The South Park Episode About Boob Size 

Can’t believe Randy said “boobs are temporary, but friends are forever”

"Girl inches," was a great segment.

the boys going caveman mode still makes me laugh my ass off, it's a great gag puberty hit me like a truck as a youngin and it made me feel really weird because i was a mousy, shy kid who didn't want to attract attention. this episode was weirdly comforting for me when i saw it around that age, i empathized a lot with bebe and this episode kinda made her one of my favorite characters due to that

The measurement section had me think back to how I was measured at Victoria’s Secret and it was waaay bigger than it actually was. I think the sizes are purposely made smaller to make women feel better.

W video essays with W levels of adult recognition and maturity

Ah yes, the 5% south part 95% strangely well put together scientific study. My favourite.

As someone with an F cup I can confirm that I have trouble running and shopping for bras. I can't run without a very supportive sports bra. And shopping for those bras in general sucks because my exact size is hard to find without special ordering one. Big boobs are a burden because of the seemingly constant sexualization of them. I feel afraid to go out alone because the times I have, I was approached by several strangers hitting on me -_-

A man researching body proportions for women to help them measure themselves is funny and kinda inspiring

“Size matters not.” Yoda, a 2ft tall super powered gremlin who probably had a full 2.5 inches and used it to the max.

As a scientist, I respect and praise people who do such a great scientifically accurate research for videos like this Keep up the great work

As a woman, I applaud your efforts and genuine research. Couple of things I would add- large boobs can also come with skin issues because of the boob sweat and skin rubbing- my G’s caused me to develop Hidradenitis suppurativa. Look it up, it’s gnarly. This leads to genuine medical reasons to get a reduction, not just for looks. My family is… well endowed, and every old woman is bent over like a cartoon old lady. Them things drag you down hella. I would have a reduction myself, but it can cause you to be unable to breastfeed- which I’m very passionate about. I know you’re a tad younger, but I had my daughter at 21. (I am 24 now for reference) Breastfeeding is horrible. I mean, it’s cool, it’s cheap, but it horribly difficult for some people and can cause bleeding, blistered nipples. I don’t think it’s fair to talk about boobs without one of their main purposes being included. Imagine having to use a pump and how much it detracts from the sexual nature of them. Makes you feel like a cow. Also, how once breastfeeding begins, issues can crop up where some have trouble ever re-sexualizing them, either their own boobs or their partners. If you need a source, you can message me. My long term career plan is to be a boobie milk scientist lol. So to summarize- there’s more about reductions that I think deserves to be talked about. And if you talk boobs, you’ve gotta talk breastfeeding. Imagine talking about d!cks without mentioning sex. And I’m here as a big tata or breastfeeding reference if you need me. Love the work.

Remember fellas, the d's may be double, but the standards should not. Can i get an amen?

To summarise a part of this. People boys and girls, basketballs and whatever else. If they want the relationship off because of your size, they’re not meant for you. If they really do care about you not the size, they’re for you. I think. Idk to each their own

One thing I think you overlooked big time though is DD is the _American average_ size, not the generally thought of average size of breast. That difference is important since one of the main points of the vid is talking about what people consider big rather than actual common size. Most people don't know or care what the average is, if they consider a size big, it's seen as big. We gotta remember America is suffering from a high obesity rate, so the reason it's at DD is probably because more of the woman studied were plus sized due to weight. The interviewy is correct in saying what is commonly seen as the average cup size is C, though if some said D I'd understand that too. The size charts you showed even show C was about centered while DD was near the end. That and speaking from experience, DD or sometime DDD is the highest most clothing stores go, anything higher and they won't sell it or consider it plus sized. If DD was considered average, they would be selling G and H as if that was considered slightly big rather than plus sized. for context DDD is consider the start of plus sized as that's what most plus size shops have as their lowest size. With that being said, to everyone reading this, please put pressure on brands and stores to make/sell more plus size stuff so we don't have to go to plus size shops that only sell basic, single colors and boring patterns. I want my clothes to actually reflect the self confidence I've worked on.

34DD IS THE AVERAGE???? Oh God. I got called flat by so many women

As a cis woman, growing up, I wanted bigger boobs because I was a late bloomer and my health at the time didn't allow for MASSIVE bunghongolos (I was starving myself to lose weight). As I grew up and ate better though, I ended up with a nice average C. They're nice sometimes, soft, squishy, fun to bounce and ponder with my hands like orb scryings, and if I put my hands under them it keeps my fingers warm in the winter, but I'd cut them off if given the chance. They're annoying and get in the way and pull on my collarbone and shoulders when I'm tired. My thighs do all those things and more anyway. Where's my South Park episode on having a HUGE ASS huh?

