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The Shelter for India's Runaway Couples | The Love Commando | Autentic Documentary

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In India, around 90 percent of marriages are arranged by parents, based on traditional criteria such as caste, religion and horoscopes. Love has a subordinate role, as being in love is seen as a weakness and love across social boundaries is considered dangerous, which can lead to honor killings. The police often support the families and put men in prison for allegedly raping their wives instead of protecting lovers.
The Love Commandos are an Indian NGO that works on a voluntary basis to protect couples from forced marriage. They help couples to avoid falling into disgrace and danger. The members, including business people, lawyers, journalists and human rights activists, come from different parts of society and offer legal support and shelter for couples under threat. The organization operates a hotline that is used around 7,000 times a day.
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@AutenticDocumentary 2 месяца назад

💡If you switch on English subtitles, you will have an English translation for the Hindi parts.

@nogag8219 2 месяца назад

You can never take caste system out of Indians. It is a bloody curse on India just like Islam

@roja7426 2 месяца назад

Don’t ever let your parents talk you into coming home because they accept your decision and want to do a proper marriage. It’s a trap. I have seen too many documentaries where that happens.

@suziejankie7815 2 месяца назад

Very interesting you should have a part 2 showing a year after each marriage

@magrebtraveler 2 месяца назад

It’s a problem when you look at your children as property and not a gift from GOD.

@Manifesting_Secret_Sketchbook 2 месяца назад

Sometimes people in society put pressure on women to think a certain way and be ashamed of children making their own life choices

@AvrArv 2 месяца назад

Some europeans do that too, in belgium they sell their kids to pedophiles even worse!!😢

@rodgerhargoon3402 2 месяца назад

The that made these videos have got only negative things to say about India...... is he British????? He must also ask the British what they were doing in India for 300 years😂😂😂😂😂

@reneehutchens6658 2 месяца назад

Very very true

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

27:12 she is clearly an immature around 18/20 ish girl- who thinks what happens in movies is real. And she got trapped by an older man- thinking its love.

@rahneek3393 2 месяца назад

What this documentary doesnt show are the arranged marriages that are disastrous but due to society they cannot divorce and are therefore miserable, cheating, or murdering their partners, an even if they do divorce ruin their children's lives and happiness forever

@roja7426 2 месяца назад

The only thing I liked about this particular love marriage arrangement is the background checks about if each person is telling the truth. By the way, I do believe that everyone should have the choice to choose their life long partner. For example, in the love marriage, one of the couples in the documentary shouldn’t be together. The guy has no job, no skills in a trade, the girlfriend is just out high school and no job. What are they going to live on…. Love? That’s not practical and their relationship will be a tough one if it survives.

@Yeah.Maybe. 2 месяца назад

Even if background checks are good once the couple got married, the husband and even his parents get greedy, they ask for more money from the wife, if she could not give them, the husband and parents treats her badly or wife ended dead. I watched many news and documentaries of this. Background checks are of no use with arranged marraiges. Wife will only know the husband’s and in-laws’ intentions if she live with them.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@@Yeah.Maybe. all such news are majority false- in India 70% of rape cases and 90% of domestic abuse cases are all false- because they are put only to seek vengence

@Sodomedium Месяц назад

Mostly such weddings end in domestic violence because such marriages are out of lust or want of girls or boy's father's property. The intentions are not pure, mostly is is materialistic

@Yeah.Maybe. Месяц назад

@@Sodomedium exactly.

@ingeborgpadgett7079 2 месяца назад

Wishing the couples the best of Luck and Love to all of them ❤️🌷🌸

@jmudikun 2 месяца назад

What brave young people.

@dallyscabaylo1630 2 месяца назад

Well done guys be happy together good luck

@believ100 2 месяца назад

The big fat Indian weddings are absolutely waste of money and ridiculous expenses where parents have get loans. It should be stopped.

@Geminipage 2 месяца назад

That's true

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

arrange marraige is best system- western people are just jealous of this. And we dont care about their opinions, west is anyway a collapsing society. You dont only need "love" to survive a partnership of marraige.

@Lorena-pk7mq 2 месяца назад

The last two couples seem so sad 😞 I didn’t feel the love they claim to have for each other. Without a job and a proper home it’s difficult to keep a bond strong and healthy. When they eloped it probably felt right at the moment but I think they’re regretting it. The young couple is still in the puppy love stage.

@Honeymagmangospoof 2 месяца назад

Agree

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

thats how we realise - only "love " is NOT enough- this siw hy arraneg marraiges exist- they look 360 degrees survivability of a couple not only love. Love eventually happens.

