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The Ticking Time Bomb of Dementia Affecting 75-Year-Old's life 

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It’s one thing to be diagnosed with dementia; it’s another to live with the condition, conscious of the slippery slope you’re on.
75-year-old Neil Timmo is deeply aware of how his dementia is affecting him.
In this story, Neil provides a rare and intimate insight into the world of someone who is striving to be independent while navigating life with dementia.
This video was made with funding from NZ On Air.
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@dariahughes5564
@dariahughes5564 5 лет назад
Neil is in early stages I'm guessing? I hope progression stays slow. He's so dang lovable! !
@natiafoote
@natiafoote 6 лет назад
I thoroughly enjoyed Neils story! What a lovely man with a lovely family x
@geraldinecharles228
@geraldinecharles228 6 лет назад
My Dad passed away April 2017 from dementia. It was horrible watching him go through it. We were blessed in a way because he never forgot me, my mom and my daughter. Mom and I was with him everyday and my daughter came on the weekends.
@polynesian_tingz906
@polynesian_tingz906 6 лет назад
What a wonderful man you are Neil 😊
@rayleescherger4030
@rayleescherger4030 5 лет назад
My brother was recently diagonsed with this at 64 I need to learn more about it..he is recently admitted to hospital he now knows no one! So sad..
@michelledawson566
@michelledawson566 5 лет назад
This family is beautiful, you are a wonderful man and have brought up your children properly 💕
@olbapco
@olbapco 5 лет назад
I learn most when people experiencing the condition and the families share. Thank you, Neil and family!
@heatherleigh696
@heatherleigh696 4 года назад
He’s such a sweetheart. I can’t believe he’s 75, I initially assumed he was closer to 65. Your family is lovely, and I hope you can continue to enjoy the relationship with your father.
@MrJking065
@MrJking065 5 лет назад
Even in my peak age and mind..I could NEVER make something like this puzzle!
@jillpratt2447
@jillpratt2447 5 лет назад
Not wanting to be repetitious but, oh what a lovely guy! I wished I had seen this when my mum struggled through dementia. A wonderful video.
@BingBongDillyDong
@BingBongDillyDong 6 лет назад
The way you guys filmed and captured this mans story is captivating, I especially loved how in the grocery store you guys made a distortion to the clips to give a feel of what it is like for this man I suffer from brain fog all the time and could feel when the man explained how he could be doing something then space out and forget what he was even doing.
@2eleven48
@2eleven48 5 лет назад
Ariana Allen... I think you must have experienced 'brain fog' in writing this. There is nothing 'captivating' about the video. You don't seem to understand that Neil is demonstrating the first signs of dementia, that he will get worse, and then get very ill, and then he will die.
@BingBongDillyDong
@BingBongDillyDong 5 лет назад
@@2eleven48 it is captivating through this films cinematography, and the way this mans story is told. It brings attention and awareness and shows how this man still tries to live his best life while suffering with dementia, yes his condition will worsen and he will sadly pass but that is not the ONLY the point of this mans story.
@chopwood6702
@chopwood6702 4 года назад
@@BingBongDillyDong Thank you for being positive and detailed in your reply to @2eleven48. I have found so many folks just do not know how to feel and respond to this difficult diagnosis. It is not an all at once death or even a short term progression for most, as many people diagnosed with dementia, whatever the root cause, live for many, many years. I am so impressed with the film as well, the skill of the filmmakers (to be able to see and potentially understand what they are experiencing with their senses is a gift. It helps me be more empathetic and thoughtful in my interaction), and Neil, who is delightful, pragmatic, a man of action (and much mucking about) plus his son and daughter. There is so much life, love, laughter, joy, and the entire gamut of emotions still to experience. So glad Neil is not just taking it sitting down.....he is out there working with where he is at in the moment and what a tremendous impact he is having on others, those lucky ones who surround him and support him too and to a daughter in Colorado in the USA looking for solutions for her Mom. What an Outstanding man and an outstanding film that shares it!