From personal experience my girlfriend is an A cup and very petite and she is one of the smartest people I’ve ever met. Had a 5.0 out of high school and knows a shit ton about money management.

Also why is everyone saying “First” we should appreciate the video. Also I was first. 😈

Context, I'm a trans woman, I can comfortably say that when it comes to getting implants, I will get them entirely for my own comfort over those of any potential partner. This is not a statement of 'I will' or 'I should', it's a statement of if my transition doesn't meet the goals of dealing with my dysphoria (or, at that point, dysmorphia) after enough time to settle, I'm more than willing to go further. It is not about jealousy, it's about comfort. For me, it's not necessarily about how I'm seen, it's about how I feel. If I feel like I am not Me, then I shall become Me, by any means possible.

I’m sorry but ‘dude discovers the hell that is bra sizing’ is the funny part of this video.

as a fat male ive been waiting for this episode

bro has been going crazy with the quality of the content

So, a few things; 1. Boob size definitely goes with a classic understanding of fertility that transcends most cultures around the world as large breasts equal higher fertility. This actually caused my mom a lot of trouble when she had me. As my mother was always larger breasted so when she had me she didn’t expect to have issues nursing me. My mother wasn’t really able to produce milk effectively so I was raised on formula. This affected her mentally as it fed her postpartum depression. She didn’t feel as close to me as everyone had hyped up motherhood to be. Her inability to nurse me made her feel like she was failing as a mother and she felt like our relationship was missing a lot of the mother/son connections people would talk about. Her own parents also criticized her for not nursing me a few times as they were under the old school impression that since she had larger boobs, she should be producing milk like a cow. 2. The classic middle school question that follows every dude through life “Boob guy or butt guy?”. As a teenager I would have answered boobs but as I got older I definitely determined it is all about proportions for physical attraction. If you look like Jessica Rabbit, there’s something wrong with that irl, it looks weird. If you’re smaller in frame and smaller chested it can be equally and sometimes more attractive than a busty woman. 3. I am a man, for me relationships are much more platonic than physical. I’ve been in a relationship with a woman who only got validation through the physical side of things. It sucked, were we having lots of sex? Yes, if I spent the whole day with her it was usually 7+ times that we would take part in some form of sexual activity. It was exhausting and she had insecurities about herself because when she looked up the other women I had dated, (Easy as I’ve only dated 4 four women and don’t do hookups), and it drove her insane because there was basically no commonality between any of them. It drove her up the wall that I didn’t have “a type”. I would frequently explain looks are pretty low on the list of things I care about, there are many other things that come first, but that couldn’t satisfy her insecurities and for the last bit of our relationship it was clear I had basically become a boy toy for her. So basically different strokes for different folks, and big boobs do not always equal fertility/nursing ability nor do they necessarily make a woman hot by default.

DD is the average size??? Because everytime I go bra shopping they NEVER have any left except for the nude granny bras in my size😢 (38C)

Thank you for supporting a cancer foundation, I recently lost my childhood dog to Osteosarcoma, aka, bone cancer. I know it doesn't really relate to breasts, but still, I thank you, and everyone who donates, cancer is no joke. And also, as a male, boob size does NOT matter. As a wise man once said, "Big or small, we love em all"

They make good pillow and that's all i need

Obligatory booba joke Also nice to see aqua teen hunger force in the first seconds

University of Chicago don't know squat. I may be a guy, but I got massive tigobiddies, and I'm dumb as rocks.

From a woman, THANK YOUUUU you took your time to study this topic and yes, you did it justice!!

34DD is not the average size, I thought that was a joke at first. But when I looked it up google does say that as an answer but sadly this is due to the rise of obesity. When I was growing up the average size was B. So keep that in account I guess, I wouldn't want young people to click on this video and think 34DD average because unless you are "heavier" it's really not the average.

I have always had large breasts and I mentioned it on a forum board I used to frequent. I got contacted by a younger guy (he was 19) in private who appeared to want to be friends or something… I never met him in person but he told me over a decade later that his reason for contacting me was because he had a lactation fetish and he wanted a big breasted woman to breastfeed him. The reason he told me that was because he wanted to let me know that he had found someone to do it for him and he was so elated that he had to share with someone and couldn’t think of anyone else to tell.