@doyoumind.atall.stopspying5572 2 месяца назад

Arranged marriage is problem in india. It should be love marriage in india

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@priyankamishra1197 2 месяца назад

Someone tell this Geeta gupta who is making money in arrange marriage.....that arrange marriages are failing 95 percent more than love marriages....as she said herself that it's marriage between family not between girl and boy and that's where the arrange marriages are shattering day by day..... Advocate Priyanka Matrimonial lawyer

@gustofzephyr947 Месяц назад

I personally hate arranged marriages but there's no way they're failing 95% more than love marriages lol. If anything, they're way more succesful and have a miniscule chance of failing. They're basically engineered to ensure social, financial and cultural compatibility; frankly I don't like this because it feels so artifiicial but make no mistake, it dramatically increases their rate of success.

@TheAllison3331 2 месяца назад

I'm happy that there are safe houses for these people. These patriarchal societies must be abolished and freedom for choice and marriage must be granted. Arranged marriages don't work . They never do . One of the partners will always suffer.

@jsc5423 2 месяца назад

I don't agree about parents forcing their children who to marry. Talking about arranged marriages there is a lot that does work

@apollonia-ava 2 месяца назад

It’s usually the woman in that arranged marriage who suffers as it’s a patriarchal society and they have very few rights.

@ilovechocolate934 2 месяца назад

A lot of arranged marriages have worked..What do you know..!

@peteck007 2 месяца назад

@@apollonia-ava I don't think that's the situation now. Maybe in couple of backward states. But largely the women in arranged marriages now have upper hand, the men are wary more. the thing is women now can consent which wasn't a thing 20 years ago. Also she can leave whenever she wants, the women laws are now many many _many_ times stronger than they were 20 years ago

@apollonia-ava 2 месяца назад

@@peteck007 I hope so 🙏🤞👍

@khadijah3519 2 месяца назад

The Journey of Life☺️ Thank You🌸

@kuttychattan1 2 месяца назад

Good documentary well done...interesting subject. Should send it to many festivals. Wishing you good luck.

@meismeLHA 2 месяца назад

Rather than eloping, he should report his parents to the police for asking dowry from his loved ones

@user-pf8su8wn3y 2 месяца назад

Boy should be giving gifts to his wife. Not wife giving dowry to the boy. How shameful.

@notrealatall196 2 месяца назад

It would be ideal to report Dowry harassment. But the society wont leave you to live in peace. You will be the black sheep amongst all . The majority are supporters of this culture. Men enjoy the fact that their wives will bring in free cash. If the have only daughter... they will repent this. If they have sons then they will carry on this tradition with their chest held high. If they have sons and daughters..they will squeeze every penny out from their daughter in laws and will use this to give dowry to the in laws of their daughters . This is why india has a law of preventing gender of fetus from being disclosed before delivery. Ppl would think of girl child as a "burden" and would abort or kill her. So there are laws against female foeticide and infanticide.

@roja7426 Месяц назад

@@meismeLHA Do you really think the police cares. They are just as corrupt.

@smuggreycat8137 2 месяца назад

Did I hear that right?! You can't rent a place or get a hotel room? If this is true, it seems absurd. People should always be able to have accommodation, whether they are married or not or single or not. It seems sad that parents say they love their children, but they will force them to marry someone they don't want to be with or will disown their children if they pick someone else. That is not love in my opinion. You should always love your children unconditionally and while that includes wanting what is best for them, it should include their happiness. Also, having to marry straight away doesn't seem sensible. I am so glad I did not marry someone straight after leaving school, even though I might have been attracted to them, it's very difficult to know what you want and need at that age and I would never marry anyone who's unemployed or unemployable, even living in a county that has welfare. I don't think that the little girl is making a good decision, I feel sorry for her.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@ireneespinoza5502 2 месяца назад

Greed. Antiquated parents. All about $$$$$$

@ONEDVSDVIT 2 месяца назад

thank you for uploading this video.

@AK-xj2di 2 месяца назад

Pooja n anil is a mismatch, pooja is too innocent naive

@modern.monkE99 2 месяца назад

Yes go on doing these investigations ❤. Let's see what India is up to

@Queensofafrica8 Месяц назад

Why not have English subtitles 😫

@dilkycorteling2586 2 месяца назад

Sanjoy.... lovely may God bless you

@duttravii 2 месяца назад

Arraigned marriage is not the problem but people are. Its a beautiful system and now a days both boy and girl talks and go on dates for a several months before marriage, this is what i have seen in my environment.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@AnnWecker Месяц назад

Wish them all good luck and good life ahead. A very catastrophic society where parents decide whom you get to spend life with.

@dikeledimothiba65 2 месяца назад

Born and still living in South Africa, speaking as an older version of myself, with 2 children and not married, I think the culturally arranged marriages would be better than love marriages because of the stats in my country now. So many single mothers because fathers have abandoned their responsibilities. Poverty plays a role because the men cannot afford the dowry to marry. It's a terrible situation. If it was arranged in the same class, clan, etc., I think there would be much less fatherless children. Particularly among black South Africans. I also think if you are mentally ready for marriage and understand the dynamics, it may be easier to learn to love your partner and it would last longer than a relationship based solely on emotions. Anyway, we learn everyday.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@thakanepitso427 2 месяца назад

There's no translation?

