There's a tiktoker who allegedly unalived his baby mama. Sorry I forgot his name but the guy is albino, he was taken in for questioning not sure how that story is going
A cautionary tale about spoiling a child. It’s so sad that she did everything to set him up for success and comfort in life. Yet, she forgot that spoiling a child could be just as damaging as neglecting a child. A balanced approach is critical. He lived in luxury, went to a private school, got a Merc AND an apartment when he went to college. He didn’t have to worry about food or how he was going to pay his tuition or struggle with public transport, etc. There’s an old proverb that says if you want to destroy a person give them everything that their heart desires. Struggle builds character and over-indulgence breeds boredom.
Not really, there's no formula in parenting. If your can afford to give your child a comfortable life u can, as long you see your child is driven. Whatever happened it looks like he was at some point an ambitious boy. I've seen many kids that come from comfortable life succeed, even though they were given everything. Because they would rather work hard than experience poverty.
@@ayandasam2269"Not really" but he killed his mother....the one that gave him so much...too much infact. He was handed everything on a silver platter. He never got to struggle and hence never really learned the value of anything. He was merely an overly spoiled man that has no love for anyone. Empty inside. Ofcourse OP is correct. Over indulgence did breed boredom...that led to drug use. Also...the mother was giving him so much money that he had alot to spare in purchasing drugs. This is a man..that was given everything...which ended up ruining his life because he has no opportunity to build a character of any kind. Just an ampty soul with an expensive apartment...Mercedes...and a bank account fat with dollars. He is very disturbed.
@@ndinashay4662 This mentality is puzzling to me. There are so many kids who were given everything and who never really worked for their possessions but today they are thriving and being great additions to society. This is a person-to-person issue. Wealthy families have been raising wealthy and driven kids for years without experiencing this. There are poor kids who have nothing but still end up killing their parents or family. This situation can happen to anyone when drugs are involved. This poor woman's love being used as a reason for her being killed is really troubling.
@@ndinashay4662 I mean my dear it doesn't mean when you provide your child with everything they need they will always end up like the boy who killed his mom.... That's where my point is at, the boy was cruel but it has nothing to do with what he was given... Cause that will mean those who had nothing and still kill it's because they had nothing.
@@nolubynature9513 even if it’s my son that does it to me (god forbid) I want him under the jail, cos if he can do it to his own mother imagine what he can do to a total stranger??
I have never heard of any parents teaching their children drugs. No one deserves to die like this, it was terrible and justice will be served, but if you know that your son has gone crazy due to drugs then you know he is not in his right state of mind and the things he does are due to the illness. @@unmaskwithbasi8897
That's not true, my brother in-law has committed 2 murders,k*lling his girlfriend and his aunt and a lot of violence act, the court and social workers they sent him to medical checkup and it was found out that he has bipolar, he committed all those crime because of mental illness. He never went to prison, he's taking medication and receiving government grant. It's not about background it's about government workers who knows they're jobs.
@@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok Look into the reasons why you need to have a child first my love. If it is to fill a void, or for that child to take care of you when they are older those are selfish reasons. There is no guarantee that the child will turn out the way you want because children aren’t extensions of ourselves but completely separate individuals. Plus as a woman the responsibility falls mainly on you as most men aren’t really parents in the literal sense. Have a child because YOU want to but don’t have a child for a man. Lastly, be emotionally, financially, mentally ready, it’s really a huge task to take care of another human being for the rest of your life ❤️
The editing alone is too good, the visuals that you provide are impeccable and bring life to the story. And thanks for not using that dreadful horror crime story music on the videos. It allows the story to speak for itself without invoking fear in the listeners. Great work!
Listening to this the mother did everything she could as a mother and more than she could in the name of love. She died loving. May her soul rest in eternal peace.She fought a good fight.
She truly did. I'm not a parent yet but I've learnt that being one is not easy. Mark had a wonderful life that any child could ever ask for....but he still managed to get himself hooked on drugs - why?
May God comfort the family. This sad story is yet another in the list of endless Proofs that love doesn't set people free, the TRUTH set's free - (1) words of TRUTH and (2) the person of TRUTH. "And You would know the TRUTH and the TRUTH would set you free".
People need to know you cannot brag about children, if God blessed you with a good child be greatful privately. Life is too long, I see people bragging about children I shake my head. Be humble stay humble seek for help from outsiders, we cannot do this alone. Seek help even to uneducated people they have best advises more than psychologists.
Very true cc. We pt our child under evil eyes for real by keeping up this posting life. People have honey on the lips but venom in the hearts. We must really be thankful in prayer, privately.
