When I was single I was sleeping with my girlfriend and a married woman at the same time. I was sick broke and felt a darkness in my soul! Sexual sin will destroy your soul! I have been married for 23 years and God has blessed me a wonderful wife and two grown children and trust me sexual sin is not worth losing your soul over it!
Thanks for sharing, I think the younger one is the greater the struggle. I'm 29, as a single young man this is my greatest struggle because despite having the faith and believing in it, I don't live by works even after confession, I soon backslide after a couple of months. Someone please advise me, is confession enough?!!
I recommend praying about it first, when you have a urge DO NOT it fight go like “come on in urge” and sit still for 2 minutes to let it pass though you, refocused my life on other things than watching reels and playing video games (basically normalizing your dopamine levels and putting time and energy to other things) and to find a permanent solution your going to need a book called “Breaking the cycle” by George Collins a book on how to cure yourself by a form sex addict. If you prefer the audio book go to audible, make a free trial account on and its free or if you can’t get your hands on the book find a free pdf it’s somewhere I guess. After every chapter write down on paper or your phone what to do (ex:Demonize porn, show the ugly truth about it so it makes you uncomfortable) This is what I have done and using the “days since” app to count days I haven’t released for 17 days and only little urges like 2-3 times a day despite being on spring break
I will also offer my rosary (I was going to pray it before seeing this comment lol) to you, people trying to beat there porn addiction, the porn stars because once you find it the truth it is disgusting and deeply saddening (search up fight the new drug, and go to popular to see the most popular vids) it took me a year to quit but once you know how to do it will only be hard the first 10 days
I’m 69 and my sex drive torments me to this day. I totally agree that sex sends more souls to hell than probably anything else. One of the greatest things about heaven has to be there is no sex or need for it.
Just thank God whenever the hormones hit and you crave sex! Thank God for giving you natural desire, and the ability to offer the sacrifice of denying giving into it in an unhealthy way back to God, through Mary’s Help! It’s helped me. Praise God always for creating me in such a way!!
"Avoid immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the immoral person sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? For you have been purchased at a price. Therefore, glorify God in your body." (1Corinthians 6:18-20 NAB)
Paul avoided sexual immorality and he was cursed by being shipwrecked three times, homeless and hungry. Galatians 3:10 Paul wrote Galatians 3:10 but didn't understand it himself.
The colostrumin the Brain (Santa Clause coming down the chimney), secretes a liquid, an "oil", Prima Materia , the PRIMORDIAL substance into the colostrum flowing downwards. the region at the posterior and anterior of the Brain,known as Brahman's cave or Ark of the Covenant, lies two the glands the pituitary gland which secretes a Milky white substance and pineal gland which secretes a brown honey substance the true "land of milk and honey." This fluid flows down to the testes signalling production of sperms.The Ojas Sanskrit food of the Gods, the same minerals etc in semen is the same the brain feeds on. Conservation ensures the brain is fully nourished. Destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah and then heading North to the promised land. Allegorical flows down the spine then up the spine back to the Brain
I am looking forward to this explanation. I heard from a friend who said some of her cop friends would say homosexual couples who murdered the other that it would be the sickest most disturbing crime scene they'd ever encountered. And I thought to myself I wondered if there was a demonic possession there.
My dear Brother was murdered by male “ partners. No help from cops, or the injustice system. Buffalo NY Still cold case, murder. No justice in ny. Thirty two years ago. No justice. Wicked!
There isn't any evidence at all that murder crime scenes, the vast overwhelming majority which are heterosexual based are somehow less disturbing or sickening than the much less frequent murder scene of a homosexual couple. This is just your (and your friends cop friends) dislike of homosexuals coming into play. Think of the Charles Manson murders.
Yes. Continued mortal sin brings on demonic possession and the partners go to hell, if still living in sin at death or died with unrepentant or unconfessed sins.. That is exactly what the dev il wants, their souls.
@kieranflynn7582 Certain demons tempt us with different types of sins. They are sneaky tempting us with our own individual weaknesses. Until they get us trapped into grievous sins. Sins that are a vice and extremely difficult to overcome!!!