@lisaoldwithsomanywhys5487
@lisaoldwithsomanywhys5487 4 года назад
such a wonderful, positive man ❣️ this man & his family are such a blessing for me to see that attitude can conquer so much ❣️🙏👏👍❤️
@suewright1299
@suewright1299 10 дней назад
What an incredible gentleman Neil is, such a loveable soul and agent who gets and gives the best of himself to his family and friends. My dear mum had Alzheimer’s and didn’t know anything about life, I wasn’t even aware she had it as her sister didn’t even tell me about it, so very cruel. Thankfully, mum lived in a complex of bungalows which was managed by a wonderful lady who kindly rang my husband and I, my aunt hadn’t even told her that mum had a daughter, my aunt and her sons used to laugh at mum, so very very cruel, I just hope they are never afflicted. Neil has a wonderful family and they are blessed with him, god bless him, his dear wife would be so very proud of him. God bless you Neil. 😊
@dalagrace3912
@dalagrace3912 3 года назад
I do private geriatrics with memory specialty and adore it. I have learned in my years that when someone has dementia they forget to keep up their facade and either are very sweet for the most part or get quite fiery and nasty. Neil is one of those true gems
@rebeccaantram4165
@rebeccaantram4165 5 лет назад
Great fella right there. Wonderful heartfelt story Thank you for sharing
@MrAlottolose
@MrAlottolose 4 года назад
He is an Inspiration to a lot of people keep going and keep doing what you do.
@michelepaglia9603
@michelepaglia9603 5 лет назад
What a special man. I pray that the disease progresses slowly.
@hannahrosa5485
@hannahrosa5485 4 года назад
What a wonderful and talented man. He's so good with his hands. His family is so bless to have him. Neil, my husband had FTD dementia for about ten years. Still, always lovable, just like you. God Bless.
@vrediana
@vrediana 6 лет назад
Lovely man. Lovely story. I'm 42 and have had vascular dementia for a few years now.
@dariahughes5564
@dariahughes5564 5 лет назад
vrediana Oh my! U are so young. Bless ur heart! What were ur symptoms? U and ur Dr's probably thought dementia wasn't even on the list of possibilities! I hope u have lots of love and support!
@burned_pancakes
@burned_pancakes 3 года назад
"Looking at it, but not seeing it." Neil is amazing.
@maryreynolds5310
@maryreynolds5310 4 года назад
God bless you Neil! I would love to know how you are, are you still doing wood work? Don’t ever stop if you are..don’t give up on yourself! Your a strong minded man. God has you xo
@KenzieNHammerly
@KenzieNHammerly 3 года назад
Dementia is my worst nightmare but seeing him so joyful makes me feel better
@susanmagalas3074
@susanmagalas3074 Месяц назад
So heartwarming and heartbreaking at the same time. That puzzle is genius!
@conniespiteri7623
@conniespiteri7623 5 лет назад
What a wonderful man you are Neil...bloody dementia..keep up your activity beautiful person.
@b_lara9559
@b_lara9559 6 лет назад
One just have to respect and love Neil what a lovely man. Love love love all the videos from you guys!!! Greetings from Germany
@bilgsshrek
@bilgsshrek 6 лет назад
Really enjoyed wacthing and hearing about Neils journey. Its important we grow more aware of what Dementia looks like how to accomodate for our family, friends, and fellow man should they suffer the illness. This is an excellent insight and encouraging to see life can go on!
@2eleven48
@2eleven48 5 лет назад
@willywinkle....it's essential that we grow more aware of dementia, as you say, but you are entirely mistaken to think 'life can go on', because Neil will inevitably descend into dementia, to the point that life won't carry on.