How Cartman plays with his dolls at the beginning is really just a glimpse at his character. To where when he is being innocent, the evil within shows a bit of itself still. It doesn't help that it shows that he finds doing disturbing things fun.

18:09 dawg imagine guys had to do this kinda math with our wangs.😂

Big Mommy Milkers being Judge in this Video

Honestly dont understand why breasts are appealing, I’m a guy and dont care about breast size. For me, It’s about personality and BIG BOOTY BIT-

Great video. I think the biggest difference is the experience of growing your boobs since girls can’t really do the growing in private. Your growing body is in full display of your peers (gym class). Big and small be damned if any of the teenagers around you boys or girls decide to make some kind of joke about your body. Also, the fact that adult men and women star to treat you different for example girls with big boobs are “more mature”. Also, I have encountered men that say stuff like “ only pdf-files like small ones” and real men like big boobs so I would only attract those kinds of men unless I got a boob job. Right now, I have a partner that loves me as I am but some of the comments these people made still pop into my mind from time to time.

Female on the smaller side here: I had an experience being told (in like 7th grade) I was too small in the chest, and they wanted them to "grow in". And even though that relationship ended shortly, I spent years waiting for growth, but I've only increased inside after gaining weight in my 20s. Even my current partner was eager years ago for me to get bigger, and it makes me wonder if this generation of boys understands the idea of "you get what you get." I'm not 100% secure with my body, but I've come to appreciate my boobs a lot more than I used to. Besides I have enough mass to carry around below the waist. I also wanted to note that weight gain and pregnancy can potentially cause a temporary or long term growth, and malnutrition and super tight bras can restrict growth. Overall you did a great job on this video speaking for the boobie committee. Keep up the big bouncy work!

i bestow upon this video the grand title of "video i ate my food to"

My mom had Breast Cancer a couple of years ago, and just today she finally stopped taking the chemo meds, so this video actually made me really happy

Genuinely fw this channel, bro has been going hard in the paint, fucking respect bro!

after watching this with my girlfriend she was really invested all the time, some points you made where off like the two bras but thats about it. Everything else she says is very well done and does make her feel better to not only hear it from me but also someone who backed it up with science and actual research.

You keep your fancy numbers, Im just going to feel it out. (I am chronically alone and will not be feeling anything out)

lmao im a guy and i measured 36B

Growing up I never really thought about my chest all that much, I had the idea that guys preferred them bigger from media but I never really thought about it…even in middle school when I first really started thinking about those kinds of things and my body I was upset that my chest was so small but I never caught myself envying other girls or anything like that, weirdly enough, when I got a boyfriend, that’s when I started being insanely insecure about my chest, and everything about myself. He never said anything or had done anything to make me feel like my body wasn’t enough, and yet then is the time I start absolutely hating my body, even the parts of myself that I was “gifted” in were still upsetting for me to look at because there was just something off about it. I think only now am I super insecure because now I feel like I have somebody I have to appease and look hot for or else he’s gonna ditch me for a girl with massive breasts. Since bigger = better had constantly been fed into my mind as a kid, I just kinda assumed every guy was like that, and even though I know it’s ridiculous and untrue, I just can’t shake the whole “it’s because it looks more maternal and fertile” saying, because that puts a scientific reason behind why I’m not physically attractive…so idk if I’ll ever be happy in my body again,and I know that even if I were to get surgery to change it I’d still feel like something’s wrong, I don’t even think every man in the world preferring a smaller chest would make me feel any better, I just kinda have this standard ingrained into my mind and that’s that, idk, hopefully that will change.

