She finally doesn't attach happiness on another people.. She finally knows and realize that pursuing happiness by pursuing people isn't worth it because the happiness that she has been searching is always within herself. That's why when she met people, she is just happy but she won't be attached to them or depend on them to make her happy. Also she finally free to do things that she wants and wherever she goes she is happy because happiness is inside of her
I love watching this drama and sometimes it brings back memories of my youth and for me I chose to be with my love in a foreign land which I wish she did and spend long life with happiness.FL is so beautiful n this drama has alot of lessons in life esp from her relatives,do watch and enjoy 😉 ❤🎭💖🤩
i feel like the owrst part of her life was when she was married....her first relationship was a struggle, but it was still a niice period in her life, but when she was married and pregnant, her life was hell due to her husband...i am surpised she managed to waste all those years with him, i'm sure if she didn't had a baby she would have left soo much sooner....i wish her last relationship was given a bit more time, even if he is much younger than her. they had great chemistry and were developing nicely, and he suddently had to leave, which is fine, he said he will come back - but it kinda bothered me how cold she was on their goodbyes. yeah, you shouldn't probably make promises, alot can happen in a year - but she could have said ''ok, if you say you return and still think of me by then, then let's be togheter'' she cut him off mid sentence like she wasn't giving him a chance...i would love to see if they reunited or if life sent them in different directions, but is the only part that doesn't sit well with me. otherwise, i loved the ending alot. i love how she said life begins as 40, for us women there's a faster expiration date. made me feel enocuraged now that i am 35 and i feel life was rather ending...i loved her free spirit and is inspiring how she never stops learning. i feel like the 3rd guy, her soul mate, tho they had little time, really opened her mind and spirit to enjoy life. i wish i had such attitude as well
Free spirit? Say what you will but she's for dee streets. She will keep on learning ,searching till she dies lonely and where did she go wrong, if all the girls today have this kind of attitude imagine the world with no mother's day cuz there won't be none, you say she's strong, I'd say she's weak, cus she keeps on running like she did with her bike on the road to nowhere she will breathe her last breath with no one beside her , no one who really understand her, no one who will really miss her, she thought she's lived the best life, a loved one to all is a love one to none, sacrifice is needed to find meaning and worth which she lacks. Bet she's got the best pronoun too. remember what is want is not what you need.
@motivateshion6757 you seem to attach great importance to women being mothers and / or having companions. are friendships not relationships? she has a daughter who truly loves her and respects her - that's someone who will probably be by her side in old age and on her deathbed, no? i personally dont wish to have children and i dont want to be bogged down by a relationship that needs me to make sacrifices in order for it to survive. maybe compromise, but not sacrifice. women lose way more than men when in relationships and even more when they sour. to say a woman who wants freedom, to be able to do as she wishes, is for the streets is a little immature. i saw a comment the other day someone made about chappel rose (a rising artist) about how her music is good but she does too much talking in interviews. i watched those interviews and all i saw was that she had a personality. can women only have value if they make babies or have a partner? can a woman not be valuable simply for existing? that sounds like what you're implying.
@@motivateshion6757 what have You the idea She îs lonley at all? Lol, You have to watch this series again cuz You missed the point. She has her daughter, which She raised, She has her parents, her brother and her friends. She has no problem finding a Man If She wants to, but by the end her happiness doesn't Rely on a partner anymore. Îs open ended, She could have returned with the younger guy after a year, or find someone else or no one entirely. The point îs regardless of outcome She will be ok because She found that inner peace Ana freedom. What would You have preffered for her, to remain miserable with her controling ex husband? They are still in eachoter's lifes, but as co-parents. Every Time a relationship ended in her life was for a good reason, and each Time She did tried to solve IT a couple of Times before having to end. Some relationships You outgriw because You mature and see more clearly. And you're not in same path with the others anymore. But She îs happy, She îs fulfilled career wise, She îs surrounded by people She loves and She keeps learning, which îs what we should all keep doing to the day we die. I love how She teaches her daughter as well thru power of exemple and without screaming. They have a beautiful relationship and i love that She strivesc to become a better person each day and doesn't depend on a certain partner. Because no matter how amazing our partner îs, we still have to learn for ourselves and put effort. Her friend Și who îs married to her brother, She îs also an indipendența woman, and IT doesn't mean She ia not a good mother of wife. Things worked well for their family, ut îs not always working well in all families no matter how much You try. But the point îs, no She never runed away form relationships, If anything in some She stayed too long when IT obviously wasn't working. But She Grew up and learn from each of them, and that's what we should also do...your partner îs either a blessing or a lesson to be learned
@@hellodarknesss.myoldfriendmaybe her child will care for her when she's old yes, but there won't be a connection between a mother who cares,nurtures and be there for her/him, she won't make that sacrifice cus she's a rolling stone, she doesn't belong anywhere, she/he won't have a memory with her, she/won't miss her like she/he would if she stays with her.(Seems she raised her,ma bad) Maybe you think again, life's not about chasing butterflies and feeling good,it's too selfish,it's about caring, being there for your loved ones, a selfless relationship is what you need but you won't find it cus youre all about yourself for now,hope you find someone who will show you de wae.
@@marishkaspirithope she finds God, without god there's no inner peace, it's only an illusion till she isn't or she give up on life and acts happy maybe?
I've only watched 15 episodes to date. It is pretty relatable this adaptation of the original novel. 2001 is an exciting time for sure for the Chinese & Rose's life is kind of central to that time period. I'm glad the dialogue is authentic & all the love scenes are real as it should be. She wasn't afraid to give herself fully to someone she was totally attracted to. Looking forward to the rest of the drama :)
It really shows you something Her first boyfriend shone, but he was a too And when he comes back, it was done Her husband is a sexist pig Who is so greedy from money and respect but has none from others Which is why he will so die alone! Her third boyfriend stable her emotions even with the fact that he would not be with forever He obviously was good lucky for her, and she got her spark back It was too bad he was not forever Honestly, her last guy passed by He was like a cheerleader If he come back after doing what he doing maybe they are happy forever But she is so happy on her own she does need a man but to have a good one is a gift Her ex-husband is so uncomfortable In think her first boyfriend would be the worst that not true
But what will she do in Paris? if she has such a wonderful job in Beijing? and she also has a family, she is very attached to them. And Eric... He's like a free and independent bird)
@@Maggie-tq1duNo, the one she lived the most was Pu Jiaming, and she will always do. He died at the moment that Rosie loved him the most, therefore he will always be a perfect figure on Rosie’s mind!
@@mariaaguilar9270the daughter moved in with her father but still spends equally with both parent. I think that’s great because the mother can be finally carefree and pursue her freedom and happiness as she wants.
