The secret to being taken seriously | 3 things that happen when you chase men 

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And remember ladies you can always turn it around by simply JUST STOPPING.

This is a useful throwback. Getting hacked a few month’s ago threw some of my most helpful videos out of the algorithm. Stopping their views almost completely. The hackers made all my videos private so it cut off 4 years of natural organic view traffic. So every week I find a video that needs to get a little more attention to help my newer subscribers. That’s what these throwbacks are about.

Not sure if you already did this, but you also need to tell these young ladies NOT to propose to a man…

NEVER date potential!! Date who they are right now.

When you know your worth you do better. ❤

This man tells the 1000% truth

Wow I realize how profound that statement is. That they do not evaluate you by how you treat them but by how you let them treat you.

Been watching this channel before I met my current man who is crazyyyy about me. Can say Kev's advice has been so helpful. Best part is that he focuses on guiding us on how we should "be" and not what we should "do".

Kev? It’s seems like these new men want women to take them on dates and by them flowers😭. I’m so confused 🤦🏾‍♀️

Yes, I love what you said about not chasing a man. It's really not chasing the negativity. When i was confronted with toxic behavior it scared me & I lashed out. And I know It's not want I want in a relationship. I want patience & understanding.

I'm clapping 👏👏for myself for walking away from a toxic relationship and this time it for good I will never turn back. I felt like a heavy rock that was on top of me has been remove when he told me to do what will free my soul "in other words he was breaking up with me. That when I realised that I was wasting my time. So now I am free and I know my worth👑👌❤️

Your so right… I keep getting dogged because I’m a single mom, but I’m stable all by myself I’m just not available on the weekends and I’m not interested in rushing to accommodate…. I totally should make a list of my strengths and my boundaries… because I’m worthy of good things… tfs

I have always been too shy to do the " chasing" anyway If he does not pursue me it is not going to happen." No healthy man wants to rule over a woman" and men like confident women as much as women like confidence in men.♥️♥️♥️

Treat men as if they are your applicants.

When the man ignores me he ain't worth it thank u

This video is savage!!!!!!!!! I love the way you put everything Kev! So true. I’m so relieved my soul finally understand this. I finally get this in my thicccc skull. I am free from the addiction to chase men that run from me. All I did was be celibate for a year, focus on myself, watch self development and videos like these daily and actually work hard to change my mindset. Lastly, I had to realize that I was addicted to the chase because my dad was never really around and I chased him for his approval. Once I healed that father wound, I had more understanding and decided I didn’t need to date anyone until I got a hold of myself. I’m at the point now where I dnt care abt dating anymore. Just focused on my goals and on loving myself. I love it here♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

No one taught us that relationships have got such complicated rules when growing. I grew up knowing that when I love a man, I just got to love him

Preach Kev!! Like I heard stated so eloquently, " If a man asks what you bring to the table, say I am the f*cking table." -G.L. Lambert. Be ready to bounce to the next. As my Dad always said, there are 7 billion people on the planet, one ain't acting right there's another to take his place.

Kev got me changing my whole outlook on things. I’m still single but feel way more valuable for it😎

I really like your suggestion that we should make a written list of our positive attributes and treat ourselves like the person described on it. A great tip to teach yourself about your own worth and create confidence.

I always have the mindset that a man that doesn't value me is the looser because I they know my value & what I bring to the table!..walking away should be easy for you because you are the one giving too much without getting anything back!!

This is clear, fresh, and to the point directive.. These reminders need to be said, and resaid over and over again. I love how you use different analogies, phrases and words to "preach the word". Amen, Amen, Amen. Thanks Kev, you are a treasure

Facts!💯💯 Never forget your worth!!

"I ain't got to take this shit" Yes...me too

I wish I could be myself and not have all these crazy rules.. to just be myself and have a man who loves and protects that.

Thank you for that video , I recently just had to cut my self off from a situation that discredited my worth and I had to remind myself of my worth and what I bring to the table and how I deserved to be treated but this person could care less and had no effort to put forth so instead of forcing the matter I staged Left to the exit door so that I could breathe in some Fresh Air that I deserved. You definitely was on point and glad I subscribed

Why do people want a relationship so bad?

I know women that chase men. I don't chase I replace.

🙄Men✋🏾stop stalking women everywhere ESPECIALLY when you know that you don't like her.🤭😂

Nice video,you are sensible and on point,never chase a man,don't be a doormat, have standards ,get to know each other,Be confident about what you have to offer,Be Realistic,Loving your content..🔥🔥

At 51 and I'm a grandmother of eight I learned to take my life back and be a good single woman and stay strong until God send me someone because of this man may he always be blessed. 👑🦁🎓💯

Teach!! Gotta deal with those codependency issues too. Can’t be addicted to a person.

The way u say don't chase man..really needed to hear that

💝 NEVER....CHASE....' EM !!!!! 💝

I had a man tell me that I’m damaged goods. Maybe it was because I chased him.

I need to listen to this on repeat. I feel like such a sucker.

They CLEARLY don't know who I am. I ain't gotta take this shit! Amen (I am totally in agreement with these statements!) lolll

I've learned it's okay to flirt but don't chase a relationship this is why I'm been cellibate so long and I know what is meant for me and what is not if he shows no interest the first time I don't pay any attention to him anymore either

Never that! I don’t chase I align, I call it into me because what I want wants me, what I seek seeks me!