These videos are informative, unhinged, horny, full of memes and most importantly, not just episode summaries. Which, Nice. Glad to discover this channel

Ngl shape matter a little more than size

Men will always have a preference on boob size, but if they’re good guys then it’s not a deal breaker. I’ve had many friends who were girls and half of them were insecure about their breasts. I would tell them what I already stated and that they’re still growing so it’s a possibility they’ll get bigger. On the other hand, a few of them already had big breasts and were insecure with them as well. My ex and wife were those people as both of them already had D cups at the age of 14. This will always be an insecure issue as long as society says it is just like with dick size. It’s sad and stupid, but it is what it is. Gotta say I’m a straight guy who’s been knowing about the whole bra size thing since high school and that’s only because I had many friends who were girls like I said and I had sisters and more female cousins than males. So knowing about women stuff was normal to me 😂 What I find the most sad is when women get fake breasts. IMO, whoever gets them automatically tells me they were insecure and didn’t like what they had. The only exception is if it was for medical reasons where they had to get them done. I’m a man who loves big breasts, but I rather be with small ones than fake ones in my personal preference. That and they should absolutely accept and appreciate with what they have. I could go on and on about this topic just like with the dick size cus I find these topics so interesting and I just love talking about boobs lol.

Oh dude, have you not seen Kenny Dies? End of season 4 I think. One of the best episodes and its got a super important message on grieving and how people deal with loss. I definitely reccomned it

As a woman, I approach pure aesthetic plastic surgery with the mentality that it shouldn't be celebrated. It makes me somewhat sad because, you're right. A LOT of patients go in with body image issues. And the more it gets normalized on social media, the more girls are going to feel uncomfortable in their natural bodies. The more girls will go into plastic surgery without the full picture of the dangers that it comes with. Social media is terrible at providing a balanced perspective because it is primarily used for marketing. It also isn't cheap, so the more normalization of plastic surgery, the more desperate girls will be to get procedures done, and will consequentially go into debt or risk their safety on skeevy low cost procedures. It has also been proven to be addictive. Look at South Korea. It is the biggest plastic surgery industry on the planet. It is so normalized, mothers offer procedures to their daughters as graduation gifts. Bullying is brutal. People are denied jobs for looking less like the ideal. It's royally messed up. It's just dystopian. I don't want our country to become that. That being said, the people who do get these procedures should never be shamed and they deserve the same level of respect as before. A woman has the agency to do whatever she wants to her body. If she wants a nose job or implants, she is still entitled to respect. It just shouldn't be encouraged or normalized as much as it is, as the average American can't really afford those expensive, unnecessary procedures anyways.

Keep in mind I'm transmasc and nonbinary, but personally I think this video was very well done from the perspective you were coming from. (I love your videos and seeing you grow from relying on a single source like psychology today is awesome!); adding notes on the importance of confidence and self-esteem over size is great, it's a wonderful message and bringing in tips for those who struggle with insecurity is pretty neat too. I'd say in future if you're willing, having more interviewees for a wider perspective or more talking points could help, but just having someone with a contrast in opinions and respecting that is cool - especially with how passionate they were on the topic. :] having people who really care about the issues they are talking about helps so much with growing that understanding. Great video & the outfits you make for candle are so cute xd I can't wait to draw them

Growing up AFAB i had issues with my gender identity and body dysmorphia bc i didnt look like every other girl around me and when you've got a touch of the tism it's pretty bad. My mom and gma assured me i'd get those Classic Massive Knockers™ bc they had them. Cut to like 15yrs later and I still have those itty bitties but im also a masc-leaning enby and don't have to worry about mathing out a bra size or consider surgery bc I don't wear one and don't need it. Funny how shit works out like that. Thanks genetic inconsistency!

as a member of the itty bitty titty committee myself, you've done a really good job making this video and i really appreciate the effort you put into the research and the interview, keep up the good content

Can't wait for the video "The South Park Episode About Butt Size"

Also, I can't really get my head around that article saying that breast size correlates with intelligence. Just seems a little to far off for me. But I really enjoyed the video, great work and handling of this hard to discuss subject.

Man I was on shrooms and when the fan art started I thought I entered the realm

As a woman on the smaller rize, it's MAD hard to get bras. To this day I still struggle to get one, so I just gave up. Still not done watching the video, but so far, it's great!

Boob size can affect personality in someways but mostly in a "social" way I guess. For example , like in bebes case, a sudden rise of attention from the opposite gender ,other girls or social groups , starting to be percieved in a different way or being mocked, people expecting you to act diferent , have other interests, . This type of experiences can affect how some view things or act specially since this changes can start super early in some people as they mention in the video.