Yes please talk about ALL THE THINGS THAT CAN HAPPEN WITH OBSESSION!!! You may be healed after following a prescribed Amount of Penitence and prayer. Diocese says it takes about 2 years. This Christmas Eve, it will be 3 years for me. I was only reading bad books on sex. I NEVER thought it might be diabolical. I had ZERO clue but was not attending Mass for probably a decade. I started praying the rosary one day and finally resumed being a practicing Catholic. That’s when I started getting attacked diabolically. NoONE ever talks about all of this. I am finally confident that Im nearly healed Praise Jesus. Many rosaries, masses and confessions since as well as Adoration and Benediction 😭🙏
Keeping on course, faithfully praying The Rosary, everyday. Penance, confession and mindful daily pray. It's not easy but they are Known to work, CHRIST saves us from sins and Mother MARY protects us from demons. 💜🌿✝️🙏⛪🎄
When I was younger and naive I had weird experiences and can remember the exact feeling of losing God. It feels like a total emptiness like being hungry in a famine with no food in sight, a desperate emptiness. Makes me shudder to remember it 😬
The acceptance, proliferation, PROMOTION of YOGA in the last, say, 20 years = the acceleration of the descent of our culture into sheer madness. Coincidence?
Yoga is the practice of paying homage to false gods. Whether you realize it or not, whether you intend it or not, when you are doing those poses, you are paying homage to false Hindu gods. The word Yoga means to be “yoked” with. You are asking to be “yoked” with these false gods and are opening a doorway for demonic activity in your life. We should be asking to be yoked with our Lord Jesus Christ, who says, “take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden light.” Matthew 11:28
This is why deliverance ministry is important! Someone can be in bondage to a spirit of lust, etc and a familar spirit that trys to keep the person stuck in the same destructive sin cycles, etc.
@@kieranflynn7582 That's right, we do have free will, and Satan can't make us do anything. You likely have heard the statement, " The devil made me do it" It's only half true. It should be more like the devil ( actually his demons) influenced me to do it. Sin is a destroyer, and sin is how the enemy seeks to destroy our lives. Demons are what puts the thoughts to sin in a person's mind. To steal, lie, cheat, rape, suicide, etc. This is in essence a big part of the world's problem, and why it's in the mess that it's In. Many people need deliverance. But they don't realize that they need it. The thought of them having a demon is like repulsive or something. It's sad though because that ignorance is causing a lot of destruction in people's lives. I experienced this personally. I had very bad anxiety and panic attacks as a young teenager and was put on benzodiazepines to try and cover up the anxiety. Those meds messed up my anterior pituitary gland and it's ability to produce some very important hormones. Now I don't sleep right at night because of this. 4 hours is like good, average for me. Then I learn about deliverance ministry a few years ago and how Satan's target is a person's mind, and how he uses fear to try and hold people back. I shared my story with a pastor in California who does deliverance and he goes boy Satan sure has tried hard to destroy your life. And it's true, and we read this in John 10:10, however it's very subtle how the devil does this and most people don't recognize his work in someone.
A very good priest talked with me about sexual sins. Man can co-create but devils cannot since they are spirits; therefore they are extremely envious and hate life and the source of human life, (sexuality), that is the reason they delight when we profane sexuality which is (when used in the proper context) holy and good.
As a Catholic who grew up with the Mass in Latin, I truly feel that taking that away and removing the mystery caused people to look for it elsewhere - a slippery slope which led to the occult, etc
Barbara. Sr. Wilhelmina whose body was found to be incorrupt is the best advocate for the Latin Mass. she observed that her students attitude, behavior and reverence was seriously affected when the New Mass was in full force by 1973. After 50 years as a religious sister whose habit and traditions were modernism she helped establish a traditional church Eder of nuns who associated with FSSP priests in order to return to the Latin Mass and all that is associate armed with it-respect for the e the Eucharist, reverence, adherence to the Catechism and the religious devotions and traditions. Lex orendi. Lex Credendi, Lex Vivendi. As you pray, so do you believe, so will you live your life. Who can argue with a saint?
@@TJT602 The TLM is everywhere in canada under SSPX or FFSP, but also in normal diocese services, the TLM i go to us approved by the bishop in saskatchewan under the diocese, but theyre forbidden to advertise so you just gotta know someone who goes I suppose. But FSSP has a map where they perform services. Ontario and quebec has alot, the prairies are fewer but still exist.
@@TJT602Search Latin Mass Directory. The website lists churches throughout the world that offer the TLM. Select Canada and then click “view as a list”. Hope that helps!