@kerresiatraceywilliams 2 месяца назад

Same thing I was wondering

@AutenticDocumentary 2 месяца назад

If you switch on the subtitles, you will have an English translation for the Hindi parts.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@JJ-xh8qk Месяц назад

It’s the 21th Century , God Bless

@margeaupanforte 2 месяца назад

I knew a man at work whose private life was ruiined by an arranged marriage. He was dutiful and accepted the bride in India who was arranged for him, she ticked all the boxes of class, background etc But, she was a selfish neurotic who made his life miserable. He basically had to build a separate life around her. He was too kind to divorce her and also did not want to bring shame on the family but he greatly missed female companionship.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@johnstampp5726 2 месяца назад

I think what Geeta Gupta is saying is cpmpletely ridiculous and primitive. Having said that I can completely understand it is a business for her and consequently she is defending an awful and abject practice in Indian. Clearly the world of humans need to keep improving in its consciousness of life and of individual right to live and express.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@bobbybannerjee5156 2 месяца назад

Embarrassing. My country India. Couples learning to live with each other without love or attraction. We have lived this way for thousands of years. A male dominated society where control and submission reign. You have to make do with the person you don't like, since society has given that person to you.

@TheAllison3331 2 месяца назад

Very notable. It must stop. These safe houses are a beginning to freedom of choice, I respect this movement💯

@SokhomPrins 2 месяца назад

Arrange marriage is hell for both genders

@bobbybannerjee5156 2 месяца назад

@@SokhomPrins True. Arranged marriage is male domination and control. It's still the most prevalent way indians get married.

@misterserf 2 месяца назад

Every other culture has done for thousands of years. Don't over exaggerate.

@bobbybannerjee5156 2 месяца назад

@@misterserf Don't use time as a form of justication. Or space. Sure every other culture has done it for a long time. So what? Doesn't make it right.

@Fly_high138 2 месяца назад

Wrong media perspective! The problem is not the arrange marriages. But to understand your children. There is no guarantee love marriage will be successful. Someone seriously spoiling children’s head that your parents are enemies of u.

@reneehutchens6658 2 месяца назад

They are not saying parents are becoming enemy they are saying people need to have more choice without being judged or criticised by the communities

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@shaitannarok 2 месяца назад

good job ❤❤

@nilsalf Месяц назад

LOVE WILL KEEP US ALIVE !

@janetsumali276 2 месяца назад

There should be typed translation whenever there is dialogue. I feel like viewers are missing so much of what is truly being said.

@AutenticDocumentary 2 месяца назад

If you switch on English subtitles, you will have an English translation for the Hindi parts.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@SokhomPrins 2 месяца назад

I lost my heart in Bharat/ India

@rialestari3120 2 месяца назад

This is one of those "cultural" stuffs that needs to stop!

@tamaranyasha1830 2 месяца назад

Why no.subtitles?

@AutenticDocumentary 2 месяца назад

If you switch on English subtitles, you will have an English translation for the Hindi parts.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@modern.monkE99 2 месяца назад

Sex is policed so much that they forget about their Gods 😂

@investigacaoeleitv 2 месяца назад

It's so sad listening to these young people talking so much crap about arranged marriage. The horoscope thing oh man...

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@LouMol-tp1nv Месяц назад

Interesting documentary - I'd love to see a follow up after 1 year. Shivani and Gaurav are a cute couple who seem well suited and happy together. Sahil clearly loves Dayita and seems like a very caring man who'll do everything possible to provide a secure future for his wife. I hope her family will eventually agree to reconcile with them because you can see the estrangement is painful for her. I'd worry about the future for Pooja and Anil though. She's very young and naive and was swept away by her first romance, even though it should have raised some red flags if she was more mature. I suspect the bloom will wear off quickly when reality hits that she's tied to a man with no job and no skills. In my view he put his own interests ahead of hers by pursuing the relationship and took advantage of her innocence and lack of life knowledge. If she was my daughter, I'd be very concerned and keep a watchful eye on her.

@virginiasantillan2267 2 месяца назад

I’ve been watching a lot of True Crime Stories for Several Years that are about couples where one kills the other and 88 % of them are from India and India parents abusing their children horribly and I’m sure that alot of this wouldn’t happen if they were allowed to date the ones their parents have chosen them to marry. Even if they were chaperoned that should not be a problem because I feel people Act Badly when they are miserable and they pass that hurt on their children also I just don’t understand why people don’t learn from their mistakes

@dikeledimothiba65 2 месяца назад

Please recommend the channel you watch true crime from, I'm a fan too.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

cry more. I have heard worse from Europe

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

27:12 she is clearly an immature around 18/20 ish girl- who thinks what happens in movies is real. And she got trapped by an older man- thinking its love.

