The Shocking Truth Behind ABUJA AREA MAMA..The Whole Story You Haven't Heard! 

Hummmm this is the case of gender crises. So sad. I used to know of one when we were kids. He didn’t even passed our teenage age as his parents really frustrated him to killing himself. Then the awareness is not like this. Upbringing matters and as believers we re to pray. So sad.

Your greatest legacy is not your professional accomplishments, but how good a job you do in raising your children

Rip Area mama. I admired your courage and your drive towards life. I cannot judge you because I’m not your maker. May your soul find peace.❤🕊️

People who have good parents don’t know what God has done for them. May he rest in peace.

This is such a sad story. He had the deck of cards stacked against him from birth - parents who abandoned him, a society who rejected him, and endless adults who abused him. Life is so unfair. May his soul rest in peace. Amen.

Despite his sexuality, nobody has the right to kill anyone. Does it worth tkn someone's life bcos of that? Human life cost a lot and anyone can repent anytime.Put ur own blood brother in his position and tell me if u'll hv the heart to kill him as ur blood brother bcos of his sexuality. It's not worth taking his life at all bcos that's someone's son.

He is victim of bad parenting...I can't hold my tears...May his soul rest in peace. so sad...

SA on children creates identity crises. He wasn’t having sex, he was being assaulted. God help us and deliver every child from every evil.

RIP Ifeanyi! Thank you Barrister Neze for sharing this human story in a compassionate way. God bless us all!

Every life matters. He don’t deserve this. Rest on bro

Homosexuality often found to have a history of sexual abuse as children. Children are not born with sexual preferences, sexuality develops as they approach teen years. If children are interfered with before they are mature enough, it has very severe effects on what they feel, think and behave as they grow. It also makes them more vulnerable to more abuse. No one should be persecuted for who they are. Counseling can help understanding one's self and dealing with trauma. God loves us All

Abuja area mama really suffered I feel for him may his soul rest in peace 😥😢😢

The fact that she got SA by many men in her childhood do prove that there are a lot more undercover homosexual in Africa than we are willing to admit. May her soul rest in peace. I used she/her/hers because those are the pronouns she chose, and that’s her human right to do so.

This is why we pray for our children and children of the world every week for the past 14 years. We have seen results and will not stop praying for our own and other children who need protection, love and attention. Thank you Nezeville. May your children be protected and blessed in Jesus name. None of our children will fall prey to the enemy in the mighty name of Jesus. May God bless and protect all our families 🙏💕

His parents were the first people to fail him and society exploited him We may differ in how we view people like him but no one deserves to be killed…..mhsrip💔

What a tortured soul. I couldn't help shed tears from the moment when you narrated the abuse at 9 years old . May God protect our children. May the Lord have mercy on his tortured soul😭😭 You can tell he considered himself too cursed to be saved , even though he wished to go to Christ. To think that prostitution is all he knew from early childhood for ordinary feeding when others were going school it became synonymous with survival all his life. The mind he had to discourage others from his 'cursed life shows he had a good heart .aye his soul rest in peace

Trust no one. Keep your children (male and female) from sexual predators.

He is the reflection of the DARK SIDE of Nigeria's hypocrisy

He was failed by his parents and his Aunt exploited the fact that there was no one to look out for him. Please keep your kids by your side always and trust no one, even relatives.

Neze it’s so unfortunate that we live in a world that have some damaged people and those damaged people have being damaged too. I take sexual molestation very serious because I’m a victim . I was introduced to a sexual appetite which didn’t understand which made me to sleep around but thankfully I’ve been on a sexual purity journey for over 5 years. I still have Trauma from my past which till affects my present. Neze I have make a decision to protect any child that comes around me from so called uncle/brother/neighbors/friends

I can't stop crying 😭😭😭😭😭. He never lived to give his life to Christ 😭😭😭. How I wish that others would learn from his experience and repent

This man's life was such a tragedy and I pray that God will have mercy on his soul✝️🙏🏾.

No human should be treated this way. Thank God he is in a better world. RIP 💖

This story got me so emotional. We serve a God who looks at the whole story, who sees our hearts. The moment he expressed his intention of giving his life to Christ, he did. May his soul rest in peace.

Negligence from parents and society destroyed this soul who became a prey for the devil.

This man died when he was 9 years old.

Even though I never heard of him until his death May his soul rest in perfect peace regardless of how he lived his life he was a human being. It is unfortunate that he was not raised and nurtured properly when he was little and grew up to become who he was. Nurturing a child, listening to him or her, and taking the necessary steps to be a better person is very important.