I wish this was true, but as a traditional woman who goes to both, single, chaste woman, the porn addictions of those who go to the TLM...so sadly, it's not the beautiful thing you said which I agree! To me, it's what you do on the outside of Mass! I always hated...yes, hated...TV. I am very adventurous with nature, creative, play music, write, draw, visit elderly, etc. It's what you do with your love, time, energy when you leave. Men are mostly linear and can compartmentalize very well, so as soon as they leave, if they don't work on their virtue, self control, have a battle plan.
The reason why I suppose the sin of impurity is hard to overcome is because of how it affects the soul to the core. We were made to love and possess and to be loved and be possessed by God. The conjugal act mirrors the Trinity, from where the love of the Father and Son came forth the Holy Spirit. Mind you, the conjugal act between man and woman was designed to be pure and immaculate where by a simple kiss or embrace would have sufficed to bring forth a new life. But because of sin, the act of intimacy was limited to physical union. Man and woman were to possess each other, freely and exclusively, without being enslaved to each other. But sin corrupts the moral order, the natural design that man was to have. And now, instead of being detached, we are drawn to the opposite sex by desire, lust and passion. We are unable to govern ourselves without grace, which is why we're plunged into this sin, wanting more of it. Love in its pure form is insatiable, non ending, infinite, the same love that we're to have for God and the same loyal love spouses are expected to have for each other. Sin on the other hand corrupts love, confusing and blinding our understanding, deviating us from the truth, to the point of making us believe that following our own passions will set us free.
As a born-again Catholic, I find this talk fascinating because God through our Blessed Mother freed me from the bondage of sexual sins to save my marriage 16 years ago during a pilgrimage. My nine-year-old son wrote in his journal right afterward, "I saw Jesus on the Golden Cross bleeding from head to toe, looking at me with a smile while Blessed Mother stepped on the snake." The graces of conversion I received were not from a blessing for the intrinsically disordered lifestyle but from having a thorough examination of conscience with a thorough Confession to a priest and hours of Eucharistic Adoration on my knee on rocky ground.
I don't mean to offend, but Jesus Christ redeems us...Mary needed Jesus just like we do....Mary is not the "Mother of GOD" as GOD has no mother. As the Bible (King James Version) says: Revelation 22:13 *"I am the Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end."* ...We either believe the Bible or we don't. 🍃⚖🙏🏾⚖🍃
@@Narrow-Pather Mary is a complete human creature like all of us. Jesus is fully human and fully divine as God second in the Trinity incarnate in Mary's womb with her encounter with Archangel Gabriel, " Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word." Common sense tells us that God cannot reside in someone's womb with sins, so Mary was granted the special grace, being born immaculate as the Archangel greeted her, " Hail full of grace." She is indeed the Mother of God, a dogma of our Catholic faith.
@@Narrow-Pather Jesus is our Redeemer and Savior. Catholics do not dispute that. We do believe Mary is not only the Mother of God but a Heavenly Mother for all mankind as Jesus said to the Apostle John at the foot of the Cross, "Behold Your Mother". I know her title personally having that revealed to me after my profound conversion in Medjugorje on my way back with an overnight in Paris. I was a lukewarm Catholic who did not have much faith in our Blessed Mother. I was transformed completely after that trip.
@@hastensavoir7782 After my conversion, I truly believe that marriage is sacred between a man and woman for life. I would rather die than divorce my wife to marry someone else, breaking the 6th commandment of God. I believe divorced and remarried couples without annulment to receive Holy Communion is a heresy. A person is living in a perpetual state of adultery. Jesus said to an adulterous woman, "Go and sin no more." We need to incorporate that into the blessing of couples in an irregular relationship if we do such a blessing under Fiducia Supplicants.
"better for a man to marry than to burn with passion" this sums it up, the lack of adequate partners and suitable situation thats exactly what you get : "burning with passion" its not rocket science especially with the way social media and the world is headed
I asked God to give me more pain for my daughter and son salvation. Let me tell you, I have severe arthritis, and I'm in so much pain. Sometimes I complain because it hurts but at the end I accepted and offer it to God Almighty for my kids. Be careful what you pray for because you may get it.
Do you think the pain also serves as a reminder to you to pray on their behalf and, as opportunity presents, to witness to them? When did the pain start up? What type of arthritis do you have... Osteo? Rheumatoid? Psoriatic?
