A lot of the time I think words of affirmation are over simplified or we in relationships misunderstand their importance. Barbara nailed it on the head. Yeah it's nice to be told by a partner "I Love you" cause, its love. But its just as important to be told "I'm here for you" "I value you" and "You're worth it". When its not given in a relationship man it can hurt & man it can be hard to overcome believing in words of affirmation again. But that's why having other people, romantic or friendship, to be there to remind us of our value, to tell us to not believe in our insecurities, is so important. Sorry for the word dump. I missed Always Open and it gets me to think a lot ^_^;
Words of affirmation and physical touch are my main Love language. From friends too. Give me cuddles, and head pats, and hold my hand. Frequently telling me I'm loved and I'm wanted around
