Hey Rollo, let me take this opportunity to Thank You for giving us (apart from your weekly podcasts) discussions like this where MEN (of course, both of which are your friends) sitting around and having discussions on Red Pill, Friendship, Women, and all other topics a "growing" man should know of. Thanks again man. I sincerely love watching you three guys sitting together like this and having long "matured & calm" conversations. Keep it coming !
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
“The red pill is about the power of choice” even falls in line with the source of the phrase “red pill”; the Matrix movies 😆 In the first movie, Neo has to make the choice to swallow the red pill and accept the truth. At the end of the second movie, Neo is told the truth about the Matrix and the dilemma presented by humans becoming aware of the truth; he responds by saying, “Choice. The problem is choice.” At the end of the final movie, Neo is asked by the antagonist of the series why he continues to keep fighting, and he responds with, “Because I choose to.” Neo’s entire character arc can be summed up by the ability and power to make a choice. Gotta first make the choice to accept the truth in order to be able to continue having the freedom of choice after.
In regards to the ”fake it ’til you make it”-method, I read something in a book that puts it in maybe a bit better light. ”Pretending to be something you’re not is how you learn to become something new.”
This conversation was awesome!! I totally agree. I went from the fitness industry to real estate and I am doing really well for myself. A lot of people were surprised I made that change. Some were talking shit and I cut them off and some other were very encouraging. Either way, you can become whatever you want to be.
Very true. And the quickest way to appear unconfident is to start blaming and complaining. A lot of people are confused about that because theyve been told being open and vulnerable is endearing.
Positive attitude all the way guys - I have a sign on my bedroom shelf that i see every time I wake up , it says : Get up / Feel Awesome / Have a great day .
Don’t think you can, know you can. I do this to learn, understand, and not be duped again. There definitely is a very thin line between narcissism and confidence. The difference I think is the ability to be humble, and kind, but also able to let insults/rejection bounce off you like Superman.
TIME-STAMPS 0:00 Intro and why are you red pill? 3:55 The importance of abundance in life 14:20 Fake it until you make it mentality 20:00 You need persistence and consistency 27:00 You decide who you want to be 34:45 Don't give yourself a way out
It's great to see you guys enjoying your time together, discussing things that men SHOULD be discussing when men are trying to be the best and most badass version of themselves. These are really good conversations. They make a difference for people who listen in.
38:45 reminds me of a favorite Pantera song: conceit/regular people. If ever I'm down, that will drive me through it. Thank you for the interview panel, a lot of value added. \m/
Good stuff lads! This is the sort of content that men of all ages should be watching. You’ll never find these topics promoted in mainstream media as its all so overly feminised these days. But it’s content like this that’ll teach us men how to be better man 💪
Manosphere is all about choice and the avenues you can take. Always has been. Before unplugging you’re only exposed to one option. But once you unplug and embrace outcome independence. Even zero is a valid option.
3/4 if the video in and I must say this is quite a motivating and positive approach. The suggestions and mentality to take at life in general is sound and legit. Takeaway for me, build the failure muscle, learn to take it in the chin with grace and learn from those mistakes, as many times as needed. Enjoy it even as the other option is paved in misery.
30:10 i went to the music zoo in 2017 to see one of my favorite 80s guitar legend Warren DiMartini from 80s band RATT, he told us the story when he hit 18 he just said to his mom, "Mom i'm heading to L.A. i'm gonna be a rockstar" And that's exactly what happened.
Whether or not you know if you've changed or been changing, it's not always going to be looked upon with kindness and support. You get to determine if the change is worthwhile or not.
24:51 - actually, and this will sound hokey but, this reminds me of a line from American Gigalo where Richard Gere in his prime, tells a cop who is hassling him that he would get more women if he stopped walking with his shoulders slouched.
I'm finding the advice that life changes are not events but the result of following a proven process to be the best advice for me at this time. Like Rich says, "Do the work".
I had abundance and was spinning plates and married the youngest, most innocent, virgin girl. 2y down the road she started cheating on me like crazy, I held on for 3y and now we're divorcing. Making a good selection is worth nothing if you can't keep her in your frame and that, ladies and gentlemen, is extremely hard once you're married (because by definition at that point you're in her frame).
Always said I was too dumb to be afraid. If I was smart I wouldn't have shrapnel scars on my face. Which incidentally have only ever helped my game. Its true, chicks dig scars
Thank you for deleting my comment. When someome leaves vulgar stuff, it has to go. I get that. Just because someone makes a pro men comment and points something out about women and then gets deleted is very unfair.
25:10 When you looked like a emo version of Harry Potter and a few years down the line you started to shave your head, grow your beard and go to the gym to begin looking like the Discount version of Khal Drogo without the hair. And one of your ex's goes and says: "I preferred how you looked before...this." I did this for myself and did better for myself.
The "change" part is not that clear cut. Of course there is a lot I want to improve on myself, but I dont want to stop being a metalhead just because women find it unattractive
1) have more options. Confidence comes from having options 2) talk Positive to yourself 3) persistence 4) give your life the direction you want. 5) Approach every Friday, in one year you can approach more women than 90% dudes will approach in their life
@@RolloTomassi thanks. Keep doing what you are doing.I came across your work when you gave reaction to sam vaknin's video.Keep making reaction videos and do tag those idiots so that you have a broader reach.
The red pill is wrong. I lean more towards black pill. At 19 women all seemed to want me, and i even got approached by them, even older women liked me. Now at 31 I get hardly any attention, and women dont care about my hobbies or passions or the fact I now have a athletic body at 31.
After my divorce and I started dating again. I may only have sex with one girl at a time but I was always looking for the next one. This was many years ago and at that time most girls want to get married and I swore I would never do that again. When they saw I was serious we would break up and I would move on to the next one.