That’s not Holy!! Christ took our iniquities upon Himself on the cross, He did not leave out your children when He hung and definitely did not put that pain on you but you invited that evil sickness upon yourself. Please repent and get outta that mindset
When I am going about my day. And I feel like food or coffee. I remind myself it's good to die a little by going without for penance. Our Lady ask us to pray and fast for our priest.
When I was younger and naive I had weird experiences and can remember the exact feeling of losing God. It feels like a total emptiness like being hungry in a famine with no food in sight, a desperate emptiness. Makes me shudder to remember it 😬
You need a podcast on what a healthy sexual stance looks like. We all seem to focus on what is sin and the details of what is unacceptable in Gods eyes. Instead, can you focus on acceptable means of living and what that looks like? What is a proper and "normal" sexual life? What does that look like in an everyday setting? What does a healthy sexual relationship look like with your spouse? What are the biblical guidelines for sexuality?
There is a good Catholic guy that talks about Theology of the body that explains this. I agree with you in that they tell us this is bad but don't tell us examples or how can we avoid those things.
I think whichever spouse has the higher sex drive should have those needs fulfilled by the spouse with the lower drive. When a spouse is rejected sexually they're left open to temptation for masturbation and pornography.
@@musicman1eandaoften those ‘high’ sex drives have already been fuelled by habitual use of pornography and masturbation unfortunately. And it’s never enough. Sometimes even more marital sex encourages use of these things if the one who needs ‘more’ isn’t practicing enough self control and discipline through rigorous prayer. This is why people who say those having problems with porn and masturbation should get married as a way to cure or curb their sexual desires are wrong. It never works. It’s never up to the other spouse, rather the individual, then they will truly find satisfaction in marriage and freedom from their slavery.
@@musicman1eandano, you then turn a sexual relationship, notice the word RELATIONSHIP” into something as a act for physical enjoyment for only one person in the marriage. It’s is an act of bringing a couple together for a love of each other , not for a body physically feeling to receive a gratification for only one person in the relationship. One is responsible for their own control of their sin, FREE WILL. One doesn’t totally if one is healthy would not want a relationship with their spouse. There is marriages that physically a partner cannot have physically relationships and that still doesn’t give the other spouse the right to cheat. One would find other loving ways to connect with their spouses that still shows love and respect.
@Cheetoluv If you were bedridden and there was only one nurse available to take care of you and feed you, would it be moral for them to only feed you when they feel like it? What if you were hungry every day, they're capable of feeding you every day, but they simply decided it's not worth the effort to do so; they only feel like preparing food for you once a week. In a similar manner, in the marital relationship, there is only one appropriate use of your sexuality; with your spouse. Also, doesn't a spouse have an obligation to help their spouse to get to heaven? That's part of the reason for marriage. Not putting LOVE into ACTION (not CHOOSING to have sex with their spouse when they want to) is to abandon their marital vows.
I was steeped in sexual sin for most of my 20s and 30s (I'm 44 and married now). While I'm thankful that my sins are washed by the blood of Christ, I know there are certainly lingering spiritual issues I'm having to deal with.
@@patrickbaker3345 a lot of people call them "soul ties". Basically when you have sex with someone, you're spiritually connected, and that connection doesn't go away even if you break up. What sucks is I'll be with my wife and get random flashbacks of women I haven't seen in 20 years. You don't want to have to deal with that in a marriage.
I'm over 50. Women were never attracted to me. Be glad you had a chance to experience this. On me, your message only serves to cause feelings of inferiority and jealousy. My life is a loveless desert and will remain so until I die.
@@somerandomvertebrate9262 I am sorry to hear that brother. It's all about perspective I guess. All I can tell you is that you missed out on a huge aspect of this life on earth, but I can also tell you that half that experience is pain and regret. The pleasure is great but It is short lived and leads nowhere honestly; many a woman has put a man under a bridge.
I think the book is Liber Christo: A Method of Spiritual Combat, by Dan Schneider. It is excellent. I am almost through with it. Better than I expected.@@marbellaotaiza801
Italian Catholics? We never ate, nor ever eat meat on Fridays. There is SO much you can do/eat and get creative with fishes, vegetables, fruits, etc. Need tips? Let me know :)
Dr. Marshall, I'm asking for prayers from everyone for a VERY important petition that I am asking The Holy Family to grant. I would deeply appreciate your prayers. I pray for you and your beautiful family at mass. God bless. Ave Maria! Viva Cristo Rey! St Joseph, Son of David, Spouse of Mary, Terror of demons, please protect and stand guard over ALL of us. Amen. 🙏✝️🕊🕯🎄🎄
@lupitacajero7185 Holy Souls, please, please, do not let there be a black out in this crazy windy weather. Holy Family, Carlos Acutis, Chiara Bedano, Jose Sanchez del Rio, Manuel Federra, please, please, help us. Ave Maria!