I hope his parents are glad now that he's no more. Pls don't give birth if you can't care for God's gift of life despite how the child turned out coz all children are not same. Its constant monitoring and correction in the right manner that helps a child grow well not abandonment. Its on parents to help a child grow well not abandoned.

Mindful parenting is very important. Paying attention to children, dialoging but above all praying for them. Many children are abused and parents never know. Many are influenced by demons even from the womb. Many are diverted by evil persons in the surrounding. Parenting is not easy. We must do it with God.

I pray that God will have mercy on his soul

He had a very difficult childhood. I cannot judge him because I am not His Maker. This is a lesson to all parents. We need to be there for our kids.

I genuinely liked this guy and hoped and prayed for his repentance from his old ways, but God knows best. Well done, Barista Neze.❤

Mama Neze 😢this put tears in my eyes for him. His parents are very wicked. There are many childless people out there, you got blessed having a son yet you neglected him and push him to the enemy death. As for those who hated and treated him wickedly, I hope they’re satisfied now 😢. All of them who caused him pain will remain restless all the remaining days of their lives.

I never heard of him until he died

I guess his parents didn't know how to go about helping him. For every parent, guardian out there, May the wisdom to raise children in the right way never elude us. Really sad and painful story.

Sinners judging other sinners for sinning differently! What a world!!

Imagine someone’s father/uncle/brother taking advantage of a child, male child… sometimes when we see people suffering; I believe it’s from the sins of their parents and themselves :( This story is heartbreaking.

His parents should have tried to ask him questions and try to find out why he wanted to behave in a girly way. There's this common miscenception that when a child behaves like the oppositve gender or expresses desires to be opposite gender, it must mean that they're born homosexual. Take the case of the 5year old boy that told his parents that he wanted to be a girl as an example, everyone assumed that it was hecasuse he was born gay and they started dressing him like a girl and other girly stuff. They were planning on getting him hormone treatment and sex change operation, the whole shebang! Not until they started a therapy to prep him for sex change operation. Turned out that the parents hadn't even asked him why he wanted to be a girl. They found out that it was because his baby sister was born and it seemed to him like his parents loved the baby sister more and in his child's mind, it was because she's a girl. He wanted to become a girl so that his parents would love him. Had that therapist not ask that question, that little boy's life and future would have been ruined. We need to follow the trend a little less and think logically and ask important questions. However, this young man did not deserve what happened to him, at all. Everyone let him down especially his parents. Even if your child is hard headed, you can't just drive them away because they're still your responsibility. If you feel that you can't correct and redirect your child, do you the streets can?? Those grown men that were violating him as child, I hope they pay the price somehow.

Abuja area mama-may God rest your gentle soul. It’s heartbreaking to reflect on the sad life you lived. I truly feel for him. He shared valuable advice before his untimely and tragic passing.

This is very spiritual. I know a woman who saw herself in a dream, at the age of about six, with male genitals. She did not tell anyone but realised later in life that she instead desired to have ladies (lesbian). She followed that passion and became a lesbian. When she got born again, she started praying about it seriously, and one night, she dreamt she was in a muddy water fenced around with spiritlike beings. Somehow, she came out to the gate with a bag hangind on her shoulder and with a particular one of the beings following her. She then handed the bag to the being, which was pleading with her not to go. She, however, insisted, handed the bag over to the being, and left. 🎉 the time she started loosing the passion for ladies... In fact, her people did nothing about it they instead gave her all manner of names, claiming she should have come as a male. Hearing this, I knew the lady was bewitched and her destiny hijacked in the demonic realm. Parents, TRAIN UP YOUR CHILD (WHOLISTICALLY) so that when that child grows he or she will not depart from it. Childhood is a very vulnerable stage. May God help us to watch over the children God gave to us ooo. Hmmmmm... I believe SOCIETY FAILED HIM... IF the community had shown interested in how his life should turn out as God planned and purpose it, he would have been timeoeouslly saved...

Very sad he really went through a lot as human being, may his soul rest in peace 😢

This matter is complicated. His parents failed him, aunty Caro failed him, the native doctor failed him, society failed him. May his soul rest in peace.

The Bible says in Ephesians that parents should train up their children in the way of the Lord...." Parents must exhaust all effort to bring up their children to be responsible. It's a personal responsibility we must do.

He remains a human being. May God have mercy and rest his soul. What a sorrowful and distressful life. It is a harsh call on us parents to love, protect and pray for our children. Nothing is impossible to God!

Neze, the bible made it clear that "every perfect gift comes from the LORD". Homosexuality and Lesbianism are nothing but demonic. May God protect our children by his grace and mercy. My heart is really 💔 for him.

