@@ssadfaceemoji Really don’t get what ur argument is, that guy on top just said that woman know their own anatomy which most don’t. I never said that they needed that man explaining.
@@firstname1472 I wasn't talking to you or arguing anything, just saying women not knowing is irrelevant to the fact that dudes creepily explaining isn't helpful. Also btw, women should know how their body works, they should have the opportunity to study it to some extent. They should be provided with that knowledge in respect and protection them. There is a lot of info on google, I implore any female who is unaware of her body to feel comfortable researching it. Idk really know what YOU were arguing with the first comment but just feel I should say that for anyone who needs to hear it. ed: idk why i cared ab this argument sm kind of embarrassing but for the record i am a chick and this makes it sound like im not, no shame to anyone who understand her anatomy, i think i meant like empower yourself with knowledge of your own body especially when involved with others, you deserve to be assured in your own autonomy.
These guys definitely have a reputation wherever they were, like everyone born there is told immediately "if these dudes come up to you just go along with it, give them a fake number, and get out as soon as possible"
God, she's there to act out the role of "girl who is into this guy" but she still just looks so uncomfortable. She can't even pretend not to be creeped the fuck out
I am a pretty shy guy. Picking up random girls isn't my thing. I've met the most wholesome and respectful women on facebook. I got friends with them, it really clicked well and then we decided to just look for more. And honestly my girlfriend now is absolutely on another tier. I am really happy, not just with her but with myself as well. My advice to anyone struggling is this: Find your niche. Maybe find it on social media. Stay playful, stay respectful and stay yourself.
Me too, being a shy guy is a hard thing in society but it changes when you have a hobby, like love or respect yourself. The key is being who you are as much as you can because if you are yourself let anyone get it if they want. That's how I see it. Also great stance bro, thanks for being honest many men can see that as an good example.
But this works if you're looking for an actual stable relationship, anyone who watches these how to score girls videos unironically just wants to get laid as much as possible lol.
@@garou9914 Eh, i guess in that case: Try this: Wear decent shoes, smell nice, be bold and daring, try to look like you can take care of yourself, get out of your moms house, get fit and energized, most importantly, try all these things while STILL focussing on your niche or fukc brunk ditches at clubs and get free STDI
Women here: I will tell you firsthand that this whole channels “advice” is horrible and will never work and will only make women think you’re a creep if that wasn’t obvious enough. But doing this in public can make someone very uncomfortable and possibly panic so please don’t approach people like this as it’s really weird and will never work thanks
Am also a woman and completely agree. The best way to talk to a woman is to just treat her like a person, no tricks or stupid negging bullshit. It's shocking, I know.
I genuinely feel bad for every teen boy who took this shit to heart. They will not find love until they realize this is the WORST way to approach women!!
At least Matt goes up to women in pairs, so if either of them feel uncomfortable from his advances, they have each other to lean on. How considerate of him!
how to attract a woman Step 1: firmly grasp her index finger Step 2: Dislocate the joint Step 3: repeat until she tells you which parking garage she hid the dirty bomb in Step 4: disarm the dirty bomb Step 5: get court martialled for war crimes
As a woman: these "strategies" are really obvious and it's just creepy. I know everyone is probably tired of hearing it, but you shouldn't pretend to be someone you're not. Especially if you want an actual relationship.
As a woman, I agree. I'm so fed up with this "Overly Confident Alpha Male" type of garbage. Just be a normal human being, strike up a casual conversation, be genuine. And if she's not interested, you need to accept it. Way too many men confuse rejection or disinterest with shyness and it creates uncomfortable situations.
If these strategies work for these guys then I don't see why they shouldn't continue using them. It's not like they're forcing the girl to be with them. I don't personally think these types of strategies are successful, but for some people they might be. It's weird that dating is one of the few things where it's looked down on to try and improve yourself. The people seek out this advice because they aren't having any success by "just being themselves".
@@cornheadahh Most of these kind of strategies are really creepy and some are borderline sexual harassment/assault. I don't think it's OK to use these strategies just because it works for you sometimes. That's just selfish.