@@sandratorday3196 Yes. The Souls of the Saved are either in heaven or preparing to enter heaven, in purgatory. Whether you accept it or not, it is true; ask Our Lord, Jesus. The body is the only one awaiting the Final judgement, after that, the body will join the soul in its destination. But the soul is always alive, it will never die, that is the problem with the souls in Hell; torment will never stop because the soul cannot die.
I visited a prostitute back in December 5, 2014, and was attacked by demon(s) on December 6, 2014. A gang of spirits jumped me and continued attacking me through the month. They are gone now. They wrecked all sorts of havoc in my system. Could not sleep, eat, drive, felt mentally overwhelmed and thought I"d turn into a flesh-eating zombie and start going crazy. Flashbacks of memory from the prostitute came back, but they were unwanted. Felt like I bowed to the devil to be with her and felt terrible the whole time. I have never visited a prostitute since this time because the demons are too vicious to deal with. It is obvious the devil is the biggest threat against visiting a prostitute EVER again.
After I got saved again, the demonic trys to attack me in the sleep state, but God and his angels wakes me up . I have experienced full on sex during the sleep and woke up in pain, but I noticed prayer, fasting and letting go of things that are not of good spirits ( everything you described) you can get through this.. don't feed the demon..
The more I lust or watch Porn? The worse I feel and things don’t seem to go right. It is the one thing that keeps me from saying The Rosary consistently Lust is 100% my biggest weakness and It's hard to explain in a message, but it appears like i'm cursed and have a lot of bad luck when i turn from prayer and give into my Sin of lust I have zero doubt that this vice is crippling me spiritualy and likely many others, as we are led to believe that our lusts, sexuality etc is ok and just normal. But that is wrong. I never suffered guilt when I cared less about God. I believe it's the Holy Spirit that is trying to guide me. I don't know why I am typing this, but hopefully if there any reading this, that is struggling with porn and other issues? Don’t give up. Pray more, go to Confession and do your best to repent and not give in to urges If you fail? Repeat and keep trying to fight it. I believe 100% in God and i have conquered many other areas of Sin, but Lust is my major downfall.
@@missymitekite thank you very much I too will keep all on these comments and yourself in my prayers Let's pray that more never give up and strive to be more obedient to God
Keep praying the rosary every day, read the Bible (New Testament especially), go to penance regularly, and make a clean break from viewing porn and masturbation. I know it might seem like an impossible task but you can do it! Once you stay away from these things and abstain from masturbating, these things will become less and less powerful in your life. I can't stress enough how important daily prayer is. Pray to St. Expedite too for help. You're not alone. Demons will try to shame you in self-hate, but don't give in them. Keep the focus on abstaining from these things you were attached to and focus on prayer and reading scripture.
Lust is a terrible sin; it will keep you a slave. What worked for me was prayers to renounce sin. The Holy Spirit will search your heart and deliver you if you are sincere about repentance.
Yes, this is the way. St. Mary ist very important, because she represents motherly female aspects. One of the reasons why Judaism and Islam are not helpfull in these regards.
I am homosexual too but I stay away from the lifestyle and refraining from sexual relationships. It's not hard and contracting HIV made me really stop. There's so many evil gay men out there who continue in to hurt others and give them sexual diseases and illnesses even though they know what they are doing and I wish God could've went another way about this and warned me but I don't know God's way because maybe contracting this virus is the only thing that would truly stop me from committing abominations. It's definitely not easy but you can do it my brother. I pray nay God's spirit be on you and may Father have mercy on you and send his angels to take charge over you to send you into the right direction.
ABSOLUTELY!! That's why the devil uses this so much, it gets deep inside a person, breaks the wholeness of the mortal soul, giving 'cracks' the entities etc of evil can utilize! Love & prayers, in Christ, to everyone doing this work & teachjng!