Sometimes rejection should inspire us to look in the mirror though, not just say I’m good. I recently rejected a guy cuz he is 35 but acts as if he’s 15. He shouldn’t just keep fooling himself

Kev!!!! You’re mf’n right! I am the ish!! Thank you for being big brother to us women who are realizing and knowing their self worth. As you know a lot of traumas for outside forces That we internalize and believe. I always heard… all the answers are inside of you. I get it now. This helped seal a deal with myself of a list that I need to uphold in my heart forever!

Love this thanks. Good reminder to not chase men.

Amazing content Kev!!!!! Thanks a million ❤

Gracious!! I needed to see this today. Much appreciated!!!!!!

I don't chase period... Been single over two years... Still not desperate.

Just came across this video and I’m so glad I did, this was exactly the wake up words I needed to hear.

Thanks for the advice ...I'm definitely writing down why I'm worth it.

Amen... Don't guess and gamble with your health.💜🦁👑🎓💯

He has a God given gift in deciphering all the b.s. dudes wanna kick to us.

Wow This wa a good one I really needed to hear this one this morning Kevin as I was thinking about someone who has showed no initiative to continue to pursue me I forgot who I was Thank You

This was one of my fave videos of yours! It definitely helped me reaffirm my worth after leaving a bad relationship and holding myself accountable.

Speaking All Facts here bro. Love It! Thank You!!!

People believe about you what you believe about yourself. 💫 beautiful 🔥

That’s how I was in the beginning… many yrs later I got soft and in a terrible alternative reality started doing this with my own husband.. I should have walked away.. what was I thinking??

Someone once told me don't be Bob the builder.

Exactly! See what he is, not what you can make him

Been there done that not happening ever again. I wont tolerate disrespect ever.

I know I’m late but THANK YOU so much for saying that no healthy man wants to rule over a woman. You always get jumped on by both men and women if you don’t want to “submit” to a man. You get accused of trying to compete. No! Why can’t we just partners and equals and work as a team? Thank you for your channel. I’m a huge fan. 2:19

Ur videos are really educative been watching for just a few days but I learnt alot.I’m 25 and I’ve been single for 2 years from my first relationship of 5years and I just feel like I’m not sure if I want to date again or not but watching this gives me some kind of hope

Yessss Kev Thankyou🙌🏾🙌🏾… I’m so proud of myself because I do all these tips when I’m dealing with men💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

Thanks for the advice Kev, I really like this channel, its helping me out greatly. Greetings from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱 W/Africa.

Thanks Kev for all you do!

Don't mess with men that don't take you serious. The more ppl who you cut out wgo are a joke, the more ppl see how serious you are

Hello, I’m just discovered your channel and casually watch, but love this video. I’m at a crossroad in my life dealing with this topic (chasing men, ppl who are not putting in the same effort). Thanks so much for the great advice and will be saving this to rewatch anytime im falling into any of these desperate habits

Soooo true.. 🥲 " I ain't fixing to take this shit"

Thank yo so much love! This video is fantastic. And so helpful for me today!

Facts I know my worth. I'm a mf Queen periodt. I would never chase or fight over a man

When you get to the point where there are things you don’t like or won’t deal with if you’re considered in a “good space” with that person or not are you obligated to let that person know you’re walking away or you just block them and go on your merry way?

@Kev Hick I love you explain things so eloquently. You are very well spoken and give good advice that makes sense. Keep up the good work!

Speak!!! I absolutely love this channel!

You speaking facts brother and protecting hearts left and right listening to you keeps me safe from fboys

Just with loyal alone that man would catch my attention immediately.

Dont abandon the priority of your own self interest

The self evaluation list is an excellent idea thank you for the suggestion

I'm glad I've changed no longer toxic. But I will ask questions and proceed to move on. But he be hitting them facts

Great video!

This is so well said kev hicks. I love your Channel. It truly helps me in my funks. ❤️

Thanks Kev 🙏🏼💙

This was a great video I love this channel ✨

Hi Kev Hick , I know a man would get his act together and behave right with the right woman . Please do a video on men who want to be with you , but have issues with anger , when angry they can say the worst insults and name calling Even as a person you will say don't talk to me like they don't curse , they keep repeating and they don't even apologize but still want only you to themselves and not anyone else Also please mention how it not okay for women or anyone to answer questions of any kind when they not comfortable if the other person or people can't understand or even respond to that as Respect Also this person is indirectly want me to fly to see him , no , if he serious about me come to see me first . To be honest, I don't know how to trust him the things he says when he angry is unacceptable and mean , I don't even think marrying him will be a smart decision unless he stops insults me calling me names when he upset . When he nice , he supportive and caring Then Goodbye 👋

Like the advice just started listening to you and like your style.

Thanks for the reminder, Kev!

Needed this, should have watched it about 24 hours ago, oops

The bars dropped in this video 🔥

I’m so sick of these rules. I reached out because I thought I was wrong in some way, and that’s part of real love. He left me on read so that’s my last and only effort. This shit pisses me off tho. I always gotta tell myself “oh I can’t show too much love back or else he’ll reject me” no. Real love doesn’t follow these types of rules. But since he left me on read, that was incredibly rude and he doesnt deserve me anymore.

This is an AWESOME video. Thank u so much❣❣❣

Perfectly said. Thank you

Love ittttttt!!!!! Thankyou kev🤗🥰

Great video. 🤗

Love this video thank you Kevin ❤️

Absolutely right, great stuff!!!!!!!!!!!

It's my second time, listening to this video, truth bares it all:I forgive myself for kissing a man's a&#, trying to show love and admiration.

Hi kev you are so on point and a positive person

Beautifully said!!!

I hate that men are this way. I give up on love!

Awesome advice! ♥️

Great advice. 💕💕💕

I learned allot, just did these mistakes.

You should have a segment for older women or women by age?! I feel older now and competing always