind investing in their women to do better. My uncle invested in his wife’s business now they’re both working together because she needs more hands, they used the proceeds from the business to buy a house and are investing in more real estate for their children. American men would think it’s a rule no matter what for them to be the provider and the women should be homemakers and SUBMISSIVE and wouldn’t even invest in their wives’ businesses, even if they can tell it has potential because they think that is what African men do. All my life almost all the men I’ve seen with their families bend the rules if needed.
I don't understand why ppl in America are so quick to judge a person in the way they dress or what the wear ( like the dangling earrings) Men in Iran, Africa& other countries wear what wld b considered a dress here😢. And what about Scottish dress do men? Plz explain😂
