@@vikzn1607 I dont know you but I do know that this is a very sick mentality. You are so very wrong. If you say you don't want kids wear a condom! An if it still happens anyways... as a man it's you duty to take responsibility for what you bring into the world.
Jay Love nah it’s not fair all a man can do is hope the woman makes the choice he what’s a woman can do whatever she wants and if she conceives a child she can choose to have it or not and ruin a mans life and live off child support l, a man can’t do anything about it, shouldn’t we have equality? That’s what you women scream about 24/7 anyway
Shane was a godsend. Even your mom knows, which is everytime yall do a prank about breaking uo, she goes to bat for him. She sees the whole picture! Shout out to Ashley and her mom for holding it down until Shane came into the picture.
I’m 34 years old with a 6 year old daughter myself. My biological father walked out of my life when I was 4 and I’ll never forget that day. As much as it has emotionally impacted my mental well-being throughout my life , it’s because of that traumatizing time in my life that I strive to be the best mom I can be because when we know the pain of losing a living parent, we do everything to keep our child from feeling that same way. Much respect to you Liana for pushing through those dark times love!💞💜
The law of attraction. Your strength, determination, and heart brought these beautiful people into your life. Your gratitude, appreciation and recognition keeps them there!
Leana momma we all gone through something. This is your story. Be proud of it. All those chapters made you the beautiful smart talented loving mother that lights up her daughters eyes when she walks in the room. You are Londons hero. I was a single mom of twins. My pregnancy was horrible due to the stress of my baby father after we broke up. He lied he wasnt always gonna be there. But I was and now my twins are 24 and their in college, served a mission with the church and are such beautiful young men. Hold your head high babygirl!!! Hold it high you're doing it..
Not because someone wants to have more than a friendship out of love and things you went through in the past catch up to you may make you miss a perfect opportunity of a happy relationship
Me too....Guys ...🎶💕🙏🤘please do more of these type of vlogs.....we love the real life stories so much more than silly pranks.🙏💕continue blessings to you and Shane. Grow your channel with these real stories.
He came in and comforted her and said she didn’t have to talk about it. Now, that’s a MAN. 🥺💗 You should never be ashamed of your past, mamas. You’re beautiful, you’re doing amazing. You both are amazing parents and London is a very bright girl. 🤍
He's definitely matured into a great husband and partner. I've seen a lot of growth from him as a man recently. I don't know what happened but its good to see.
Thats dumb. Shes right to say dad. Thats why they are called baby daddy because they are NOT FATHERS! A FATHER is a caregiver, mentally, financially and spiritually. Why do you think God is addressed as Father? So yes her sperm donor is dad. Her husband is the FATHER. Dont encourage her to not give Shane the respect due!
When she started crying, My heart cracked. I just turned 19 this passed August. I had my daughter at 16. I've struggled staying in school, i've struggled figuring out what i was gonna do, I've struggled with the hateful backlash and i was sooooo hurt i felt like i wasnt gonna be a good mother so ive had so much suicidal thoughts... Until my baby came... My baby has been the biggest impact of my life ever. I probably never be here without her, ive sold different drugs and stole drink JUST TO RESELL and just to buy her diapers or similac and been jumped for it but still managed to walk the extra mile get what she needed. I've recently subscribed and been watching you guys... You keep my hopes high knowing ill have my own HOUSE to call a home, ill have support from others, and that ill have my life together 💘 i love you guys so much. Im happy she was able to find someone who has healed her and is continuing to water her beautiful soul. 💘
Ofc Hun... God will always support you. Ik you did some worse things like selling drugs and stealing drinks but we understand... You saved a life. You raised your baby instead of abandoning... Proud of you ❤️..
I was 17 when I became a father I had to man up and be a man for my daughter. I was still in high school it's a struggle but at the end having your child is a blessing. Never regretted it one bit
It all has to do with his upbringing. His father wasn’t around for him when he needed and he came to the US alone from Jamaica. Those humble and sad times made him who he is
When Shane came over for emotional support I cried my eyes out. Girl the strongest soldiers always get the hardest battles. I’m so glad you’re out of that situation. May nothing but blessings come your way baby! God bless your family 💕
LILCALI COOL huh? If you’re asking when did she say that, she said it in the prank Shane did on her recently. Talking to another girl in front of London
This made me realize that if somebody is for you, they will be there for you no matter what. Shane had every reason to leave because she was a mess, but instead he helped her to become a better person and then wifed her. This is true love. You can be the most perfect thing in the world but if he or she is not yours, they will still leave. Liana you are so strong and Shane is so loving. Your love story is so inspiring.❤❤ Love you both.