@chopwood6702
@chopwood6702 4 года назад
@@2eleven48 I saw your reply on another comment on the You Tube video about Neal in NZ. Both comments you left focus on the depression and inevitability of death. I sense you have close experience with dementia either through a loved one or yourself. If that is the case, I am sorry for what you have to deal with and I hope you have found the best path forward. I, for one, will focus on the positive lessons from this You Tube video as it is helping me understand what paths are open for my Mom, who is dealing with CAA and dementia, and potentially someday myself. I hope not, but, we all die from something at some point. I will continue learn and seek to understand all facets of what is out there to prevent if possible, slow progress if possible, and eek as much positive out of the life I am given and Mom is still living.
@tessarix
@tessarix 5 лет назад
This is the most informative and loving of a family member with dementia that I've seen to date. Thank you so much for your compassion and love of your dad. My husband has started his journey into dementia, but he's not a nice old softy like your dad. My husband is abusive and constantly stomping around the house if we say or do even one tiny thing he doesn't like. You're so lucky to have such love from and for your dad and your story and makes me think there's hope for happiness as my husband is descending into this "next journey" these days. He's abusive at this point, mad at the world and me no matter what the situation. Its very disheartening and sad. It truly is the 'long goodbye" people call it. Thank you very much for sharing your dad's journey.
@janheard3826
@janheard3826 5 лет назад
He’s very clever. Loved the Noah’s ark.
@notsosilentmajority1
@notsosilentmajority1 3 года назад
Yes, the Noah's Ark was amazing. It is a great learning tool for children. I hope he is still doing alright , it's been almost 3 years since this video was posted. 🙏🏼
@Mitch-zr4wb
@Mitch-zr4wb 4 года назад
Neil is my kind of guy. What a man
@faliciarisaac1428
@faliciarisaac1428 2 года назад
Mr. Neil has a wonderful attitude.
@fionatanzer5270
@fionatanzer5270 6 лет назад
This is a heartening video and very valuable to hear people's own experiences of living with this condition.
@rebeccabrown5014
@rebeccabrown5014 4 года назад
That Noah’s ark he made is just incredible! I love it! My mother has some form of dementia. Thank you to Neil and his family for sharing their live with us.
@thill47
@thill47 3 года назад
You are a great man. My father use to do scroll sawing before he died and that kept him going. My heart goes out to you neil.
@marifeely4507
@marifeely4507 4 года назад
What a lovely family! I hope progression stays slow.
@terrilowe3530
@terrilowe3530 4 года назад
Neil’s story so touched my heart. I believe my Dad had vascular dementia although it was not diagnosed. He built a 40 foot trimaran which he and my mom lived on, sailing the Pacific Ocean. His ability to do all the detailed skills declined when he got into his 80’s. But he was more of a communicator than he had ever been, after his wife died. We had some wonderful years of friendship in his later years and took a lot of weekend and day trips to beautiful ocean and forest places with me driving when he couldn’t peacefully do that anymore. What I admire in this story is the wonderful community Neil lived in where the men were rallied together to be supporting each other in their “guy thing.” This story helped me to understand my Dad’s later journey better. Thank you for filming. Neil is pretty close to my age.
@terrilowe3530
@terrilowe3530 4 года назад
My father died at age 88 and never descended into an Alzheimer’s type dementia. He stayed kind and appreciative of his daughter’s care for him. He did live in an assisted living community where he had a table of guys he had his meals with. They did not have the broad ranging outdoor activities that Neil had in New Zealand, which I think he would have loved. Not all dementia is all encompassing before a person passes away.
@tamsinvarty7487
@tamsinvarty7487 5 лет назад
What an incredible man and family.....X
@rfm231
@rfm231 4 года назад
What a lovely lovely man, my thoughts and prayers are with him and his loved ones.
@realself9599
@realself9599 7 месяцев назад
Such a talented guy and a fantastic cheerful disposition despite his travails. Neil rocks.
@PoisonPinball
@PoisonPinball 4 года назад
This man is kicking the diseases ass as best as he can while he can. I have so much respect for that.
