The Truth About Nigerian Men - Rant/Storytime 

DK Dempcey Knight DK yep 100% I'm still healing from narcasstic abuse by a Nigerian the terrible part is I have to deal with him for sometime because we have a child. Smh

Deanna Lambey You may not "have to deal with him" if in the U.S. Finally the court system is starting to understand narcissism and the danger of the mental disorder. In some cases a judge ca n force a parent to be examined by a mental health expert. You can write down in concise detail the things your child's father does that describes narcissism, if before a component judge, the judge will order supervised visitations and or better continued mental health. If indeed you're dealing with a narcissist, the best part of the forced mental health visit/s and supervised visitations is the narcissist will become angry, will resist and or fail to comply. If this is done the judge will become hard on the narcissist and eventually stop all contact of the narcissist to protect child and parent.

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I'm in Las Vegas Nevada I really hope the courts here are recognizing it,it's really not good for the child. God knows I tried to. Co-parent with that man but he countered parent against me. He has seen our child in 1 year because I finally decided to set boundaries. At first he was able to come and see her whenever and he started having her on weekends. I had a key to his place since I was out and about on his side I decided to stop by his place to do a pull-up change for our toddler. I walked in to a woman sitting around the table studying my child says "oh hi aunty" so ummm seems lime my kid has been around this woman. I ask the young woman are they dating of course she lied lol. The point is we said we would not brings others around until it's something serious leading to marriage. This is the second woman since we ended ,the first one he wanted to marry, now this one same thing. He has already brought his other two kids around me , First girlfriend, now the new girlfriend who isn't so new because him and I got into a huge fight over text messages I saw between them and we were together (triangulation). I didn't learn about narcissism until we broke up and since I've been educating myself OMG I can see it all now from day 1 . He's manipulative, a lair, a cheater he just can't see past himself to focus on parenting. I have never in my life delt with such a human being. God help me I use to feel sad for my baby girl but I'm protecting her somedaybi hope she will understand 😕

Typical narcissist behavior. Sadly it really isn't towards the child rather to get under your skin, to harm you "gas lightening". But as you said, the one that suffers the most is the child. I lived in LV uh,.. 15 years ago, people were pretty hip to the world there considering no one I ever met while there was "from LV". I think you stand a pretty good chance there, but you have GOT to make that list of behaviors that shows "narcissistic behavior" WITHOUT directly saying "Narcissist Behave", allow the court / judge to spot it. If the judge is thick get a lawyer or even perhaps a therapist write the judge a letter to the judge, if me I would get my child the therapist and go that route. Best of wishes Hon sincerely, I know all to well what it is to have the misfortune of dealing with a narc.

WOW... that's emotional abuse

Yes..i know a nigerian man..who always humiliate her woman and try to talk to him back and he become a bad woman for him...

@@Jzre421 you lied big time...go tell this lies somewhere else please. As far as nigerian men is concerned, big women means so much, infact it is what alot consider sexy and beauty

My ex-husband always reminded me of how kind he was to take me to his sister’s wedding when I was “beyond [my] weight,” calling me ungrateful. Mind you, I am 5’5 and was a size 10/12 at the time... They’re cruel and will use any excuse to justify their fuck shit.

Welcome to Black American men’s experience

Are you Nigerian? If not, have you ever been to Nigeria? How many Nigerian men have you dated?

So true I did

I am not a Nigerian but have the experience of the guy not taking NO for an answer. Before you know it I was on a plane and asking myself where am I going. Even now I am still wondering, try many times to break free but still there. Someone told me I was caged spiritually....so much for that and what it means. Just never engage in any conversation with anyone you are not really interested in.

Chocolate Divine yes dear I deed get out from their Shiite early on time

are we begging them to marry us, please go marry other africans, then you will know nigerian men are saints

Charnae young tell them

Please ! They all shit . There’s other options than white like middle eastern men who are hot and have good values and jobs

@@gglee3309 lol..middle eastern? OK. .continue. you will become a slave in your house.. I hope you know it's legal for a man to beat up his wife in the middle east .

Elalviz Mia She doesn’t have to live in the Middle East to marry a middle eastern man. There are countries where It isn’t legal you know.

cynthia otino it's the same everywhere in the world, you would always have the Good the Bad and the Ugly. Stop selling the Bad Narrative only.

Same goes for some Nigerian women

So ur men are so perfect

Lovely DD What happened to you?

Lovely DD I'm dealing with one now, and Idk what to think when I see comments like this! Advice please!!!

@lovely DD.so what are you still doing with him if he is not treating you good?

Stop Generalizing

I wonder!!

Kesha B scammer that loves to give money and spoil their women

George Sings123 You will give money then treat women bad. The money is to make up for your bad behavior. Who want that?

@@RobinB26 you are with the wrong one sis

Hello javan respond to me please

Lana Powell How old was the Nigeria guy you dat, because i see you are a old woman looking for a young boy to useless his life, maybe that was the reason why you were not locky

Osamu Odia ☠️🙌🏾

@@sisey99 hey dont come tp rubis ur father

@@osamuodia7545 absolutely

@Victoria Akomolede very sorry for that, all men are not the same, there are many bad men in this world so as women too,but saying Nigeria men it really makes me mad,is not Good for me, what about the Good ones?

Shakita Jones Also they see everything in dreams, they claim. Apparently God love them more than anybody else in life. 🤦🏾‍♀️

Hello

Are you single?

She is indeed a good storyteller! She is perfect! It's all those Nigerian guys that are bad!

Out of curiosity, you found a good one yet?

+Cheryl Davis thank you so much! !

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Peace Otebele thank you. And thank you for watching!