@A & N gang i agree with you i'am not trying to be mean or anything but that is kind of roud for just saying ok about that kina of problem what if you were in that problem and you were really hurt if you broke your arm or something what if someone said ok if i saw someone that was hurt i would'ent say ok i would go over there and tell them that i really care about them i would'ent want to make them feel like noone cares about her or him i'am just saying that i really care about liana cuz i know it's hard about stepdads and stepmoms because i have a friend that been going through that kind of problem anyway i love the loyal fam and i'am just saying just saying that i care anyway bye.
Don't stress the "dislikes", think of it like this: in theory, out of every 100 people, there's AT LEAST 2 people that just have a fat finger and ACCIDENTALLY hit the thumbs down. As I'm writing this, you guys have 37k LIKES, so that means 740 people might ACCIDENTALLY hit thumbs down. As I write this there's only 449 dislikes, so you guys are doing great! If dislikes ever bother you, try to remember this theory. 😉 ✌️
Been there, except the other way around. The mother of my child left when he was 3 months old.. just took off and never returne, I raised my kid at 23 by myself, he is now almost 12yrs old...
I needed to hear this. I am 21. The person i am dealing with is currently in jail. I went through something similar. He would cheat and lie and call me from jail and ask me for dumb shit. He is the love of my life. I do love him. But when the love is so one sided.. whats the point? Its weird because ive been asking signs from god if i should wait for him or move on .. then i came across this video. Its like i know his not good for me and its a hard pill to swallow, but i need to be realistic about the situation. Thank you for sharing your story. I needed to hear this.
T Thompson unless you have been thru it, their really is no explanation to satisfy your curiosity! When u are a loving and genuine person u sometimes push so hard to get the wrong ppl to see that. u lose all that u are. I’ve BEEN THEIR! I know exactly what she means. it’s two type of ppl in the world, GIVERS AND TAKERS sadly, so many givers give all they have while the person they love take and never reciprocate!! Hope this helps ❤️
That highly concerned " you okay babe ?" Got me because my boyfriend also knows as soon as i get quiet i start tearing up ! Lowkey going through the same thing as a young girl mentally like i feel no one is here for me and watching this gave me hope . thank you for sharing your story liana 💙 you are so strong
My grandmother used to have that scripture on her fridge, it stayed there for many many yrs. After she passed, my brother and my cousin had the words tatted on them. My cousin, had it done in her handwriting.
Everybody has a story don’t ashamed or embarrassed it’s what made you are today .. maybe someone out there has gone through the same thing. Your making an impact on someone’s life ...& you have to let it out you can’t keeep it inside it’s not good...Your strong and beautiful Liane ❤️❤️❤️❤️😚 Keep pushing forward ♥️
I just wanna say how this family changed me from who I used to be. Specifically Shane. Seeing how Shane came to her life and be a man of her life made me rethink my life and start my own family. Kudos to you Shane hands down to you my guy🤜🏾🤛🏼💯💯💯
Y'all say that but ya would never give someone like Shane a chance if y'all met him.. he was broke, no car, living in his grandma's house at 20 most females would never give a man like that a chance
I am going through all these things...i am 21..I am 24weeks pregnant...and mentally I am a mess and no one really understands it...I get suicidal too...I feel like giving up..I was in my third year of college..I have to raise a son..am staying with my parents.. watching this makes me cry because I am hopeless...I really want to raise my son at the same time I want to finish college and get a job and support my son.. Thank you for sharing your story...it makes me feel like I can get over this and be something for my son
Sue Wahome It is okay to feel hopeless. We all feel that way at one time or another. Please remember that this is just a moment in time. You will not be pregnant forever or live with your parents forever. You are still able to accomplish your goals though they may be more difficult and you will have to adjust your timeline. I don’t know you but I know that you have the strength and wherewithal to do it all. You cannot see it now but there will be a time when you look back and see how far you have come. Stay strong and I will say a prayer for you.
Sending you hugs Sue Wahome usigive up keep grinding this too shall pass Sis ,you will accomplish everything in Gods name!!❤❤ hata iwe nini usigive up!!
Its ok Sue you will rise above you will make it God knows what the desire of our heart holds. Im a single mother and i stand firm even when i feel like breaking down. But be strong. Remember God is with us🙌
You can get through this, don't be too proud to get some assistance so you can take care of your baby. Keep pushing forward to reach your goals, stay positive and look to the positive ppl in your life when days get bad you will make it, God Bless
You can do anything,God is your strength so when you feel alone know there is someone who is always there and love you like no one can even though you can't see him he's there this is a step in your life that will make you stronger,have that baby and love that baby with all the love that you can give,that child will be a blessing to you,if you need someone to talk to you can look me up ,I'm 30 with five kids had my first at 18, it's hard but it's worth it to see them grow everyday...God bless you love......