@@Back-Space. The interactions are completely voluntary though. Nobody is forcing the girls to stay there and talk to the guy. At worst some of the stuff the guy was saying was cringe worthy. I don't really see the harm in someone having a cringe interaction that they could walk away from at any time. Nobody is forcing anyone to do anything. If he finds a girl that enjoys what he's doing then I don't see anything wrong with that at all. The girl has agency.
@@vrapbrap I don't know why this was so fucking funny to me. If a man tried explaining this to me in a seduction attempt I would simply dissolve of cringy laughter.
To be fair, many girls here would gladly leave Russia for the us - even in this very vid as soon as he said California, the girl said "with pleasure" not understanding anything else from his speech
@@PerpendiculariumStars Ну мне 20, но съебывать не хочется, хоть ситуация в стране и дерьмовая. Просто нужно понимать, что быть эмигрантом тоже не шибко весело
@@SuperZX49 сьебывать из россии в америку это реально тупо менять шило на мыло. и цены там на всю социалку, которую мы привыкли получать бесплатно, заоблачные. люди там предпочитают ходить со сломанной рукой, чем заплатить триста долларов минимум за гипс, и умоляют не вызывать скорую, чтобы не влетать в бешеные долги.
An honest man doesn't pretend he accepts or even approves of your sexual past, he just tolerates it. The worst thing you can do is trust someone who says it's okay and supports it. That doesn't mean a jealous type but generally most normal people aren't going to look fondly on your past exploits regardless of who you are.
@@AParticularlyConcernedCitizen ok but why would anyone care if a woman has had sex with a lot of people? it literally doesn’t matter, as long as she isn’t having sex with anyone but her partner if she’s in a relationship.
@@phoeberrie Not what I'm saying, I'm saying they won't express approval of it. Expressing approval of it is a bad sign for a myriad of reasons. They won't claim it's a good thing or try to support it. Not because of any sense of it being bad, more because that isn't something that most people want to acknowledge or think about.
I'm only a minute and and this is EXTREMELY EXCRUCIATINGLY uncomfortable. Can't imagine how uncomfortable I'd feel if I wasn't watching this through Charlie being the middleman.
Yea, best way to get laid is literally just accepting getting laid isn't everything. Fr get a nice decent women treat her right and there you go. But actually care about her to and not just for that. don't treat her like a toy
@@courtney7681 exactly. However being a guy, most guys truly and honestly don't care. Many just hope they can get a girl who will be their prostitute without having to pay, luckily these guys also usually anti-social generally when not horny, so pretty easy to avoid them in public family friendly places. So sad, most guys don't know that if they just make a decent relationship with a like minded girl then, you cam literally have a sex friend that easily. Just be a friend, but only smart ones get that... oh and still have to be attractive though. Not sure why some people think it's either personality or looks.
I feel bad for every guy that watches this pick-up artist crap and unironically starts believing that the best way to approach a girl is by intruding on them in the middle of the street when they clearly have somewhere to be.
It’s actually not hard to get girls. You just gotta treat them like human beings and have self respect and not give the I’m desperate vibe. It’s important to also be in a social setting instead of in random areas like some pickup artist
12:30 this lady's giving every vibe that she doesn't want to have any contact with him, but is trying to be nice/polite (maybe she feels uncomfortable/unsafe, or maybe she just doesn't want to hurt his feelings). her tone of voice is polite but very curt.. i think it should be obvious to him that she doesn't want to interact with him. "I don't know how to find me because my name is in Russian"
Renaming The Titles Preperly "What NOT To Do When A Girl Looks At You" "Don't Say This If You Want Women To Chase You" "Say THIS To Make Her Run Away Screaming"
I feel like these videos are actually great if you know to watch them for what not to do, so then you don't say any of these things and lose out on someone worthwhile
"why is he always targetting groups" idk Charlie, probably to loophole the restraining order, can't be told you are stalking A person if you are stalking multiple people!
I used to think Tiana was his 9 year old daughter. Why did I think this? The first time I heard of her, he was playing Among Us and there was someone in the same game room as him named "Tiana" and he mentioned it and he said "Tiana what are you doing!? Are you playing Among Us right now? It's 11PM!" or something like that. So that made me think Tiana was playing Among Us at 11PM and ended up in the same room as her dad and got caught. Game room, also known as Lobby.