Hello Everyone, thank you very much Dr. Marshall for this video. Back when I was younger I used to be bound by this sin for so may years until 2020 when Mother Mary helped me and our LORD released me from it. Since then my life have been amazing. But recently, I got very ill and I noticed my prayer life is decreasing and this past three days I fell and went back to watch those adult videos. I am really scared right now, I'm going to confession tomorrow and I humbly ask for your Prayers. My name is Pedro M. A. Abel Soares and I am from Timor Leste. Please help me everyone.
Hi Pedro, I posted 3 weeks ago that the Blessed Mother freed me from the bondage of sexual sins and I have been truly free 16 years ago. The Blessed Mother put me under the detox program of being awakened twice each night on my knee to pray the Rosary and Divine Mercy. I have had an immense love for the Sacred Heart of Jesus and the Immaculate Mary so that gives me the strength to overcome any lustful temptations. The Hearts serve as a refuge for sinners. I pray for you brother.
Our Most Blessed Virgin of Fátima prophesied many things to come which are being fulfilled. One of them was that the Sins of the flesh is the reason most people go to Hell and souls are falling into Hell at a rate of snowflakes.
The demon of lust is real it came into a dream that I had last year which would not let me wake up because I wouldn't give in to it until I said in my dream my Lord Jesus Christ have mercy on me then I woke up. The demon of lust has the same face as the exorcist if anyone has seen the original exorcist. And praying the Rosary as much as possible for deliverance is powerful 🙏🏼🌹❤👑✝️🌍🕊
Animals are not sinners. I dislike how we compare bad human behavior to animal behavior. In my opinion animals have more order, respect, and love for each other than humans.
You missing the point here. It is not about order or disorder. It is about loosing God’s Grace. Animal doesn’t have grace because their souls are not immortal . They are getting back to God after death. We have immortal souls and in this live we are choosing IF we are going to live with or without God’s Grace for eternity. Separated in both cases
@@tomaszmazurek9567 I don't need a lecture on God because my faith is strong. You are missing my point altogether. I've been around a lot of humans of all kinds and I'm sorry to tell you this but animals have more grace in God than the typical person. God created animals for a reason and they follow his law as God created them...
I literally heard demons in the room one night when I was spending the night with someone in a sinful relationship. That was it for me. Seven years later, and still celibate. And very content and at peace! Thanks be to God.
Never heard the term temporal satisfaction. I am going to check out this book. I got multiple demons from pornography, playing excessively violent video games like mortal kombat and watching ungodly programing on youtube with guys cursing, screaming and saying negative things about other races and the other sex.
1 Corinthians 9:27 right there. Learning how to discipline your body. Great conversation. This must be embraced not only by Catholics, but Protestants as well. It's time for a united Body under one head.
I read where a priest said for women to not talk about sex at all in the confessional due to too many priests being either boarderline or blatantly inappropriate in the questions they ask after the woman says what the church considers to be a sexual sin. He said to just ask for an absolution: "God knows what I've done. I know what I've done. I'm sorry for it. I'd like absolution. If the priest pushes for details, then just leave." Talking about it in confession is not something a lot of women can do comfortably ~ a male (acquaintance or stranger) AND a priest. A lot of women are reluctant to talk to male doctors too. Why? We learn young that conversations with men can quickly turn too sexual or into criticism of females (ie. femi-nazis) when least expected. Even initiating the topic first can become fraught quickly. It's awkward. It's unpleasant. Some of us have had confessors ask about our sex lives when we haven't raised the subject. I personally have not, but I know women who have. If most of us women are super vulnerable in the confessional and so many are violated verbally, the only way we can actually confess a sexual sin is to just say what that priest says and ask for absolution.
You can inly be forgiven if you confess verbally the sin. I disagree with the priest that said that. Women can just say "I accuse myself of madturb..., or fornication", and say, about how many times, if you can't remember how many exact times, or whatever the sin is, but don't have to give details. When the priests ask about those sins, it is because people are ashamed of confessing them and that could take souls to hell for eternity. It is very important we confess those sins, so go to a priest that doesn't know who you are.
@@lupitacajero7185 Well the problem is when the woman confesses a sexual sin and the priest is asking inappropriate specific probing questions about it instead of just moving on. Also, the priest is there to listen and give absolution. Why would they ask only about that specific sin and not any others at all if the confessor has not mentioned it? There are other mortal sins that are just as mortifying to mention, so that is really not a good reason to only ask about sexual sins when the confessor hasn't even mentioned them.