Whoever pushed the dislike button is ignorant asf this is so sad imagine going through wat she went through I’m happy she met Shane he the best guy ever we really need more people like him
It sounds like your depression went into postpartum psychosis. A lot of people are uneducated about it and the thoughts can get really dark. It’s traumatizing.
When I was pregnant with my son, his father kicked me out at 8wks along. My family was 4 hrs away and had just found out I was pregnant. I ended up staying with my grandparents the entire pregnancy, but during and after the pregnancy I was an emotional basket case. My sons dad was living at Myrtle Beach and partying, while I was back in our hometown, trying to figure out what to do. After my son was born I moved back to the beach with my son's father, again things didnt workout but low n behold I got pregnant with my daughter by him. I didnt even find out until I'd moved back for the 2nd time, that I was pregnant. My children's father and I were on and off for 3 yrs and those were miserable yrs. I stay depressed. Eventually, I moved out with the help of my family. Worked my butt off and raised my babies, they are 20 and 21 now and I'm married to an amazing man. There's no way on earth I'd want to relive my life back then, again.
@@summerthomas1163 She has a simp now. Ain't no way in hell im raising someone else's kid. I don't even date women with kids cause i don't want none myself. Too much drama with the baby daddy and the kids growing up saying "you ain't my daddy".
I started crying when you started talking about people physically being here but not mentally because I understand that soooo much and when Shane came in a hugged you I broke down even more because he’s so supportive and try’s to understand just like my boyfriend 🥺😭
Brought me to tears, and when Shane hugged you, girl I was done, I'm doing my ugly cry 😭 God bless you mama, your experiences in life are why your are so strong today.
I feel this...my senior year in high school I lost the love of my life...my baby since 6 grade. Car accident...we were both in the car and she was driving...the truck hit my side head on and flipped us multiple times...I survived but she didn’t...doctors told me she went fast and didn’t suffer...I couldn’t even comprehend what they were saying to me...she was everything to me...after she went, i suffered from survivors guilt and separation anxiety...I begged God to rewind time for me and if I had to...take her place...I couldn’t eat or sleep...I just laid in my room listening to her voices messages and watching l vids of her...when I would sleep...I’d dream so vividly of her and wake up looking for her... Anxiety got so bad my whole body would ache and shake...I didn’t care about anyone...my sister and mother were so worried about me that they would camp out in my room...the times I’d let them in...they would tell how much they needed me and loved me...they already knew what I was planning...I just needed her so bad...I never realized just how bad I was in love with her...it was like that night my very soul went with her...the night I was going kill myself i just sat in my room with my eyes closed hoping to hear her voice or feel her touch...I quietly asked God and my family to forgive me then I put the gun to my tempo and I just kept it there...and I just looked around...and for some reason I took a deep breath, like I was about to jump into deep water...I guess I was in a way...but in that moment, I felt someone sit on my bed and I opened my eyes and I saw her...looking at me with her beautiful eyes telling me (not in words) please don’t. I passed out...woke up with my sister screaming in my face looking for a bullet wound. Yal don’t have to believe me but she cane back to save me I believe. Could it just have been an illusion...NO...I felt her presence...her expressions...it was her...it’s been 8years since then...and even tho I have another...I still think about her and what if everyday. I still ask god to let me go back to that day...I’m still waiting
The Stewart Family truly...it is. I still feel her driving me forward today...I’m thankful my current love is strong and secure enough to understand as well.
StatusQuo wow, Thank You so much for sharing your story. This is the beautiful thing about RU-vid. I mean, I’ve seen some powerful stories on here and yours was one of them. I pray that God continues to keep you in his light and continue to use this as a beautiful testimony, this is very powerful and can inspire and touch many that may be in similar situations.
Sometimes there are men that God sends to heal a heart, and there are also earthly angels who are friends who become family, also the same thing happensto me and my children ask why their father left the both of them every day they ask that,why he left. Thank you for your testimony Liana you gave me hope.
I'm divorced I'm a good father to my daughter I see her regularly. She is 16 years old I still have 8 mm videotapes that I recorded from when she was playing under the Christmas tree opening gifts as a little baby.
She's so strong for making this video and even getting into detail about things she doesn't have to. I love the vibes she gives off, I was so happy when he went and held her after she cried. This family is amazing.
