"Your twenties feel like one long year" LOL this is so relatable. Today is literally my 25th birthday and these are the exact conversations I'm having with my friends! Thanks for the relatable content y'all 💖
I agree with that ,getting married in your early 20's is too early . just ; >Get money >build yourself >have fun >Travel &Spoil yourself . >look aftet yo Fam❤
It's so strange how everything is so urgent in your 20s. You need to get married. You need a good job. You need to finish your qualification. You need to do it now otherwise you feel left out. In your 30s you look back and all that anxiety confuses you.
I am 25 year and I wish I had made wiser decisions earlier!! Its not easy to still be schooling at this age because you thinking that your peers are outthere exploring, working and making it. Its kinda depressing
I got my degree at 51 years. The masters degree I want to do is not offered in my country. So when I finally decided to do one here the class was full.
I am in my 20S and I think 20s are about self discovery; in society as a legal adult, in finances, in relationships - refining what you do and dont want
Hence I always say ;Your 20s 😃are for you and you only !!!!Be unapologetic 😇selfish with your life .No loml 😍❤️🤮should force you to marry and have kids no that can wait!.I have a lecture who got her Doctorate first ,Marriage and kids after and she was in her 30s and that shows there’s no need to rush 💯RELAX!Have fun .But that’s my opinion 🙌
Thato Fox what are saying... I'm 31 years old, married with 3 kids 😂😂🙈🙈..... I have no regrets though, I love my life but I do agree that you shouldn't put pressure on yourself to hv all these things figured out in your 20s.
Modern Wife hey 👋🏾 I’m 32 with one kid but two pregnancies , divorced and remarried .. I did ALOT in my twenties and I have zero regrets but I think there should be no pressure to have it all figured out in your twenties and there is nothing wrong with only having kids or marrying in your thirties ..
@@ThatoFox I couldn't agree more....I'm just laughing at how busy I was clearly in my 20s....but you are right especially on emotional intelligence and self introspection, those are things we should be more concerned about in our 20s instead of unnecessary pressure to get married, hv kids n figure this life thing out..... Can't wait for Part 2 😀😀
Throughly enjoyed this video.❤️. Thato and Muchi came through with wisdom. With regards to sex in one's 20s ingathi umntu would be vigilant with those they exchange souls with. Bad energy that one is connected to just delays one's journey.
katleho Makhele 👏🏾wow someone actually thinks like this...most people be making me feel like I’m boring abt being Selective of who I want to lay down with
🤔 Ai, my 20s were amazing. I absolutely loved my 20s. I'm still enjoying.... Well, I'm still enjoying life 31 as I am.. They only thing I lament about this talk is that it seems 20s is where you "do what you want" and 30s going forward you somehow stop 🤷🏾♀️ .... always do what you want, make sure your 20s are the rest of your life. Have fun, bank, be happy, it may change form but still do what you want.
ngl, this was such an insightful video & there's so much to take away from it. My favorite part was when Thato & Muchi touched on EQ because I feel like a lot of people underestimate the importance of basic EQ and how the lack thereof can destroy adult relationships.
I’m in my late twenties (yooooh that was so painful to type😂💔) and I agree 100% with Muchi and Mrs Fox. It took me all of my twenties to figure myself out, pick and stick to a career and be comfortable with myself. I’m confident in adulting properly.
"You don't wana be fucked up ... and you start breaking them.." Shit.. I felt that. This is why I dont wana have kids right now. I feel like I am broken... like my early 20s fucked me UP! So I'm tryna fix that... Then.. after.. I'll grow a human
This was on of those conversations I think I needed as someone in my 20s, there were a lot of unfinished or rather not spoken about matters that we youngsters don't really see the need of or clarity... So thanks guys
Such sound advice, wisdom and great insights from my favs. I loved this episode so much, reasonate so much with it as a 30 year old. 😍 I thoroughly enjoyed my 20s responsibly, outgrew many friends, put myself first, learnt to say NO, speak up more, grew in many aspects of my life, evolved (still evolving). I love the EQ part so much. Sbwl a life partner now 🤣😜
Lmao I agree about the sex part. Women's lady parts aren't turn tables maaaaan! Also Thato is right about the marriage part. I think it's not essential to rush for marriage at a young age
And Muchi is right, the sooner you get your hustle and/ or profession right and working on it, the sooner you can do all the nice things in life while in your 20s, otherwise it will only happen legitimately whenever you get your SHIT together. Its important to stay honest to your journey
That your 20s are for you to build yourself. Get to know yourself, and take good care of your mental health. We have to be the generation that raises kids that don't have to heal from their childhood. It was short but wooow it was a lot to take in.
@@palesabiyela agreed🙌🏾🥺. I didn't want to add more cause they say so much in a short span of time. Definitely worth the duration. I agree! Yours 20s are about building your foundation🙌🏾🔥. Life is for the living
that's very true don't get married in your twenties, i got married at 23 and divorced at 29 . the way you change as a person is intense. loved this !! Thato and Muchi combo i didn't know we needed.
That’s Fox!😍 Honestly, I came for Thato and ended up subscribing because wow! Wish I’d found this channel sooner! Fantastic content, can’t wait to binge watch the rest of your videos👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
A very informative video. The 20s are a very tricky & confusing time. It's great to be taught about different aspects so that we know how to handle things better. 💕💕
