Dont be dissappointed brother Shanghai master..An Zhu mei looks more sincere and she is definitely more better character than An Zhu as observed by another netizen. However, having said that it is also because of the communication breakdown and it is not appropriate for us to comment further. You should be more well prepared on your next visit by hiring a local translator to help you out on your intention! Whether you are introducing to netizen to get a wife or you are looking for a wife or you are looking forward to help the needy, a good communication is very important to avoid misunderstanding and dissappointments. Keep it up brother! But i need to say one thing, your intention of this journey to Laos is not clear! If we can understand mandarin also cant tell your intention or purpose of this journey, how you expect them to understand you. You cant blame them because they hardly know you. They are poor but i think they are good people not as bad as we think basing on my observation. Just that why An Zhu was avoiding you, we wont be knowing unless we get clarity from someone who can translate Laos to mandarin to explain. Cheers! Have a safe ride back to China..🤟