maybe it could be anti socialness, you can put yourself out there without being a "whore". You just need to be a good kind of social and meet someone that could potentially catch ur eye and ofc you dont have to sleep around to know which one is the right one for you. So basically, put urself out there in a good formidable way and youre not a whore for trying to find a future partner. and thats it really. thats my opinion of it atleast with most cases of singleness and this works with most ppl. hope this helps.
you should focus on yourself as in don’t look for a partner more so look into what you want and need to do in life and in that process of focus/putting in the work the right one will come but ofc you need to do things which put yourself in public view it just any form of community, relationships shouldn’t be forced we they naturally come together as you get infatuated with each other but again it’s hard if you aren’t obsessed about all the other things that life has to offer…buttt i don’t know your life i just randomly got this video and thought ill add so to sum it up if you focus on a tree you miss the forest yet at the same time if you focus on the forest you miss the tree so just do you and don’t get strung up on one thing much luv