@julierogers1155
@julierogers1155 3 года назад
Impressive individual. Best wishes to Neil!
@lisalasky1259
@lisalasky1259 4 года назад
Beautiful story. What a wonderful, sweet man. 💙
@elainedisney3697
@elainedisney3697 5 лет назад
Would love to buy some of his woodwork. Does he sell any of it?
@x.y.7385
@x.y.7385 4 года назад
That Noah's Ark is incredible..
@karismavala4040
@karismavala4040 3 года назад
Neil!!! You wonderful man! I am so moved to see this! I worked with you and your beautiful wife Glenys to record your story over 12 years ago and think about you all the time. You are an absolute inspiration ❤️
@lanapoulliot7682
@lanapoulliot7682 4 года назад
Wonderful video ❤ He's doing so well and has the best attitude. My mom is starting to get dementia. She's 81, dad is nearly 87. They still live at home together and I'm nearby. I'm taking this time to learn all I can about how to best help my parents going forward.
@jackiefilakosky669
@jackiefilakosky669 2 года назад
My father just passed away from dementia. He was the most wise, successful man loved by everyone. I cared for him the last 4 months of his life and he became bed bound but my siblings and I refused to put him in a home. He never never once complained. My mother has it and I am learning as much as I can and preparing to care for her the same. ❤
@toffeelover2558
@toffeelover2558 4 года назад
What a lovely and touching video. Thank you..
@philipcowman6265
@philipcowman6265 3 года назад
l am only just seeing this for the first time. Your mum would have been so proud of you all. I hope your dad is still with us. Bless you all. And wish you all the very best for the future. Family is so important family is everything.
@dengslacson1
@dengslacson1 3 года назад
He smiles a lot when he talks, very pleasant to listen to him ❤️❤️❤️ Philippines
@susansimpson3395
@susansimpson3395 2 года назад
This was so helpful to me. I wish I could find a place like that for my husband and myself.
@blumberg1982
@blumberg1982 Год назад
He certainly seems perfectly lucid and capable here.
@kathyf7862
@kathyf7862 5 месяцев назад
So helpful!
@ladysuzanna1
@ladysuzanna1 2 года назад
good for you neil keep on going❤ from canada
@stuartwrigglesworth9339
@stuartwrigglesworth9339 4 года назад
Nice guy. Keep going you don't fantastic
@anne-mariemcinnis9143
@anne-mariemcinnis9143 3 года назад
What a clever, bright, interesting, wonderful and beautiful person that man is! I am in awe of him! And he has such a creative mind too! His Noah's ark is simply amazing!
@joannewilson6847
@joannewilson6847 4 года назад
Great video. Thankyou. I’m a carer for my dad suffering dementia. He is independent in many ways and I like his stubbornness in achieving things he sets out to do.. How is Neil going? Neil you inspire me as a carer as you remind me so much of my dad.
@Rene-nn4ms
@Rene-nn4ms 5 лет назад
Beautiful video ❤️ my mom has this it’s horrible 😭
@sherrymcclure1049
@sherrymcclure1049 3 года назад
Oh my goodness. His Noah’s Ark was amazing. What an awesome gentleman. Love his outlook on life. Great family also.
@perciliamoore5846
@perciliamoore5846 3 года назад
What a great guy!!!
@dannipuckeridge6847
@dannipuckeridge6847 2 года назад
Neil is a sweetheart
@faliciarisaac1428
@faliciarisaac1428 2 года назад
Neil explains how the disease causes him to react, interact and mobilize his timing in his day and night very well he is a strong spirited person. God with him.
@patriciabilinkas3911
@patriciabilinkas3911 4 года назад
My dad had dementia. After three years, he didn’t speak anymore. Neil looks as if he’s in the early stages.