My chest started to come in at that age but no it's not normal. Yes it was weird. Here's a story; I had hole in my shirt and a teacher said "At least you are wearing that shirt under there or we would have to send you home " dress code thing. I said "that was my bra..." Teacher got mad and sent me to the principal's office. It is such a core memory I still vividly remember looking down at my yellow shirt so confused at the cute pink and white training bra. There was still clothes there. I was in fourth or fifth grade then. I didn't get sent home because the principal was a girl and checked the lost and found for a sweater. I only just now while typing this started wondering if that male teacher in hallway was doing something inappropriate. Luckily that wasn't my class teacher who was also male had been dealing with me all day and said nothing. Edit: DD chests are large and painful for the back and neck. I wonder if that average covered augmented breast sizes as well as natural.

my favorite part of this video was the youtube "most replayed" section of the video, and that its actually the most replayed. W subscrubers

As a woman, ive never once done math to figure out bra size, just kinda.. eyeball it, try stuff on ex.😭

I've always heard about the physical drawbacks like backpain, and while as a non-significant size-boob user I cannot relate to the experience, it sounds really inconvenient, so it's a shame that painful side-effect can be easily overlooked or brushed off when focusing on its aesthetic/attractiveness, which although subjective, I probably think a majority of people would fall in 'bigger the better' camp

Past the sexual things as someone with larger than average, yes it is/can be physically painful. I ONLY wear sports bras because normal ones just don’t hold, laying flat on my stomach is incredibly uncomfortable, running is almost impossible without me straining them or making it hard to breathe. And, I love this video! I usually put in long essays in the back while I work but your series has been so entertaining I pause what I’m doing to actually listen LOL

There are only two sizes, smaller then my hand and bigger then my hand.

Commenting here at 3:10 and, yeah it's that early. I underwent puberty at age eight, third grade, and I still remember it clear as day. Nobody in school told me anything, I was lucky my mom was also an "early bloomer" as she called it back then and let me know what to do. When they initially separated the girls and boys for the puberty talk in 5th grade (TWO YEARS LATER), I told the nurse how I was happy I wasn't the only one going through this, and that it started a while ago. She looked me dead in the eyes, disgusted, and said "We don't usually talk about that out loud." I was ten. She was a *nurse.* It sucked, man. Great video as always, just wanted to throw that in! - A former AP/Honors student with DDs from Chicago Edit: I also remember in 6th grade during the presentation about sex, no less than FIVE PEOPLE passed out and had to be taken out by the nurse. We didn't even get past conception. I am not kidding.

53:05 that graph with that singular spot being the most watched point in the video is so accurate and i expect that to be how it actually looks when it appears lol

As a man, breasts is certainly attractive, but too large is a bit to uncanny for me (Don't get me started with women who uses breasts implants to make their breasts unnaturally large, at that point it just makes me puke) Also I live in Asia where women typically are small so seeing a petite lady carrying a pair of water melons is both humorous and feel strange to look at.

It is that young these days. Used to be older but many of the plastics we use mimic estrogen when it's processed by the human body, as well as better nutrition (compared to 1800's humans, we might be fat, but we got no calcium deficiencies, no scurvy, no ricketts, and no iodine deficiencies). Leading to age of menarche (first mensuration) decreasing so drastically. Menarche even as recently as a hundred years ago was more like 14-15. Breast size and intelligence can make sense to an extent, human growth hormone helps everything grow. However, at that point in time, the inability of the study to account for childhood growth matters. Proper nutrition and diet at the right times in life matters quite a bit. Developing an eating disorder, or suffering from food insecurity in those early and mid teen years can really affect breast size, and with increasing childhood hunger, and inability to tackle mental health issues in the U.S since the '80's, well that provides another reasonable explanation, in combination with genetics. You did grab a good point there. The actress whose photo you grabbed literally has average breasts. However, she's 5'2. That is a tiny damn woman. That industry is largely about photography tricks. Tallerish guys with small hands, tiny women, and old fishermen tricks. Somewhere there was a study that found that the most favored breast size amounted to what they termed a 'handful'. Unfortunately I can't seem to find it, so who the hell knows.