This guy is a victim of circumstances. His parents fail him in life! I still can't believe area mama is gone. May his soul rip 😢😢😢

A sad story on multiple fronts. He was literally a bundle of trauma, failed by both family and society and preyed upon by users.

This just broke my heart. Society failed him. We asba people failed this human. May his soul rest in peace

He is definitely a victim of bad parenting! May God have mercy upon him.

But who are this evil men and politicians abusing or patronizing this boys?

Some people’s lives were doomed from the beginning and it never ends well… so sad

His parents grilled him. Traditional African upbringing will start with screaming, threats, Abuse and beating unfortunately you Instill fear in them and that’s when you start loosing them cos they find that comfort and affection outside. May his Soul rest in peace 🙏

Everyone failed this guy. How could the parents be so heartless?

He was a victim of circumstances, he didn't choose to be guy, people should not judge people harshly, leave judgment for God, the all knowing.

Neze - this your hair fits you, my dear 😊

As usual, we'll done Job ! Dear Barrister Neze , God Jehovah shall bless you more and more for this great wonderful work that you are doing for humanity. Well understood.

He's been Vulnerable since childhood💔💔

This is so sad. What about his mother? Even if the father hated him, a mother will never give up on a child. I knew of someone in a similar circumstance and he was abused by men. He eventually changed his life and had a girl friend but died soon after from HIV.

Just as a straight person doesnt choose their sexuality, neither does a gay person.

I feel for him🥺 He life story should be made into a movie

I have a very handsome son, who is also my only son for now. Whenever the sister wears him any of their female clothes, i rebuke her immediately and ask Bobo to get his own cloth and dress like a handsome boy he is. I keep ringing it in his ear that he is a boy, not a girl. The toys i buy for him are toys for boys and not teddy bear. Toys like cars, bykes, etc. This starts from child hood

💯 support, love and respect anyone living their truth, gay, straight, Bi, pronouns, whatever, just be true to who you are. 🇨🇦🇨🇦

Hahaha, in South Africa we also call heels, kwai kwai shoes 😂

I never heard of him before but listening to you, I felt sorry for him. He was damaged and lived a sad life. Forgiveness is of the Lord. I wonder how the parents will react if they found he is dead.

The Bible states, we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against powers and principalities. Meaning, everything begins in the spiritual realm first. This young man was possessed with the spirit of perversion from infancy/childhood. The wicked spirit transfers from generation to generation......Other times, it could be due to sexual abuse as a child

As a mother this is so terrible. God please protect our children from turning into what we don't know nor understand. Protect them from devilish molesters and predators 😭😭😭😭😭Help us to be loving and understanding parents to our children.

Wow neze u hv hit 229k ❤❤❤ you deserve more. Go Lady.

What a painful story of abuse and rejection by the people who were supposed to protect him.Sad.😢

I wept all through the video. What a wounded soul What a wonderful bold destiny ,that was wasted. So bold on what he was doing, imagine the results if such drive, energy and boldness was well directed. Such a beautiful, open minded soul. Satan and his cohorts are wickedness. So many wounded soul's out there . Lord Jesus help me to be strong for the sake of others .

🤩 what a life. He never got a break in life. R.I.P

He is dead and gone from all these evil people. They can't hurt him ANYMORE!!! 😢💔💔💔 RIP

this guy was a special soul silently crying for help. this is a great loss. Many parents do not even care. he never encouraged anyone to do what he was doing.

I am sure area mama died and probably left some money in his account. My question now is, is it the same family that neglected him that will still claim that money? Shameless people!! He didn't deserve to die the way he did😢

I have learnt something this afternoon, thanks for showing this

I believe they are born that way and should be treated fairly and justly!! Why would anyone choose to be treated so poorly in a country as homophobic and FAUX religious as Nigeria. Jesus preached LOVE ABOVE ALL.

Truly times have changed. It is a collective effort. Parents should check single sex schools with boarding house.

The theory of sexual orientation could be right, but does not justify homosexuality in the same way that an orientation to stealing, cheating in marriage, lying, gossiping, etc does not justify those actions.

Nezeee! I love that you engage us in all topics, serious ones with legal analysis, jawdropping ones, comical ones 😂 I just love your oratorical skills ❤

This topic is a difficult and sad topic. I have a friend, man, only son of his father, who became a transgender female. He prays a lot, attends mass every Sunday, begs God to change him back to normal man. He cries a lot. He gets beaten a lot by random people who are homorphobic. He told me he has always felt he was in the wrong body. He has no interest in sex with a female, and he is not a homosexual. His parents have done everything to help him change but he is what he is. May Aunty Caro be punished by God for her sin. May his soul rest in peace.