@azhureturner6251
@azhureturner6251 3 года назад
Bless
@anthonysorrenti3661
@anthonysorrenti3661 3 года назад
I wish my father with dementia was this nice
@florenceellis7126
@florenceellis7126 4 года назад
His Noah's Ark is awesome! Could I order one?
@josephnellums2691
@josephnellums2691 6 лет назад
nice
@2eleven48
@2eleven48 5 лет назад
joseph nellums....Nice? Really? That's all you've got say? The man is descending into dementia, and all you can say is 'nice'? You moron.
@bodichair
@bodichair 5 месяцев назад
This was 5 years ago ? How is Neil nowadays?
@2eleven48
@2eleven48 5 лет назад
I respect and welcome all these personal videos, but let no-one believe that Neil will somehow survive his present state, but will inevitably succumb to his disease to a point that you will not recognise him, that he will lose all sense of who he is and where he is, lost all speech and memory, fed by carers because he cannot do it himself, become incontinent. Harsh, all of this, I know, but some of the comments here seem to have no understanding of the truly devastating nature of the disease.
@sopyleecrypt6899
@sopyleecrypt6899 2 года назад
I haven’t seen any comments that imply people aren’t aware that Neil’s illness will progress. The video doesn’t dwell on that, and why should it? When this was released, that lay in the future.
@2eleven48
@2eleven48 2 года назад
@@sopyleecrypt6899 ...You must excuse me. I note that I wrote my comment three years ago, during the last months of my mother's full decline into dementia and her subsequent death. What I described were all the signs of dementia as they happened and finally taking-over. I was angry and full of grief, and thus intemperate in my writing. I see that, now. Robert, UK.
@sopyleecrypt6899
@sopyleecrypt6899 2 года назад
@@2eleven48 thank you, that’s perfectly understandable. I’m sorry about your mother, my condolences.
@sandrasealy7411
@sandrasealy7411 4 года назад
💜💜💜🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@ladysuzanna1
@ladysuzanna1 2 года назад
and i think that is helping him in care home he may not be going yet
@sarinaedwards6705
@sarinaedwards6705 3 года назад
We all grow older, our life is like vapour we are here and next we are gone
@sarinaedwards6705
@sarinaedwards6705 3 года назад
Oh yeah I believe you, I think it was a spiritual thing
@vrediana
@vrediana 6 лет назад
The glider's name was PUCHACZ. It's a Polish word! Why was it named in Polish? :D
@kimmoore0427
@kimmoore0427 4 года назад
I've not seen many people like him that KNOW they've got dementia at this stage. He's so amazing! This seems like PICKS disease where they'll tell you "I just can't think".
@tonymathias2247
@tonymathias2247 4 года назад
I love that Noahs Ark he made. It should be made to sell ......it would do great at places that sells childrens educational toys....artisan markets etc.
@noname-hc7zr
@noname-hc7zr 3 года назад
NEIL, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLEES YOU AND ENTIRE FAM3AND FRIENDS/COMMUNITY IN JESUS NAME!🙏💒🤗
@blumberg1982
@blumberg1982 Год назад
I wonder what is up today.
@joeldecoster8816
@joeldecoster8816 5 лет назад
my wife has dementia and so do i.... my kids are in denial and have all runaway.
@NCYSTORE
@NCYSTORE 4 года назад
I'm so sorry God willingly give you peace and tranquility to this horrible Journey
@joeldecoster8816
@joeldecoster8816 2 года назад
@Bianca blue death is the ony pease
@bluefluke7585
@bluefluke7585 4 года назад
did she really say he's picking up her kids from school? Really?
@ordeliaordones2977
@ordeliaordones2977 3 года назад
Yes
@AdamBechtol
@AdamBechtol 5 лет назад
:)
@allolobophorus
@allolobophorus 3 года назад
Medical doctor explains how to improve Alzheimer's: @
@GQ-yj5oy
@GQ-yj5oy 4 года назад
Wow.... what an amazing man.
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