Working a super long shift at work rn and won’t be leaving till probably 7 so I’m so glad this came out today 😂😂 thanks 🙏🏻 I’ll add more of my thoughts on the vid after I’m done with it 👍

“ I would have two nickels “

Tbh calling this an "exclusively women issue" is excluding trans men and nonbinary people with boobs, and while I'm pretty sure it was unintentional, we should all remember that not JUST women have boobs. (Some cis men even have female-presenting breasts, though that's unrelated to the issue.) Another thing i'd like to say, not at you really LC, but people attracted to boobs in general, stigmatizing boobs that visibly have implants and making assumptions about a person based on it is gross for so many reasons: it's transphobic to transfems/trans women, it stigmatizes cancer and other disease survivors who had their chest reconstructed after a mastectomy, it also harms detrans women who previously underwent top surgery and had their chest reconstructed, and i'm sure there's many other cases i havent listed, not to mention it shames people for doing what they want with their body, and discouraging bodily autonomy through social ostracization, even if it's over a specific issue, harms the overall movement of fighting for liberation of bodily autonomy. You don't know someone's story, and to assume things based on their appearance is to not only degrade them, but also bring yourself to such a low level. "Don't judge a book by it's cover" is a lesson we are taught as CHILDREN, and yet it's the one principle society lacks the most. Being transmasc/neutral and an aspiring drag queen makes relating to this topic very complicated. The association with breasts size and femininity has always been the main driving force in chest dysphoria. Yes, there's a feeling of this body not being right, but it would be way less intense if a man with big tits could just be seen as a man and it was normal, and the body shaming and beauty standards women are subjected to definitely fucked with my relationship to my femininity. Even outside of desperately wanting to be a drag queen (too broke for the stuff) dressing femininely is fun and really my style, but wearing most feminine outfits means my chest will be very visible (already is a bit visible w all the layers and makeshift double sports bra binder), and even if testosterone gave me a full beard, people would gender me as female because of the tits, so my self expression is so limited. The only reason i'm alive after the shitty year(s worth of time) recently is because i recently had to move to a state where medicaid will cover top surgery, so i'll be free soon. Straight men being into my chest was always uncomfortable, and that feeling grew into disgust so strong it makes me sick. Straight men see me as a woman, which they see as a sex object. And while I love to be sexualized (consensually) to what i'd imagine is a bigger extent than the average trans person or woman, being sexualized as a woman is something that repulses me, outside of the specific context of drag, which has always been something I fantasize about doing as an empowered performance to say "I am a masculine aligned individual that preforms femininity as a character, someone who is not me" as well as fitting in with the other queer guys. Not so say no women do drag, many trans women do, but from a transmasc perspective, drag is a fun and affirming way to sort of poke fun at the fact i've been forced to preform as a woman for most of my life as of writing this, but I digress. Having a larger (though not super big, luckily) chest growing up being treated as a positive by others made me resent them more and more, before my trans awakening I was extremely defensive and quick to get aggressive over the topic, upset at the very mention, and unable to understand why or cope at all, and the way our culture is so obsessed with boobs was torture because I just couldn't escape the focus on a body part that caused so much distress. I've rambled a lot, my AuADHD brain had a lot to dump, but I havent even gotten to the non-trans related part of why having this chest is so agonizing. They making breathing harder, I notice a significant different in my ability to breathe when keeping the weight off my chest, it effects my ability to run or do most exercising, the heat rashes (especially growing up in texas) can get extremely painful, the back pain that would most likely be there already from my chronic joint pain is made worse, and the pores on them trigger my dermatillomania and cause me to pick at them, sometimes for so long it's physically painful, not from picking but from staying in the same position so long, and I cannot quit until the compulsion is satisfied. Even without gender dysphoria my chest is a source of horrible dysmorphia, if the physical issues even *allow* it to qualify for dysmorphia, considering hardly anyone would want to live with these physical issues. I can imagine the horrible physical things many women must go through because of the pressure to have/keep large boobs is very similar to my issues PLUS some. I'd imagine many would not want large breasts if society didn't idolize them so much, at best theyre inconvenient, at worst they cause physical and/or psychological pain so bad it makes some people suicidal. More power to those who enjoy having big titties, but I could never understand, no matter how bad I wanted to, the positives are just so drowned out by the negatives to me. [Side note, the use of "psychotic" in this video was a very normalized form of ableism, that not only conflates psychosis with psychopathy (what people usually mean, also problematic) but also further demonizes and stigmatizes people with psychosis, using that word as an insult is no better than calling someone "retarded" as an insult.] Sorry for the fucking novel that's half off-topic, ADHD brain gets going and wont stop sometimes. not gonna edit it or remove anything, just gonna leave my raw(-ish) thoughts I had after watching this. Also my pointing out issues I noticed in the video are in no way attacks, love your content LC, if you're even reading this mess of words.