But we can’t leave in fear because of people. We are different and how we handle our situations is different. I don’t find anything wrong when someone post her success or her children’s. If the village wants to get you they come for you even if you don’t post any achievements. My 2 pence😊
I still remember this story like yesterday 😢..That guy had everything in a silver platter 😬😬.It’s similar to the Van Brenda story 😢😢😢😢Luckily his father and stepmother got out alive😮
@@jumpscare1530 With pics of him and his mom, yoh kuningi! I feel like he knew what he was doing cause he only targeted the parents. His mom gave birth to her killer😩😩
As a single parent. I understand her 100%. I get efforts to give him the best that she could. I did the same for my daughter. Others may not agree. I also had an elder brother Victor that developed schizophrenia due to drug use ( cannabis ) somehow it led him to Christianity in the late 1970s when he stopped using cannabis. He had a few crazy stories about being targeted by security personnel and family that wanted to end his life but they were not common. It was just once in a few months or even years. We siblings didn't attach much to it because the comments were in passing, meaning there was never a deep discussion about it My parents however knew and took him to a psychiatrist in the late 1970's. They hid it from us until they died. We siblings never knew that Victor had schizophrenia until after he died in 2003 from diabetes. We always thought that his faith bordered on being a Christian fanatic. We only knew about it from the medical report shared when he died. I remember reading the report with shock where it stated that Victor was a known schizophrenic because he was under treatment for many years. That is when I connected the dots and understood what had happened in Victors life. My father was very loving to us but was somehow verbally cruel to my brother. He sometimes called him Jim Jones despite also being a Christian. After seeing many RU-vid videos about these issues I better understand mental health problems and the social responses. I understand that my father knew that Victor had Schizophrenia cause but could not handle it. I doubt that he linked it to Cannabis use given the era in which it was happening. That is why he was not kind despite being a lovely and loving father. I am so sad about what happened to Hope Zinde and Mark father. They did nothing wrong. They just wanted to give their gifted child the best as so many of us are trying to do. I fully understand how this tragedy could have happened. My sincere condolences to all affected.
Nxese for your loss. But thank you for sharing your experience because it gives essential and critical insights about the effects of drug abuse and how real mental health issues are in our society no matter how ugly it is and was in your life. That’s heavy. You- have my respect. I hope you heal ❤️
I have a mentally ill loved one, and it is hard for everyone in the situation. Cannabis use in itself doesn’t cause schizophrenia. If you mix it with other substances it can affect you mentally however
They were dumb for helping him after he killed his own mother. They loved him so much they were blinded!! Sometimes you have to let your children go even when it hurts. He was a drug addiction with mental issues. It’s so sad. His mother was so successful and deserved more. She was a March Pisces like me so I low her heart was so big!!!
I grew up fairly comfortable ne...it isnt...one thing my cousins and I were taught is to remain humble and grateful for all the opportunities we were given.
The biggest mistake was buying him a car before 21 and an apartment. For those of us that lived at tertiary res, we know how important it is to socialise and create lasting memories with your peers. Having nothing or something at res, allows you to share and create bond with others, mostly importantly realise how privileged you are. The mother did what she thought was right, but forgot one important life lesson in a man’s development, struggles and humility. The lack of vision from the mother allowed all this to happen
Nah but I know you mean well. He would have probably killed her even though he lived at varsity res. Her mom did what all rich parents did ,buying them cars and apartments to make their lives easy and they never killed their parents. It doesn't mean they would lack adversity and remember he went to a private college with kids like him I assume so that makes him relatable in that class ( the upper class). I'm sure he had plenty memories at his varsity and lasting memories with other fellow students in his class or lower class if there were any. Having nothing on other side can make you have motives to do bad things because of peer pressure and envying the life of those who are privileged. Yeah."The Mother did what she thought was right" but we should also not forget the father ,was he a present and active father to help the mother ?🤔 Did he try to father him?🤔 Why was she a single parent?🤔( you can't answer that because clearly she was a single parent like it was said in the video). I bet if he was there the tragedy would have not happened, right? because his vision would have made him a better man. Lastly ,struggles can be detrimental to a development of a man.There is absolutely no reason to suffer in order have humility and being a good man. Also being a parent is hard, it has no manual and you can give more or less to teach your child reality of life to make them better people and they can still choose whatever way they want which doesn't align with what you tried to instill in them.
@@King_T5 woooooow, Woooooowoow, this is so Profound @SpingTeee,I agree with U totally, Strugles doesn't guarantee character, It's just a pity it happened the way it happened. And Posting Ur Child or anyone for that matter doest mean that U r bragging, Ppl r just bitter maaan. Tragedy can happen to u wheather u r posting or private. Let's stop the jeaoulsly maaan HaiBo 😱
It is Always a Tragedy BEYOND words 💔 when someone is deleted by someone they know but when the culprit is the ONLY son ,of the victim, it is ABSOLUTELY DEVASTATING. Why the family of a murderer chose to include and address a man who deleted HIS OWN mother as a " loving son" just made me lose it COMPLETELY! As parents,we just have to know that, covering the weaknesses/ Faults of our kids WONT make that kid a better person. May her soul rest in PERFECT PEACE(The irony of this loving mother suffering such a fate at the hands of the person she dearly loved, just makes me cry at how cruel fate can be).....
I'm triggered everytime I hear or remember this story I'm also the victim of abuse from my son and he even lied to neighbour about our family so that people can feel pity for him and offer him money which he used to buy drug , he used to beat up his younger brother for telling on him and when I called the police I was verbally abused again by the police blaming me .they refused to open a case and said what kind ofa mother calls police on his son.