I come from Bonny in Rivers state and it is an island. The responsibility of providing life jackets is that of the boat transport system and in Rivers state as a whole. At the waterside life jacket is even to everyone before you board the boat and the Local Government and boat transport union makes sure this is done strictly. It's sad that this happened. May God strengthen the families that lost their loved ones and may God also bring peace to the producer and give both parties a new beginning in Jesus Mighty Name Amen.

A child's brain is like a tabula rasa. The parents are to write the right things, the correct things on it. If a child displays an unnatural trait, the parents can still correct it at that early stage, through grooming, nurture, counseling, instructions, etc. If a plant begins to grow wild, the farmer/gardner introduces stakes to help guide the plant's growth in the direction they want. Sometimes, they prune the plant to help it. Plants are here today, but gone tomorrow. Mostly short life span, compared to humans. If all that is done to get the best out of a plant, how much more guiding and teaching our children in the direction that are better for them? And pruning them when necessary? Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it [Proverbs 22:6]. A youngster’s heart is filled with foolishness, but physical discipline will drive it far away [Proverbs 22: 15]. His parents had the opportunity to alter the trajectory of this child at that young age, but they abandoned that responsibility.

Nezee I love your gossip

Never tell yourself I stop sin when I get this or that because you don’t know what is ahead of you and you don’t know what tomorrow may bring, time is now for you to change

Anyone out there struggling with any form of abuse please speak up. Please am begging you 🙏. Please pray to God for help and talk to someone about it. Don't be silent.

Who introduce a child to sexual intercourse as small as 9 years that's wicked they ruined a child forever

His parents failed him, law enforcement agents failed him, even his country failed him, am seriously crying hearing his stories. So pathetic. Rip.

Thank God we have a merciful God. It is possible he asked for forgiveness right before he died. It is left for us as a society to learn from his story and do better. Be better parents, singles, aunties, siblings, NGOs, etc

Despite everything he's still a life lost in the most disheartening way...Rip

I am conservative when it comes to LGBTQ matters, but NOBODY, regardless of sexuality or gender, should go through the things area mama went through. He was a human being first before any other thing. A lot of people failed him, including his parent, and if he does not get justice, society has failed him too. I can only hope that he found Jesus before his demise. This is all so very TRAGIC!

This is sad,a big lesson to learn. Give your life to christ today, tomorrow may not come. Thank you Neze.

I want to make some clarifications here. Being homosexual is different from being transgender. Some homosexuals dress or act like the opposite gender but they are not transgender. That's the case of Areamama. Transgenderism is when the person feels they are the opposite gender and their body does not align with the gender they feel.

I hope the experience of this man will help a lot of people. He was a pitiful soul 😭. Well done Neze 🎉❤.

I watched a story of a pastor who was sexually abuse from the time he could understand sexuality until. It is a very hard kind of abuse to fight through. It takes a lot of spiritual discipline.

Abuja area Mama was failed by his own parents and society. No one has the right to take the life of another . It’s so sad how he was killed. Those that killed him will suffer more because they have destroyed what they can’t create. May his soul rest in peace.

I’ve never heard about this person before. I don’t understand why people try to hate on them, my beliefs differ greatly but being wicked doesn’t make you any better than them. The parents were supposed to protect him, even though they didn’t approve of his beliefs, their his First line of protection. They could have been open to learning how to love him, but African parents are always rigid and don’t want to relearn how to love someone they don’t agree with.

He was a victim of hate crime. He failed nothing. No disorder at all!! Absolutely none. He was born that way. My heart broke for him.

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 What a life.This is heartwrenching.

Oh Lord! Life! He didn't have it fair at all. Lord protect our children 😢

Four damn years 😭 oh, lord have mercy. Have mercy lord 😢ahhhh, oluwa have mercy. Heaven have mercy on this soul. He went through alot on earth. God have mercy. Lord, have mercy ....... mercy! mercy! mercy! mercy! mercy oh lord!...... This young man went through alot on earth. Ihe chukwu ga ekpe na ikpe di too much. God bless his good heart for doing videos just to warn youths against prostitution. Lord of mercy oooo💔 Oh, lord! 33 years old man who has suffered his whole life. Lord, mercy! Oh! Lord have mercy. Chineke mee ebere! 😭 Chai.... Police 😢mtchwww.....GOD have mercy on this young man and judge him with mercy oh lord😢

so sad, I hopes he finds peace and may his soul rest in peace... he was an amazing person, his parents are just too wicked😢😢