I remember having my chest come in when I was 10. I didn't really care and just thought they were weird, but my mom stressed out that I can't wear shirts as is anymore or some cute clothing wouldn't work for me since the material got stretched in a awkward way. I was more annoyed that my mother fussed about than I was, and maybe it made me feel subconsciously insecure since my brain assumed my chest was a bad thing. It didn't help that there were some adults in my life who did sexualize me. For the longest time, I wish I could've gotten surgery or cut them off so I won't be catcalled or looked at differently; like that since I had big boobs, people didn't actually treat me as a person. My thought process was irrational, but it was a fear I have. Maybe that's why I dreamed of being a boy so much (to not be sexualized). Now? I kinda don't care...I don't like being sexualized unless it's with people I trust. But I kinda live with my body and chest. I don't hate it anymore, but I still don't have the love I should have. Everything is a process I guess. Wonderful video as always. Booba is awesome :0

12:03 I just wanted to say real quik, that the tendency for guys is to value boobs very highly in highschool. In comparison to adulthood, this is mostly due to guys not really trying to have long lasting serious relationships in highschool, while in a mans later years personality plays a monumental part in partner selection, due to a general tendency for "older" men to seak out serious relationships / marriage. Im no expert, take this with a grain of salt, this is based on my observation and doesnt apply to everyone. Btw I love your videos man, they are great!

Appreciate the section with a lot of different boob types as I have uneven boobs and that's bugged me before 🙏I do think you could've added even more ✨nuance ✨to the video by bringing in more queer topics though since as a bi woman it'd be neat to hear the studies on what other women find to be attractive in other women's tits, maybe even a trans lens and breast gain/removal? 🤔Though that could be ranging into unrelated topics 🤷But trans men for example having to deal with their own titty issues could be insightful as tits aren't just a women's issue

Tbh men also face unrealistic beauty standards. I think what causes women to be more self-conscious about their appearance is the fact that they are mostly passive in the courting process, they're the ones who have to be approached, and therefore have to attract someone, be more attractive. While for men the focus is more on confidence. Of course there's also pressure to be attractive, but then everyone knows that one ugly dude that gets all the chics because he's funny and confident

Size? I dont care i just want a girlfriend XD

this video taught me more about boobs than school or even my own family ever have, and I am literally afab. either sex-edu is horrible or this video went above and beyond. Probably both.

This topic isn't really talked about more often compared to D size, My girlfriend is insecure about her breasts but I don't care about that, I love her for who she is ❤❤❤.

2:20 I know that you've gotten this comment, but in the case you didn't: that's a "The silence of the lambs" reference.

I like the way you review the stereotypes also veryy good essays lately keep up with it (also respect for spreading awarenessof breast cancer my mother died 2 years ago of it and the research is pretty expensive )

i love excersizing to informational videos… it’s literally heaven

5:00 I can't seem to find the original study from the university of chicago, nor the alleged author Yvonne Rossdale in general. So that study is probably unfounded and fake^^

Something not mentioned much is boobs can change over time like get bigger causes like pregnancy. Also a new breast implant has been made which will utilize fat cells with a 3D printed implant eventually replacing it with cells.

Your size will also change based on the style of the cup and cut, and the shape of your breasts. You may have to go up a cup size for a demi and down for a front close or deep cut for example. I'm a 36/38J with an obsession with both historic and contemporary undergarment construction, this is like, my whole thing. A lot of people who are insecure about their breasts (too big or too small, or the shape) just really need some great foundation garments and they feel way, way better! I fitted one of my aunts for a bra and her whole perception of her body changed for the better and she'd been incredibly insecure about having a small chest since forever

The one thing I have to disagree is to lose interest in women that have breast implants for seeming insecure and for them to look fake. Everybody has insecurities, but should not be shunned for it. We all take steps into relieving ourselves from our insecurities; if women get implants because it causes them insecurity, that is totally fine. Sometimes it is not even insecurity, sometimes it’s just the harassment people get from a perceived feature. If you’re being made fun constantly for a feature of yours (which very often starts home), you may be very aware that you’re not the problem, but what are you supposed to do if, despite your self-awareness, you’re still pestered every day with random comments and jokes. Maybe getting a cosmetic procedure is the only exit. I felt the video about penis size was excellent and very positive all around for men. I sadly didn’t get the same feeling from this one