@@jennifer7648I’m sorry you have experienced this. We go to a Traditional mission chapel and have had at least 20 different priests visit over the years, and all have heard my confessions, but I have never had this happen. Not even close to inappropriate or uncomfortable. Could it be Novus Ordo priests or one particular priest you’ve been to with this tendency? I do know that if this did ever happen to me my only consolation would be that priests have the gift of forgetting after hearing confessions, so he wouldn’t be able to remember me or my sins. I would also just ignore his probing questions and say, ‘I’m sorry Fr. That is all I can explain. I have been taught by my Traditional priests that all we need to say is the exact sin name that we committed, how many times, and no further details.
Funny about the male doctor thing. I had a woman dr, when I was in college, give me a regular Pap smear/check up that seemed off and uncomfortable… With an unusual amount of probing inside of me… so it isn’t just male Drs now days.
I don’t know if others have experienced this but i was so involved in my sexual sins for years. I bought into all the lies of sex positivity and YOLO and if it feels good do it. The longer I stayed in my sexual sins the more depraved it got and I didn’t even realize it or care. After coming back to the lord I stayed in sexual sins bc I thought God had bigger things to worry about then whether i occasionally watched some porn. Eventually the holy spirit led me to the rosary and I began praying it each day. It’s been about 4 months now and sexual sin seems so foreign to me now. It doesn’t feel natural anymore and I’m more disgusted by it than anything . I couldn’t have done it on my own. I honestly believe mother Mary has heard my prayers and shes interceded on my behalf to the lord Jesus Christ. I can’t express the change that has happened but I sincerely encourage anyone who’s reading this and wants freedom fr sexual immorality to pray the rosary daily and trust in God.
My spouse is a convert - he read in his missal that we are called to penance and giving up meat every Friday and that was that for him. But it’s a true penance for him as a meat eater - not necessarily for others who don’t eat much or any meat.
The way women present/market themselves these days doesn’t help. They know what effect it has. There’s something to be said for the Muslim tradition of women dressing modestly.
I'm happy I grew up in a country and time (70ies and 80ies)where we were taught to dress properly. At least with my parents. To this day I can't stomach dress off like they do or over the knee skirt and tops down on the stomach. I always dress wholesome and covered so to speak. I never forget one day I came from the city on my way home an evening there came hordes, and I'm not joking dressed in barely nothing. Barely covering literally. Pavements full.
These days female shorts are too short and ahh got arrested in HHastings city in a heat- wave when ahh was wearing my sisters shorts , as the summer heat made me desperate too wear little. - Strange how my sisters never get arrested for wearin thier shorts but when ahh put them on ahh was Jumped on main street .
About porn. It brings so much shame but the hiding of it is what is damaging. People can stop... don't ask me how I know - but it will always be a faded inclination in the mind. God is good. I always try to keep in mind that anything that I allow into my heart either builds me or damages me. Why should I endorse or participate in the thing that hurts my sister or brother. Most of these things hurt these people involved in the most incredibly painful ways.
I also started being open about it..the more you hide the more you delay your salvation .i rather get temporary shame as long as i am saved while still breathing .Demons like secrets of the soul but suffering for eternity out of fear to open up while here on earth sounds like a dangerous bargain.
What about rock music as a doorway that demons can enter? A lot of famous musicians were followers of Aleister Crowley, and say their music just comes to them, its not them writing it (ie, they're channeling it). When Bob Dylan said on 60 Minutes he made a pact to get where he is now, a pact with the "chief commander" he wasnt talking about making a pact with Jesus.
There is a lot of nuance here. We use a lot of terms for music: rock, jazz, pop, alternative. Categories. Patterns of sounds. They are not intrinsically evil. Like words, they can be used for evil. A song by a Satanic metal band can be a doorway for demons; a song by a Christian metal band (yes, they exist) can be a path to Jesus. John Lennon didn't write thrash or doom metal, but the demonic is clearly present in his music.
Sadly alot of predators groom innocent good souls but we can win the spiritual battles by prayer fasting and a life of grace. We can pray for our families and souls and we can stay close to faith. We can fast for families as well in all the world. Jesus is merciful and confession is such a healing sacrament.