RIGGED RIGGED RIGGED, I absolutely don't want to live in this nation where our GREAT PRESIDENT TRUMP is getting ROBBED! This is absolutely the final straw, my KIDS ARE IN DANGER and I won't live in this nation another day! I'M MOVING TO ALASKA AND FINALLY LEAVING THE USA!!!...
@@yuriscynicism The fact that you're the only one here acknowledging his checkmark just shows how pathetic of an individual you have that you must hate because someone had recognition from RU-vid due to having 100,000 subscribers. Please get a life, this is the reason why you have no friends and everybody hates you.
The only reasons guys go there is because it's the poorest country in Europe, so they take advantage of the fact the women there are poorer then the European average in order to make themselves appear superior. It's creepy fucking behavior, and as a Romanian, I don't know how to react to the way people are treating my people.
Dude this guy gets to the "oh this guy's a creep, let's be polite so he doesn't do anything crazy and we can just walk away" part of the interaction with girls so fucking quick its insane. Actual speedrunner of creeping.
11:52 It's a lot less likely he'll get told to fuck off if their friends are around and it also gives them security like if they where alone they wouldn't be able to defend themself but in a group they're a lot less likely to feel threatened That's my theory on why he approaches groups
I love how with the staring strategy and the 3 scenarios that could be going on if she looks away, he never actually covered the one about "she's just creeped out." And why do all these pick-up artists keep talking about "keeping dominance" n shit, obviously as a functional person I need to be able to keep off a breakdown every 5 minutes without getting clingy, but any woman who NEEDS me to "own" her after I win her like a carnival prize for being number one big boy at the ring toss is a woman I have absolutely no interest in.
This reminds of that scene in Always Sunny when the Juggalo turns to Charlie and asks “yo, have you ever had sex before?” Because this guy has definitely not had sex before.
This made me gag. Also, what the hell are his “techniques”? He introduces himself as the unreachable, confident, not-marrying guy but as soon as he gets rejected, he goes all “oh, so you prefer the men from your continent because they are more yada yada” instead of, you know… *LEAVING* .
It's a delight to me as a woman that every single pickup artist is just a dude saying psychotic shit to a paid actress. Imagine how many little casanovas are running around armed with these gems
RIGGED RIGGED RIGGED, I absolutely don't want to live in this nation where our GREAT PRESIDENT TRUMP is getting ROBBED! This is absolutely the final straw, my KIDS ARE IN DANGER and I won't live in this nation another day! I'M MOVING TO ALASKA AND FINALLY LEAVING THE USA!!!...
To be fair, if these channels exist, it's only because there's no actual advice for people that don't know how to date. They only hear "be yourself" or "be confident" but nobody actually takes the time to teach people how to be these things, there's a very interesting video about this topic by macabre storytelling I remember being an awkward 15yo and inevitably watching some of these videos. Luckly I understood they were crap, but what can do someone that just hears "be yourself bro" "you'll find the right one" "be confident man" that means *n o t h i n g* to someone that doesn't know where to start from
@@whales132 this a joke? Making yourself look like an ass doesnt help lol and being yourself is a must, its pretty noticeable when someone pretends to be someone else instead of themselves
@@alexknight81 fr 😂 was just about to say that. And if they like you for all the fake acts you put on they'll be disappointed when you aren't that and the relationship won't last.
@@whales132 I think the be yourself means to like yourself, idk..? Awk, online dating I find many of the girls are as desperate as I am or they're getting so many likes, or looking for money... then when you're on a night out it's casual... but I've never approached anyone in public and maybe its different over there but unless the girl looked at me first then nah it's really weird.
Was surprised how kind and forgiving they were to the guy though, that was kinda nice. He prob thinks he's scoring the loo- zir but to me I thought they were just being nice
@@whales132 here btw sorry if I sounded like I know better or anything, didn't mean that, just I can relate to that feeling was n my intention was I wanted to put in a bit of positivity and outside perspective btw, I'm def no pick up guru for sure hahaha
The first guy made two fatal flaws: 1. His long flowing locks aren’t black 2. His shirt’s not all white He’s also not the optimal women respecting height of 5’6”, but that can’t be changed, so we forgive him.