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hate to break it about the bra sizing charts - those don't matter. American clothing sizes for women is an absolute joke and no brand is actually going to follow that chart unless they actually custom make the bras for you. It's ALL trial and error!!!!! HOORAAYYYYYYYY D;< (Edit: just wanted to add that on RU-vid some female content creators have made videos about getting their bra sizes done in different stores (like Victoria's Secret and other stores that sell underwear to women ) and they all end up with different measurements between stores!)

the pirates of the caribbean trilogy line had me screaming those are the BEST movies on a more serious note, this was a banger of a video! i love the way you explored the episode and used it as the foundation for research and discussion. the research was especially appreciated, i feel like lots of video essays spit facts into the wind without pointing to actual studies.

as a guy with a heavy dong, I might say, yes it's heavy yes it's shit to carry it's like having a bag of groceries down there. Kinda good cuz my legs are like the ones of a greek god. edit cuz i forgot to write: your vids are cool, i only know 1 other youtuber who talks about sexual shits like this so calmly. If I could give a rating to people, you'd get a 10/10. Might I say, you're a cool person.

16:00 Instructions unclear! Tape measurer lodged in chest! Blood pooling into vital areas! Ambulance workers laughing at me!

You may throw at me as many stones and hate comments as you want but I'll say that I don't support any unnecessary plastic surgeries. I won't judge a person for having one, though. The reason why I don't support it, is that ANY surgery is a risk to your health. Anything could go wrong in process or after it, so even if surgery went well, there is a huge list of possible complications that may appear after a while. I don't think that those risks is a fair price for having big nice tiddies or cute little nose... If you don't have to have a surgery, then I'd recommend just working on improving your self-esteem. Cause you'll never fix EVERYTHING in your body but you would want to do that unless you just accept yourself as you are.

As a dude as well as a dude unknowing of the womanly perspective in any way, I find this a great source of information for me to do nothing with at all! (I hate my job.) Godspeed to everyone who isn't working the grill, may this dudes research provide you more insight on taking the next step to learn about your partner, or just about the other sexes experiences. Knowing each others struggles is important for both sides, and I'm glad your content provides a bridge to the seemingly ever expanding gap between the sexes. This video along with your others on sex ed stuff have really helped me gain some insight, a little self confidence, and even helped me feel a good bit less ashamed of myself! And for that, I thank you Lavender Coffee. Keep up the good cookin!

I really am enjoying these videos. It's started to unveil that both men and women worth being around don't really care as much as the other gender thinks. Thanks! :3

Y'all the pair of tit birds on the laptop during the research bits- comedic genius I adore this

This was honestly a pretty good video on the topic. While I do have some idea on some of the issues large breast’s bring, ie health risks and social stigmas, there were some things that I didn’t know. I did even agree with a lot of what has been said here as well, I am a person who prefers large breasts to smaller ones, but I do agree that there really shouldn’t be this kind of pressure especially if it leads to genuine psychological disorders. As much as I like large breasts I would take smaller ones over large fake ones as well. Overall I do think that at the end of the day it’s really up to the women who have them to decide what happens, if they want to reduce them for social or health reasons that’s fine, if they want to keep them for better and worse, that’s fine as well, if they do want to augment them I do think that they have to understand every possible risk and change that it would bring to their lives before making a decision.

I’m not sure I really believe the bigger breasts = higher intelligence? I tried looking it up but I only found one study on it, and I couldn’t find the actual study to look at, even in the sources described in the total sum of two articles I found on it. If you could provide the study that would be brilliant.

Awesome video! I think the reason there is a correlation between larger breasts and body dismorphia is that women who have higher body fat percentages tend to gain weight in their breasts, and will have larger breasts on average by default.

As a transman, boobs is both the hardest hurdle about puberty and the easiest to explain when comes to what I look for in a partner (as in I don't care about size at all) and this video really did unlock old memories. One thing I can remember is that what South Park kinda poke fun of in not only in this episode but in every time the sixth-graders appear is how they'll do anything for just to be near breast. Really great vid.

"I think you need at least 6 inches" "this dollar is 7" honey im not being mean but if you cant mentally imagine a size. dont set it as your baseline. Thats like trying to eyeball the tempo of a song with no idicators

The segment where you make a girl measure things kind of disproved your theory that girls think things are bigger than they are lol. She guessed almost every item was smaller than they were

27:45 is this supposed to be a challenge to what they likely shouldn't be into? I starting get why minority sexualities are asking if the straights are ok.