@115dancingqueen 2 месяца назад

PART 2 PLEASE!!

@Jimmy.Sun-Sq 2 месяца назад

When they raised you till you are adult to give them such a pain???? Instead of dihard convincing but running away????After marrying why not go back to apologize???? I have seen many parents forgiving their runway children. Are you financially stable?, at time of you need what if marriage doesn't go well??? Where are you going to find support??? I don't understand does loving someone diminishes your luv towards your parents????

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@pq6328 2 месяца назад

Congratulations to the newly wed. Hope their lives are filled with hope and possibilities. Good luck.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@hajrach3019 Месяц назад

27:02 Ranveer singh Photo😁🤔

@kimtaehyungsock 2 месяца назад

if someone called me using my friends lost sim card i sure as hell wouldn’t fall in love with them lol but who am i to judge. i think that girl should listen to her parents…

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@KevinNguyen-zn4vv Месяц назад

It's customary for the bride's side to bring dowry in Asian culture -- but my parents ended up covering most of the expenses for my older siblings. So, if I decided to marry a millionaire's daughter, how much would I get in dowry -- or ending up losing our lives over dowry even though it's unnecessary.

@maitreyajambhulkar Месяц назад

Most of love marriages and cohabitation ends in divorce or one partner leaving another one. So think long term before getting involved in any relationship. And I don't like this concept of caste system. This will create more genetic defects. Gotra should be different as common ancestor is not good thing between couple. Anyways. Good luck to all of these. I do not support this because parents do anything for their children they sacrifice their own life which they were able to live happily but a child in life makes someone tiresome and difficult because a child often needs nore time and attention. And when you see your own children running away is not good thing and is a complete slap and disrespect to all of the hardwork and care , love your parent put into you.

@TitusSamuel-qd2uy Месяц назад

I dont know if it is the fault of incompatibilty or of the forced arranged marriage. We all know most decent families, educated or not, do not force a girl to select a guy. We know thevgirls who rejected 50 suitors, we know the guy who rejected a 100 suitors. Marrage incompatibility can not be known unless you are in a marrage, I think most women are getting resouceful enough to get out of an dull or mraningless wedlock. Guys too have become open minded to accept these bright women.

@zeesworld3371 2 месяца назад

What’s with this English documentary maker wanting to use traditional background music? Like no pls just focus on voice over for once

@user-tc7fb2pb6j Месяц назад

Maybe it's good for some people don't get me wrong I'm can't do it myself it's too much complicated

@അപ്പു 2 месяца назад

11:57 😂😂😂😂

@KPlyf 2 месяца назад

After some years they are going to resent each other.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@shwetanath8156 2 месяца назад

Please spell authentic correctly if you want to be taken seriously.

@AutenticDocumentary 2 месяца назад

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@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@br0wnskiin22 Месяц назад

Love marriage and arrange marriage 😂 they are funny with their explanations. Bc neither make sense smh

@joshimahan7497 2 месяца назад

india bashing channel what more can you ask

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

what else can a collapsing western system do.

@joshimahan7497 Месяц назад

@@ZoldicsDiaries rightly said

@t.brahma2645 Месяц назад

Geeta Gupta Dalali karti hai 😂😂😂😂😂😂 dhanda keliye kuch boldiya usne

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@cheetavontiebolt9971 2 месяца назад

Caste is people not hinduism

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@RaaulAzmair 2 месяца назад

He has no job no training ohh the irony😂

@GabyHernandez-rv3vo Месяц назад

😮😮😮😢🎉❤😢😢😢

@ponnusplantparadise4758 2 месяца назад

Can u please publish the divorces through this setup.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@aprilshower7799 Месяц назад

I PRAY FOR THEIR SUCCESS AND BLESSINGS... Jesus told the Pharisees, “What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder” (Matthew 19:6). Marriage is of God. He joined (Greek sunezeuksen, “yoked”) male and female together. It was brazen for anyone to pull them apart. Marriage is held together by an indissoluble covenant, and therefore neither the male (Mark 10:11) nor the female (v. 12) should consider divorce.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@michellebursey7695 2 месяца назад

Very wrong and you all should be charged I know some of you marry kids .

@sakkariyaibrahim2650 Месяц назад

Geeta Gupta🤮🤮

@lynetteragobeer6790 2 месяца назад

Don’t trust these people very very lie lies

@user-uh6xn5tl2b 2 месяца назад

arranged marriage is a lot safer and secure than love marriage no matter what counter arguments you give. That's why india has less divorce rate compare to the cultureless western countries who confuses their own gender identity.

@ZoldicsDiaries Месяц назад

@lynetteragobeer6790 2 месяца назад

Lies