“Now that I’m a woman...” Liana, you were a strong woman from the beginning. You went through the toughest challenges but you’ve achieved it. You are beautiful, you have a beautiful daughter, a beautiful husband, a beautiful friend, and a beautiful family. I’m so happy that you’re happy. I just discovered your channel from your daughter saying Dad to Shane. You guys are truly inspiring.
@@adhlinjeancharles3550 Amen!! 🙏🏾💖🙏🏾 I also want to add something about what she spoke about in this video. That postpartum stuff really is *NO* *JOKE* , I'm very happy & impressed to hear she was able to make it through to the other side. It just shows that no matter what we may go through during certain points in our life, we *must* try to *push* *forward* , have *faith* & *focus* on our *strengths* as well as the many *blessings* we have in life. Sounds like Ashley (and her Mom) was an absolute *rock* & that really comes through by the amount of appreciation she gives. That's what you call a *true* *friend* & those are not always easy to find. If (and when) you do find a person like that who is willing to stick with you regardless,, through thick and thin, please *cherish* their friendship like the *treasure* it is! Lastly, I truly feel her pain & confusion about the childs biological father who chose to walk out of his daughter's life. It's super hard trying to explain to a child that it's not their fault,, because they tend to personalize & internalize everything. All you can do is love them unconditionally but, not try to overcompensate for the absent parent. Ultimately, *he* is the one who's going to have to answer for himself someday.
@@WhiteDoveSam you are right my sister, but God never behind us but ahead of us, our focuses need to be on him at all times no matter what we are going through. If we don't suffer in this world and our pride will destroy us.
Believe me sweetie, my daughter doesn't have her Dad either, I try talking to him, he lost, by the time he look for her she was 13, she didn't want to talk to him over the phone either and doesn't want to meet him, but now she 20 and still doesn't want nothing to do with him. She always a beautiful young lady with a beautiful heart and you and London will be okay, God will never leave you 💞
Hold on to Jesus both of you guys... God is the most important thread that holds it all together- being human has its challenges and all that's taking place in the world personally and globally hangs on that truth.. thank you for sharing such a personal but relatable testimony- just had to share this in love because of these times and because of valuing you guys as a family... Trust me hun- Jesus is real- God first!!! He is your Rock
You are truly amazing to even let Rob come back into the picture . Shane is an amazing guy . Being so young yet so mature an understanding is an inspiration
The 106 ppl that disliked this video must be Robert's. Dead beat fathers. My first husbands name is robert we had 1 kid together he also left me to raise him by myself. We were just common law married since we lived together more than 6 months in Texas. But one day he woke up and decided he wanted the thug lifestyle and he hasnt seen my son since. It's been 10 years. Stay strong, you'll are doing amazing job with Landon and your other daughter. I got married a few years ago to an amazing man just like shane he supports and loves me and my children no matter what.
My daughter is 12 and she told her step dad 'he is nothing' to her the other day. Its so upsetting, it's embarrassing and I was horrified. I told her he CHOOSES to be in her life, he don't have to be. He's there cos he loves us. I respect any man who takes on the role of a father and doesn't complain. Ashley and Shane chosen to be there. They didn't have to be and that's magical.
IKR anyone who takes care of you even more than your father is your father and shouldn’t be treated differently it’s hurtful you can just make the kid understand that cause there’s a valid reason why her dad isn’t there if that doesn’t work teach her the hard way make her know she doesn’t have a choice or make her understand your happy with her stepdad cause am sure every kid wants to see their mum happy
@@diasbiful Right. Its so hurtful to him in my situation. He's been there since she was 3..she lucky, she still has her dad too and we split custody. I think he says to her tho not to listen to her stepdad cos he petty petty, which is not what parents should do. She seemed to relent when I said to her that he chose to be in her life. It maybe her age too, starting to rebel against authority 🤦
@@Jerseybaby19 ya I get that does she have a stepmom tho?? And you should speak to her dad like seriously because your the mum and you have more right she should respect her stepdad he isn’t even obligated to take care of her yet he does
@@diasbiful I tried to speak to him but he's a fool... No, he has no significant other cos there's only me stupid enough 😂 he has no respect for me as her mother whereas I would never disrespect him in front of his daughter but now it starting to affect my daughters thoughts and feelings and its really wrong. Ain't nothing I can do apart from try telling her what is right and wrong and at 12 she really should know better. She ain't raised like this with me and her stepdad and its so frustrating 😏
@@Jerseybaby19 ya she should know better just don’t stress yourself about it let her stepdad show her love and she will come around no matter what ever her dad puts in her head like she will be able to know what is wrong and right and understand life