My biggest flaw and sin....Lust. Every since I turned 12 to this day I couldnt stop this terrible habit of lusting over the opposing sex. Whenever I am on a long streak I am at my most secure and competent selve. Retaining your seed and following the path of christ are always the best thing for my body and soul. The problem is whenever I am on a long streak and on my path stuff keep happening to me to lead me away. I will pray to tonight and get rid of this disease we call lust. Dont want to go back to my lustful days.
Could we have a part II on this topic? Would like to hear St. Alphonsus' story again as told in The True Spouse Of Jesus Christ about the Mother Superior who was too ashamed to call in an extern confessor for herself and the very tragic sequel of events that followed.
Good heavens, I had no idea of the danger of Kokopelli. I will get into my sewing room and find where the scraps of quilting fabric with that motif on it are and put them in the trash. Thank you for this good information!
If you can't find a wife you should see sex workers because David took the shewbread to satisfy his needs. This broke the law of Moses. So you can break the law if you have a need ie sex.
Making restitution isn't just a Catholic notion and practice. In Torah God told Moses to teach that anyone stealing etc was expected to make restitution.
May we have a Part II on this topic and incluse St. Alphonsus Liguori's story in The True Spouse of Jesus Christ about the mother superior too ashamed to bring in an extraordinary confessor for herself and the demonic tragedy that followed?
Precious. Just get to the message of Fátima. What Our Lady says about the value of offering our sufferings for the salvation of souls. I find this so usefull for our souls. The world knows nothing about this treasure. Thanks alot.
For home decor, I can walk into any decor store and buy a Buddha for a reasonable price. Where are the Catholic decor items. Why isn't the church getting these into the larger stores? We would have them if they were available.
Totally unrelated... I was in Church this morning contemplating the nativity scene, without the baby Jesus. For some reason I wondered about the manger, and I checked to see that it was really a feeding trough for animals. I then wondered was there any symbolism in this ie Jesus as food, a Eucharist. I then checked to see it was talked about 500 years ago. Something I don't remember being told.?
I recommend reading bible and books like Kathleen Beckman called A spiritual guide to spiritual warfare, and good Catholic books are key to grow in our faith.
Will you guys pray for me. I have a long track record with lustful sin of the flesh. For a long time it was only with women, but having removed one of my vices a year & a half ago, the devil has been tempting me with homosexual vices much more frequently, & strongly. I went to confession about this recently.
Lust is in the hearts of all men. My brother has homosexual vices and I will tell you exactly what I told him: keep going to confession. It is more powerful than any exorcism. Yes that's right; I learned it from an exorcist. Why? It is a sacrament. The sacraments are like nuclear weapons against the devil. So, even if it takes 10 confessions or 1000 confessions, keep going. Even if you don't "feel" it, keep going. I will pray for you.
Some animals are better than humans, imagine a dog is always loyalty to his boss however most of us human cannot do that to their best friend. So don't say human is better than animals, because animals didn't eat the apple, it's humans that ate the apple
I agree on some level, and then on another level I think sexual repression is just as bad if not worse than indulgence. One only has to look to the Catholic Priests as evidence of this. If you are able to abide by God's edicts without question, bless you, but for most people it is only by experiencing life in all if its aspects that we ever learn.
Last statement💯now i am less judgemental of anyone because of my experiences maybe that was my way of not despising sinners but respect everyone just fighting internal shame now and self esteem issues .
@@Joseph-l3y8u we are all on the same train brother---each day is a new life--it is not about what we we were or even what we are--it is about what we become.
It’s even worse when you are chronically single and basically have given up on women at 26. Marriage is scientifically impossible for me, even for God. I don’t want to be single forever but im unlovable no matter how much I work out. There’s always better men for women to chase. I now replace relationships with porn because if God wanted me to have a loving relationship and a wife and kids, it would have happened by now. Im going to die alone, no family, no kids, no grandkids no friends and there’s nothing I can do to change it because God wants me to be chronically miserably lonely and single. Idk if anyone can prove me wrong. I’ll be dead before I get proven wrong. Im more likely to die than to marry at all.
@@MB_Biggie_Cheese Look up self-fulfilling prophecy. If you are convinced about this, no one can change your mind. Cognitive behavioral therapy can help. If you are Catholic go to confession, at least once a week. Read Romans 8. If God is for us, who can be against us? He is for you and He has a plan for your life. He willed you into existence by your mother and father and gave you an immortal soul. Don't give up. I will pray for you.