Victim

U can smell the EVIL FROM NIJA MEN..

Its not just Nigerian. Ghanian are big liars too.

You are so right

No, they won't do it ,what they want is to seat at home, go for shopping, travel to Dubai, request expensive things and if we don't do it 'we' Nigerian men are not good, while other woman around the world are trying to become the boss ladies.

Is it true nigerian men only marry nigerian women? And they use AA for a greencard? I am dating a Naija man and I dont want to open my heart because of this rumor...

Lawanda Carter just curious...why do you stay with him?

Black berry.thank you for asking her. That’s question.😍

Lol. People Sha, why don't you leave him then

That is so sad

U people think marriage is a joke where u just get up n leave smh

+Annette Flowers 😂😂 I see it everyday!

Annette Flowers same with me even White people too

I do it too **covers face in shame **

+Saje Washington haha at least you got free chicken!!! 😂😂😂😂

Deborah Oscar True 😂 tricky tricky men

BellaPorsche was he Nigerian? It seems to me now that every African man is a Nigerian

So you ate your food for free paid by a married man? Clap for yourself. Ode.

GOOD girl!!!

Aku Dzidzor 😂😂😂

Wow!😹😹😹

+Athena C thank you xx

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That is so fucking true

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Hahaha so funny 🤣🤣🤣❤️

allMERRYeverything haha! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Thank you for watching!! xx

Deborah Oscar Where are you located?

Hopefully you don't loose a good man because of what you hear anyway good luck.

Hmm but if your one of those girls that gives men their phone number any at bus stop or any how, please stop it .

@@Mcskinny001 she wants to ruin everything because of a RU-vid vid,anyone can say anything on RU-vid, i can make a video about Nigerian women as well.

Raquel you posted this 8 months ago. I hope you did NOT miss that guy!!! True!!!lol.. Very rear men like that!!!

Not all people are bad. But if you see any signs of bad behavior then run. If he’s blaming you for everything he’s doing wrong run. Just know when you are being hurt by someone. Don’t get trapped in unhappiness. If he treats you well and he continues to treat you well your ok.

Dana Shaw I am Nigerian and have another Nationality but generalising is bad. I know I'm not the way she describes this "Nigerian" men to be. Many people who put their people in a bad light usually have attitude problems . I'm not saying she does. But I have learnt to listen to people but decide for myself in every opinion I form.

tbh, I feel like she isn't Nigerian. The African accent she has/ switching to is no-where near a Nigerian accent and if she were Nigerian she would know better than to give that man her number.

@@ByTonaa all she was saying has been picked up from Nigerian friends she moves with, some seems to be personal experiences though

LAD EMA thank you my friend

LAD EMA My God will bless you forever

LAD EMA my

Thank you.

We said LAD EMA. Some people just like generalizing! It's bad!

LINDA B Thank you.

Horrible.

Because you women dont cheat?Bitch please

Uwaila Ogbeide so true. Didn't even think of that!

Na, no physical danger with nigerian men. Im Yoruba so I know.

@@dan-babaoat332 I talk to a Yoruba man from Nigeria he dont seem bad just struggling to make ends meet.

+SassBox 😂😂 thanks girl xx

She's an idiot

+Anita Ainomugisha thank you very much!!

Esther it's myopic of you to judge Nigerian men based on ur one experience. Very myopic.

Abbbey Adde I don’t care and not one ok . People I know is saying very very bad things about Nigerian ok

Esther so every body you know was raped by a Nigerian. A country of over 180 million people would have the good the bad and the ugly. It's the same with every country.

Esther don't judge the entire country based on one experience. There are lots of good and bad Nigerian men. There are lots of foreigners who are dating or married to a Nigerian who have nothing but good things to say about them. Don't come and watch a myopic video of one individual whose experience is only of Nigerian men in London and judge the over 80mil men in the country.

Esther it's like generalizing African American men . Pls it is individual character traits not collective

Bvky Ajy I know right 😂😂😂😂

In Africa(Nigeria to be precise) they say its only something to like you talk about. If Nigerian men are that bad why not ignore them and move on with ur life, instead of slandering them based on ur personal experience and myopic thinking.

Please tell this lady that doesn't know where she came from, making a useless vid, that doesn't know that crime has no nationality

So happy to hear something positive about our Men. I don't know any country with perfect Men.

who impregnated U? U don't bad men in Kenya or wherever U come from pretender? holier than thou

Some nollywood movie. They usually overact.

You are so right. Imagine if Black American women start talking about their numerous baby fathers? White women start talking about their paedophiles men?

She is simply ignorant.

A very smart comment

@@asanwa3126 Exactly my thought. I'm a Nigerian man living in Nigeria and we have so many wonderful Men here. I don't doubt that we have bad Men. But why focus on the bad ones?

@@prospernnadi5027 Most of my few women make the wrong choice in men but never blame themselves for their poor judgement in character. Also they do these to get traffic to their channel.

Thank you very much ❤❤

Yeah I think she's happy with it😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡STUPIDITY

ELDN.WORLD 😂😂😂

Hey Deborah I would like to use the clip of the pastor giving it to the audience lol where did you get it from? I'll be happy to shout you out in the video I use it in. X

Feel free to use it. I found it on RU-vid. i think if you type fake Nigerian pastor (or something like that) it'll come up. x

Hello, Deborah. Nice video. That's my Pastor on the clip you added to your video, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. Am am offended by your response here. Please kindly do your research and verify your information before you label anyone or anything as fake. Am not sure, but i think you might be infringing on some copyright issues by using that clip in your videos. Thank you.

Jessica's Face thank you so much. I will film some more next week.

Primm & Proper thank you so much 🙌🏾🙌🏾