Ukutotosa ingane too much has never turned out good for anyone. Even after killing his own mother the family still praised him! What exactly did they think was going to happen? Great video!
Druglords target rich kids because they know that they have the means to purchase drugs. Sometimes when you provide a soft life for your children look out for their behaviour changes.
This terrible painful story. I wish his parents took him to a better University then enrolling him at Varsity College, Especially the Pretoria branch. The environment in Pretoria is very ugly for the youth. May her soul rest in Peace.
We as parents we are in danger because of the love we have to our addicted kids.this is a sad story. My son is a schizophrenia from 2020 to date I'm struggling at the age of 65 ive tried everything and now he hates the family and always blame shifting
This is a tragic story, hard to believe...a committed mother and parent, gave so much yet the light she carried for his son was grossly overshadowed by the darkness of evil: the dark world of drugs, he got hooked and became a monster that could not recognize the loving mother, father, stepmother, granny...and everyone else who was positive about him. I wonder how the drug peddlers live with their consciences with these tragic stories ...as a result of their *business*
Judging by the symptoms he was experiencing, it sounds like he was suffering from schizophrenia and bipolar which were exasperated by drug use. I say this because my brother has the same condition. So I understand why the family was trying to help him. Fortunately, my brother is not violent . The person truly isn't themselves
@allhaildrewzavic2838 how's your brother doing now?😢....I have a sibling of mine who was also diagnosed with schizophrenia and he's also not violent or anything like that but he keeps on hearing voices and the medication he was given is not helping him with anything...it's been 5 years now..he can't even do anything with his life
Hayi uyayibeka indaba girl and thank you for sharing this has taught me to be careful towards my drug addicted friend I was giving too much affection and letting in my house .🙏🏾
No matter how well things look from the outside, there’s always more to what meets the eye. From a professional perspective, I have worked with a lot of ppl “who had it all” but were very lonely! Mental illness is a serious pandemic.
Please if you can do the murder of Constable Francis Rasuge! Thanks so much for sharing our local cases, these are people that left too soon, and should never be forgotten! ❤
The monster that killed Rasuge used to persue me, he'd drive around our house in Unit D Temba looking for me and every time he showed up I'd walk faster and ignore him.... Few weeks later, I saw him on TV that he brutally killed that beautiful Rasuge woman. It was so sad, the thought of everything freaked me out
@@vladz6578it remains one of the most horrible murders of just another beautiful soul... I am so thankful that you are still here with us! May God keep us all safe ❤️
@theplug_truecrime most welcome.. I'm not a fan of crime stories but you tell it so well I'm less freaked out ...yoh .what a cruel world we live in 💔 😢 Keep up the good work
I'm watching all your Videos Sisi and as much as these are very sad and unfortunate story. You're so good at this . Not only I listen to hear what has happened but these stories at the sametime open ones eyes
It's drugs!! That crystal method is straight from the devil!! People who use that drug, change forever. What a pandemic. Heart breaking to watch and deal 💔 😢
How though ???? with all opportunities and being the only son with privileges a mother has in store for him 😢 a mother who gave up re marrying again to another man just to chose to love her only son....! I guess he was bewitched .. an evil spirits e teres this intelligent son....! 🎉this is sad 😔
I've learned over time to look at family situations as a stranger looking in. It helps me to place a safe distance between myself and toxicity. Sad indeed!
Seeing your channel for the first time today. Great story telling, great visuals. You got a new subscriber 🎉. Well done on your excellent work. Sad story indeed.
My brother is bipolar, schizophrenic and suffers from depression. He is a heavy alcoholic and refuses to take any of his meds. He had been to rehab and mental hospital on numerous occasions. He gets very violent, when drunk. I have warned my mother numerous times, she refuses to have him permanently committed. I no longer get involved. I'm just waiting to hear that he killed her or my sister.
Oh no❤️❤️❤️😭, please consider showing her the video, so at least she is more aware of possible dangers. I’m so sorry and wish you and your family all the best❤️🙏🏽
I met Hope 2 times in hartbeespoort where I was working as a cashier. I remember she appeared to a very warm, respectful and a no nonsense taker kind of woman. I didn't even know who she was professionally 😅 and it was soo sad to find out who she was after the news of her death in pecanwood😢. May she rest well
Sad story indeed, teach your children to be accountable for their actions from a young age secondly teach them the value of money irrespective of how rich you are
It's only in 2017 that China reviewed their "one man ,one wife,one child" policy after very many years and nothing like that "disease" of only child's happened to an entire race.
First time to see and watch your channel, I’ve subscribed and won’t miss any story. A very sad story that I’m relating to, hope my situation won’t end like this one. Drugs are a problem, worse Cristal meth😭😭😭😭 Continue Resting In Peace Hope
You've been quite busy lately. You keep them coming sthandwa, thanks for this great work, you doing a great job bcoz even though these terrible stories are covered by media, you bring us the background and details.
